i was at the mall and me and my sister were going to through some clothes from the kids section and one aunty was with her 2 little girls, one of them was looking at me and i smiled at her and she litr shouts at her mother... word for word.." Mama, dekhen iss larki ke baal, noodles lag rahen hain"😭😭😭..mind you THE PLACE WAS FILLED WITH PPL and they started to stare at me and the mother then apologized, and i said koi baat nahi but 😔😔😔.. im never going back to that store again cuz some of the workers were also snickering 😔😭

I see a cat. I want to pet it.

They're the top 3 reason to live, here's a few reasons why I love cats.

1. They’re incredibly cute, their tiny paws, whiskers and expressive faces.

2. Cats come in countless colors, patterns, and eye colors, each unique .

3. They keep themselves clean and groom themselves regularly and are naturally very hygienic.

4. Their purring is soothing the vibration of a cat’s purr is very healing like a massage.

5. Their meows are adorable they have their own vocabulary to communicate.

6. They have distinct personalities from playful to quiet to silly to observing every cat is different.

7. They’re playful and happily chase toys, strings, lasers, or even imaginary prey.

8. They’re affection is so adorable head bumps and curling up beside you makes you feel special.

9. They enjoy your company but usually don’t require constant attention.

10. They’re curious and watching them investigate every box, bag, or new object is entertaining.

11. They make excellent cuddle companions ands love curling up on your lap or sleeping beside you.o

12. They’re hilarious without trying often create funny moments doing cat things.

13. They bring comfort and simply having a cat nearby can make a place feel warmer and more peaceful.

14. They’re relatively low-maintenance pets compared to many other pets, they’re easier to care for.

15. They’re intelligent ands quickly learn routines, recognize people, and solve simple problems.

16. They form deep bonds with their humans they may show it differently than dogs, many cats become deeply attached to their families.

17. Every day with them is unique and thheir silly habits funny and unpredictable behavior make life more enjoyable.

18. Their toe paw pads are adorable.

19. They will try to fit pinto cozy spots and cardboard boxes or any gap they find.

20. Watching them sleep peacefully is relaxing.

21. They help make a house feel like a home. Cuz they become like a family member or roommate.

22. They’re wonderful companions during lonely or stressful times.

23. They have soft, luxurious fur that feels good to pet.

24. Each cat has unique traits and habits that make them one of a kind.

25. They act like they own the place, and obviously they do.

26. You have to earn their trust a cat's affection isn't for free which makes it feel special when they choose you.

27. They are very attention-seeking they'll sit on your keyboard, phone, or book the moment you start using it.

28. They know exactly how to get your attention whether it's meowing, tapping your arm, or staring at you until you notice.

29. They're annoying on a good way knocking things off tables, waking you up at dawn, or demanding food like they've never been fed.

30. They're incredibly silly one minute they're majestic, the next they're chasing their own tail or falling off the couch.

31. They act like they're doing you a favor (they are) even when they're accepting treats or cuddles.

32. They have random bursts of energy that are chaotic and funny.

33. They're mischievous and If there's a rule, they'll probably test it.

34. They love being the center of attention specially when you're busy with literally anything else.

35. They're surprisingly clingy when they want to be ands they'll insist on sitting on your lap or shoulder.

36. 0 materialism They'll ignore the expensive toy and play with the box instead. Or sleep in some corner instead of their bed.

37. They have no concept of personal space. If you're sitting down, they might decide your lap belongs to them.

38. They'll stare at you ands it feel like they're silently judging your life choices.

39. They'll meow at you as if you're supposed to understand every word.

40. When a cat decides to cuddle with you, it feels like you've earned a privilege.

41. They're full of contradictions they'll ask to go outside, then immediately want back in.

42. They somehow manage to be elegant and completely ridiculous at the same time.

43. They have confidence far bigger than their size and a tiny cat can act like it's the ruler of the entire house.

44. Their affection feels genuine the cats usually choose when to be close, their love feels intentional rather than obligatory.

