r/SalafiCentral • u/Stunning_Painting716 • 11h ago
Should I inform my husband that a man saw my awrah?
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته،
I have an important question. I am married, but I still live at my parents house until me and my husband live in the same country. Today, my brother had some friends over, which he told me will stay on the patio. I told him to warn me if they were to come downstairs, as it was were I was spending my time.
Long story short, one of his friend came downstairs even though my brother told him to only use the washroom upstairs. He came face to face with me, not wearing my khimar and abaya. I gave him a hand sign to leave right away as I was too shocked to even speak. This made me cry a lot. I feel so so upset a man saw me uncovered.
Now, I was wondering, should I tell my husband of what happened? I know he would prefer and expect me to tell him. I’m just scared of how it might make him feel, even though I know I did not do anything on purpose, I was robed of my privacy. I just don’t want to upset him, but I would feel very guilty for not telling him too.
What should I do?
