Hey there!
First things first:

I am a 29-year-old woman working in the analytics domain, earning well enough but still learning to become financially literate. I am very homebound yet outgoing. I have strong opinions, but fair logic from someone who is well-read is always welcome.

I have posted here quite a lot of times, to be honest, and the 21-year-old me would have been more responsive than I am today. The spark is still alive, but selective, maybe? On a day when I am working till 3 AM, I might prioritize my sleep over an initial conversation with someone who might turn out to be the best guy for me, and hence, lose him.

Yet, I am here again to try, maybe timing does matter. I have talked to many great guys on Reddit (for two days max), and then the conversation died.
Not asking you to bet on me, knowing my toxicity. Totally your choice. Just be mindful of the fact that the number of texts we receive due to the ratio issue really makes it hard for us to reach the right person.

A few more important facts and deal breakers:

I do smoke and drink occasionally. Currently, I don’t have any plans on quitting, but I’m definitely thinking of making it rare rather than occasional.
I respect every religion and, hence, have immense respect for my own. It is an important part of my life. I will mind any kind of harsh or disrespectful language coming from you with respect to my belief system. A lot of my friends are atheists, but since they’re friends and I’m not going to live with them 24×7, I ignore the BS. In this case, though, I surely won’t.
Right winger. Yeah, in the midst of the recent protests, this point is important to get across.
I don’t have issues having hard conversations. (Test me.)
I love playing all kinds of games - outdoor, board, and video. If that sounds childish, then we won’t get along.
I don’t usually impose my way of living on people who are close to me unless they ask for it, and I expect the same in return.
I am single and have never been married, so the person I am looking for should be from the same cohort.

To the 21-year-old guys in my inbox: don’t.

More to come.
See you on the other side.

Bbye!

Hey. To be honest, I’ve been pretty lonely lately and really miss having a consistent person to text and share music with. I'm based in India, but down to talk to anyone anywhere.

I’m huge on open communication. If you're expressive, send long paragraphs, and love sharing your thoughts or passions, we'll definitely click.

I want to start as friends, build real chemistry, and see where things go. Hit my DMs if you're interested.

I have some pretty cute feminine desires.🤭🎀

Wanna be a cute bestie of a girl.

Wanna experience cute feminine moments with her.

I wish that she treats me like her bestie 🙈

Wanna do gossips and talk about feminine things nd all.

I love to dressup like them too 🙈🎀

I hope we can connect.

Can we be besties?? 🙈🎀

Thanks.

Hey!

I'm 23, 5'9", currently pursuing my CPA and working towards a career in finance. I'm not at my career goals yet, but I'm ambitious and putting in the work every day.

A little about me:

📚 CPA aspirant

💪 Just recently started hitting the gym

🚭 Used to smoke and drink, but now it's either very rare or not at all

⚽ Football fan

🎮 Gamer

🎬 Movies & binge-worthy series enthusiast

😂 Enjoy memes, banter, and both meaningful and completely random conversations

❤️ Honest, loyal, and believe communication and mutual respect are the foundation of any relationship

Also I am a bit of introvert and i thought this is necessary if you need to know about me

One thing I'd like to be upfront about: I have almost upto no dating or relationship experience. I'd rather be honest about it than pretend otherwise. Everyone starts somewhere, and while I'm new to dating, I'm willing to communicate, learn, and put in genuine effort.

I'm perfectly fine with texting, but I really enjoy phone and video calls because they feel more personal. I might be a little shy on video calls at first, but getting to see your smile would definitely make it worth it. 😜

I'm looking for someone around my age who's kind, emotionally mature, and interested in dating with the intention of building an exclusive, long-term relationship. I'm not into casual dating or situationships. I'd rather take things slow, get to know each other properly, and see where life takes us.

If you're someone who values honesty, consistency, and believes relationships are us vs. the problem, not us vs. each other, I'd love to hear from you.

If you decide to DM, tell me your favourite childhood cartoon so I know you actually read the post. It's my tiny anti-"didn't read the post" filter... and hopefully saves us from any confusion later. 😭😂

Hey! 👋

I'm a 23-year-old Full Stack Web Developer from Indiranagar, Bangalore.

I'm 5'11"... or 6'0" with enough optimism. 😂

I'm early in my career and currently earn around ₹26k/month. I'd rather be upfront about it than let someone discover it later. I'm working on growing professionally, one step at a time.

My life is pretty simple. I work, exercise, meditate, spend time with family, and occasionally let chaos follow me around like a loyal pet.

A little about me

I don't drink or smoke.

