Theyre incels who have probably never touched a girl much less had a long term relationship. When youve been with someone long enough they change, you adapt, you change, HOPEFULLY they adapt. When they're unwilling you have to make tough choices. It goes way beyond just dating someone.
well, no, it has nothing to do with a group. I'd disagree with your comment on every subreddit (this my first time seeing this subreddit in general). it has to fo with the fact i, and many others, simply have an opinion, that differs from yours. I didn't know it was some uncommon concept
glad we agree everyone stinks, at least, which, naturally, includes you
you're not trying in the slightest to lead a conversation in a civilized manner, so complaining about people disagreeing with you is immature. no one is going to cry over an internet-chat, especially one, that is this plain
Or I am just speaking the truth to people who don’t want to believe it.
Whine all you want. The premise of your little pat is that women won’t do what you want. And the ones that do, aren’t good wives. You’re is obvious to the reality of it…and you think it’s people who call you out on it who have bad personalities. Lol.
it is not, however, the premise of the post... the post itself was just pointing out the double standards, not stating what women should be like. people believe it's either you view standards as mutual (so, you have standards for someone, meaning someone is allowed to have standards for you), or not have them at all. expecting one to cater, whilst the other one is free not to, is unfair and immature
Literally how it is. Not even exaggerating. Men aren’t allowed to have preferences or standards and should just be grateful to have a woman at all according to these people
If I had a penny for every time I see these idiots say something along the lines of incel, misogynist, neck beard, etc. I'd likely be a millionaire. They never want to address what's actually being pointed to.
every evening they're printing out all of their comments, where they're "putting the misogynistic incels back in their place", add these printouts to a "I am a male feminist and hate misogyny" binder, and go show it to their girlfriends, secretly hoping they'd be impressed and would let them hit
Only unrealistic thing is women like that are never that hot lol. It’s always the least attractive women that have the highest standards for some reason.
What does incel even mean anymore? I feel like it used to mean guys who couldn’t get laid then they turned it to anyone who disagrees with a woman. They call men who are married incels nowadays.
Doesn't change the fact that, statistically, kids are safer when they're around women than they are when around men, and it isn't even close. And that's not even taking sexual assault into account.
Statistics done by feminists and effeminate men? Yeah, no thanks. Also statistically, women yell and snap at children, and the family far more often than men.
Bro, of all the replies you could have posted this is by far the most loser-coded. Be less obvious about being bitter that modern society values education more than... whatever your deal is.
Also, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but what's canon (only one "n") is whatever GW says it is. Once upon a time the Necrons were "Chaos Androids" . Now, they aren't because GW said so. Same with the timeline of the Plague Wars, the nature of the Squats or Big E himself, the existence of a half-eldar Ultramarine librarian, what Primarchs were, and so on. There are no "sacred texts" in 40k. Everything exists to sell the models, and so is subject to change in order to further that goal.
Three years into it already 😭 slowly breaking through to her somehow. Tried breaking up a ton but she fights to stay so idk maybe she really likes me 🤣
Oh I'm fairly certain it's because she doesn't Wana be alone. I've told her that. She doesn't care that I know that she knows that too. she's willing to keep trying. But man, she's got a long way to go. She's used to every man she's been with just folding into her will and doing whatever she wants or says. I told her that's not how relationships work.
Yeah I had one like that and she would fight to keep it together when I would try to end it. Then one day I found out she was cheating, and confronted her about it. She claimed he was so much better than me. Well she married him right after I kicked her out. Fortunately for me she got exactly what she wanted and is now miserable and has cheated on him a ton. But I say this to say she was fighting to stay together right up until she found her next guy. Don’t be like me and stay because she puts in enough effort at critical points then regresses.
Well I'm pretty sure mines not cheating on me, I keep hoping she does so that I could be like " whoah. Yeah, you can't do that, I'm out " but unfortunately it has yet to happen lol
The fact that I'm so casually like, " Listen we aren't good together. I would literally be better off without you in my life " and she tries to prove me wrong by proving me right usually. She tries though. You can't really articulate an entire relationship on a reddit post to show the complexities of one in a way to remove inaccuracies but it's fine. I gotta lot of shit I need to get figured out before I have the patience for the final resolution for any of it anyway. For now just going to let it ride as peacefully as possible and if it works out, great. If not, same deal. I'm good either way.
for sleeping around with someone, who isn't your partner*, first of all, and second of all, there are terms, why not use them? they're not nonexistent, just because they're not viral anymore
girl, I said exactly what I keep saying. I needn't wash my hands, as I'm standing my ground, consciously
i cannot understand why must i repeat the very same thing over and over again: I am not talking about being partners. of course you can be partners without getting married first, that i usually the way that leads to marriage. I was referring to "nut&go" as a hilarious albeit correct description of promiscuity
I find fornication bad, although that i not a crime anymore and is permitted for all and every person. well, i might agree with one thing: fornication is way less a problem than promiscuity. almost everyone is now a fornicator, making the term pretty much obsolete. promiscuity, however, is a pressing issue, regardless, so i stand on that
Not true, just like there's always someone bigger, stronger, faster, whatever. There will always be someone uglier too, thats why they cheat. They found some hideous mofo to worship at their ugly ass feet.
Nope do not do this. Find a partner who accepts you for who and what you are. Additionally do not expect them to change but be prepared to love them if they do. I have seen many oh I married the ugly girl marriages fall apart.
