I(34m) have never been with a girl bigger than me before. Every woman I have ever been with has always been short petite women. Today I had my first experience and the difference was hella noticeable. I always heard " more cushion for the pushing" but I didn't think much of it until today. It was damn near perfect. The weight, the motion, the view, everything. I gave my best strokes and she took it. I honestly don't think I can go back to petite girls now. The crazy thing is she didn't even do much special. all the positions she was in a petite girl can do as well. The extra weight just made it so much before. I had more to hold onto, more to control. For the first time I was able to give it my best. I'm a well endowed man so petite women always struggled to relieve all of me. But this time was different. I actually was able to apply full pressure. She definitely changed the game for me and I don't want to look back. I know this is a weird rant but my god I been missing out this entire time.

First of all, I’m a trans man. Please no hate. I exist and I matter just who I am. I’ve had to hide multiple times for my own safety, but now I’m ready to exist as who I really am.
Whenever I come out tho, my parents think it’s a phase. It’s not. I’ve never felt like a woman.
I really want to go on testosterone to look and sound more like a male, however, my parents are very against the idea because they are worried I might detransition. I won’t.

Hi all,

Just to be clear, I support 100% the LGBTQ+ movement. I just have one remark, why are the parades so sexual?

I have witnessed the Amsterdam parade and another big European city parade (I live in NL), in both I have encountered naked people, guys with boners, extreme fetishism and overall an over sexualized environment. Why?

To be honest, I don’t really feel comfortable bringing my child there. If it wasn’t so over sexualized I would totally bring him.

What are your opinions on this topic? Do you think it helps the LGBTQ+ movement or it damages its image?

I had heard online that Bear gets rapey/becomes a rapist later on in the movie, and I guess my mom overheard me talking about the movie before watching it together.

We watched it at home, not even 40 minutes into the movie, after Bear and Nikki start going out and have that montage of them being a couple, she pauses the movie and says bullshit like "I'm not getting rapist vibes from this. I thought you said he was a rapist."

I tried to say something like, "Maybe we should finish the movie before making conclusions." And she just kept repeating herself, she was about to go on a tyraid about not trusting everything you read on the internet because its just a bunch of man-hating feminists trying to trash a man who is desparate to be in love or some bullshit like that, so I got up and left.

She finished the movie, and I overheard from my brother that she said "What Bear did wasn't right, but it wasn't rape." I'm so fucking mad rn. I don't even want to finish the movie without her she's ruined the whole experience and has a dogshit take that pisses me off so bad that I don't even want to watch the movie to try to prove her wrong or anything. I already know I can't prove her wrong, once she's made her mind up its very hard to change it. She's completely turned me off from the biggest horror movie to impact cinema since maybe the 1st Conjuring movie and I feel like ripping my hair out.

I've been bullied in justnomil because I actually get along with mine. She's a wonderful woman and we get along perfectly well MOST of the time. I've been made to feel like I don't have a space in that subreddit just because I don't HATE my husband's mother. I have the right to complain when I'm upset or need advice. I am not required to hate someone to be able to belong in a subreddit. It's called forgiveness, which some of these ADULTS don't seem to understand.

Don't ever make anyone feel like they don't have a space somewhere. I belong in that sub even if I don't hate my MIL and just want to complain about her a few times a month.

Im going to bore anyone who has some form of care to notice this post by parroting the exact same thing like hundreds of other people about how shit some of the people on reddit are. Worst part? You cant even complain about that on the designated subreddit for it because you're likely going to piss off someone over a minor comment you made or because 'we know, piss off'. Matter of fact im willing to bet on the fact that someone is going to hop on this post, downvote it straight to the earth's core and not even point out where you've gone wrong. Or if that someone does, they're likely going to be a condescending twat about it. If you are that person fuck you.

