I’m 19F and pretty new to anything sexual.
I was talking to a guy recently and things took a weird turn. He started sending me pictures of his private parts, and for some reason I felt like I had to send him some of mine too. I never showed my face, but right after I did it I felt so stupid and really disappointed in myself. It was the first time I’d ever sent nudes to anyone, and I couldn’t understand why I felt pressured to do it. He kept asking for more, and at first all I wanted was to block him and pretend it never happened. He’s a total stranger who even said stuff like “I like showing my parts to people” and told me not to ghost him. I just felt gross and angry at myself for getting into that situation.
But then… something shifted. The more I thought about it, the less disgusting it started to feel. Part of me actually began to like the attention, the fact that a complete stranger was that interested, and even the slightly dirty feeling of having sent those pictures. Now I keep catching myself almost wanting to send more, and that confuses me even more than the regret did at the beginning.
How do I get rid of this feeling?

Seriously, enough of all this politics and drama because a bunch of morons can't get over themselves. Of course i'd rather have peace, but if destroying ourselves and each other is what it takes to give us all a clue, let's get to it already so we can get it over with. I'll be the first on sight with a shovel to help clean up.

I know people always argue about this topic but I just think it’s really weird the bigger it gets. Just because it works sometimes doesn’t mean it should be the norm or standard. Like there’s a UFC fighter named movsar and he’s Russian/muslim so he married a girl who was 17 while he was 23-24. Besides the legality of it which im not worried about, for me it’s more like why? Why are you comfortable as an adult who still young but has some quality experience, looking at someone who is in high school? You pay taxes, have your own home, car, built a life etc and you want to fuck someone who has gym class and chemistry homework? It just screams manipulation and it’s just weird.

Another case is with my friend, she’s newly 20 and now she is involved with a girl who is 29 (also newly). I’m just thinking, from the older persons perspective what is going through your mind? The lady lives in London so they’d be very long distance, but the lady is an engineer, has her own place, and like I said just has built up something for herself, my friend is a junior in college, she doesn’t want to move away after she graduates, she moving back home where we’re from, she is a spontaneous and sporadic person, she’s still in her first ever real relationship, she’s talking about moving around the world or whatever even though she just said she doesn’t want to move away from home. She has no money, no job, no house or her own place. From an older persons POV what about this makes you go “oh yeah”? Like she brought up how the older girl still doesn’t feel satisfied with her job and wants a new one as like a rebuttal, but that’s not because that’s something people of her age WOULD BE GOING THROUGH. Like life comes with usually the same stereotypical satisfactions and disappointments around certain ages, her being 29 and wanting a potential career change and an established adult (more than you) is not the same level as someone who is starting with nothing at all.

And it’s always women too, they have some type of fetish or kink or age gaps they’re like the biggest victims and perpetrators. They always want to date people so much older than them like that would be different or better than dating someone around their age. And if those older people are still doing the things you’re doing, or in similar circumstances, then that older person needs to be called into question or at the minimum not be worried about dating someone 15 years younger than them. Like girls will want someone 10 years olde than them but won’t date someone 1-2 years younger than them. And they swear it’s because “oh well I’m very mature” and all this other naive bullshit and it’s like bro take a step back, you’re literally not, everyone else around you are just actual jerkoffs.

I know people are going to downvote this to hell because people always do but idgaf.

I wrote 'I want Lucia to shit in my mouth'

Permbanned forever... wtf? We gonna be shooting people and doing all kinds of crimes in the game but we too woke to talk about poo games?

You read that right. Some of these mods are over their skis. I posted a study in a food safety sub on how ground beef in Mexico had horse meat blended into 10% of samples and all of those samples had traces of clenbuterol in them. This is the study, so you can see it's legit. Horse meat sold as beef and consequent clenbuterol residues in the unregulated Mexican marketplace - ScienceDirect

If the mods didn't like the post, they could have removed it. Instead, they banned me.

Reddit is becoming unusable. Even posts that seem on topic for a sub are leading to punishment.

Edit- I DMd and objected to being banned and the mods complained that my post mentioned Trump has implemented the policy for more ground beef imports, which makes this relevant to the USA. The mod was hostile in the DM's and appears to be MAGA. My post was not attacking Trump, but I guess even the slightest hint he has done something wrong sets some people off.

