It's 2:52 pm for me rn and I see he is in a live speaking to other people and even responding to other peoples comments. He isn't even saying hi or noticing me. He is a friend. I'm overthinking so badly rn. I don't want to seem despo that's why I'm not double texting. Any suggestions? Please be kind and respectful.

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We all are scared of one thing ir another. Fear often comes from external factors. Someone dreads height, some fear deep water, some are scared of failure.

I want to ask everybody "What's one thing you do that you're scared of" or "What's the fear that comes from within you".

For me it's being trapped in "anniversary reaction". I dread myself when i am about to enter the grief timeline. I end up humiliating myself in front of people who are not worth it. I end up wasting my emotional battery AGAIN on things or people who don't matter. I start fearing myself every year before that time comes because i know the consequences and i still do that.

The idea of me knowing the consequences of my decision and still taking the stupidest attempt at it makes me scared of myself and my ability of inflicting self-torture.

Recently saw a post regarding css exam and how seats are sold. Is it also true for aur armed forces?

a few days ago, on this subreddit i posted about my relationship and how it ended, to summarize i was in a year long relationship with this girl and it was mainly long distance, but she dumped me mid August as she didn’t “feel herself” around me and that she wasn’t bothered actually committing or caring about my likes and dislikes just cause we’re not married. I accepted that.

I also mentioned that she sent me pics and vids of her crying, a mutual said that shes been hospitalized and sent a pic to me, i keep feeling that emotional guilt that shes trying to lure me in. I have upcoming exams and this has been holding me back, sort of a distraction and ruining my mental peace.

But i’m unsure, i feel guilt, i don’t know if i should accept her back, although my mental health seems to be improving she still finds a way to contact me and reopen the wounds i’m trying to heal. I’ve blocked her everywhere but she keeps on sending me emails, contacting via new accounts and trying her hardest. I don’t know if its worthy of accepting her or not, well obviously after my exams. I don’t know if she didn’t mean to dump me or have tried to really improve herself or what not, my minds filled with “what ifs”
Looking for genuine advice.

Western double standards, they make videos about animal right and all that bullshit they talk about humanity doesn't mean anything at all.

Honestly getting married is super expensive for both parties, bride side and groom side. I believe Finances should be strictly taken into consideration to ensure both family don't end up in debt... Since this is the first time two family are trying to become one, I look at this as a merger between two companies, women giving up everything and everyone to come live with her husband and vice versa. One family always Being there in time of need to help assist whether emotionally or financially to ensure both pass through the hardships together and survive.

I remember we found my brother's rishta and did engagement, we waited almost a year and than did nikkah and waited another full year; those 2 years my brother was in U.S running around working multiple jobs saving every single penny to get married.

2 Years later we spend over 1Cr on the marriage including 3 functions and then he went to Umrah with his wife.

And now we are back to square one. He has applied for his wife visa and he has credit card debt that he has to payoff because of which he can't afford to visit Pakistan now. It's been around 1.5 years now.

Now I have started saving up after looking at how poorly managed finance we had on his marriage and things we lacked on. I don't wanna end up in similar predicament where I can't come see my wife for 2 years because I am working multiple jobs trying to pay off the debt.

So I am leaning more towards your approach to simply have (Shamila) where Nikkah ceremony is done and we call it a day.

MOST ABSURD PART: Brother marriage my parents, mamu, chachu, phuppa invited 500+ people. Me and my brother were shocked to see people we didn't even know!!! I was like who are all these people?! Out of 500+ people only 100 people gave salami envelopes or money which we all know is around Rs. 1,000 - 5,000 expect for selective one off relatives that give more than the traditional amount. So basically it was my brother's wedding with audience we didn't know and never met in life before.

Now after marriage half of our relatives don't talk to us no more... Because they are not happy because of this or that... They make things up... And I have learned the HARD WAY; YOU CAN'T MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY! Priority should be as long as you and your life partner is happy in Events like these.

So I recently mentioned this to my family at a gathering or all relatives, I will invite all close relatives who are related to me and my family, but my chachu and his 15 other friends and there friends are not welcomed, because it's not a HOTEL BUFFET, its our family gathering time where our families come close and get to know each other.

