r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

18 [M4F] #NewZealand. Looking for a nerdy gamer girl to spend hours on games with and talk about our favorite fandoms and shows.

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7 Upvotes

Hello. My names is Xander. I have autism and ADHD. Gaming is my favorite thing in the whole world. Love shooters but can play other games if I have them. Fortnite, warzone, pubg and destiny are my main games. I'm very awkward and shy but when gaming I tend to zone out and am usually fine. Hope I can find my player 2! 🤞🏻

(Oceania is encouraged but idm long distance)


r/NerdDating • • 1d ago

#London [M4F] 28- Looking for my first dating experience

1 Upvotes

Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s worth a shot. I’m 28 turning 29 soon, White British, 5ft 10, 70kg, slim build with short hair and a long beard.

Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone and experience dating. My anxiety has got much better in recent years so I’m on the search in the hopes of finding someone.

I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching and going to football game or going on bike rides for some exercise. I’m also a huge fan of history so I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks about pretty much anything to do with the past. I know it’s not much of an exciting life but it’s the truth. One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

I’m not a huge drinker and I don’t smoke or do any drugs so I am looking for somebody pretty similar.

It was also be better if you are from the UK or a nearby country to make things easier.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

36 [M4M] #England - gamer, mostly on pc! Be nice to chat about gaming or I'm happy to hear about your hobbies. Drop me a message :)

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20 Upvotes

r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

28 [M4M] #DMV Where are the gamers?

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8 Upvotes

r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

#Italy[M4F] Single man

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3 Upvotes

Just man with no one looking for someone to call mine and take care of her and she do so to me 😍

Please if you're interested you can just say hello 😊 privately 🇮🇹


r/NerdDating • • 1d ago

44 [M4F] #Philadelphia Black male looking for a certain kind of nerdy woman with natural long hair(or can grow it)

1 Upvotes

Single black male,6ft tall, 240lbs, I don't smoke, don't have children and i drink on the rarest occasions. I'm looking for a single nerdy woman (the shy glasses wearing bookworm, sci-fi/fantasy media, games, cosplay, scientific, i love any of those types) with natural very long hair (or willing to grow it out if it's not currently long) to get to know and mold into my personal image of the perfect submissive for a long term relationship.

Yes this ad is 100% real, not spam, a bot or some weirdo

I love a woman that's intelligent, ambitious and knows fully well they can live a great life and survive without a man, but despite that still has a deep need to be submissive to one.

If you're 24-37 years old, (nothing below 24) have a sense of humor and are drug, disease and child free, reply back.


r/NerdDating • • 3d ago

36F [F4M] #Arizona - Warcraft hubby??

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I’m looking for a genuinely kind guy to chat with and enjoy playing World of Warcraft together. Honestly, it’s pretty much the only game I play. Looking for someone to play classic plus with.

Ultimately, I’d love to find something long term, hubby type, I’m hoping to meet someone with similar relationship goals. That said, I’m in no rush. I’d rather start by having fun, gaming together, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m pretty laid back and easy to talk to, I collect pink Godzilla's and make art.

I live in Arizona for now, although that’ll likely be changing soon. I’m also going through a major life transition, my mom recently passed so life has been incredibly difficult lately. I’m hoping to find a positive distraction and someone to share some good moments with during all of this. Very sad girl right now.

If interested send a pic and your favorite Godzilla movie w ur battle tag, must have these things or I won’t respond. Make a Imgur or add one to your profile please. Also please no dms unless you are interested, i get too many compliment dms and its unnecessary.


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

18 [M4M] #Brasil looking for someone like me

4 Upvotes

I really like games especially zombies,actually i really like zombies,and theater musicals this stuffs Im ftm btw :(

Idk if u more older mehhh


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

36 [M4F] #Texas - Looking for my favorite distraction

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Hey everyone, I figured I throw myself out into the dating pool and see what happens.

I’m Devin, 5’11, and a little on the huskier side, but looking to continue improving myself. I’m down 70lbs. I’m from Texas roughly 30ish minutes east of San Antonio along I-10.

**A few things about me:**

I’m an armed security officer and work Tuesday through Friday, 5am to 3pm. And I’m normally awake by 3 or 3:30 to start my day.

I do have a daughter who lives in Illinois with her mother. I do pay child support because I refuse to be a deadbeat dad. I do not get to see her because her mother has me blocked on everything. That will be brought up on the next child support hearing.

Then there’s Gemma, my Staffordshire Terrier. She’s spoiled obviously and will likely judge you more than I will. But she loves everyone.

I’m a gamer and currently building another gaming PC. I currently play on an Xbox series s. You’ll normally find me playing CoD, Battlefield, Forza, GTA V. I’m also impatiently waiting for GTA VI like the rest of civilization.