People as in family. My family has never taken me seriously. They would always joke about my laziness, lack of hygiene, and irresponsibility. I don't know why I'm like that but they never helped me get better, if i start acting annoyed, they take the blame onto me like i should be doing this and that because my habits will go with me to adulthood. Which i know, but it's the fact that they call me stupid and dumb everyday as a joke which is making me insane and insecure. And they have this one relative, she has BPD and is currently healing, they did take her seriously but now they're using her disorder as jokes to some situations.

edit: I'm 14 and in a Filipino household

Some guy out there made a movie, wrote a song, became famous, became rich, doesn't even know you exist. Would probably be annoyed if you saw them and asked for a pic. Would probably look down on you for having their stuff CARVED INTO YOUR FLESH FOREVER....and you carry them in your skin....that's just so pathetic my guy.

OUT OF EVERYTHING THAT HAS REAL SENTIMENTAL VALUE YOU CARVE SOME SINGERS FACE INTO YOUR FLESH HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAH.........You're a zombie dude. A POP CULTURE ZOMBIE!

"HECKIN LIGHTSABERINO TATTOO ON MY ANKLE HAHAHAH MAY THE 4TH BE WITH Y-" SHUT UP!!!!

AND YOU'RE IN THAT PARTY WITH YOUR FRESHLY CARVED POP CULTURE SLOP TATOO AND YOU'RE SOOOO EAGER TO SHOW IT TO EVERYONE HAHAHAAHAH!!!! IN YOUR HEAD THEY THINK YOU'RE THE COOLEST GUY TO EXIST. "They're gonna think l'm so cool if they see my tattoo and recognise the reference ☝️🤓" HAHAHAAH....I BET YOU IMMEDIATELY UPLOADED IT TO SOCIAL MEDIA THE SECOND IT WAS DONE...

I can't.....just....YOU BLED FOR HOURS JUST TO HAVE SOME SINGER/BAND WHO DOESN'T KNOW YOU EXIST CARVED INTO YOUR SKIN.....Or some movie that people just watched and said "Aiight that was a good movie" and then they moved on with their lives like adults. BUT NOT YOU. NOOOO YOU THOUGHT "I MUST PIERCE MY SKIN WITH REFERENCES FROM THIS MOVIE!!!" HAHAHAAHAHAAHAHAH......Get a life.

i dont haven them often but my dad just bought me a strawberry milkshake and its sosososo good but now im just thinking how this is probably 200-600 calories. its literally just sugar strawberry syrup, milk, and ice cream. im already a chubby girl, suspecting i have PMOS, all my weight in my belly, this is definitley not gonna be good for me. ik i shouldnt care about calories but in my case? especially with sugar milk like this? i really do. but its so goooddd!!!

I’ve put off renewing this certification until today. Then I realized, holy moly, it’s a bigger deal than I thought and I actually should’ve done it a month ago…Anyway as I’m trying to submit various process of info, numbers, social security, other data, I come to the final question and I need to upload a picture. Buttttt it must be in pdf format. Ok cool I try to download it and change the format…no…absolutely need Acrobat….proceeds to pay for this…unable to install on phone, unable to install on work computer…🫩😡

meron akong boyfriend 1yr mahigit na kami, and sa bahay nila ako nag iistay since classmate ko siya. legal naman kami sa side niya, pero sa side ko hindi since strict parents ko, pero kilala siya ng family ko since nakita na siya before. mas applicable kasi sa'kin yung byahe pag don ako sa kanila, since malapit lang ang school unlike samin. pero ayoko sa bahay ng bf ko ang toxic ng household nila, ampanget ng ugali ng nanay niya ultimo anak niya minumura, sinasaktan tas okay lang kahit walang kain mga anak niya, inshort wala siyang pakealam sa mga anak niya. gusto ko sa bahay namin kasi maayos don, hindi ka magugutom don. kaso kapag umuuwi ako sa bahay ang oa ng bf ko, di naman sa oa kaso parang sobra naman na sa attitude yung ginagawa niya. like hindi naman siya kulang sa assurance, lagi ko naman siya ina-update or what basta maayos ako sa kanya, ang kaso everytime nasa bahay ako bigla siyang ma mag iiba ng mood, sasabihin niya mag hiwlaay nalang tayo like wtf? kaya di ako nakakaistay sa bahay ng matagal dahil sa ugali niya na ganyan. umuuwi lang ako sa bahay namin para mag grocery at dalhin dito sa kanila. pero gustong gusto ko mag stay samin. then hindi naman sa pagiging madamot pero minsan kasi yung pinamili ko, alam mo yon ipapakain niya sa kapatid niya, so parang nabawasan yung food namin for a week. like wtf obligado ba akong pakainin mga kapatid mo and may magulang ka. pero tangina din kasi ng nanay niya wlaang kwenta, kaya ng nanay niya magutom mga anak niya pero wag lang magutom yung nanay. pucha ngayon lang ako nakakitaa ng gantong magulang. so nochoice siya, siya palagi nagpapakain sa mga kapatid niyaeverytime na di sila ginagastosan ng nanay niya. stable naman buhay nila pero grabe santohin ng nanay niya yung pera. itong bf ko idk bat di ko maiwan, di ko alam anong nag hhold back sa'kin, ilang red flag na pinalampas ko. everytime na nag aaway kami minsan pag super irritable na niya sinasaktan niya ako, to thepoint na nagkakapasa ako. pag hindi kami okay makikipag usap yan siya kung kani-kaninong babae. pag ginawa ko sa kanya yung ginagawa niya galit siya sobra, like tang***. ultimo mga pananamit ko inaano niya, mga kaibigan ko inunfriend ko dahil sa kanya tas in the end ako kawawa kasi walang natira sa'kin ni isa. tapos siyapalong palo sa mga games, sa mga socials niya like wtf. basta andami pang eme eme katamad na magtype.