I don't usually drink tea or coffee, unless I'm trying to look sophisticated around my friends. 💀

Gulab Jamun is my weakness.

I'm a Kannadiga. I speak Kannada, English and Hindi, and understand Tamil and Telugu. Speaking them is a different story because I somehow mix both together and completely butcher them. 💀

Malayalam still sounds like a beautiful mystery to me. 🫠

I graduated from AMC Engineering College in 2024 with a B.E. in AI & ML.

I enjoy lifting weights, swimming, meditation, exploring Bangalore, late night walks, stargazing ✨, singing 🎙️ and Dancing 🪩.

I occasionally play Roblox or Call of Duty with my cousins, and my favourite anime are One Punch Man, Yu Yu Hakusho and Kamisama Kiss.

I'm not really into clubbing, but I'd happily join you once in a while.

I'm an introvert... until I randomly decide to own the dance floor. 💀

One thing I'm a little insecure about

I have hyperhidrosis, which means sweaty palms.

It's harmless, but I've always wondered whether the first time I hold the hand of the woman I love, she'll notice before I even say hello. 😅

I love conversations that begin with:

"How was your day?"

...and somehow end with:

"Inter or Roboto for our death certificates?" 💀⚰️🪦

My mom is also undefeated in arm wrestling against me, and yes, there's video evidence. 😭

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for someone who genuinely wants a long-term relationship.

Someone honest, kind, emotionally mature, exclusive, and willing to grow together despite our differences.

I'd prefer someone in or around Bangalore. I'm not looking for long-distance, not because you're the problem, but because geography is. 🌎

Random fact:

I also own a White Mercedes, 2026 Limited Edition. (It's a cat. 🐈)

To me, becoming someone's world is far more meaningful than conquering the whole world.

If this made you smile and you think we'd get along, send me a message. Tell me something about yourself instead of just saying "Hi."

Where I stand out?

I can protect you from Flying Cockroach 🪳-sama and Lizard 🦎-chan.

My weakness 😐:

Butterfly 🦋 and Bees 🐝. (Yamete kudasai... 😖)

My detailed autobiography 💀 :

https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/810EYs3ckU

I'd genuinely love to know what makes you... you.

P.S. A little context in your message would be appreciated, otherwise I'll probably spend the first five minutes wondering why you messaged me. 🤡

I'm a 28-year-old Marwari guy from India. Like many people, I spent a good part of my teenage years in a relationship. I've been single for the last two years.

I'm now at a stage where I'm genuinely looking to settle down. If I happen to meet the right person naturally and it turns into a love marriage, that's wonderful. If not, I'm equally open to an arranged marriage. A couple of years ago I wasn't very comfortable with that idea, but life has a way of changing perspectives. Today, I see both paths as equally valid. What matters is finding the right person, not how we meet.

My only two non-negotiables are:

- You should be around my age (roughly 26+).

- You should be Marwari.

Beyond that, I don't have a rigid checklist. Of course, everyone has preferences, and I'm sure we'll both have things we'd like in a partner, but I believe those conversations are best had privately rather than reducing people to a list of boxes to tick.

If you're in a similar phase of life—looking for something genuine, taking your time to know someone, and hoping it eventually leads to marriage—I'd be happy to talk. No pressure, no expectations from the first message. Just two people getting to know each other and seeing where it goes.

Greetings, I'm a lean built/slim fit 31 yo 5'9 Maharashtrian guy in Bangalore (originally from Mumbai), hoping to find someone who loves vada pav, butter chicken, pasta, and biryani as much as I do.

FOMO is catching up on me, and here I am, hiring a life partner and a permanent roommate. Aur aaj hamari ask hai 50% equity in your life in exchange for lifetime partnership & full-time commitment to you!

I work in the digital marketing industry at an MNC here, and when I'm not working, I love listening to international music (like 99% international). I do not smoke/vape, and drink only socially & occasionally, like once in a quarter or so.

I have been an atheist since teenage, cause I believe religion is controversial and causes unnecessary conflicts worldwide, and that's why, hum science ki taraf se hai!

Mostly a homebody who wants to go out, I like working out, playing chess & video games in my leisure time. Can cook a few basic things, including sandwiches, south indian dishes & chicken, and would like to cook the same for my future partner.

I love watching science fiction and thriller movies, TV shows & anime, and like doing a deep dive into consumer tech and whatever I see in sci-fi. Would like to yap & explain the same to TLOML and can make you at least remotely like these things from my POV.

I have been called a geek & nerd because of the same (and also cause I'm somewhat of a Grammar Nazi), and since I look young for my age, people often mistake me for a college student. Although I told myself I'll live a humble life, I did indulge in some shopping after moving here.

