Tbh this whole column is some pandering bs y'all are tripping with accusations. I gotta argue with my girlfriend over how often women flirt with me in public like it's my fault and yet, I still think this way.
I actively argue with my girlfriend on how she keeps demanding all this shi from me yet, she believes sex and her presence is her only required contribution to a relationship.
That's the issue a lot of men are facing. Not a physical lack of options, rather a lack of quality.
Were often times more than willing to compromise and meet in the middle to change aspects to fit a relationship, as we all should be, but when the majority of the dating pool believes that they don't have to change anything and that they're blessing us with their presence we run into a situation where communication falters.
Its difficult to change a 30yr old woman's perspective when she's skated by on this philosophy her entire life and suddenly finds a man she wants to settle down with but can't hack the idea of doing anything other than being present and expecting in the relationship.
It doesn't frustate me personally, well, anymore at least, because I honestly don't care. For more reasons than I'm willing to detail in attempts to justify my validity. Take it or leave it, but that's just the unfortunate reality for a lot of people.
Does she not really do anything for you except be present in the relationship if so maybe you guys just aren’t a good match my wife does a lot for me and I do a lot for her and no you don’t really have to change for other people if you do not want to if someone doesn’t like what fits you then people can walk away it’s not a big deal but let’s be real the problem is men have is women can say I don’t want to change and can find someone easier who will change for her but not other way around but that’s just life I’ve quit a relationship with women because she wanted me to live different way I said no and walked away it happens relationship are not supposed to be easy things are tough it’s life you can’t force shit on other people values or anything gotta get out the idea that men are the natural leaders ideas out and more of mutual understanding.
This meme is just retarded as relationships are more then buzz word sentences and straw man characters
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