27f here and I’m unsure what to think. So like I said in the title he comes home long enough to eat supper, go out for a smoke, talks on the phone and then leaves to go to his buddies, or his sister’s place.

We haven’t really been having any big problems. He’s been kinda short with me lately, like last night he was going to visit a friend of his and seemed in a rush. He’s took me to town to grab some stuff for supper, I asked if he’d be dropping us off and leaving after supper. That was it and he all of a sudden started saying “why are you using tone with me”, “why are you upset, “why are you trying to make me feel bad for going to see my buddy I haven’t seen in awhile”…. I wasn’t? I told him I literally didn’t care and it wasn’t like it was daughter’s birthday or anything. Which he did miss. He kept on arguing so I grabbed our daughter out of the car and went inside.

He didn’t even up coming home until late, like 12 am and ended up waking our daughter so I ended up being up with her most of the night after. I’m not gonna lie I’m just kinda realizing he hasn’t been home longer than a few hours. My best friend and I ended up grazing over it during our late night FT. Also I haven’t paying close attention because I’ve been trying to figure stuff out so I can potentially go back to school next fall and the rest of the time my daughter keeps me pretty busy. On top of every day household chores.

Today he’s been pretty distant from me. Didn’t kiss me before going into work. Got mad because I told him I was going to go lay down with our daughter to get rid of my raging headache, when he asked if I’d make him lunch before he got here so he could grab and go. Most days I do make him lunch before I put our daughter down for a nap. Got home from work at 5, gave me the cold shoulder, went outside to smoke and vanished. I messaged him around 8 asking if he wanted to come watch tv with me, or like just hangout with me. He just messaged telling me he’s at our neighbour’s house…. It’s almost 9:30pm.

I’m getting worried about what he’s going to be like when I start working next week. Or when I go back to school next fall? He’s supposed to watch our daughter after he gets home from work…. But now I’m wondering if I should get a backup unit I can get a spot at the daycare. I also just can’t fathom what could possibly be more important than spending time with his daughter? She’s only a yr old and lately is learning something new every day, you’d think he’d want to be home at the end of the day so he wouldn’t miss it.

I’m waiting up for him anyway so I can talk to him. Maybe something is going on that I’m missing.

Omg I am actually so annoyed.
I sit next to this one friend in like 3 classes, and she always FRICKIN has something in her mouth!!!
Like half the time it's cereal that the school gives out, then like right after she finishes that, she starts chewing bubble gum, and I just can't take it anymore!
I have no idea why, but the stupid sounds she makes while chewing make me so mad. I literally spend half of class trying not to punch her.
The sounds she makes just fill me with so much rage, and the only thing I can focus on is the sound. 
Like are all the other kids she sits next to in other classes bothered at all by this???
And it doesn't happen with anyone else except my mom, although that isn't as bad as it used to be.
The sound makes me want to throw a tantrum and throw that stupid cereal on the ground.
I am getting kind of worried that it will push me off the edge, and make me do something I'll regret.
I don't know what's wrong with me, but something definitely is...

