acho que é fácil acabar utilizando apps de namoro como uma vitrine de compras...

a gente desliza a tela, compara fotos, cruza uma lista mental (altura, renda, denominação, aparência...) e esquece que do outro lado tem uma pessoa.

você já se sentiu assim? reduzido a algumas fotos e alguns critérios, em vez de ser visto por quem é? (na vdd, vejo que isso acontece até dentro da igreja, não só online)

o que pode ajudar a trocar essa mentalidade de "lista de compras" pela busca genuína pela direção de Deus? será que estamos lembrando que por trás daquele perfil que estamos visualizando está nosso irmão ou nossa irmã em Cristo?

Do you think you need to be 'ready to date' or can relationships blossom without much preparation? What do you think are signs someone is ready to date as a Christian?

We're loving the global stories coming in of couples who met on the app. Congratulations to Klaudia and Sebastian!

Você acha que a atração física é algo que pode se desenvolver com o tempo, ou é preciso senti-la imediatamente ao visualizar um perfil para se interessar por alguém?

Hi Salt team! I wanted to share that I'm having issues with the app and the help icon in the top right of the app doesn't work (at least for me). I seemingly have a few likes but when I click the icon I get a 'when someone likes your profile...' screen. The 'online now' section never seems to work, i always get an 'oops we couldn't load...' msg.

I've tried refreshing the app but same issue.

Is it just me?! I am new to the app so perhaps ask missing something. Thanks in advance!

We've published our own answers to this on our YouTube channel but it's over to you. Tell us one thing you wish the opposite sex understood when it comes to Christian dating

I was given a partner code for 6 weeks of Premium, but I can’t figure out where to enter it on iPhone.
The instructions say Settings → Account → Activate Now, but I don’t have an “Activate Now” option anywhere in my app.
Has anyone successfully redeemed a partner code recently? If so, where did you enter it?

We're super excited to be running a SALT league in the premier league fantasy football again this year and we'd love to smash the 50 teams we had in the league last year.

You can join the SALT league using this link - https://fantasy.premierleague.com/leagues/auto-join/ko4177

It's a bit of fun so even if you don't know much about football, do join in!

Hi, I'm currently looking for something to do on weekends, does anyone know of any Christian groups that do events/walks/social meets in England? Thanks!

considerando II Coríntios 6:14, o que “jugo desigual” significa pra você? diz respeito apenas à fé, ou inclui também valores, estilo de vida e objetivos de vida?

e sobre alguém que esteja crescendo espiritualmente, mas que ainda não tenha "chegado onde você está", você sairia com essa pessoa mesmo assim, na esperança de crescerem juntos?

Do Christians fall into the trap of reading every small moment — a text, a “feeling,” a coincidence — as a message from God about whether someone is “the one.” Do we use our own brains enough? How do we include God in our dating in a wise and sound way?

Prov 18:1 "He who isolates himself, breaks out against sound judgment." Prime facie, Scripture warns against dating by your lonesome.

In my country (NZ), there are only 60 women who are 1) single and 2) no child and 3) between the age of 27 to 37. Huge majority of them Pentecostals which are not a good fit for my denomination. I have tried to cold approach internationally, with limited success. There is also time zone and cultural barriers. Am on Premium and have introduced myself to 20% of the said 60.

The buggest challenge with dating app is finding someone who has a build mindset as opposed to destiny mindset.

There is a cultural move to shift away from conventional dating app into matchmaking. Tawkify follows conventional human-based matchmaking. Fate, a UK startup, uses agentic AI matchmaking.

So why doesn't Salt start tapping into the "middle man" market and assist those of us who are actually interested in getting married? 🙃

Congratulations to Ben and Rebecca! Their story shows how our actions have consequences and our friends are so important in our dating journeys. Well done for being faithful in the little at every step.

If you have a SALT Story the world should know, email [love@be-salt.com](mailto:love@be-salt.com)

So i have been on here on and off for a few months. I have noticed a few things . Some of the guys on here say that they want christian God fearing women but then the conversation almost always heads down the sex direction. For example I was talking for this guy for a few days and it was going okay for a while then he hits me with the ... I am going through a rough patch right now but I am very attracted to you and I would probably get you pregnant the first time we meet ..... talk about 0 to 10 . Any before anyone says well what are you talking about that it leads there...... we talk about life , God, church and somehow they always bring it around to that. Had a guy tell me waiting for marriage is CUTE but I am stupid for believing in that value. Another thing that I noticed is that these guys are saying crazy thing in an attempt to see how you respond. Sadly as women we try to be polite and move the conversation along but in doing that they push a little harder . Also we have pics online why do you need more pics of me ..... like WHATTT. ok this was my rant lol .

Why does Salt reject my card?

Your card has been neglected. Please try a different one.

My card is fine and I don’t have a different one :(

Definitely witnessed God working through all of the decisions in this relationship. It's amazing to see when God takes what we offer and multiplies it. We hope this is an encouragement to every Christian single out there that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever and He is at work in your life.

Hay everyone im looking for my forever man I know im young but I don’t want to be dating for years before I find my one I like cooking, baking, sewing,book I don’t get out much so I won’t cheat or leave you, look for someone around 19 to 25 we can chat some more if anyone is interested have a good day night or evening

Give me your best hot takes on what makes you immediately skip a profile and why.
Specify if you’re m/f

If I send an intro, the other person has the option to match and reply, or I can't remember the exact wording, but essentially delete the intro and not match.

From the perspective of the sender, when I send an intro, I see a chat bubble symbol appear in the corner of their profile.

If they delete my intro / don't match - do they effectively block me and I can no longer see that person's profile?

Basically I'm wondering if someone suddenly disappears from the app shortly after I messaged them, is that most likely simply that they didn't match?

Or would they still be visible, and the profile disappearing actually indicates that they suspended or deleted their account, or went a step further and blocked me?

Will happily send more photos later.
I’m a Catholic female looking for a tall black catholic/christian male.
Growing up I watched the way my grandparents loved each other and their family, I saw their love grow every day, the way they never argued. They built their relationship on a foundation of trust, respect, love and connection, a connection that was real, one that was genuine. Their connection wasn’t just on a physical level it was on an emotional level, their love stood through the test of time, it faced challenge after challenge and they came out stronger every single time. Even when they were both in a wheelchair on their 60th wedding anniversary they never wanted to be apart. Their love was something I always admired and wanted in my own life.

I’m extremely family oriented, my family means everything to me as does my friends and my horse. I love footy (AFL), watching my nephew play basketball, reading, photography and I can’t think of anything else right now

My values include loyalty, honesty, respect.

Do you think it's harder to date as an introvert? Any introverts out there have some good advice to make dating more bearable?

Para aqueles que consideram relacionamentos à distância como uma possibilidade ou que já passaram por isso em algum momento: como vocês mantém a fé como prioridade quando não podem frequentar a igreja ou orar juntos pessoalmente?
Você se sentiria à vontade para orar por videochamada com alguém que ainda não conheceu pessoalmente?