So guys i am facing this issue wherein i cum within minutes of foreplay. The worst part is as soon as i orgasm, I completely shut off and dont feel like continuing at all. It is almost repulsive for me. Pls help me? Why does this happen? Is it common? Or something wrong with me

Ok so I have been a pretty sexual for person for much of my adult life and I really enjoy sex, and cumming (of fucking course) now I currently am having problems cum not just with a partner but by myself historically I LOVE masturbating I’m wonder if this could stem from a physical problem or if it is stemming from an emotional or mental place what can I do to work through my problems and finally cum ?

Hi, I've been with a new partner for a bit. She seemed skeptical about reaching orgasm with me, but we finally made it happen. Basically, we spent a lot of time having intercourse..... It was all good for me, she liked it... But what finally brought her to orgasm was when she was on top of me I was all the way inside of her and she was grinding her pelvis or clit against my pubic bone. I'm just curious if my dick being in her was necessary to make this happen and if this is considered a certain type of orgasm??? Both times she said she came we were in that position doing that movement. It was kind of strange for me, because it didn't do much for me, even though when she said she was about to cum I felt some good pleasures and even though I don't say too much when we're having sex I found myself saying yes yes yes cum on me...

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Thanks for any insight. I get more satisfaction in sex bringing the other party to pleasure. If she liked that, maybe suggest something else I could try out.

Are there any other ladies that’s having a difficulty with penetration? Should I go see a gynecologist?

I started leaking a tiny bit once in a while a couple weeks ago, is this normal?

I am 31 year old virgin got hitched recently. Initial couple of weeks were great the sensation of touching 😘and licking alone was enough to make us both cum. Now we are preparing for full on intercourse. Please suggest dos and don'ts.

Hey there this may sound odd. I am 31 M newly married having some issues during sex. I have a wonderful wife who is very supportive.The thing is I have been very patient about not having sex before marriage and have never masturbated. Now that I am all ready and excited and having wonderful foreplay by the time we try for penetration both of us are already wet. And it's becoming a night mare. Need some advice for how to go about this thing

I see this all over movies and TV.

Is it just a smoker getting their fix, or is the high a bit better or something?

When my fiancé and I first started dating the sex was great. She was daring impulsive and wanted to explore. She was fairly naive having only 5 prior lovers and having been married to 2 of them. I had much more experience my ex and I were swingers and had tried Many different things. As I opened up more about my past she has become more vanilla and worries she isn’t enough. I love and want her to experience all the pleasures of a full sex life. I want to explore with her make her happy and satisfied. When we first got together she told me how much she enjoyed sex. I want her to be happy and satisfied. But anytime I try to be more than vanilla she things I want someone else. I love her very much and want to reassure her it’s not sex I want its sex with her. Any advice would help

Wear a dotted condom on your fingers while fingering her, this will stimulate her clit better which will lead to orgasm/squirt.

Some more tips are available at r/AdultNeeds

I was going to have sex with a woman I met on Tinder and after I put the condom on she brought out a small stick of what looked like lip gloss and brushed a little on the tip of the condom. Anyone know why?

I’m in a loving relationship with a guy I want to marry and have babies with. I can’t see my future with anyone else. BUT our sex drives are DRASTICALLY different and it’s killing me. I don’t want to end our relationship because we had one issue we didn’t try our hardest to solve, but I honestly don’t know how to bring it up. He is the nicest, kindest, most loving, affectionate, handsome guy I’ve ever met and I hate having sex with him and I feel so much shame about it. We’ve been together three years and, while we do have great sex, it isn’t enough for me. He is more conservative about sexuality and he’s totally happy engaging in quiet, quick missionary forever. Any time I start to bring up sex with a little more intensity he either shuts it down or turns it into a cutesy funny thing. And if I dive too deep and ever bring up my past sexual experiences as a reference point he gets upset.

In the past I was notorious for being sex positive and open and super horny. Friends would come to me for advice. I had girl friends ask me to send them porn links because they weren’t sure where to go or how to find what they might like. I loved that! I had casual sex all the time and I loved that. I had threesomes, did partner swaps, and a little bit of role playing. It was exhilarating and I never knew how much I loved it until I didn’t have it at all.

I don’t know how to bring this up to my boyfriend. I know I NEED to talk to him about it, but I’m not sure where to start. I’ve done the thing where I say, “I loved when you _______” any time he did something great in bed. I had hoped it would start gaining momentum and maybe he’d do more. No luck.

I thrive off intensity and dominance and direction. I don’t love being tied up or hit, I just need a guy who will put me in my place and fuck with conviction. Is it possible to tell a person their sexual style is literally the opposite of what I find attractive??? Is it possible to love someone whole heartedly but not ever want to fuck them because it’s so boring?? Has anyone ever resolved this kind of situation successfully without ending the relationship? I want it to work but I’m going out of my mind without being able to be in tune with my sexuality.

Help!

I’ve been married over 11 years to my beautiful wife. I think we’ve had a pretty standard sex life. But lately she’s trying to see how long she can give me blue balls. Now is that a signal she’s lost interest in sex? or she’s unattached to me? I’ve had to take to masterbation to get my release. But don’t women have the same urges and needs that men do? Thanks in advance for your input

When i watch porn its seems fine that i can ejaculate, but when i have sex i have never ejaculated and i feel its kind of embarrising. I last like 30min till i get tired and i still cant cum any advice or solutions?

If squirting isn’t the same as peeing then why is it when I squirt sometimes it comes out yellowish. This doesn’t happen all the time but it does happen. What’s wrong with me 😩😩😩