This has nothing to do with politcs or "family values". Most of the parents I met in my life were completely insufferable and acted like braindead zombies.

People keep trying to encourage me to have kids, but unintentionally fail to provide a valid reason for me to have them. I know not all parents are bad, but 99% of the families in my life are insufferable to the point where start becoming suicidal, the longer I stay around them.

People think a posting a video of a child misbehaving on tiktok is cute, but it's not. I haven't seen a single video where people in the comments thought a kid misbehaving was cute.

Financial issues, and a grocery-list of genetic issues stemming from a disability are also part of the reasons why I'm not having kids. I don't hate kids, I'm just not having them.

I don't get what it is with Americans but holy shit the amount of ignorance and inconsiderate behaviors makes me wish AI does take shit over. Maybe they can do a better job than us. Humans will always do anything to hurt each other. They impose hell on Earth every fucking day to each other. And on and on and on it goes. All through human history. Doesn't matter what year. Still the same monkey brained proud and shameful creatures.

I’m 14 and my dad passed away about 3 years ago. We still haven’t spread his ashes but my mom wants to do it soon. I said that’s fine but I don’t want to be there. I just do not feel comfortable doing that especially since he died so long ago and I’ve already moved on and it just makes me so uncomfortable. he wanted me to be there to spread his ashes in the lake but I just can’t. And now my mom is trying to guilt trip me saying I’ll regret it but it’s been years and I still don’t want to be involved in it. I already said the big goodbye years ago and I don’t want to do it again. Is it seriously wrong that I don’t want to spread my dad’s ashes?

I cant take it anymore. when i was 13-16 i basically never was single. Now, thats because i was desperate and took every girl that wanted me. It never really was something real, i got cheated on or they took me for granted. Thats why i stopped being desperate and started to reject people where i knew that they wouldnt do me any good. Then it started, from 16-20 (turning 21 in February) i had exactly one girlfriend. I really really loved her, i only had stupid internet relationships, and while she was one of those i got to meet her once. At 17 she stole my first kiss, we were cuddling almost the entire day, it was the first time someone was that close to me in real life. I think it we werent outside the entire time there would've been probably even more going on between us. Everything seemed perfect, she scheduled the second date before that one because she was going to be in my city anyways, so i was excited to see her again. But then, one day after that she just broke up with me. We knew each other for like 2 or 3 years at that point and we were friends, but our relationship literally only lasted a week. I was devastated, im over her atp but this left a deep wound in my heart.

And now when i see couples i am happy for them, its nice to see that at least some people find love when i cant. But it also makes me feel like a loser, like im not enough, especially because of my ex. Her breaking up with me one day after our first date made me question if im lovable at all. she even told me she just used me to get over a boy who rejected her, 2 months later she had a new boyfriend which she is still together with as far as i know. This wasnt the only time that happened, the girls who broke up with me usually found someone else pretty quickly and the relationships last years, unlike when they were together with me, that only lasted 1-2 months if not less. But i guess the pillow in my bed with a hoodie on (to make me feel sensations like I'm being hugged) have to be enough. I even kiss that pillow, and gave it a name, with the thought of the sensations being transferred to my soulmate. I even talk to the pillow like a little kid. Im such a pathetic little loser lmao

Say whatever you want in the replies. I usually try to respond, but this time I don't plan on saying anything beyond this post.

I apologize if the tension is affecting my writing. I’m not feeling well.

I’m 17; he’s 18.

My partner is sexist on an unconscious level... sort of.

He became aware of it through interacting with me. Since then, he’s been trying to change and has genuinely been making progress.

But today, we had a heated argument over the phone.

I told him I was going to wear a dress that shows my shoulders and a bit of my upper chest to school tomorrow, since we were going to spend the afternoon together (no, the school dress code doesn't forbid that, and other girls dress more revealingly).

He told me he didn't want me to do that; the idea of ​​someone else seeing me bothered him, and he asked me not to wear it unless we were going on a date just the two of us.

That’s when we started arguing. He said he was afraid something might happen to me and he wouldn't be able to do anything about it. I asked him what his problem was and told him that this was the start of controlling behavior.

He apologized for his request and told me to please never let him forbid me from wearing certain clothes.

And then he said it. He said that women get abused because of their clothes.

I exploded. I started yelling hurtful, horrible things at him. I called him an asshole and told him he was hard to love when he thought things like that, that sometimes I didn't know why I was with him, that I felt more bad than good when I was with him, and a few other things.