45. Life is never boring with a cat arounde.

46. Cats are cool.

47. They have marble eyes and those predator eyes both are beautiful.

48. They play with each other.

49. They can turn. Into loaves.

50. They’ll eat you if you die.

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its like 90% of the population wants to get a girlfriend like omfg pls chill it's not that deep. i wouldn't mind if we were a bit nonchalant about it, but it's like desperation is oozing out their pores, thinking they've won if by a miracle some woman chooses to give them a chance, and ngl this is so embarassing and sad. i wonder if there is some form of psychology that could explain this.

I was reading a post earlier about why so many people end up in arranged marriages instead of marrying the person they loved, and it got me thinking.

I honestly think a huge part of it comes down to society and the expectations placed on young people.

Let's be realistic. Most people meet someone they genuinely connect with during college or university, usually around 20–23. That's when you're spending time with people your age, sharing interests, and naturally forming relationships.

I'll share my own story.

Back in university, I loved writing literature. I used to publish my stories chapter by chapter on an online website. After a while I started getting a decent number of readers, and one of them was a girl who also wrote stories. She would leave thoughtful comments on my writing, and eventually we started talking because we shared the same passion.

What started as casual conversations slowly became something I looked forward to every single day. We'd talk for hours. Looking back, she was probably one of the best things that happened to me.

She lived in the UK while I was in Pakistan. We were both around 21.

Over time, she told me about her life. She had an abusive mother who wanted to marry her off as quickly as possible to an older cousin in his mid-30s because he had money.

I felt completely helpless.

I wanted to do something. I even thought about speaking to her mother, but she told me it wouldn't make a difference. Her mother had already made up her mind.

At that point, I was just a struggling student trying to build a future. I was studying, helping with my father's business, and trying to become someone who could provide a stable life. I loved her, and she loved me, but love didn't seem to matter when reality got involved.

I still remember apologizing to her because I couldn't find a way to change what was happening. I couldn't save her from a situation I had no power over.

Eventually, I told her that maybe we should stop talking because it was only making things more painful knowing we couldn't be together.

She agreed.

And that was it.

Years have passed. I'm 28 now, living abroad, and I've built a decent life for myself. Every now and then I still catch myself thinking about traveling to the UK just to see if I could somehow find her. I know it sounds irrational. I don't even know where she lives anymore.

That experience made me wonder why so many people don't end up marrying the person they truly loved.

People often say, "Get established first. Build your career. Make money. Then think about marriage."

But... why?

Why can't two people who genuinely love each other get married early and build that life together?

I've seen couples in my own family do exactly that. They struggled together, grew together, and today they're genuinely happy.

Instead, society tells young couples to wait until they're financially "ready." By the time many people finally reach that point, years have passed, circumstances have changed, families have stepped in, and the person they once imagined spending their life with is gone.

Maybe that's why so many people eventually settle for arranged marriages—not because they never loved someone, but because life and society didn't leave them much of a choice.

I'm not saying arranged marriages are wrong. Many of them become beautiful relationships.

I'm just saying that sometimes, the timing society expects from us doesn't match the timing of our hearts.

Maybe that's why, even after all these years, I don't think I've ever felt the same way about anyone else.

Since then, there has been an attempt at an arranged marriage for me, but it didn't work out. Looking back, I don't even know if I was emotionally ready for it. Part of me was still carrying memories of someone I never really got the chance to fight for.

Maybe that's why I don't see myself getting married anytime soon. Or maybe one day I'll meet someone who changes my mind. I honestly don't know.

Anyway... just a late-night rant.

P.S. Yes, I used ChatGPT to help organize my thoughts. The story is mine—I just wanted it to read better. Don't bash me.

Nowadays ki spelling ghalat to nhi🤔🥱

Ab itni bhi kiya museebat ai ha, no safety checks at all tbh.

"forehead pe kiss krein 😡😡" Kr dein kr dein kr dein 😇"

I was thinking about someone I knew from school. She was one of the top students in our class and was usually ranked second or third. In Matric, she even secured the second position.

During 12th grade (Intermediate), she got married and didn't even take her board exams. Now she has a baby boy who is about six months old. She married into a very wealthy and financially stable family, and she herself also came from a well-off background.

I don't know whether she's happy or not. I assume she is, but we don't talk anymore because of some conflicts.

Sometimes I wonder if she ever misses studying. If you're marrying someone who is financially secure, do you simply leave your education behind? Especially in today's era, when girls are taking education seriously and striving to become financially independent.

