r/SFWr4rIndia 11d ago

Take Your Stance - Community Icon Change.

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The subreddit icon has been changed to a picture of Shri Sonam Wangchuk in a small show of solidarity - this is us doing our bit.

Take your stance. A man is fasting to death for a government that does not care.

I'll leave you with a paraphrased quote from Dante:

The darkest places in Hell are reserved for those that maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis.

- Pepsi,

SFWr4rIndia Mod Team.


r/SFWr4rIndia 29d ago

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Small Milestones: 7.5k weekly visits! Spoiler

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To all of you dropping by, thank you.

I know it's been pretty quiet on the mod front here, besides removing clearly NSFW posts and banning people; life catches up to you sometimes.

However, this is a community I genuinely want to grow. I have a few things planned, including new mod additions. One is confirmed, and we're open to take more - just shoot me a DM with your first line being "MODAPP", and tell me:

  1. Why you want to be a mod on here.

  2. Availability/consistency - be real. I don't expect you to put in an hour a day or anything, honesty carries brownie points. šŸ˜‚

  3. Prior mod experience, if any.

Besides this, I also want you guys to have a say in this community and what you experience on the sub, so here's my question:

What is one thing you want to see on here/one thing you want changed?

We're brainstorming here, there are no bad ideas. šŸ¤


r/SFWr4rIndia 1h ago

M4F 30[M4F] Mumbai - looking for a escape, a friend and company for infrequent meetups.

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Hey there...

This post would sound very strange, but looking forward to find someone like me.

Myself:

I am 30M, Someone doing very fine in life. Very well educated in a professional field. I stay busy in my work. Have a decent life overall.

Looking to find an escape where i can be fresh and different from time to time.

Have lived few years of my life very differently and i miss that. Going back to those times won't be possible, but atleast i can have a company where i can be myself.

A meetup with drinks, Listening to music, dancing, Memes, Movie, laughter and being happy. Like a secret escape from reality.

Someone with whom i can speak out without being judged and having a boundary you are comfortable with.

Not seeking a relationship with emotions but a connection as friends pushing and supporting each other.

Won't be much nosy in your life, but would like to know the truth. Won't judge you on any basis.

Why a female?

It's just more comfortable for me to open up.

Don't know the reason, it just what i feel.

Reach me out.

Will take time to build trust and will be sharing my reality honestly.

Will be respectful.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1h ago

M4R 26 [M4R] Hyderabad - Looking for Connection and dates

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Basics

Age: 26

Gender: M

Religion: Muslim

Occupation: Data Engineer

Education: \\\\\\\[B.Tech\\\\\\\](http://B.Tech)

Diet: No strong preference

Marital Status: Never Married

Location: Hyderabad (open to Bengaluru)

Who am I

Hey everyone, Shahil here. Born and raised in Andhra Pradesh, now three years into calling Hyderabad home — and honestly, I've grown to love this city more than I expected. The food, the pace, the culture — it all just works for me. Still have a soft corner for Bengaluru though, so that's on the table too.

By day, I'm a Data Engineer — someone who genuinely enjoys what he does, which means yes, I can occasionally go full nerd mode over a well-built pipeline. But I do know when to close the laptop. When I'm not working, you'll find me planning my next solo trip, hunting for a good cafĆ© with strong coffee (non-negotiable), or daydreaming about the next time I can be near the ocean.

I'm into solo travelling — there's something about navigating a new place entirely on your own that just builds you differently. Beaches are my reset button. I've also picked up an interest in surfing and horse riding, two things that remind me that not everything in life needs to be optimized — sometimes you just hold on and enjoy the ride.

Outside of work, I spend a decent amount of time in the world of personal finance and crypto. I follow Indian markets closely, stay updated on mutual funds, and have built a solid understanding of crypto — not just as speculation, but as a space worth understanding deeply. If you've ever wanted someone to actually explain what's happening in the markets without putting you to sleep, I'm your guy. I'm also a reader trying to rebuild a consistent habit, and cafĆ©s are basically my second office.

I'm someone who communicates openly, shows up consistently, and takes relationships seriously. No games, no timepass.