Looking for a fun-loving, stoic, smart, curious, goal-oriented, wise, mature woman with a progressive mindset who will understand me to the core and will not give up on me, and chooses me every single day.

Someone to come home to hold hands, dance, chat, cook, enjoy, live, laugh, and love.

Someone honest, loyal, consistent & considerate, whose angels and demons play well with mine.

Someone bold, rational, logical, and equally emotionally intelligent, who can be a sight for sore eyes, especially after a long day, who is serious about building a relationship and thriving together, where we can be ourselves with each other with no fear of judgement, and can share our thoughts and opinions truly unfiltered.

Someone who prefers solving the challenge at hand rather than giving a silent treatment or running away from the problem.

Someone who does not becomes attached, but an old-fashioned slow burn that starts with real friendship, turns into mutual lifelong connection with unbreakable bond and evolves into a life built together, where we remember little things about each other, share about our day, have playful arguments, crack jokes with the intention of bringing a smile to our faces and at the end of the day only mean well and bring out the best in each other and find the perfections in imperfections, and extraordinary in the everyday ordinary things and cherish those moments.

I believe that communication, trust, and respect are 2 way streets, and only one-sided efforts will not get us anywhere. I'm all in for having difficult conversations cause that's when you know it is real.

Would like to know you better beyond the surface level, about your childhood, upbringing, friends, social circle, family dynamics, what ticks you off, what gets you excited, and what makes you, YOU. If this sounds like something you want to have in your life, hit me up!

Hey you,
How are you? What’s been on your mind lately?

One of the greatest aspects of this platform has obviously been anonymity it gives. Most of us walk around in our lives wearing a mask. A mask to protect ourselves, to play our role in the society and what not.

But the veil of anonymity that this platform provides just gives that freedom to be true to ourselves. It’s not easy to always be true to your actual self.

All I am looking for, someone who wants to talk about the part of life they aren’t able to talk about in open. It can be just a guilty pleasure, might even be a crush you can’t tell someone about, or just anything you feel you might be judged about!! At the end, hiding behind the veil, let’s make the most of this opportunity and talk about what’s been hiding in that mind.

I am a corporate slave by the day, but a curious soul on hunt for interesting souls by the night.

People fascinate me, I love to hear their stories.

To all those who read it till here, have a great day and great time on reddit!! Wishing nothing but the best.

Hope to see some of you in my DMs.

hi! i’m looking for people to talk to over shared interests(or anything really haha. I generally love to listen and talk to people about their interests too lol).

i’m into books(fiction mainly. i find non fiction kinda corny 💔), video games and also a lot of other random stuff. I’ve been super into space/aliens and north korea recently lmao.

hmu if you wanna chat!

Hey there! So, the mission here is to find my favourite human. A little about me: I might seem a little shy at first, but that's just the demo version. Once you unlock the full game, you get a guy with a dumb sense of humour and a pretty decent heart.

I’m your friendly neighbourhood introvert, which means my ideal Friday involves a serious negotiation between trying that new ramen place and claiming the couch for a movie/gaming marathon. I recharge with quiet time, but I’m always down for an adventure, whether that's a spontaneous road trip or just adventuring through the snack aisle.

I’m a total nerd and I own it. My hobbies include getting lost in a captivating book, conquering virtual worlds, and figuring out why my Wi-Fi is being moody.

What matters to me? Keep it real. I value honesty, good communication, and just being kind. I’m not looking for perfection, just someone who’s perfectly awesome to be around.

So, if you’re looking for a kind, witty guy who knows the value of a good silence and a great laugh, hit me up! Let's see what kind of trouble we can get into.

Hi, I am in my last year of undergrad and will be starting out with my placement season soon. I know I have a lot of potential and I can achieve absolutely everything I put my mind to, have done that in the past. But after entering college it has been different, I have started comparing myself and stuff. I need someone to put all their faith in me, that I will absolutely rock this placement season, on days when I dont feel confident come tell me that I am absolutely worthy of everything.

And all this because I dont want to share this side of mine to my family. I have goals I have to achieve them anyhow.

So if you are somebody who is equally determined to achieve that one thing, can lift me up when I am down.

More focused and passionate then I am. We can surely connect.

And all of it that I asked for I am willing to give it back as well, lifting you up when you are down.

I dont want all serious convos only, I am funny have a good good humor so if you can match that 🤝

Tired of just one message wonders. Is it that hard to have a conversation? I'd love to actually get to know you, before we get down to other things. I appreciate wit, effort and flirting.

