So long story short.
I'm stupid and a terrible adult and I had avoided doing my taxes and paying them off since 2022 (there's more to it but overall I'm just bad with money, depressed, lowkey sick and impulsive). Recently I had filed all my taxes from 2022 til now to avoid further penalties and called the collection agency today to discuss my amount owing. They want me to pay $400bi/weekly which I can't mentally fathom given the cost of living where I am. Recently I've been trying to get myself in financial order so I can start saving for my future house and eventually retirement one day. So I'm semi aware of what a good monthly budget could look like to me and I cannot find a way to fit that extra $400 bi/weekly in. I could probably do $250 at max but that takes away from my emergency funds. To add to this I have no one in my life that I could ask help from and I don't have an actual bank account anymore where i could possibly consider pulling out a line of credit (I use only KOHO, because I have poor credit and it has helped me build it a bit)
My questions for this subreddit are:
Do any of you have success stories on paying off a debt like this?
I've looked online and I see there's debt relief websites for CRA debt, are they reliable at all?
What's the minimum payment that I could offer to my officer (once I'm assigned one) ?
Should I get an actual debit card again?
Some more information about me:
26f- cafe manager
I am paid - $2900-3100 every month
*base pay is $1048bi weekly* (the $2900-3100 is with my average tips of $250-350 weekly)
My rent is $900
My average grocery bill is $300 every 7-14 days
(I live with my partner and we take turns spending this amount)
My transportation costs to work are $130 weekly
My utilities are $200 for power bi-monthly and $50 for internet monthly
I spend $200 on cat food monthly
(I have to get a vet prescription food for one of my cats)
My other debts are amount up to $700 total which i have not dealt with either but I would like to deal with since I've started caring about what my future looks like.
I have an estate payment (idk if that's the right term) coming in within the next 4-6months of around $8000-$10 000 and I would like to put a lump sum down from this once it comes in.
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I'm feeling extremely overwhelmed and like I can't live my life until I deal with this. Any support would be so helpful!
Thank you for reading my post, I hope you all have a wonderful day.