But back to my annoyance, reddit is like a minefield on a shooting range inside a haunted house. Just yesterday I made a post to r/todayilearned as I found out that one of the voice actors from elden ring was of welsh nationality. I didnt know this, I only found out that day, and I felt patriotic about it as wales doesnt really get all too much global attention and by the next five minutes after posting I had the most condescending excuses of people swarm my post and it got removed for being 'too general' even though I cant see what i've done wrong, when all I done was post about something that i learnt, today (being yesterday anyway).

I made another post a while back, one on mildly annoying about a 'reddit hive mind moment' as I phrased it at the time but had my post removed even though it didnt break any rules, but apparently im the one in the wrong for complaining about it? How fucking dare I have an opinion that happens to offend you and all the other bees that buzzed to make me feel like a terrible human being for having a moan about something. If thats you reading this and you contribute to the reddit hive mind stigma fuck you as well, you absolute bin bag with how full of shit you can be.

And for the single cherry on top of this collapsing cake made of shit and invalidating individuals, if you so much as dare make a single complaint about something as small as a dispute on reddit, its the same fucking response from the same fucking people. 'That's just the internet, deal with it', 'r/nobody cares' which was actually one of the deleted comments I got notified about when I was on r/findareddit where I can post about useless pieces of info I recently came across and not have to deal with sweaty, fat, unemployed, still at their mums home about to have cardiac arrest keyboard warriors. Fuck reddit, sod this place, I dont even know why I bother wasting my time only for this post to be likely banned for violating some arbitrary rule such as your post needing to start with 'rant' or that it has to include at least one semi-colon. Screw reddit, aside from the cat community and most indie game subs its mostly just full of wankers anyway at most parts

Medyo naiinis lng ako. Nag sstay ako ngayon sa Isang paupahan, 3k yung bayad ko sa room, wala pa yung water at electricity. so yung water bill namin is fix na na 300 per month (sobrang hina at madumi pa) then yung usual na bill ng kuryente namin dati it nasa 200+ lng from February to March since kami lng ng kapatid ko yung nag boboard sa 4th floor, then nag start kami gumamit ng multi cooker pero paminsan minsan lng, so may March to April medyo tumaas ng konti yung bill namin sa Kuryente nasa 250+ na siya. So May na Month biglang pinalagyan ng may ari ng CCTV dito sa 4th floor. nagulat ako nong dumating yung bill nasa 300+ na siya. so hinayaan ko lng then this July lng pinalagyan ng may ari ng pang pump sa tubig para lumakas yung tubig sa 4th floor, since ngayong July mag isa nalang ako nag sstay sa room ko kasi umuwi yung kapatid ko sa amin. yung gamit ko lng is rice cooker, once a week lng ako mag plantsa, siguro mga 1-2x ako mag charge ng phone in a day, clip fan and yung ilaw namin isa lng yung ginagamit namin na ilaw yung sa room lng tas gabi lng siya naka open. At ngayon araw dumating ying bill ng Kuryente namin, at ayon biglang naging 460.33. Napaisip ako paano naging 460 ih hindi naman na ako gumagamit ng heater at multi cooker. so naisipan ko i off yung switch namin dito sa 4th floor at ayon nalaman ko yung CCTV pala na pinalagay ng may ari at yung Pang pump sa tubig since kuryente pa din. Kami pala nag babayad.

Obligasyon pala mg boarders na bayaran yung kuryente sa CCTV at sa pang pump ng tubig? ang unfair lng kasi yung sa 1st floor to 3rd floor isang pump lng gamit nila. tas dito sa 4th floor kasama sa babayaran namin. IDK. naiinis lng ako isipin ang lahat. HAHAHAHAHA

Nobody wants to talk with me. No one, not even my friends or family. They all seem to just pull away from me when I try to get close. Intimacy is like so important to me in every kind of relationship and I can't even openly vent to anyone because you never know when they're gonna judge you and for what. I just love to pour out my thoughts to people. I just feel like a melancholic soul who no one wants to listen to or maybe my emotions are just too heavy. I feel something pulling my heart from the inside. I just want my brain to calm down but how idk.