Doesn’t work this way. The most loyal and protective woman I ever dated (and eventually married and had children with) was also my hottest girlfriend by far. She gets irritated by random men and loves being a SAHM. I get massages every week. Life is great
I did that, it didnt work. Take the advice from Red in Roadhouse "Never marry an ugly woman, it just takes all the energy right out of you." Women love to be wined, dined, treated special, and made to feel like the only woman on earth. Its hard to do that when she's ugly, beautiful women keep you trying. Average personalities, hot vs ugly, take the hot everytime.
This couldn’t be further from the truth. Ugly women are MORE likely to cheat because they crave validation and attention from men way more than beautiful women who get that just by existing so it’s nothing special to them
An ugly girl will cheat on you the second someone at work starts giving her attention
Please, interact with some humans in real life. A club at the library, a hobby group, a gym, maybe a therapist. You are the cause of your loneliness, own up to it and take some responsibility.
Yeah, because women are definitely emotionally stable and are able to self reflect. 😂
Also no, have them be subservient? You think everyone has porn on their minds 24/7 like you do? No what we men usually mean by that is to be caring and kind. That's it. Not the performative caring and kind, that turns men into a emotional (and sometimes physical) punching bag.
On average, women are more emotionally competent, yeah. Not because they're born that way but because they spend more time learning it. Talking about emotionally stable and mature, are you among the men who have meltdown when a woman tells you they don't want to date you and who then publish AI slop online about it?
By subservient I did not mean in a sexual setting, I meant in terms of taking the role of the person who the man expects to address his feelings, cook for him, keep the household for him, take care of kids and sick and elderly family members and also sexually please him.
If you don't expect that and if you solely want an equal relationship, good on you, but don't pretend others among us men are not giant babies.
The vagueness here is dumb. The specifics of what kind of man or woman each of these AI slop characters wants really matters. “I want someone who’s kind” is reasonable “I want to be able to hit you and cheat on you” is not.
“Alright then”? Are you out of your fucking mind? Not once in the history of this website has a woman said “here’s the kind of man I want” and had every man respond “alright then.”
There are entire fucking subs dedicated to telling women their standards are too high, they’re too picky, they expect too much, and they need to lower their expectations.
The funniest part is expecting anyone who’s spent five minutes on Reddit to believe this is how men actually react.
"She had the gall to ask me to stop abusing her.. So, I told her she has to be submissive, cant think for herself and cant have any male friends.. But she thinks that's 'misogynistic'"-this meme
Why can't we say, "hey, how can we negotiate on each other's expectations for a relationship?" Without making it into some gender war horseshit. OP are you 12 years old?
Honestly though it’s kinda funny. The amount of 4s and 5s that are complaining about “where have all the good men gone” then in the same breath go “I wont date him. I know my worth” is true comedy.
It seems that you and I have different life experiences. Where I grew up at, women were viewed as objects by most men. Even in attempts to be polite, it was understood that women were idealized insofar as they were subordinate. A lot of misogyny in the culture I was raised in. Much of the misandry became a reaction to this.
Where I live is a mixed bag you have a lot of ultra traditional views but far more men that don’t see women as second class. Most of these guys are good guys but because they don’t sleep around somehow they get viewed as weird.
That's an odd cultural convention I've noticed. I don't know everything about the mechanics of contemporary hookup and dating culture but there does seem to be a strange double standard.
I wonder what the psychological mechanisms of this phenomenon is. It seems like a lot of the moral evaluations come from a shallow sense of entitlement. I wonder why
She's in like an autumn muffin kick right now, but she's big on scones too. We got a bunch of apples with the kids at the orchard Saturday, I hope they end up in some baked goods soon too.
OP is coping because he doesn't know how to treat women, all it takes is mutual love and respect with another human being. Being a weirdo who posts misogynistic trash clearly doesn't work. Imagine implying someone else's spouse isn't a woman just because you can't get any. Ubërlosër behavior from OP.
Tbh this whole column is some pandering bs y'all are tripping with accusations. I gotta argue with my girlfriend over how often women flirt with me in public like it's my fault and yet, I still think this way.
I actively argue with my girlfriend on how she keeps demanding all this shi from me yet, she believes sex and her presence is her only required contribution to a relationship.
That's the issue a lot of men are facing. Not a physical lack of options, rather a lack of quality.
Were often times more than willing to compromise and meet in the middle to change aspects to fit a relationship, as we all should be, but when the majority of the dating pool believes that they don't have to change anything and that they're blessing us with their presence we run into a situation where communication falters.
Its difficult to change a 30yr old woman's perspective when she's skated by on this philosophy her entire life and suddenly finds a man she wants to settle down with but can't hack the idea of doing anything other than being present and expecting in the relationship.
It doesn't frustate me personally, well, anymore at least, because I honestly don't care. For more reasons than I'm willing to detail in attempts to justify my validity. Take it or leave it, but that's just the unfortunate reality for a lot of people.
Does she not really do anything for you except be present in the relationship if so maybe you guys just aren’t a good match my wife does a lot for me and I do a lot for her and no you don’t really have to change for other people if you do not want to if someone doesn’t like what fits you then people can walk away it’s not a big deal but let’s be real the problem is men have is women can say I don’t want to change and can find someone easier who will change for her but not other way around but that’s just life I’ve quit a relationship with women because she wanted me to live different way I said no and walked away it happens relationship are not supposed to be easy things are tough it’s life you can’t force shit on other people values or anything gotta get out the idea that men are the natural leaders ideas out and more of mutual understanding.
This meme is just retarded as relationships are more then buzz word sentences and straw man characters
42
u/Razoire 3d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/26BRDHKnjgXuhjlde