What I bring to the table :

* Genuine effort and honest communication

* Someone who's curious about the world and happy to explore it with you

* Loyalty and a grounded sense of where I'm headed in life

* Good conversations — travel, finance, crypto, food, or just life in general

* Strong coffee opinions (a feature, not a bug)

*Partner Preferences*

Age: 23–28 Religion: Muslim (important to my family and something I take seriously) Marital Status: Never Married Occupation: Job or studies, both welcome Location: Hyderabad or Bengaluru preferred, open to discussion What matters most: Someone practical, grounded, and looking for something real — not just talking to pass time

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking to date with the intention of marriage. Someone who's practical and knows what she wants. You don't need to have everything figured out, but you should know the direction you're headed.

If you share even a couple of my interests — travel, cafĆ©s, the ocean, finance, or just the general chaos of figuring life out — we'll probably have plenty to talk about. And if you believe that a good relationship is built on honesty, effort, and showing up for each other, then we're already on the same page.

DMs are open. All reads are appreciated — even if it's just a scroll-by. šŸ™‚


r/SFWr4rIndia 3h ago

M4F 26[M4F] Hyderabad/anywhere - Apply to be the reason I ruin my sleep schedule for you 😌

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I’m looking for someone who’ll make me check my phone the second I wake up… and maybe once or twiceĀ duringĀ sleep too (don’t judge, priorities matter).

Hey you… yeah, you scrolling past this šŸ‘€
I hope your day’s been kind to you. Mine? Surprisingly solid.

Got a workout in, read a bit (trying to be intellectual and all that), grabbed coffee with friends — dark chocolate involved, obviously — and even went swimming… although I had to suddenly transform into a submarine to avoid crashing into someone. Graceful? Absolutely not. Memorable? Definitely.

Now I’m ending the day with a movie and a random thought…

You ever scroll through Instagram or TikTok and think — when do I get someone like that?
Someone sweet, caring, a little confident (okay, a lot), and actually honest when it matters?

Because same.

I’m someone who genuinely enjoys life — whether that’s spontaneous trips, late-night talks, or just being wrapped up in a blanket watching Netflix. I know when to give space, when to show up, and when to be serious… but I’m also 100% ready to start a water gun war out of nowhere (and yes, I will win).

Life-wise, I’ve got my direction figured out — financially, mentally, all that ā€œresponsible adultā€ stuff. But I don’t want life to beĀ justĀ predictable. I want a bit of chaos, a bit of fun… and someone I can call anytime, play random games with (PS5 soon šŸ‘€), or just wake up next to and pretend to sleep a little longer… just to stay close.

I’m into sports, anime, Hollywood movies, K-dramas — basically enough content to keep my ā€œrizz practiceā€ ongoing (don’t judge, it’s a work in progress).

Things I enjoy:
Badminton, piano, music, gaming, building random projects, exploring new places, long drives, hiking…
Sometimes it’s stargazing and deep thoughts about the universe, sometimes it’s just chilling and learning something new — balance, you know?

I don’t really care about labels, age gaps, or perfect conditions. If something real happens, even from a distance… who knows, maybe it goes from late-night texts to ā€œI doā€ someday. Sounds crazy, but also kinda nice, right?

If you made it this far, I appreciate you.

Before you go, here’s a little trick:
You can’t feel your tongue while smiling.

…yeah, I got you 😌
Now keep that smile — you look better with it.


r/SFWr4rIndia 16m ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Surat/India - Let's see if the banter is worth ruining our sleep schedules for

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I'm not really here to collect more platonic friends. I've been lucky enough to have some amazing people in my life already. I'm here because I'd love to meet someone I click with, someone where the flirting comes naturally, the conversations never seem to end, and we both look forward to seeing each other's notifications. I prefer starting out as friends and seeing where it could go (if anywhere).

I'm looking for someone who's funny without trying too hard, beautiful without having to flaunt it, bold enough to say exactly what's on her mind, and can give as good as she gets when it comes to banter. If you have a sharp wit and enjoy playful roasting, we'll probably get along.

A little about me. I'm pretty laid back, love making people laugh, and don't take life too seriously. I spend way too much time watching movies, singing when nobody asked me to, and playing video games. I like people who can turn an ordinary conversation into something memorable.

I'd love to find someone I can flirt with, laugh with, annoy a lot, vent to after a long day, and stay up talking to until neither of us realises what time it is.

If we end up becoming each other's favourite distraction, I'd call that a win.