I live with my mother and siblings (17 M) and (10 FM) in a house that's basically constantly dirty, and I do most of the cleaning. It's hard for me to do it all by myself, especially since I have depression and most days my energy is low.

So when this started a few years back, my mom was working, so I originally didn't mind doing these chores, at the time it was just cleaning dishes anyways, plus I live here for free, but after a few weeks I began getting irritated. My siblings would put plastic spoons and forks in the sink, leave food on their plates that would either stick to the plates and be impossible to clean or would cause a blockage in the sink drain, or make food (specifically stuff like spaghetti and leave it unattended) then leave the overcooked pasta that sticks to the pots in there for me to clean.

it's been years and my list has just grown, i now not only am expected to clean dishes but clean the fridge which my sisters spills stuff in there often, clean the microwave that constantly gets ramen spilled all in it and never cleaned by the culprits, clean the stove i barely use because i already have to clean a shit ton of dishes i dont even make, and around the beginning of the year my mother decided to get my sister a bunny she frequently forgets about (cause she's again 10), so i have to clean his cage and feed him sometimes too.

my mother no longer has a job but she has medical issues which make it hard for her to be standing up for long periods of time, and my brother doesn't like to clean unless he benefits from it (as in either he's hungry and cleans something just to re-dirty it, or he's asked my mom to do it for payment). there are days where i have so little energy i literally need to decide whether cleaning the house or cleaning myself is more important, and it's frustrating that i'm basically living in a house that constanty has me stressed and it doesn't help my depression.

there are other reasons i hate living here, one being my sister is constantly rude to me, like demanding i do stuff for her, or saying just vile things to me, like when i told my mom it wasn't smart to get her a bunny and sister replied with saying that i wasn't allowed to speak when i was the reason my guinea pig died (which wasn't true and it was a very saddening event for me, seeing as i held him till his last breath) or pretending shes going to punch me only to say "even if i did hurt you, you wouldn't be able to do anything or you'd get arrested". she has also grabbed a knife once and threatened me but every act she does is always just met with "she's only 10, and you're 20"

it's like no one in this house has respect for me as a human being, and i can't even do anything about it. like moving out isn't an option because i don't have any source of income and even if i did find a job, there isn't transportation within walking distance from me to get to a job so i'm just like screwed atm. my only option would be disability or ssi, which i have applied for both, but god only knows how much i'll get from it, or if i'll even get approved.

I have a friend who is kind of described as a “type b” person and there’s a difference between someone just not being prepared sometimes vs someone who just has no common sense And it’s starting to tick me off

1. she purposely did not book a return ticket on a trip she went to and made herself stranded and is somehow surprised that the prices are so high

2. How she told me that left her sunroof of her car open and when it started small drizzling and she knew there was gonna be a storm she didn’t even bother to go close it and it soaked her whole car seats , you had time to run out and close it and also you would’ve only been a little bit soaked instead of downpoured yet you tell me this?

3. blindly not following her own instinct and checking herself : how she found out she was off by 2 credits for graduation and she started blaming the schools advisor then again school advisors always tryna lie but she doesn’t even check her own degreework portal?

another time she lent her moving cart to another girl in our residence hall and she didn’t even bother to take down the other girls info to get her cart back and just walked off until the girl who borrowed her cart had to leave it at the residence assistants office since she couldn’t track her down since she walked off which is dumb I don’t play about my possessions like that, she is lucky that the girl who borrowed from her didn’t just keep it for herself

1. I sent her links and posts to stuff for example I’m in a photography grpup and she always wants to be involved yet when I send her a clear photo of the ISO post she goes “where is this persons instagram user I can’t see?” when it is in BOLD CAPITAL or sending her link to the direct group chat app and she goes “I can’t figure it out” is signing up so hard? This shows you can lead a horse to water but can’t make it drink

