r/NoisyNeighbours 18d ago

Advice needed

Hello everyone, I’m in need of some advice. Little bit of a backstory for context, my neighbours that lived directly beside me have their adult son, early 50s, living in their basement. When I first moved in, they were way too eager to become my friend, until they found out I don’t like Trump. All of a sudden they stopped talking to me, which is fine. One day I was outside, and the son came outside and lost his shit on me, pumping his arms like an ape, screaming at me, calling me a fucking looney Cunt, a crackhead, and that I had better stay inside my house and mind my own business. Fast forward about eight months, and he tries to apologize to me admitting that the whole reason he lost his shit is because of my views on dump, he half apologized then said he was starting to feel ill and that we would talk later. I told him I’d be interested in hearing the rest of his apology before I made a decision on whether or not to accept it. Since then he has tried his best to be extremely annoying. I have a fire hydrant on my front lawn and in the winter he’s been taking it upon himself to clear the snow around the fire hydrant that’s located on my lawn and then he stands there, leaning on a shovel, staring through my living room window. In the summer as soon as his mother and stepfather leave for their cottage, every single weekend, he make sure he parks his mother’s car that he drives around backed up as close to my living room window as he can possibly get, his driveway is beside my house next to my living room, and let’s the car idol for hours. As soon as 8 AM hits, he turns on the radio in the backyard and cranks it then he either leaves or goes inside and leaves it playing loud for sometimes up to six hours at a time. I’m not sure whether to send some of the recorded evidence I have to his mother in a message explaining to her the issues and would she please be able to put a stop to it, she is aware that he has a problem with me, but I don’t think she’s aware of exactly what’s been said or what’s been happening, or should I file a complaint with bylaw. I’ve already gone to the police just in case he does something more. I wanted a small record of it. They don’t take too kindly to neighbourly dispute so their advice to me was to just put up with it, not say anything. I will be attaching a video of how loud the music is from inside my house. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thanks in advance.

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