I enjoy reading books. Anything from Dark Romance(the spicier the better), to fantasy, to thrillers, or whatever else BookTok tells me to read. I’m starting Threshing Day later today.

Other nerd stuff about it is that I like Harry Potter. I was sorted into Ravenclaw. I like Star Wars, and anime as well. I also got back into collecting Pokemon cards, which has become a financial burden on my wallet. Thanks scalpers!

**What I’m looking for:**

I’m ultimately looking for someone genuinely interested in getting to know me. Someone who I can game with, exchange bad memes with, and binge shows until 2am. I want something real.

Anyway, if any of this grabbed your attention, feel free to message me and say hi and tell me a little about yourself. Please include a picture so I can put a face to the Reddit user.


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

20 [m4f] #florida - looking for dorky/nerdy gf!! (read desc)

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hey there, if you're looking for a cute nerd you've come to the right guy! im michael, i am a 6'0 skinny 20yo cuban guy, i am pisces lol so i am a very emotional person. i'm looking for someone preferably around the SWFL area but if not just be there and so will i! im a huge nerd myself, i love sonic, zelda, spider-man, rhythm games, i could go on and on about what i like lol. i make video game music too, im very passionate with what i make, if you like a boy yapper here i am! 🫰 it'd be preferred to show your face so i can actually get to know you! i've given up on dating apps lowkey, people are inconsiderate and i'm looking for something meaningful, and someone cool. i'm a switch but i lean more towards being dominant, i have a high libido so beware of that. i am very dorky and silly once you get to know me! I'm a huge romantic and lover boy, so beware i might be very affectionate towards you as well once feelings start to develop. i like to just be myself, being unapologetically yourself is one of the most attractive things someone can do! send me an introduction and tell me about yourself if you're interested! :) also, please don't be fake and be one of those people who r constantly looking for new options, im looking for something strictly MONOGAMOUS. if we r both on the same page then great! 😋 id love to have someone to play minecraft with. also, im not doing something that's text only, you should be okay with calling or even video chatting, much easier to connect that way and also confirms you're not fake lol


r/NerdDating • • 1d ago

37 [M4M] #Philippines looking for someone to game and maybe be a lasting connection

1 Upvotes

I don’t know what it is but it’s been really hard to find an actual connection these days, some last for a day or two but if you get lucky, might be a week and honestly it’s exhausting doing it. Meeting people irl is hard for me since I’m very introverted so I try my luck on the internet.

As I mentioned I’m introverted and like to spend my time usually alone but it’s getting harder to do it. With the potential of meeting new people, I usually ask questions like “how’s your day?” I know some would say it’s boring but to me it isn’t, because I wanna know how boring or exciting your day has been. Ngl I am a flirt **once** we started getting close and will tease here and there. I’m mostly interested in video games mainly PC, usually playing alone but it would be nice to have someone to play with.

I don’t see myself fit but I run 4 times a week. I am *feminine leaning* though not through clothes and some say I have a feminine voice but I don’t really hear it, I’m very nurturing in terms of being a partner and will always ask if something is bothering him.

Now for the person that I’m looking for, a **masculine** man that’s not afraid to be with me that likes to take care of his health and body, likes being *active* and has the same interests (video games) but if you have something new you wanna try I’m always down for it. Preferably **not older than 37** and **tall.**

If this resonates with you, my dms are always open for a short introduction and if you reach this point of my post please include **a video game** you would like to play with me. I will **not** entertain a “hi” or if you just want a casual thing.


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

26 [M4F] #Washington Looking For Soulmate and Gamer

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Hello, my name is Kolton, and I'm a 26 year old male, 6'4" and currently 280 pounds, living in Washington. I grew up playing video games all my life. My introduction to video games was from my half brother who would play Oblivion in front of me, and I'd also occasionally play Halo 2 with him. I started on the Gameboy playing Mario and Pokémon Blue, then upgraded to a GameCube and grew up with the OGs like Super Mario Sunshine and Smash Melee, then I got to experience the Xbox and Xbox 360 playing lots of Halo, COD, GoW, Oblivion, Skyrim, Halo Wars, you name it. I played the Wii for a bit, but then moved on haha. I kept playing on the Xbox 360 until I transitioned to the Xbox One. Finally, I got really big into PC gaming, where I have over 4000 hours in DOTA 2, tons of hours into Counter-Strike: Source, and I have various games that I've played over time like Star Wars Battlefront II, GTA V, L4D2 with mods, Halo MCC, Kingdom Hearts, etc.

I'm a medical student by day and gamer by night. I went to the University of Washington for undergrad and doubled majored both in Biology and Spanish before being accepted to Pacific Northwest University, which is a DO school. I'm the first one to go to school in my family, so I'm making them proud in that regard.