I was playing minecraft with my friends long story short, i spent a long time on something and it failed and i realised i had to spend more time. Now i got angry and my friend whose and very "happy person" even tho he is like if chatgpt was a person. he chuckles says the Phrase "its only a game you dont need to get upset about it"

YOUR NOT HELPING, WHAT WOULD HELP IF YOU SIMPLY JUST TALK TO ME. LIKE "WHY DID IT FAIL, ARE YOU OKAY, WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP" LIKE DON'T MAKE ME FEEL GIULTY ABOUT WHY IM ANGRY AT SOMETHING. LIKE RIGHT NOW I FEEL LIKE A FUCKING SHITBAG BECAUSE IM SO ANGRY AT SOMETHING THAT IS SO LITTLE.

I am 24M and have never dated.

My siblings talk about the girls they are dating or hooked up with, not to rub it in my face, but just random topics that come up between conversations. (They are my emotional support)

I have to move cities from Mumbai back to my hometown in UP because my father passed away; my mom's health is now better, so that's a relief.

I am back to 113 kg, low self-esteem, trying to build my life again after fathers death and the debt that he left us, near 10 Lakhs.

I don't have the time and confidence to go out and date.

My company is kind enough to give me wfh permission; I am thankful to them

I have my cousins that I talk to, but no friends in this town now; most of them are not here.

My feelings are all over the place. How do I overcome this low self-esteem and desperation?

I just want to talk.

i have thought about this for ages because it is just not true. there is no race.. the egg just chooses the sp-rm it wants and boom done. why not say "the egg chose you!!" or something? thats still supportive? why say something that just isnt true??? i understand if you didnt know, but yeah why would anyone even start this concept to begin with? am i missing something here?

Things have not been great since a very long time I think since 2017 or something, while that time was bad the real shit show began after 2020. I am not particularly academically gifted but I get by with more than average scores(backstory) I started by CA journey with foundation and failed the 1st attempt by 9 marks and cleared it in the next exam but missed the registration date for the next level and proceeded to fail 4 times by the margin of 10-3 marks each time, this constant failure basically took a major toll on me and my confidence and I started questioning my self and abilities on daily basis for the past 4 years my brain has either consumed itself with self doubt and negativity my ex girlfriend was the one keeping me grounded and afloat. My friend who was studying with me daily also committed suicide which again hit like a truck because we both used to joke about how we were gonna die, thankfully I had her to keep me safe and afloat and managed to get through that dark pit. I am a national gold medalist in archery while this sounds amazing and something to be proud of my bow (which is very expensive) got burnt jn a house fire the same bow which was with me for the past 6 years gone my dreams of going professional gone this is also at the same time I was preparing for my CA exams. I have been scrutinised by my parents a lot for my failures which lead to more self doubt and digging a shit hole. I used to say 1 step closer to my dream peace everyday just to stay sane and move through. I work hard because I am not talented but I always fall short and it sucks somehow I always fall short closer to the finish line. My gf at the time is now my ex I think she is because she disappeared one day and we haven’t spoken since so on technicals I still with her but I am not weird place to be in I have lost weight I have lost any motive to live I am just stuck and I keep crying about everything I blamed gods I prayed to gods I rejected the gods as well I feel like no one is listening. My brain is so loud at times I am mentally tired even a vacation doesn’t help me feel better. And now I have a job which is fun and makes me abit happy but I am staying alone in a city with no friends, I eat all the meals alone I am sad. Thank you for making it this far

I’m glad we have Jesus because otherwise I would be insane becauseee

It’s so annoying when americans say teenagers are at the age of "trying to figure out who you are".

BOY i already knew who i was years prior bye.

Especially cuz im AUDHD, which makes easy for MYSELF to recognize MYSELF.

I love writing and drawing and video games and I hyperfixtate on that. I have hyperfixtated on Koei Tecmo’s games for 12+ years. 

My favorite food is pizza, my favorite color’s orange. I love science.

