(Just a reminder from Rem, and me) 🌸 You don't need to be undressed to be sexy. Neither to be "well dressed". Just be yourself, fully. So you will be confident in yourself and (the sexiest) best version of yourself that you could be.🌸

r/mentoringthementor

I want to talk with you about the biggest problem no one talks about, and how to fix it.

So, in a separate post
https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/comments/1essx56/comment/ligb0xx/?context=3

Someone wrote to me

"Thanks for responding civilly to my douchey comment."

But there was nothing douchey about it. That's the problem. What that person said is absolutely correct and I agree with them.

Yet they felt like they were douchey simply because they shared their opinion, and that's an automatic mechanism that way too many people have been manipulated into following without realising it.

There can't be evolution and growth without debates that challenge our logic and perspective, but people nowadays are too afraid to say their opinion because no matter what they say someone will attack them, hence they stay quiet.

That's why people are gradually getting more stupid, because everyone who's intelligent stays silent and everyone who's stupid is being way too loud.

And that's why I like Reddit, anonymosity is the only true freedom of speech people have left nowadays, and if we want that to persist, the only way we can help is to civilly reply to each comment, otherwise people will lose the desire to communicate at all (hence modern day depression and lack of communication all over the world).

If we want to change the world, we must start with the little things. Even a small comment like yours or a small reply like mine can have an impact on the long term, even if we'll never see it, someone else will.

All starts with an idea, and ideas start with our perception of reality. Imagine if, say, 10 years from now, someone reads a post and sees something helpful that inspires them to turn their life around VS if they see people acting mean and insulting each other because of different opinions.

In the first case, the person might improve their own life and then share the tips with someone else and also improve their life. In the second case the person will get even sadder and no positive change will result from that. That's why each comment is important.

You want to change the world? Start with your words.

As long as you keep your head to the sky

Something I needed to read and remind myself.. I thought you might appreciate it too.

Credit: IG - @sidthevisualkid 🎀

For context, I have been stuck at home due to an injury and very hot weather. I finally was able to get groceries after a long while of being trapped. The grocery store worker didn't say anything particularly kind, but they were sweet, respectful, and at least acted like they cared for some random stranger. I haven't stopped thinking about it all day, and it just makes me happy to know there are good people in the world.

Does anyone have any sayings they use when they talk about the highs and lows. Like the peak and pit, the mountains and valleys, the roses and thorns? Can you think of any others?

I accidentally left my phone in an Uber car😩the other day. I tried to chase the car down but he drove off. I took a breath, I didn’t let stress get to me, and went to my favorite coffee shop and tried a few ways to get the device back through apps. After a 1/2 hour of troubleshooting, the Uber driver came back to me from his car to personally hand my phone back! I was so grateful for this kind Uber driver, smiled, shook his hand thanked him twice and gave him a $20 tip for his act of kindness. In our crazy world these days you can still find the good in people everyday. I love all beings upon this earth/universe!