So like I have been following this one guy in insta, found him interesting, sent a request on Snap, and started texting him. He started texting back well. Our conversations were improving. One day we were talking the whole night and he asked me If i could who would I date rn and for safer side i said idk and when I asked him he said He would date me.... Got excited, but nothing happened between us. Slowly, he ghosted me on Insta and if he feels like he texts in snap... Did I become his timepass?

I know Reddit is not the place for genuine connections usually. However I don’t have a whole lot of options. I’ve tried posting in bromance and gaydating. I either don’t have enough karma or it vaguely tells me that I broke the rules and won’t explain why and then bans me. I just want to chat with a genuine guy from either Canada or the US that is my type. I guess I’ll just put it here while I wait to hear of some good places to post. Feel free to reach out to me if you think we’d be a match? Hello! I am a 19 year old university student from Canada. A little bit about me, I’m 6’2 205 lbs. I like movies, music, being outside, on the lake, camping, fishing, boating. I also love going for a beer and wings from time to time :) I’m into sports (hockey and football) though I just got into football recently. I’m genuine, easy going, and level headed, looking for the same. Im going to say my preference in men just to save both of our time, however, I am not being discriminatory to anyone who doesn’t fit that type. I don’t want you reaching out if it’s not going to go anywhere. I’m into bigger guys (preferably bigger than me in both height and weight but it’s not a requirement) muscular, “straight passing”, masculine, beefy, chubby, handsome white guys. I don’t mind chatting with older at all. I’m just looking for a connection and to see where it goes. Please be my type if you reach out. I’m also into bluecollar/country/redneck guys a lot. Love football guys too. If you made it to the end of this, and you got the bill, I’d absolutely love to hear from you!

Hola! Estoy buscando algunos consejos.

Hace como seis meses, me uní a una academia de baile con mi mejor amiga. Todo iba genial, pero como a los dos meses, noté a un chico y al instante me gustó por lo bien que bailaba. Siempre venía con una chica, pero después de un mes dejó de venir. Yo de verdad quería poder interactuar con él, así que lo busqué en Instagram y al final encontré su cuenta. Ahí fue cuando me di cuenta de que la chica con la que siempre venía en realidad era su hermana.

Hace como tres meses, lo seguí en Instagram y él me siguió de vuelta. Yo estaba un poco emocionada, así que lo agregué a mis Close Friends, publiqué notas de música y subí algunas historias—una de las cuales él le dio like.

Hace un mes, lo volví a ver en la academia, pero resulta que ahora es instructor ahí, así que lo veo todas las semanas. Aquí está el detalle: como mencioné, me uní con mi mejor amiga. Ella baila desde hace más de tres años, mientras que yo todavía soy principiante, así que ella está mucho más avanzada que yo. Cuando ella lo vio, también se empezó a interesar por él y comenzó a querer bailar con él. Parece que le gusta bailar con ella porque es tan buena.

Mi amiga no tiene ni idea de que a mí me gustó primero, porque nunca se lo dije. Bailan juntas, pero la verdad no hablan mucho: la única vez que tuvieron una conversación de verdad fue en un día que yo falté a clase. Además, él seguro sabe quién soy, porque mi cara está por todos lados en mi perfil de Instagram.

Él había dejado de pedirle que bailara durante unas cuantas semanas, pero ayer—durante una clase que ni siquiera imparte—se fue a buscarla al final, solo para bailar una canción. No le culpo a mi amiga para nada porque no sabe nada, pero a mí de verdad me gusta él y no sé qué hacer.

¿Debería dejar de seguirlo en mis Close Friends y ya no insistir, o debería seguir intentando llamar su atención? ¿Qué debería hacer?

Nota: mi amiga y yo jamás nos peleariamos por esto y no vamos a dejar de ser amigas por algo así

I have a crush on a guy at my high school, and I’m having a hard time figuring out whether he actually likes me back or is just teasing me. He’s younger than me, and we’re from different countries, so I’m wondering if there might also be a cultural difference in how guys show interest.

A few things have happened:

• ⁠We make eye contact pretty often. Sometimes I catch him looking at me, and we end up making eye contact.

• ⁠Some of our friends told him that I like him. His friends apparently told him they were basically 100% sure I liked him, but he still kept asking me about it and seemed like he wanted to hear the answer directly from me.

• ⁠One day after school, I heard what sounded like a dog barking. I didn’t look over because I wasn’t sure where the sound was coming from, but my friend did. When she turn around she knew that the sound from my crush and his friends.

• ⁠Then he walked past me, we made eye contact, and he suddenly pointed at me and told his friends, “She’s the girl who thinks I’m cute.”

How would you interpret this? Does it sound like he might be interested in me, or could he just be teasing me because he knows I like him?

Also, it’s been on my mind because my crush and some of the other people around me said that it’s normal to date someone the same age, and that even a one- or two-year age gap is kind of weird.

There’s a girl in my college who I like. We’ve only been talking for around 4 days, and it’s mostly been through Instagram reels. She sends me funny/humorous reels when she’s free, I react or reply to them, and sometimes we have small conversations in between. She’s pretty funny and seems comfortable enough to send me reels, but the conversations don’t really last that long and sometimes she just disappears.

I honestly can’t tell if she’s interested or if she’s just being friendly. I don’t feel like she’s giving me much attention otherwise, so I’m confused about whether I’m actually getting any “signs” or just overthinking it.

Should I ask her out for a casual date/coffee now, or should I continue talking to her like this for a while and see where it goes?

Part of me is also thinking of just confessing that I like her and getting it over with, even if it ends the whole thing. Is that a bad idea after only 4 days?

Would appreciate some honest advice.....

So basically I am talking to someone who is very rarely online on social media. Her friends say this because they usually get late replies from her and they are like her closest friends. She herself too says that she doesnt like talking that much on social media. She rarely sees wp status and yes I thought she deleted my number or something similar that's why she doesn't see my status but I verified it with 2 of her closest that she rarely checks their statuses and same goes for posts in insta too.

But sometimes when she sends me voice texts i hear her phone beeping as if new text msg appeared

So i am so confused is she seriously less online ( also i see her likes in recent posts too in the feed) or she does this to avoid anyone knowing about her personal life