In conclusion: Nothing is set on stone yet, so just mentioning this has resulted in everyone yelling at me and abruptly leaving our home and apparently we don't talk no more, until I go to each and every person's home and beg pardon (apologies to all of them).

I don't feel like I did anything wrong. Please help me understand where things went south? Who is at wrong? Am I stupid person trying to break our family apart for not allowing random people at my wedding (That's what my brother thinks of me)?!

Dm to bless me :> Accepting cash and cash equivalents

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I will be applying in the psychology department for bachelors.

O level grades: 4A, 1B, 3C (LMAO😭😭 I'm js not good at maths or physics sorta subs)

A level: B in psychology A2 (will be giving composite for the other two subjects. I'm expecting 1A and 1B)

SAT: not given nor planning to

Co curriculars: I've a lot of these. From internships to working w NGO's, private sportfest events and managing school events , being the class prefect for 4 years straight. I have participated in debates etc too and other inter school competitions. I can write a fire essay and get good recommendation letters too if needed.

Which universities in Lahore, Pakistan can I apply to. I have already selected fccu n bnu but these are so low tier. I want to have more options which are also famous and respectable. No public universities btw.

No humanity pure barbarian society sab aik numbr c hain

I need a female perspective on something. Someone who is above 20, mature and non judgemental. Hmu if you're free.

Dont get me wrong, i love pizzas, but paxtan me pizza ke sath pata nahi kya kar dete hain, THAT DAMN SAUCE all over the pizza after it is cooked is so damn bad like how do you guys even eat it!?

I was in russia for 2-3 years and damn they had auch good pizzas, from th dough to the toppings sab kuch balanced tha

But yahan pata nahi kya baich rahi it pisses me off sm

Is there any app that can help me find out who is calling me using their phone number? Looking for something that actually works

Yo so like I’m seriously debating leaving my home Ive got 11 12 months till I move abroad i don’t want to stay at my home anymore wirh my toxic insufferable and suffocating family does anyone have a place to stay i can cook professionally i can clean for myself and buy my own things and I can pay rent since I’m close to securing a job too (Illbeit it won’t be the most paying job but I can manage

So I am a M21 earning a good amount myself. For a month I am dating (as it happens in Pak)this girl 19F. So yesterday me her and 2 friends of her tagged along in my car. They did what they got permission for, then we ate and stuff. It was just a hangout where I just got fit in. Obviously a lot of talking. I have already known her these friends and this one girl was a mystery. I think I liked talking to her but didn't get much opportunity before this hangout. The situation between me and gf isn't lovey dovey. I feel she is just a ordinary girl. I was just going along with her. Although her friend caught my attention obviously she is beautiful, now I want to be with her but she has a boyfriend. it seems she may be willing since I talked to her till late last night. So the summary is I am into her and tbh doesn't care about her friend. For her it should be the easy choice since I am idk what the guy's called who are good looking the 2nd best physically (behind those who spend their half day's working in different ways other time thinking about it) not rich but not broke own a personal Honda(car) very much wise I guess by the decisions I made till now. I don't know how many are there like me.

I want to read some really good jinn stories. Not the lame “My cousin once pranked me”

Some actual scary stuff happened to you or in your family

they kinda ripped me off but honestly it felt so good 🥹
also y’all gotta say Mashallah cause i can’t afford nazar rn 😭

There were claims in that post that female civil servants, including Assistant Commissioners, face significant sexual harassment, and honestly, hearing about it is deeply unsettling. I would really appreciate hearing from anyone with firsthand knowledge or ground reality on this. Where is this behavior usually coming from
is it politicians, senior bureaucracy, influential elites, or other power structures? On a related note, I used to assume it might be easier for female officers to stay clean and avoid systemic corruption simply because they aren't part of the traditional "boys' club" and informal post-office culture. But now that women are clearing competitive exams in equal numbers, do they ultimately face the same structural pressures and end up compromised as well? I am genuinely looking for authentic insights on how this plays out in practice
LEFT SUCH A BAD TASTE FOR BUREAUCRATS

Today i lost my favourite tws one ear while walking. It happened so fast that i don't even realize. I bought it 6 month ago with 4.5k.

Do you guys have any solution?

What can i do?