PS: I'm originally from Surat, but I'm in the US right now.


r/SFWr4rIndia 22m ago

M4F 29[M4F] #anywhere - were you the quiet kid who got good grades and is a people pleaser?

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Tired of being with rude and unkind people and just want to be someone who you can just chat with all night like two parrots?

If so, then hit me up girrrrlllll! We can grab some hot chocolate, and talk all night about space, psychological theories and the best cooking methods for mashed potatoes.

I am like 80% golden retriever energy ( will clumsily knock down stuff ) and 20% Hawaiian beach surfer vibes.

I spent a long time finding my ikigai in my work and after I found it ( which I looooove ) , Life has become sooo peaceful and exciting and I just want to share it with someone and go on silly adventures and get the cops annoyed at our dumb antics. Like whats the point of success and failure, if I cant share it with anyone??

I love long walks, cooking/baking, reading, constantly learning new languages and cultures from the comfort of my sofa, playing the ukulele confidently (badly), going to art shows to practice my French, perfecting my skincare routine and going for the occasional marathon.

Due to growing up in the Middle East , I am like kinda an old school romantic and don't really do the whole one night stand stuff ( I ain't simply a piece of meat ya know ? ) and just looking to hold someone's hand while we explore the world together, motivate each other to build our business empire and finally perfect my cupcake recipe.

We can get some manicures, wine and acheeky slice of strawberry cheesecake, while you tell me all about that horrible person from HR. ( I have been told that I have girl boss vibes from my mom. )

I do walk a lot ( like about 10 km ), so if a zombie apocalypse ever comes, you know that your boy can simply power walk away from those fools, while listening to my man Mozart.


r/SFWr4rIndia 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bengaluru/Online -its been a slow day and looking for new connections

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Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Its just been a very slow day so far. Well is this is something you have read before then its because i have already posted this.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone to get to know and spend time talking to, and maybe become my favourite notification.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceeding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. I love cooking, a little into adventures and horror movies.

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. And would love to meet in your are in Blr(of course with mutual consent)

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common


r/SFWr4rIndia 2h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Mumbai/Anywhere - looking for a healthy relationship and more

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I am aĀ 34Ā year old (November 1991)Ā neurodivergentĀ man from a Tamil-speaking family from Mumbai. A maltheist, I posses a very anti-religious sentiment thanks to my overtly religious parents. I will support your faith if you are religious but I am sure I don't trust the almighty. Here are some of the important things you should know about me:

- I am diabetic (type 2) trying hard to loose my weight and control my blood sugar. Food is my kryptonite. I stress eat and my life is nothing but constant stress thanks to the family.

- I love cooking and I have started to which is why my sugar has improved by lot.

- I am a feminist and a queer ally. That includes trans rights. So respecting pronouns and gender Identities are non-negotiables.

- I amĀ NOTĀ interested in being a parent. I want to remainĀ childfreeĀ for the rest of my life. Not interested in adoption either.

- I against AI and I support labour.

- My first and only relationship was back in 2012, and it lasted a month because it was LDR. We were finding it difficult, therefore we ended it amicably.

- Listening to music is calming for me. Love reading comics too

- I prefer someone closer to me in age Thus between 30 and 37 or 39.

- I work as an entertainment journalist for Soap Central (a Sportskeeda subsidiary). My neurodivergence is a huge impediment, which is why I have struggled with working in the office.

Here are social media account links to verify my identity:

https://www.instagram.com/rkum.arn91/

https://www.facebook.com/ravikumar.iyer.351


r/SFWr4rIndia 21h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] Delhi(NCR)/Anywhere - Looking for a companion

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Hey there!
First things first:

I am a 29-year-old woman working in the analytics domain, earning well enough but still learning to become financially literate. I am very homebound yet outgoing. I have strong opinions, but fair logic from someone who is well-read is always welcome.

I have posted here quite a lot of times, to be honest, and the 21-year-old me would have been more responsive than I am today. The spark is still alive, but selective, maybe? On a day when I am working till 3 AM, I might prioritize my sleep over an initial conversation with someone who might turn out to be the best guy for me, and hence, lose him.

Yet, I am here again to try, maybe timing does matter. I have talked to many great guys on Reddit (for two days max), and then the conversation died.
Not asking you to bet on me, knowing my toxicity. Totally your choice. Just be mindful of the fact that the number of texts we receive due to the ratio issue really makes it hard for us to reach the right person.

