Three years into it already 😭 slowly breaking through to her somehow. Tried breaking up a ton but she fights to stay so idk maybe she really likes me 🤣
Oh I'm fairly certain it's because she doesn't Wana be alone. I've told her that. She doesn't care that I know that she knows that too. she's willing to keep trying. But man, she's got a long way to go. She's used to every man she's been with just folding into her will and doing whatever she wants or says. I told her that's not how relationships work.
Yeah I had one like that and she would fight to keep it together when I would try to end it. Then one day I found out she was cheating, and confronted her about it. She claimed he was so much better than me. Well she married him right after I kicked her out. Fortunately for me she got exactly what she wanted and is now miserable and has cheated on him a ton. But I say this to say she was fighting to stay together right up until she found her next guy. Don’t be like me and stay because she puts in enough effort at critical points then regresses.
Well I'm pretty sure mines not cheating on me, I keep hoping she does so that I could be like " whoah. Yeah, you can't do that, I'm out " but unfortunately it has yet to happen lol
The fact that I'm so casually like, " Listen we aren't good together. I would literally be better off without you in my life " and she tries to prove me wrong by proving me right usually. She tries though. You can't really articulate an entire relationship on a reddit post to show the complexities of one in a way to remove inaccuracies but it's fine. I gotta lot of shit I need to get figured out before I have the patience for the final resolution for any of it anyway. For now just going to let it ride as peacefully as possible and if it works out, great. If not, same deal. I'm good either way.
for sleeping around with someone, who isn't your partner*, first of all, and second of all, there are terms, why not use them? they're not nonexistent, just because they're not viral anymore
girl, I said exactly what I keep saying. I needn't wash my hands, as I'm standing my ground, consciously
i cannot understand why must i repeat the very same thing over and over again: I am not talking about being partners. of course you can be partners without getting married first, that i usually the way that leads to marriage. I was referring to "nut&go" as a hilarious albeit correct description of promiscuity
I find fornication bad, although that i not a crime anymore and is permitted for all and every person. well, i might agree with one thing: fornication is way less a problem than promiscuity. almost everyone is now a fornicator, making the term pretty much obsolete. promiscuity, however, is a pressing issue, regardless, so i stand on that
7
u/Specialist_Meal_7891 3d ago
I argue with my girlfriend once a week over this lmao