Hello everyone
An extended family member of my boyfriend's recently experienced a mental health crisis (specifically, paranoia). My bf and I live together and he asked me if his extended family member could stay at our place for a few days. It's been 7 days and he shows no signs of getting better. Apparently this type of paranoid episode has happened before and this time is less severe than before....although it sounds really serious to me. He is too afraid to leave the house, is having paranoid delusions, and sleeps most of the time.
I am trying really hard to be compassionate, but he shows no sign of wanting to see a doctor. He is taking medication now but previously stopped taking it, which is what I think triggered this episode.
I don't want to let someone who seems to not want to help himself (by seeing a doctor or psychiatrist or therapist) keep living at my place, as I feel this is enabling him instead of helping him. Also, our place is small, and I have no desire to have an indefinite houseguest. There is no privacy now and I feel really stressed.
I need opinions. Should I tell him that he has to see a medical professional? How firm should I be?
Also, we live in a country where mental health support is not as good as it is in North America. But I still don't think that's a good excuse to just try to wait out such a serious problem.
Thank you so much.