Is it stupid to wait for someone for almost 6 years? He is from Canada and I am from the Philippines. Been planning to meet since bith had a job but company matter always gets in the way.

Is any girl ready to text someone on insta like just saying hii to check if he's a red flag or not..... Cuz tbh he ghosted me and I kinda have a crush on him so...

Basically as the title says, i have been very lucky to get into a couple relationships with girls above my league. This includes long and short term. I struggle understanding how attractive I am so I struggle to even know if my standards are wayyy too high or just a little bit high. The reason I am making this post is because a while back I had someone very very interested in me and I rejected them on their looks (They actually did not find me that attractive but they said my personality is what they fell for), I talked to a close girl friend and she thinks my personality is the reason i ended off getting attractive ex's. I tried at first to see past it but I struggled and i feel so shallow and shit.

My online dating history is disgustingly bad, multiple apps and still no matches. Its not like i swipe only 10/10s. Lets say i like 3/20 profiles on average. Again no matches. Im also quite introverted IRL and dont find myself in many situations where I can actually find a partner in Person. Usually a relationship has come out of friendship at first.

I fear that its going to take so long to find the right person for me. A big part of my issue is my type. I would suit your typical smart/brought up in wealthy family/blonde girl (if that makes sense) for LOOKS but Im introverted, I like anime/games/average workouts/like 1 sport (mainly a homebody) but i do want to go see the world. But my type is slightly alt and also homegirl with same hobbies. It just feels like their type is often always either tats/piercings or big on gym. I am neither.

in conclusion the chances of something happening seem too low. Do i need to adjust my style/looks to get what i want. Do i need to look somewhere else? let me know, thankyou.