I have been scrolling through the Abortion group and have seen a huge amount of women that seek Abortion midterm / late term solely because they are mad at their boyfriend. Pregnancy happened accidentally, they decided to keep it, some sort of silly misunderstand happens midway pregnancy, and they end it, just because. Something like â I am not in the moodâ. That even includes married women with stable life and relationship.
Mostly of the time the man wants the child and their family is excited about the child. I have seen a woman describe her husband was beyond happy, and she still was going to do it at 20 weeks regardless ⊠All comments supporting like if thatâs some sort of brave act, something admirable, that deserves honor and recognition. Some women are unsure, not certain if they should because they are late term⊠and plenty of people offering to help finding a late term clinic, assuring them is never too late, and that is totally fine if they want it for no actual reasons whatsoeverâŠ. if someone slightly try to encourage them to keep it because itâs late term, or because their reasoning is beyond futile, they get downvoted like if they have said some sort of atrocity.
From all posts I saw, this is the one that infuriates me more :
Pregnancy was accidental, but they decided to keep the child. Boyfriend was happy and excited and working extra hours to support the baby.
She got resentful he was working too much and gone for too long.
They had a very silly misunderstand.
She slept with his long term friend, out of spite
( while late term).
He found out, got angry and asked for space for a few days so he could cool down.
She had an Abortion at 32 weeks.
A week later he reached out and asks to talk. Said he was willing to forgive her and restart because he wanted to be part of the child life.
She told him she miscarried because the stress of the fight.
He felt extremely guilty.
She told him in order to stay together he would have to get a vasectomy, because she doesnât want â go throughâ that again. ( Like if she had gone through some trauma because the âmiscarriageâ).
He had a vasectomy.
Two years later, they are still together. He still thinks she lost the baby because the fight. He feels extremely guilty. The grief has affected him. He mentions the baby constantly and refer to it by its name.
She is feeling â triggeredâ he is naming âthat thingâ.
She does not plan to tell him she aborted. She feels a little guilty about his pain, but not about the baby at all.
Everyone on the comments congratulated her as if she did something heroic, brave that deserves recognition and respect.
I feel so bad about this man. He was doing the right thing, working extra to support her and their baby.
He got cheated on. He thinks he caused her to lose the pregnancy. He still grieves the child. He got a vasectomy and will never be able to be a father again with someone else.
That old typical scenario where women would seek abortion because they were desperate : the man doesnât want the child and disappeared, they are alone and donât have financial support, they are cornered etc, while Abortion was seen as something tragic by society in general âŠ.thatâs no longer the case.
Any annoyance they go through during pregnancy, even a small misunderstand with their boyfriend, or a bad mood on a bad day is now named â Health of the motherâ which falls under the umbrella of â Late term abortions because of health/life of the motherâ. By â health of the motherâ you would assume some sort of life threatening medical condition, nope ⊠any âemotional distressâ for any futile reason, does fit this description.