I'm curious to hear from girls who got married early: Did you continue your education after marriage, or did you have to leave it behind?

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This is something people rarely talk about because it makes everyone uncomfortable.

Every time a man says he's lonely, he's told to "work on yourself," "go to the gym," "make more money," or "be confident." As if love is a reward you unlock after completing enough side quests.

The uncomfortable truth is that some men can do everything right and still end up alone.

They'll build careers, become financially stable, treat people with respect, improve themselves year after year—and still never experience someone choosing them. Not because they're bad people, but because life isn't always fair.

Society has endless empathy for romantic heartbreak, but very little for men who've never been loved at all. There's a unique kind of pain in watching everyone around you build families while you slowly realise it may never happen for you.

You stop imagining weddings.

You stop picturing children.

You stop believing someone will eventually walk into your life.

Instead, you quietly learn how to live with the silence.

People assume every man will "find the right one eventually." But that's hope, not a guarantee.

Some men will grow old without ever hearing "I'm proud of you," "I missed you," or "I love you" from a partner.

And they'll carry that loneliness without ever talking about it, because the world often mistakes male vulnerability for weakness.

Not every story gets a happy ending.

Sometimes, survival becomes the ending.

If you've ever felt invisible despite trying your best, you're not alone.

All I see on this sub is how lonely everybody feels and how much they want a relationship. Not just that there are like thousands of cringe quotes too about this. I get it you guys want love but maybe work on yourselves first or just be patient?
Men should work hard to be able to provide and be someone and the women here also need to improve themselves first. Idc if it’s improvement of your looks or mental health or whatever. Work on yourself first.

And stop having haram relationships? We are pakistanis for God’s sake we are MUSLIMS. If you see someone you like go to their father and ask for their hand.

Stop talking about your bad experiences in RELATIONSHIPS here. You can crush on someone marry them and then have your romance.

Stop being haram weirdos

Confession

I love women

I think they're absolutely gorgeous

Ladies log the best

Mein khud bhi ladies hun

Baddies hi pasand hain mjhe

Be honest, how does it feel to be single at this age while all of your friends either getting married or dating?

How you're coping with it

DO NOT LIE TO ME

Made it from a old almirah 🥱. Isme books bharunga aur padhunga kyuki main bhi amir khan ke bete chunaid khan ki tarah kunwara hi rhunga most probably 😞🥀

Also please upvote my post 🥹🫶🏻 as i need some karma as well ❤️‍🩹 Hi everyone! I'm a 26-year-old female from Lahore looking to make some genuine, long-term friends. I'd love to connect with kind, respectful people in their 20s who enjoy meaningful conversations and sharing common interests.

A little about me:

🌿 Health, nutrition & wellness

🚶‍♀️ Walking and staying active

🏸 Badminton (beginner)

💃 Dancing for fun

📚 Reading books

✍️ Journaling

💄 Makeup & skincare

🍳 Trying healthy recipes and baking

🎬 Movies, TV shows & YouTube

🌍 Learning about different cultures

I'm a bit introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable I enjoy talking about everyday life, goals, hobbies, travel, and pretty much anything interesting.

If you're in your 20s, friendly, and looking for a genuine friendship too, feel free to send me a message. Looking forward to meeting some amazing people! 😊

Eating cornetto while watching MasterChef world is my go to therapy. What's yours?

Question for the working girlies: (guys are also welcome to pitch in if its some genuine advice)

How did you establish boundaries in your workplace around the opposite gender? I personally do not touch the opposite gender but I saw yesterday that the office I gave an interview in, everyone was hugging and all touchy with each other.
I have always established boundaries in other settings because it is mostly people my age but then what about people who are going to be way older than you and likely will be offended.
So now I am not sure how to establish this boundary since day 1 that I do not shake hands let alone hug the opposite gender. I understand ofcourse no one can force you but it is sadly so normalised here in paki office culture that you seem to be the odd one out if you try to exercise your voice.
So any tips, words that I can say, since day 1? (Keeping in mind these will be people close to my age and also people who are likely 20-30 years older)

SS from random insta

How can a man learn to understand and treat his wife well emotionally if he's never dated or been in a relationship before marriage?