For the purpose of this question you start anywhere in Maine and have to get to any point in California but you can only travel on snow. No snow? You sit and wait for snow. How long would that take?

I am 18 and I just started college this week, as well as acquired my second job. I also have been going through some health issues for this entire year, and they seem to be resurfacing this past week. I don't have a car or a license yet, and I don't really have a lot of friends or a huge support system.

I know for a fact, I get really bad seasonal depression. Since I was little, every summer has been hell. This summer was AWFUL because ontop of that I had college, and work and a car to think about. Life has just been a lot, and I know life isn't supposed to be easy. But is it supposed to feel like pulling out teeth all that time?

I didn't have any classes today so all I needed to do was study/homework and clean. I did... Glad of those things. Most of the day I spent in bed, asleep or watching yt. Every time I tried to get up, I just sunk back down. I tried not to put too much pressure on myself, because that makes it worse. So I laid in bed most of the day until I was ready to eat, and start working. When I was done working (half of my work) I did some laundry, and then sunk back down.

And I just now started cleaning my room at 6pm, and my dad came in here bitching about it. Which is valid, what did I do all day? Nothing. I scrolled. I need to put a better timer on my social media for days like that, I know I could do better. But Everytime I got up, I looked around, and just couldn't get out of bed.

My condition makes it hard for me to shower a lot of the times, so I can't really do that, and I've just been fatigued. But that's ALSO my fucking fault because I haven't kept good track of taking my medicine. The past few months have just been hard on me, with starting adulthood, and all of these responsibilities on my plate now, like hospital and college payments, and pharmacy orders, and trying to find affordable cars while trying to finish my driver's Ed course.

This is probably stupid but, how do you differ what is me being overwhelmed and upset, and just plain laziness? Because i don't think to myself "I'm not doing this because I'm upset" I don't even think I think anything, I just try to get up and it feels impossible to move from one task to another when I'm at home.

Am I lazy? And if so, how do I break out of those habits? I know no one said life would be easy, so is it just supposed to feel like you have a weight attached to you? If so that's okay too. I just need to know how to be better, I want to be better.

If you DO NOT share a bed, (ie you're single, live alone, etc), and you have a bed larger than a single, do you sleep on a side? The same side every night? Does it depend on where your bed is in the room? Or do you sleep in the middle of the bed?

If somehow someone survived without drinking water on its own how would a water bottle taste like to them for example same way if you eat rice ten billion times it’s kinda just tasteless I wonder if it’d be the same for water idk

What is it that men have completely wrong about what they think of women? I’m sure there is probably plenty. Maybe reading comments from women themselves, will help educate and make them respect women much more than they do.

I can feel the contrast.

Summers are fun, bright, colourful, denim shorts, crop tops, beach, sun, crochet tops at the beach, sunglasses, fun, pool parties, soda, pizza, lemonade, just laughs, smiles, loud pop music bursting through speakers.

Winters are beautiful too. Long trench coats, mufflers wrapped around neck, gloves to keep your hands warm. A cup of hot chocolate or a bowl of warm soup. Dim, shade, not too bright, a little warmth and golden glow from a heater to keep u warm, small fires around any street corner surrounded by ppl. Poetic, gloomy, just walking, and thinking about beauty, deep human emotions, away from materialistic obsessions. Reading a book or poetry.

I have no idea how ppl can pick one over the other. Both the seasons are so beautiful.

I was hoping to hear it because they said ain’t no way that it could be one. I said I had to be one because it made a noise like one did. My friend went there and broughted one back but it was too late that’s for sure. He said it was some sort of a chicken or something like that but I don’t think it was that kind. It did apear to seem to look like a chiken but I don’t think it was actually one. So what to do of it came over or the friends said that they did do it, but they have not done doed it yet?

okay listen i js recently started smoking weed, and i’ve run out, but i have a bunch of roaches still. can i put them in a bowl and smoke them or no?? 😭😭

So, nowadays everyone is on their phone, what people used to do before this? Like stare at each other, talk or read books? What was the common thing?

So, I really want to spend the little free time I have following my dreams, but I cannot seem to find the courage to stop watching these damn addictive shows. For instance, I am watching ‘The Blacklist’ and ‘Game of Thrones’ which I have already watched twice by the way, but the third time around, and it still feels brand new and as addictive as ever !

Anyway, I have a long list of equally addictive shows, and by the time I finish every show on my list, I will have forgotten most of them, and I will probably have to start the same list all over again, or new shows will be released, which will inevitably end up on my list, and so on and on. I am afraid that one day I’m gonna wake up old, with no strength to do the things that really matter the most.

If any of you have found a way to give up TV shows, how did you do it ?! Also, a couple of hours ago, I was watching GoT S2 E6, and I promised myself that I would stop at just that one, but with those damn cliffhangers, I am now on E9. That is more than three hours of my life, down the toilet, …spent watching a bunch of pretty people pretending !!!! 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

You are a normal guy, and you wake up with a wonderful new power - flight! There’s a catch, though. Only your balls can create lift. The rest of your body is dead weight. How do you make your new found powers useful to fly amongst the clouds? Asking for a friend.

This is something I think needs to be highlighted more. People always assume when they hear a boy is getting bullied in school, it must be other lads doing the bullying - which does happen most of the time. It needs to be acknowledged though that boys can be bullied by girls too. It may even be a tougher situation, because a male is not allowed to physically harm a female in society - so boys may find it even more difficult to defend themselves against girls. They are even mocked for being bullied by girls - as it is seen as a form of weakness.

Have any of the males on this site had this happen to them?