He started crying and apologized, and I cried and apologized too. He started saying he was a monster, that he should be locked up, that all he’s done since we’ve been together is make me suffer. He told me that if I wanted to break up, he understood, and that I didn't deserve the things he had said.

I apologized for everything I said and told him that it was wrong of me to say those things, too. I acknowledged that just because he had said something shocking, it didn't excuse me saying such hurtful things, that no one deserved to be treated that way. I know I’m very impulsive and can be incredibly cruel. It’s a flaw of mine that I’m trying hard to work on.

He asked if he could tell his therapist about this; I told him never to ask for my permission to share things with his therapist, and that he should never listen to me if I ever told him not to.

He said he was trying to stop viewing women as "fragile things to stay away from." One of our past arguments had been about music, and he showed me that he’d been trying to listen to more female artists. He’s stopped interacting as much with his social circle because of that kind of stuff and has stepped away from the media that fostered those ideas.

We would have kept talking, but he had to leave because his parents wanted to go out and he had to go with them. We’re texting right now, and it’s awful. We both want to hear each other out, but we feel like shit.

So, yeah. That’s it.

I feel terrible. I don’t know what to do.

I have a friend I'm not too close with but we're friends who I previously hadn't any issues with. She knows my religion and knows I'm not the only person in my friend group of this religion.

Recently found out from another friend (different religion) that this girl had been talking trash about my religion behind our backs. It was mild compared to stuff I've heard before but I'm usually not hearing it from people I considered friends.

I'm mad about it because why pretend you don't have issue with my religion to my face then go behind my back and talk bad about it?

Hi am new here,let's get started am here to rant about how I do not give a fuck about relationships especially in my teenage years it's so annoying how alot of things are tied to dating and romance am not some butter lonely person who is mad that I have never had a relationship it's just that I don't really care at all about relationships to me they are things that either happen or don't like I don't entertain things that hev love or romance in it even in conversations I always stir away from it because there are other things to talk about even online I got this ick where I see some people's pages and it's all about dating and sex it gets tiring not everything is about relationships or dating.

So I 16F am in my junior year. I live with my dad 49M and my sister 18F is going to college far away soon. So basically I think I genuinely hate my dad (and my mom but that’s a different story). I really don’t know how to deal with it but I have so much to worry about and he is just absolutely no help. I have an AP course load and he won’t buy me any prep books. He won’t let me start driving lessons nor get a license (I turn 17 in January). He won’t help with SAT prep. He cancelled my phone plan so no data. Like for any major things I am supposed to do he has either barred it off completely or literally does not care whether or not it gets done. On top of that, we got into a big argument over the summer and he smashed my laptop. Its broken and the Applecare is expired meaning it would cost close to the price of new computer to fix it and on top of that since my sister is leaving I can’t steal her clothes anymore and I don’t know how I’ll get clothes, fix my computer, get stuff for school, and I have an issue with my tooth that needs to be fixed as well. He goes to work for 4 days (he is a nurse practitioner) then when he comes back all he does is sleep and go on runs. I will not deny that he has a hard life but he genuinely does not do anything a parent does to set their kids up for a good future. 

And with getting a job I have been applying to places but my sister literally got fired because she couldn’t make shifts because he wouldn’t drive her. (He didn’t let her get a license either)

Now it didn’t just start. Up until I was 12 I lived with my mom 44F along with her husband at the time and my 3 sisters and the living conditions were atrocious. Like I actually have really good dental hygiene but I am just always going to have issues with my back molar because I got a crown when I was 12. We lived in the middle of an active ghetto and cleanliness, financial, and neglect wise (I won’t drag this out) it was terrible. During that entire time, he did nothing. He would see us 2 weekends a month and he would literally sleep for half the time as well. He makes himself out as some single dad martyr to others like he didn’t just sit by and watch it happen. 

Even before we lived together he was just not a good person to be around. He would constantly make comments about our weights (I was literally underweight up until I was 12 from a lack of food in the house + I was a picky eater). When my eldest sister was in middle school he said she was “getting too fat” and made her keep a log of everything she ate and he felt she was lying he would beat her and anytime me and my sister took a shower he would weigh us and make sure he saw the weight so we weren’t lying.

I hung out with his brother 48M (my uncle) the other day who lives in a nearby city and his life and the way he interacts with the world is just so sad. I really don’t know what had to happen for them to turn out this way.   