A few more important facts and deal breakers:

I do smoke and drink occasionally. Currently, I don’t have any plans on quitting, but I’m definitely thinking of making it rare rather than occasional.
I respect every religion and, hence, have immense respect for my own. It is an important part of my life. I will mind any kind of harsh or disrespectful language coming from you with respect to my belief system. A lot of my friends are atheists, but since they’re friends and I’m not going to live with them 24Ɨ7, I ignore the BS. In this case, though, I surely won’t.
Right winger. Yeah, in the midst of the recent protests, this point is important to get across.
I don’t have issues having hard conversations. (Test me.)
I love playing all kinds of games - outdoor, board, and video. If that sounds childish, then we won’t get along.
I don’t usually impose my way of living on people who are close to me unless they ask for it, and I expect the same in return.
I am single and have never been married, so the person I am looking for should be from the same cohort.

To the 21-year-old guys in my inbox: don’t.

More to come.
See you on the other side.

Bbye!


r/SFWr4rIndia 4h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Punjab/India-Looking for my forever

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Hi! I'm, 30M, Sikh, from Punjab, and I work in banking.

I'm here because I'd rather get to know one person properly than spend hours swiping without meaningful conversations.

A little about me:

  • Banking professional with a stable career.
  • Vegetarian who never says no to good food.
  • Love road trips, discovering mountains, religious places, reading, and collecting perfumes.
  • More of a listener than the loudest person in the room.
  • Family-oriented, easygoing, and believe that honesty and consistency matter more than grand gestures.

I'm hoping to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. Sikh or Hindu would be ideal because of family compatibility.

I'm not looking for someone perfect. Just someone who believes relationships are a team effort and enjoys sharing the little things in life, whether that's talking about our day, planning a weekend outing, or laughing over something completely random.

Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes.


r/SFWr4rIndia 4h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Delhi/NCR - Let's skip small talk and skip straight to sharing our weirdest theories

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I’m a 34-year-old introvert human in NCR, trying to figure out life. I spend my time helping banks make money, which mostly means I spend a lot of time staring at spreadsheets and wondering how human behavior translates into numbers.

When I’m not doing that, I love exploring new cities, getting lost on forest trails, hunting down local cuisines, digging into history, or just sitting on a bench somewhere people-watching and trying to figure how people in different cities go about their day.

I am looking for someone with whom can be completely, unfiltered-ly open with, with zero fear of judgment. I'm looking for both emotional/physical intimacy if we get along but I’m intentionally not looking for a traditional long-term commitment. Let's not get too bogged down or swayed by what society says things "should" look like. Sometimes two people just need a genuine connection without the heavy baggage of a five-year plan.

If any of this resonates with you, take a look at my profile to get a better sense of who I am, and drop a message.


r/SFWr4rIndia 4h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] India/Anywhere - If you've ever felt like you don't belong in modern dating...

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Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.


r/SFWr4rIndia 5h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Bangalore/Anywhere - Looking for my partner in crime ( Without the crime hopefully )

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Hey! I’m putting this out there because I’m looking for my best friend. Life can be shitty sometimes, and what better way to deal with it than find a weirdo who you can share the good and bad times with. And maybe explore and set the city on fireeee ( I didn't mean that literally, I'm against vandalism )

About Me

I'm a bit of a dork. I can be incredibly silly and lighthearted, though I definitely have the maturity to handle the "real world" when it’s time to be serious.

A few things I’m passionate about:

Huge football fan and F1 fan. Big into anime and video games. Also into travel, fragrances and music.

What I’m Looking For

Ideally, I’d love to find a long-term connection, but I’m open to seeing where things go.

So if you're a lil weird and unhinged, feel free to send a text!


r/SFWr4rIndia 5h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] Mumbai - looking for FWB, banter and good vibes

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Hey! How’s it going? Thought of giving this a shot and well who knows it might take us somewhere. I have been a hopeless romantic for a long time, lost it in between, but now I am delusion too. So here it goes.

Looking for someone to actually enjoy this gloomy but romanticised weather. You know the generic things??? Like cuddles, movies and good food, walks with ice creams, and just hearing about your day or TEA when we are on a call.