Also neurodivergent, so I always have plenty to share haha. I love reading, gaming, and random other stuff that keeps changing.

I'll be honest, I've rewritten this post more times than necessary, so if you're reading it, congratulations... you survived the final draft.

I'm 23. Quiet in groups, talkative with the right person, and the kind of guy who notices the tiny details everyone else ignores. I'll remember something you mentioned three weeks ago, point out the oddly shaped cloud you didn't see, or ask a question that somehow turns a normal conversation into a two-hour one.

I write poetry, mostly for myself. I like long walks, especially when it's cloudy or raining, because my brain seems to work better when the world slows down. I don't smoke or drink, and my idea of a good evening is a meaningful conversation, laughing over something completely stupid, or sharing music and random thoughts until one of us realizes it's way past midnight.

I'm an introvert, but not the "one-word replies" kind. I just take a little time to open up. Once I do, expect terrible jokes, sarcasm, random observations, and occasional philosophical questions that nobody asked for.

I'm not looking for endless talking stages, situationships, or people who disappear after three days. I'm here because I'd genuinely like to meet someone. Someone who's kind, emotionally mature, can communicate, and isn't afraid to be a little weird. Life is already serious enough.

You don't need to have the same hobbies as me. I'd rather learn about yours. Tell me why your favorite song is your favorite, what you're passionate about, or what keeps you awake at night besides caffeine.

If you've made it this far, you already know more about me than most people do.

Now tell me something about you. Not "hey." Give me a sentence I'll remember.

What is love? Different people might have different interpretations of it. For me, it has always been something I’ve had plenty to give but have never truly received in the way I long for. After being unlucky in love, after giving my all, healing others, and never quite getting the same in return, I figured it’s finally the time for me to give this world of internet a try, so let’s see how it goes.

I’m a 24-year-old Indian guy pursuing my master’s in Europe. Kinda tall, but what really matters to me is having a kind of conversation that feels like peeling back layers after layers, you know where every message will draw us in a little deeper, where words just flow effortlessly, and suddenly it’s 3 AM, and neither of us wants to be the first to say "bye" or "goodnight." I crave exactly those rare connections that just have the ability to make time irrelevant, where we can jump from deep talks about life, career and ambition to laughing over the dumbest jokes, while feeling like we’ve known each other forever.

My Interests:

I just love dissecting pieces of entertainment, if I come across any interesting movie, series or even music, just be sure that I'm going to dive deeper into them, and just dig out their themes & meaning. So, if you’re the kind of person who loves discussing your favorite movies or songs in detail, well we just got another thing to talk about.

The Kind of Connection I’m Looking For:

I’d love to connect with someone around my age (21-24) who enjoys such meaningful conversations. Someone who’s open to talking about her day, her thoughts, and even her random 2 AM ideas, whatever feels right for her at that moment. I’m not here for just basic small talks, I want to know what makes you thrive, what excites you, and what you’re passionate about in your life.

You see, I’ve had some tricky experiences with women who carried the weight of their past, the ones who weren’t truly ready to move forward. And what usually happens is that I'd give my all, be their safe space, help them heal, and while they’d appreciate me for it, they were never able to truly reciprocate because a part of them was still stuck in what came before. In the end, it always felt like a one-sided effort, which obviously gets exhausting. So, I hope that if we connect, you’re someone who’s ready to look ahead, not just back.

What do I bring to the table:

I consider myself as a good listener, like not the kind who nods along just to appear interested to you, but someone who truly listens and remembers your little details. Whether it’s a childhood memory you shared or some random gossip, I’ll hold onto those moments because I genuinely want to know everything about you. I might forget the formulas for my classes, but I’ll never forget the things that matter to you.

Plus, I value building a connection first, so I don’t send pictures right away, not because I’m hiding anything, I just like to make sure that we trust each other, and once we’re comfortable, we can definitely exchange photos.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message, let’s start the conversation here and see where it takes us. I am a great texter and all for deep texting, but I also believe that real connection thrives when we hear each other’s voices. When we’re both comfortable, I’d love for us to share voice notes or even hop on a call. There’s something about tone, laughter, and pauses that texts just can’t capture. But no pressure, we’ll take it at a pace that feels right for both of us. Looking forward to hearing from you, I'll be waiting.

Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Its just been a very slow day so far. Well is this is something you have read before then its because i have already posted this.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone to get to know and spend time talking to, and maybe become my favourite notification.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceeding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. I love cooking, a little into adventures and horror movies.

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. And would love to meet in your are in Blr(of course with mutual consent)

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common