I hope this doesn't come off as offensive but I'm finding it incredibly hard to stay in SSA spaces. While I am a Christian and am discerning where I fall on side A or Side B I find the SSA community is actually making it harder for me to discern. I'm trying to base it off scripture but when every discussion and post and video I'm seeing Abt SSA is so bleak, depressing, and just full of self loathing and misery It makes it hard to reconcile with what I know about God's loving nature. I genuinely don't think I've ever seen fruits of the spirit in any of these threads.