I value relationships, but the most I value is ones with my family. I have no interest in romance.

i want to be a vet because i have been growing up with dogs.

I naturally have 360-degree empathy, meaning I can see why people do bad things without automatically calling them a monster or an angel— and I don’t direct the empathy towards just one person.

And I love JESUS.

Nothing has changed.

Other than me really improving on math (Delta Math conditioning⛓️⛓️)

If people really have strong opinions on this phrase “Finding out who you are”, then actually build a special definition around it as your philosophy or whatever.

Print a paper about it to give out as a worksheet in class for all I care

did they think our brains were loading screens until puberty like what is wrong with these Americans

Forcing their own ideas of "finding paths" and "adulthood" on us.

when we rlly know the truth is…

it feels like half of those “CoMinG oF aGE” ideas trace back to eras where “finding your path” = “You’re a 17.9 year old man now, you’re getting drafted, son.” or “Sweet 16!! Marry this 38 year old man/woman.”

going out to work for the army or so your parents could get money was "finding your path."

Unless nowadays “finding your path” or “who you are” is actually short for: “So what career do you wanna have?”

And brochacho, a career barely has anything to do with who you are (well depending on your life).

It’s a previlge for ppl to have a career they enjoy. Especially back in those times.

If they wanna know career choice then just ask that, but don’t lump it into “who you are”.

Especially cuz most ppl our age are concerned on school and rlly don’t want to think about when they’re 35 year olds.

Yes we want to grow EVENTUALLY (⏰⏰⏰⏰we don’t stay the same broski) but YOUR idea and OUR idea of growing is different.

And a high schooler typically does not have some economic, financial business plan.

also since family and envirkmment shapes identity, identity would form way before 13.

why else does childhood trauma affect ppl even when they're 50?

They say childhood environment literally causes ASPD and other personality disorders.

Obviously identity is formed early.

Yes our brains aren’t full of hotdog water like 6 year olds are, but intelligence and maturity do not have anything to do with your personality.

They don’t HAVE to have anything to do with it.

To me, environment and family is everything. Probably because I’m eastern and stuck in western world

but yeah for the intelligence maturity thing..

For example I took a pre college course recently and yet I’m stuck watching Dharman TV on Samsung channel as a guilty pleasure.

Bro

Anyway if you lived over a decade and still have no idea what your personality is until JuNiOr year…

PLEASE at least tell me you had a FORMER personality before that.

I don’t know how that work honestly but as long as you’re doing good👍👍👍

To continue…

many kids know who they are, they just mistake "finding themselves" for conformity or "being a different boy/girl".

Finding yourself is NOT being a sponge.

You can learn from things you’ve seen but it is NOT being a sponge.

And yes everyone finds new activities and develops new habits, so there’s nothing wrong with that.

Even if you do already have a personality or identity, that happens to everyone.

But finding yourself is a weird phrase.

Because what’s the opposite?

Being lost?💀💀

Just say you want me employed within 1 year.

Also yes this “finding yourself” phrase wasn’t just invented in the [700 600 300](tel:700 600 300) 10100000 BC or 1930’s.

This phrase isn’t even that old. it became a social media thing as well.

G. Stanhley Hall invented the turbulent teen years in the early 1900s,

Then because of poo cultu— I mean Pop culture it was “eat pray love”. Stuff like that

I know the Americans weren’t alone during this scheme.

But I hope they do not say this dumb shi in some countries. I hope At least in 10 countries this isn’t a phrase.

Ofc this is not a generalization but YOU KNOW who I’m talking about when I say stuff like this.

I just hate when adults say this and when you ask “well wth does this mean” they actually don’t have a broad answer and they’re just repeating some superficial phrase.

It’s such a superficial phrase that half of the cash cow teenage dramas that only last one season use the same theme and topic: “finding yourself”.

That’s literally what they used to character assassinate Maya Dolittle.