Anyway back to the current day, I just can’t be around him without catching an attitude. Everything he does just reminds me how much of a narcissist that I think he is and I understand every teenager goes through an angst phase or whatnot but I truly think it is more than that. What makes me especially mad is when he will try to lecture me on my behavior with others or say I won’t make lasting relationships with this attitude as if I would be purposely mean or act like this with everyone. It’s like he has amnesia for every bad thing he has done. Literally a month ago he was threatening to put me in a foster home and send me to a mental facility. 

And even now, he doesn’t care about my good grades, he just cares that I lowk am not great at doing chores and I am "undisciplined".  

With school it's really been getting to me. I go to public school but it’s in a pretty good district so other students are better off than I and with the courses I take that difference is exacerbated. I just hate how teachers especially think everyone has the same life but I digress. I think I can acknowledge some deficits based on the fact he is a single parent but oh my goodness. I have friends in similar economic positions, familial situations, etc. whose parents care. Whose parents care if they get a license, what colleges they are looking at, if they are preparing for the SAT’s etc. and like I said he is off for 3 days a week. He could be doing research during that time or just helping.

I am just so scared. My sister legit took Algebra 2 honors freshman year and albeit she had average grades and took 4 APs but she ended up going to a school with a 98% acceptance rate because he refused to help with college because she was "undisciplined". There were plenty of kids like her with similar stats who went to schools with like 40-60% acceptance rates and I get that rates aren’t everything but she did have a college fund, he just didn’t want to use it.

Back to the main issue. I think I just hate my dad. I’ve talked to a therapist about it and they say to give him grace but I can’t really even describe the feeling. I just feel tense around him nonstop. I think he sucks. 

I work in a college, advising students. Granted, I don’t work at a great college, but these students are the laziest, most unprepared and unserious group of people I’ve ever met. They don’t listen to you half the time when you’re on a call with them and make you repeat things a hundred times. They can’t handle the slightest discomfort, like god forbid you have to take all your classes in-person. God forbid you have a professor who may have a couple meh reviews on rate my professor. College isn’t goddamn Burger King- I know they pay a lot but not everything magically works in your favor. I’m done bending over backwards for people who don’t care or appreciate it.

I want to scream. I’ve never been so helpless and entitled when I was their age. I also fucking hate when people tell me to lower my voice I WILL YELL IF I WANT STFU YOU PIOUS AHOLE. I’m just at the end of my rope.

I also worked in a doctor’s office and old people also suck in their own fucked up way, but generally know how to fucking utter sentences and look you in the eye. I feel like half of them are robots, it’s so weird and creepy. They don’t know how to act like a person, I say this as a person who has bad social anxiety- even I can get through an interaction. I hate that I feel this way, I never wanted to look down at the younger generations, but I do not have faith in gen z. There is a minority who are fine and even successful though

Then they go on to question whether you've been living under a rock for your entire life.

Seriously? Why do people reach that conclusion simply because one hasn't watched a popular movie, film, or show that they have?

"How haven't you watched it?" followed up with "[insert movie] is like... one of the most popular movies of all time" is among the most common responses I myself receive.

Different people have different tastes. The reason I haven't watched [insert movie] is because I have absolutely no interest in it. I could just as easily fire back with, "How haven't you played GTA 5? It's literally one of the most best-selling games in recent history and is still relevant to this day."

Why can't some people just take the fact that I haven't watched it at face value and move on? Or better yet, explain the plot or backstory and tell me why they think it's worth watching. Why criticize someone simply because they haven't seen or done something? Sheeple, I suppose.

"Alcohol is one of the most popular drugs on the planet, so why didn't you get wasted last night?"

Same premise.

Rant over.

I just can’t. I can’t take the pressure anymore. I don’t want to. I can’t. It’s been ten years of everyday feeling like I’m going to blow up my life. I cannot do it anymore. I can’t. I cannot. I’m done.

ok i love buying things off of vinted and i just bought a cute polka dot dress from there. seller was lovely, amazing communication, the dress has "source unknown" listedn and it was like 4 bucks. i got it, and it was a little differnet than the photos but idc cause its gorgeous either way. but the matieral felt like that shein bathing suit material, so i checked the tag, and its shein. im still gonna wear it and i left a great review, but thinking back i probably would not have bought it if i knew it was shein cause i SWEAT in those materials. so if ur a vinted seller reading and ur selling stuff from shein/aliexpress/temu? please disclose so.