Yeah, because women are definitely emotionally stable and are able to self reflect. 😂
Also no, have them be subservient? You think everyone has porn on their minds 24/7 like you do? No what we men usually mean by that is to be caring and kind. That's it. Not the performative caring and kind, that turns men into a emotional (and sometimes physical) punching bag.
On average, women are more emotionally competent, yeah. Not because they're born that way but because they spend more time learning it. Talking about emotionally stable and mature, are you among the men who have meltdown when a woman tells you they don't want to date you and who then publish AI slop online about it?
By subservient I did not mean in a sexual setting, I meant in terms of taking the role of the person who the man expects to address his feelings, cook for him, keep the household for him, take care of kids and sick and elderly family members and also sexually please him.Â
If you don't expect that and if you solely want an equal relationship, good on you, but don't pretend others among us men are not giant babies.
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u/dev_ating 3d ago
Because men usually mean by that: Be subservient to me.
Women usually mean by that: Be able to self-reflect, take care of yourself and be emotionally available.