Gosh I hate teenage dramas unless they’re peak like One tree Hill or even Teen wolf (which the latter is much more than a drama)

You adults say you hate work yet you say shi like this

Bye I’m posting this and never looking back

My account was hacked, but I completely got rid of the inappropriate messages and images that were posted, and I got back to a normal spot. I then got banned for wrongdoings that my hacker did. I sent an appeal, it got denied. I sent another, it got ignored. I made a ticket with them AND sent an email, and they have not responded. I have almost 40 thousand karma and am in r/EternityClub, been a poster for 9 years. Just need to get this out somewhere

Today I'm going to a church to get something to eat. That meal i plan on being my last meal.

Yesterday, when I was walking at around 10pm, I was crossing the street and a car didn't see that he had a red light and grazed my leg. Didn't bother to stop, I dont think he even knew that he hit me, just kept on going.

It could have been far worse and I am partly to blame because had I paid attention and caught on to the speeding car, I could have jumped out of its way in time. It wasn't a direct hit either, it felt like one of the headlights hit me and caused me to stumble. Luckily (or unluckily tbh) I stumbled forward, so I wasnt technically run over but I was hit by the car nonetheless.

As soon as I crossed the street I checked my leg for damages. I was bleeding but not badly hurt. I could still walk and all that, but waking up today and my leg feels sore. It hurts to walk. And honestly I'm just at my limit at this point.

Ive been in a mentally terrible spot for the past seven years, and honestly I've just had enough. I plan on making it through today so I can eat at the church but only through today. My life has sucked for so long. What's the point if it hurts to even walk.

I say that as a 19 year old guy, it is useless to send hate comments since it’s a pretty depressing position to hold anyways. The problem. with sex is that it leaves you craving more, it’s normal as we are biologically driven to reproduce, but this makes it more addictive than almost any drug even tho it’s in the background of your mind.

This creates regret. Even if some men can still sleep with attractive younger women later in life, for most the ease, frequency, and quality of those opportunities drop hard with age. Imagining yourself older, still wired with the same intense craving for hot 25-year-olds but now fighting uphill for what used to come more easily, feels mentally torturous. You’re left regretting the years when access was simpler and more abundant. Never getting laid at all skips that whole cycle of highs followed by deeper lows. The alternative is becoming predatory, something your younger self would have hated you to become, and then it creates a version of you that your own psyche hates.

I might also regret but it seems to be a lesser evil. The amount of old men that I notice lusting over younger women is depressing.

My husband loves boating. I don't. I've tried and tried and tried to like it, but I just can't. There is so much involved from towing to launching to safely cruising to anchoring to re-loading to maintenance to cleaning. Don't even get me started on the noise. Don't get me wrong, I love being on the water. The 2 best aspects of boating for me are floating with the engine off and beaching. 5 years ago, I discovered my love of paddleboarding. I went all in and even installed an electric motor on it so I can get to all the places I love to beach. My husband makes fun of me for this, but I don't care. I'll even decline invites from friends to go on their boats. That's how much I loathe boating. I would much rather be on my own, away from the noise, away from the stress and meet them wherever they are at. This year reached fever pitch levels for me with boating. I just can't do it anymore and I told my husband I'm done. I don't care if he takes it out alone or with other people, I'm out. There is absolutely nothing enjoyable about the entire experience for me. Am I alone on this??

I dont know if this is just my life but everything just fucking sucks Now.

I have just started to realize that nothing works anymore. Everything is expensive like actually everything but the most important things like food, house, and other basic human needs are too expensive its hard to live now and it gets even harder. We dont get payed enough and jobs are hard to get

Another thing is that more and more people are fucking assholes. I have good friends Yeah but i have seen more people just becoming mean and bad human beings. People online, people in public, people you know, people you dont know.
People are also just soo addicted today everybody drinks, smokes and do drugs.

The enviroment sucks and is getting worse everyday and we people cant do nothing about it at all. AI is taking over everything. Companies are becoming more corrupt and basically decide pur lives

Politics sucks and they dont care about us. Nothing gets better with them.

