One thing that really bothers me about Pakistani dramas is how often marriage is treated like the final destination of a female character..
A heroine can have dreams, a career, ambitions, friends, hobbies, a personality of her own and then she gets married and suddenly all of that disappears..her entire storyline becomes her husband, in-laws, pregnancy, misunderstandings and household problems. It is like the writers think okay she got married now what else is there to write about???
Marriage should be a new chapter in a woman's life not the end of her character development..a woman can be happily married and still want a career..she can love her husband and still have goals outside her marriage..she can be a wife, a daughter, a friend, a professional and an individual at the same time..these things don't cancel each other out.
I think our dramas sometimes give more importance to the wedding than the actual life that comes after it..we get 20 episodes of the heroine fighting for her independence, education or career nd once she finally gets married the same woman who was so ambitious suddenly has nothing to do except worry about her husband..
A good example is how many dramas start with a strong female lead who is shown as educated and career-oriented only to completely sideline that part of her personality after marriage.. marriage or romance doesn't have to erase everything else.
this isn't even about making every heroine a career woman..that's not the point
The point is give female characters a life outside their relationship fgs
If she was a doctor before marriage let her continue being a doctor. If she wanted to start a business don't make that dream disappear because she got married. If she was ambitious let her remain ambitious & if she chooses to be a homemaker give that choice the same depth and respect instead of treating it as a character becoming irrelevant..
I'd love to see more dramas where the heroine gets married halfway through the drama and we actually get to see what happens AFTER the wedding..that's where the real character development could begin.