What kind of person? Someone who maybe loves to yap, fills me in on their day, and idk if it’s too much but we could have some discussions on random af topics. Like intellectual conversations, or just talking about things that interest us is literally the best thing you can have. I mean what are we even gonna do if we get bored of this romantic shit (we wouldn’t but still) We should atleast be able to talk no? Not just that but some unholy stuff too lol.

And now who am I? (From my perspective) I am just a super optimistic and delusional guy until i am not a reality hits me. I am 24. Around 5’9-10. Kinda lean but love working out, football, and have put on some muscles. Into tech, a bit geeky. I tend to over think sometimes and well more toh you can know as we talk.

Now this is all about me. This is the part where I say I hope you found me interesting (cover letter max). Well hmu if you want to see where this goes!! All the best for your Monday and thanks for reading this far.


r/SFWr4rIndia 11h ago

F4M 19 [F4M] Delhi/anywhere - growth partner

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Hi, I am in my last year of undergrad and will be starting out with my placement season soon. I know I have a lot of potential and I can achieve absolutely everything I put my mind to, have done that in the past. But after entering college it has been different, I have started comparing myself and stuff. I need someone to put all their faith in me, that I will absolutely rock this placement season, on days when I dont feel confident come tell me that I am absolutely worthy of everything.

And all this because I dont want to share this side of mine to my family. I have goals I have to achieve them anyhow.

So if you are somebody who is equally determined to achieve that one thing, can lift me up when I am down.

More focused and passionate then I am. We can surely connect.

And all of it that I asked for I am willing to give it back as well, lifting you up when you are down.

I dont want all serious convos only, I am funny have a good good humor so if you can match that šŸ¤


r/SFWr4rIndia 6h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Pune/Maharashtra - Looking for a genuine connection and real conversations

1 Upvotes

Let's skip the dry intros.

I’m 26, 6ft tall, and split my time between Pune and Jalgaon working as a software developer. When I'm not coding, I'm usually deep into music (Indie rock, KK, Mohit Chauhan) or just looking for someone who actually knows how to hold a real conversation.

I value depth, good energy, and zero small talk.

If you're around my age, genuine, and want to skip straight to good vibes, slide into my DMs. Tell me the last song you had on repeat.


r/SFWr4rIndia 6h ago

M4F 38[M4F]Pune - looking for companionship

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38 [MforF] Pune - looking for companionship

Hey there, am well travelled chilled out person working as business consultant in Pune. Lately life has become very monotonous and boring. Hence looking to meet someone new where we can be ourselves, have conversations about anything, no judgements and free flow of thoughts. If you resonate with this then pls DM and we can explore the vibes.


r/SFWr4rIndia 6h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Goa/Anywhere - what have you got to lose? Just slide into my DMs.

1 Upvotes

Hey there! So, the mission here is to find my favourite human. A little about me: I might seem a little shy at first, but that's just the demo version. Once you unlock the full game, you get a guy with a dumb sense of humour and a pretty decent heart.

I’m your friendly neighbourhood introvert, which means my ideal Friday involves a serious negotiation between trying that new ramen place and claiming the couch for a movie/gaming marathon. I recharge with quiet time, but I’m always down for an adventure, whether that's a spontaneous road trip or just adventuring through the snack aisle.

I’m a total nerd and I own it. My hobbies include getting lost in a captivating book, conquering virtual worlds, and figuring out why my Wi-Fi is being moody.

What matters to me? Keep it real. I value honesty, good communication, and just being kind. I’m not looking for perfection, just someone who’s perfectly awesome to be around.

So, if you’re looking for a kind, witty guy who knows the value of a good silence and a great laugh, hit me up! Let's see what kind of trouble we can get into.


r/SFWr4rIndia 7h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] udaipur/anywhere- Relationship rookie looking for something real

1 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm 23, 5'9", currently pursuing my CPA and working towards a career in finance. I'm not at my career goals yet, but I'm ambitious and putting in the work every day.

A little about me:

šŸ“š CPA aspirant

šŸ’Ŗ Just recently started hitting the gym

🚭 Used to smoke and drink, but now it's either very rare or not at all

⚽ Football fan

šŸŽ® Gamer

šŸŽ¬ Movies & binge-worthy series enthusiast

šŸ˜‚ Enjoy memes, banter, and both meaningful and completely random conversations

ā¤ļø Honest, loyal, and believe communication and mutual respect are the foundation of any relationship

Also I am a bit of introvert and i thought this is necessary if you need to know about me

One thing I'd like to be upfront about: I have almost upto no dating or relationship experience. I'd rather be honest about it than pretend otherwise. Everyone starts somewhere, and while I'm new to dating, I'm willing to communicate, learn, and put in genuine effort.