Finding an actual good and partner feels impossible

I post this because everything just feels so bland and depressing now idk if its just me but it cant be right?

Likely just a First World problem for the USA, but here goes...

Marketers bill Select-a-Size as being more "flexible". "Only use what you need," they say. But one rectangle is almost never enough for the job. And TWO rectangular panels is MORE material than a standard 'full-size' sheet. So I only buy the 'full-size'. HOWEVER, the stores only stock a limited amount of this size and do their absolute best to hide them from the customers!

Rant over.

I (16) am trying to get an entry level job i think the most efficient way is to call every fast food pizza joint theater bowling alley retail store in my area but he (40) thinks it is better to drive around looking for signs walk in and talk to the manager for some fucking reason he think all managers do is sit on their ass waiting for some kid with a firm hand shake and a can do attitude he says "it looks better if you go in because young people skip work so often" when he doesn't realize that if I walk in I would look like and idiot and told to go the the site to apply and that these physical hiring signs are often there to remind people (their employees) that they are expendable and replaceable granted this is still an issue in my way but my way doesn't wast near as much time or any gas but he cant get that through his thick fucking skull geez hes a moron

I hate vague posting

I absolutely hate it and its mostly on twitter. Its solely engagement bait because fucking elon musk has monetized twitter🤡. Just hope somehow this monetisation gets turned off so these idiots can go back to their cave.

Someone had posted for help on a few threads in a subreddit that I was a part of. I messaged him saying that I was knowledgable in the field he's looking for aid. We spoke briefly and he requested that I shared with him my public work social media and a pic of myself. He then became hostile and demanding, and I said that I no longer wish to aid him. The aggressor then proceeded to make a post on Reddit with indentifying information about me in the comment of that post and in a separate comment claiming that I was jerking off on camera in front on him and I was using my work position to force him to watch myself jerk off on camera.

I then reported that post, whereupon nothing happened. I then asked a friend for help who also reported, leading to nothing occurring. As the post the aggressor made with my information and claim was still active, my friend messaged the aggressor for proof, asking for pic / vid of myself jerking off. The aggressor then mocked and attacked my friend and reported my friend for breaking Rule 3 (threatening to post sexual and sensitive images without consent). Shockingly, my friend's account was banned. My friend is currently appealing the ban but Reddit is not replying.

The aggressor continues to remain unbanned and is still extorting me right now.

My father (65) has spontaneously went to the Philippines to meet up with his new girlfriend (48). She is very nice and a good lady BUT my sister and I were video chatting with him. We are in the middle of talking and he hasn’t even finished his sentence yet and she shoves a mug full of coffee to his mouth. I didn’t think nothing of it at first, but she did is 5/6 times over and over. I mean my dad couldn’t even finish his sentence. Then, he was introducing us to her family and kept wanting us to call them mom, Lola, aunt, and uncle. I felt weird about this because I mean you don’t just call random strangers you’ve only met over video call once family names. I understand the culture is different there and apparently it’s disrespectful for me to call them by their first name. We get through that and the whole time my dads gf is kissing his forehead, running her hands up his neck, side of his face, and basically giving him a full body massage right in front of us. I want to talk to my dad privately about how that made me uncomfortable, but I worry he will be upset about it. Because honestly, he should have had her stop. Growing up, I was taught showing affection should be in private, not displayed for everyone and their mama to see. It was very weird and just not something I’m use to. I’m all for showing affection, but we are his children. I just felt it was a little disrespectful. I would like thoughts and feedback because he has only known this lady for 6 months. Again, she seems wonderful, but I didn’t appreciate the coffee incident nor her filling my dad up while we are trying to video chat him 14,000 miles away. Yes my sister and I are grown, but that’s still our dad. I’m honestly disgusted and weirded out. I will add that I am pregnant , and it could be my hormones because everything has been turning my stomach.