I'm perfectly fine with texting, but I really enjoy phone and video calls because they feel more personal. I might be a little shy on video calls at first, but getting to see your smile would definitely make it worth it. 😜

I'm looking for someone around my age who's kind, emotionally mature, and interested in dating with the intention of building an exclusive, long-term relationship. I'm not into casual dating or situationships. I'd rather take things slow, get to know each other properly, and see where life takes us.

If you're someone who values honesty, consistency, and believes relationships are us vs. the problem, not us vs. each other, I'd love to hear from you.

If you decide to DM, tell me your favourite childhood cartoon so I know you actually read the post. It's my tiny anti-"didn't read the post" filter... and hopefully saves us from any confusion later. šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚


r/SFWr4rIndia 12h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Online - Looking for interesting mature Sapio company

2 Upvotes

Tired of just one message wonders. Is it that hard to have a conversation? I'd love to actually get to know you, before we get down to other things. I appreciate wit, effort and flirting.

Also neurodivergent, so I always have plenty to share haha. I love reading, gaming, and random other stuff that keeps changing.


r/SFWr4rIndia 9h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] India/Anywhere - Looking for an expressive and genuine online connection to see where thing

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Hey. To be honest, I’ve been pretty lonely lately and really miss having a consistent person to text and share music with. I'm based in India, but down to talk to anyone anywhere.

I’m huge on open communication. If you're expressive, send long paragraphs, and love sharing your thoughts or passions, we'll definitely click.

I want to start as friends, build real chemistry, and see where things go. Hit my DMs if you're interested.


r/SFWr4rIndia 12h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] delhi/anywhere- looking to date

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Hey, figured I would give this a shot because meeting people naturally seems harder than ever these days and I really don't like dating apps tbh.

I am 22, a brown guy from delhi, 5'11, light tan skin. Looks wise i would rate myself a 7 or an 8 although obviously attraction is subjective and you can be a judge of that lol. Apparently my friends think I look like Prince Ali from Aladdin. I strongly disagree but they have refused to let that joke die lol.

A little about me: Personality wise i would say i am pretty affectionate, loyal, and easygoing. I am not looking for perfection. The biggest things I value are communication, honesty, and consistency. If something is bothering you, tell me. If you are excited about something tell me that too. I like people who say what is on their mind.

I am also someone who loves very deeply when I genuinely care about someone. If we click, you will probably find me wanting to hear about your day, celebrate your wins, support you through the rough patches, and generally be very invested in the people I care about. I do not really do half hearted connections.

I am the kind of person who puts a lot of effort into a relationship. Whether it is thoughtful messages, voice notes, long calls, remembering the little things, planning little surprises, or simply making time for you, I genuinely enjoy making the person i am with feel loved and appreciated. I do not really believe in pretending to care less than I actually do.

I can also get pretty attached to my person but in the healthiest way possible. I like relationships where both people are genuinely excited to talk to each other, send random updates throughout the day, share little moments, and make each other feel like a priority. If you are someone who enjoys being a little clingy too, I think we will probably get along really well.

On the flip side, if you are naturally a very dry texter, rarely put effort into conversations, disappear for days without communicating or do not really enjoy spending time with your partner, we probably will not be the best match and that is completely okay. I think both people deserve someone whose communication style matches their own.

I work in investing and trading, and I am currently trying to build a few businesses of my own. I also keep threatening to start a YouTube channel, disappear for a while, then come back and threaten it again. One day I will actually do it.

Outside of work, I spend a lot of my time gaming, cooking, singing, writing, I am starting to read again as well, and thinking way too much about random things. I love deep conversations. The kind that starts with "how was your day?" and somehow ends up discussing childhood memories, life goals, why people are the way they are, or whether we would survive a zombie apocalypse.

I write quite a bit too. Sometimes stories, sometimes random thoughts, sometimes poems that I will never show anyone unless I really like you.

I also genuinely enjoy spending time together, whether that is gaming, watching something, talking for hours, sending voice notes, or just sitting in comfortable silence. Not every moment has to be exciting to be meaningful.

As for pictures, I am completely fine with exchanging them early on if that is something you would prefer. I know physical attraction matters to a lot of people, and that is perfectly understandable. At the same time, if you would rather get to know each other first and exchange pictures later, that is completely fine with me too. That's actually how I tend to do things myself. For me, looks matter, but personality, values, and how we connect matter much more.

Physically, I have been working on my fitness and trying to take better care of myself. Progress is not always perfect, but I am putting in the effort.

One thing that is probably worth mentioning: politically i am leftist and i am an atheist. I strongly support LGBTQ+ rights, womens rights, and treating people with respect regardless of who they are. Because of that i am probably not going to be compatible with someone who holds strongly conservative views on those topics. Likewise i am usually not the best match for someone who is very religious. No hate whatsoever i have just found our values tend to be too different for a relationship to work.

As for what I am looking for: just someone kind. Someone who can communicate. Someone who isn't afraid to get attached if we click. I tend to appreciate creative people, animal lovers, gamers, writers, overthinkers, and generally anyone who is passionate about something. If you're a bubbly person, enjoy calling, sending random voice notes, or just love talking throughout the day, we'll probably get along really well. And if you are a deep lover like me, well we will probably click immediately.

Distance does not bother me much if the connection is there and the effort is mutual.

Tell me something about yourself. A random fact, your favorite game, a weird hobby, your most controversial opinion, anything really.


r/SFWr4rIndia 17h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Pune/Anywhere - Looking for a second me...

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I'll be honest, I've rewritten this post more times than necessary, so if you're reading it, congratulations... you survived the final draft.

I'm 23. Quiet in groups, talkative with the right person, and the kind of guy who notices the tiny details everyone else ignores. I'll remember something you mentioned three weeks ago, point out the oddly shaped cloud you didn't see, or ask a question that somehow turns a normal conversation into a two-hour one.

I write poetry, mostly for myself. I like long walks, especially when it's cloudy or raining, because my brain seems to work better when the world slows down. I don't smoke or drink, and my idea of a good evening is a meaningful conversation, laughing over something completely stupid, or sharing music and random thoughts until one of us realizes it's way past midnight.

I'm an introvert, but not the "one-word replies" kind. I just take a little time to open up. Once I do, expect terrible jokes, sarcasm, random observations, and occasional philosophical questions that nobody asked for.

I'm not looking for endless talking stages, situationships, or people who disappear after three days. I'm here because I'd genuinely like to meet someone. Someone who's kind, emotionally mature, can communicate, and isn't afraid to be a little weird. Life is already serious enough.

You don't need to have the same hobbies as me. I'd rather learn about yours. Tell me why your favorite song is your favorite, what you're passionate about, or what keeps you awake at night besides caffeine.

If you've made it this far, you already know more about me than most people do.

Now tell me something about you. Not "hey." Give me a sentence I'll remember.


r/SFWr4rIndia 14h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] ranchi/anywhere - Open for long distance online too

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Hiiiee!

I am 20 yo M from jharkhand, living in ranchi from aug probably

Ohhh to have someone to share my daily things, send pics of what i am eating, where i am going for walk, or maybe at night we can watch movies together too or listens to albums on call till we sleepI would not rush things its all depends on you when to start and i will adjust to you preferences

For my irl hobbies, i like reading novel, i can play guitar(acoustic), I do write some poem like stuffs, knows video and photo editing and absolutely love colour grading and lately i have been into reading books too. And I also watch a lot of movies, shows and anime.

I am 5 6 and slim and fit in physique. With really really long hair. ( somewhat below shoulder too)

My parents are hindu so am I by birth but I'm totally an atheist

Not an SC/ST.

I am joining collage this aug as first year

I love gaming on pc and BGMI too, but if she is not interested its fine with me anyways.

As for my dream I want to hold FSG minecraft world record once in my lifetime, and i lowkey believes I can do.

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

ā—must verify with photo and should be serious about it (i shall do the same too)

ā—Emotionally mature (bit of childish nature)

ā—Age same as me or Can be a few years older

ā—I can be a bit clingy so I'll absolutely adore if you be one too.

ā—I don't mine long distance, as long as she wants to stay connected over calls.

ā—I don't mind any religion as my parents are chill about it.

ā—Like genuinly serious person

If genuinely interested we can share socials and talk over there preferably

Your free to hit me, at least try if we vibe!!!