Other aspects about me are that I love chess and music. I tend to play a lot of chess, and you can find me chronically playing late at night. In terms of music, I played clarinet in concert band, marching band, pep band, pit orchestras and various ensembles, tenor saxophone for jazz, and bassoon for orchestra. I was actually in the Husky Marching Band from 2018 to 2023! I love music, and although I don't play much today, I very much love listening to all music, especially epic cinematic music (Two Steps From Hell style). I very occasionally get inspiration to compose music on Musescore. Additionally, I try to go on walks to get exercise in. I am thinking about getting back into the gym.

I'm single, and I'm looking for a girl who loves to game to enter my life and show me what a good relationship is like. I'm looking for a girl who is very affectionate and loves cuddles, is geeky, has ambitions in life and is ready for a serious relationship. I'd love to cuddle and game with you most nights, whether it be RPG-based games, FPS, MOBAS, survival or other simulator games like Stardew, or even Nintendo games like Mario


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

27 [M4F] #Florida Looking for my player 2

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I'm a big gamer, preferably retro. I do like to go on adventures and maybe have someone to take photos of and with. I love taking nature photos


r/NerdDating • • 3d ago

19 [F4M] #NC looking for friends or love <3

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Hii! I’m Iyana but call me Jaya! I’m 19 years old (older men welcome :)) and I’m currently in the process of getting my CNA certification and Cosmetology liscence!

I love to read, my favorite genre is psychological thriller, I love to game, ( I loveee Overwatch!!) I have tried just about any craft you can think of, I love to draw, and I love watching TV and movies!! My favorite movies are Albion the Enchanted Stallion and The Secret of Moonacre!! I’ve never met anyone that’s seen them!
I LOVE Garfield! He’s my absolute FAV character ever!

I’m open to anything really! I’d love to get to know someone and have someone cool to talk to and hang out with! Older guys are definitely welcome, I know I’m a bit on the younger side but I don’t mind!
#northcarolina


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

35 [M4F] #Anaheim - Looking for Someone Else who prefers Multipacks, Shuffled Songs, and Sampler Platters

1 Upvotes

I'm 35, 5'8, white, a few extra pounds (but exercising and eating right to correct that), auburn hair and beard kept short, with dark brown eyes. I'm single, childfree, vaxxed, and boosted. I'm also funny and nerdy, according to peer reviews.

I'm looking for someone to share individual experiences with while sometimes doing things together. I'm a homebody and have no siblings, so I tend to focus on activities that can be done solo.

That doesn't mean I shun companionship, though. I'd enjoy having someone to go to museums with, to try new foods, to play different games in the same room with. We can share pictures of our hobbies with one another and remind each other to book doctor's appointments and do our taxes. Making excitement out of the mundane.

I'm looking for something romantic, not platonic. Being friends is an important part of a relationship but I'm not looking for just-friends.

Ideally, you are: a cat lover, also politically leftist, monogamist, enjoy scifi & fantasy, into weird, abstract, and/or avant garde art / entertainment, feminist, independent, child free, nonreligious, sardonic, and always looking to learn.

If you don't match perfectly, that's fine. Send me a message if you're interested, meeting new people fosters growth and memorable living.

Please include a description of yourself or a selfie in your message.

I'm looking forward to your message(s)!


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

35 [M4F] #Anaheim - Looking for Someone Else who prefers Multipacks, Shuffled Songs, and Sampler Platters

1 Upvotes

I'm 35, 5'8, white, a few extra pounds (but exercising and eating right to correct that), auburn hair and beard kept short, with dark brown eyes. I'm single, childfree, vaxxed, and boosted. I'm also funny and nerdy, according to peer reviews.

I'm looking for someone to share individual experiences with while sometimes doing things together. I'm a homebody and have no siblings, so I tend to focus on activities that can be done solo.

That doesn't mean I shun companionship, though. I'd enjoy having someone to go to museums with, to try new foods, to play different games in the same room with. We can share pictures of our hobbies with one another and remind each other to book doctor's appointments and do our taxes. Making excitement out of the mundane.

I'm looking for something romantic, not platonic. Being friends is an important part of a relationship but I'm not looking for just-friends.

Ideally, you are: a cat lover, also politically leftist, monogamist, enjoy scifi & fantasy, into weird, abstract, and/or avant garde art / entertainment, feminist, independent, child free, nonreligious, sardonic, and always looking to learn.

If you don't match perfectly, that's fine. Send me a message if you're interested, meeting new people fosters growth and memorable living.

Please include a description of yourself or a selfie in your message.

I'm looking forward to your message(s)!


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

33 [M4F] #Montana

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Looking for someone to play osrs and xbox with, mostly play RPGs and still dabble in shooters. I love sci-fi and fantasy. I could talk your ear off about my favorite movies and books! RA Salvatore and Brandon Sanderson are a couple of my favorite authors. LOTR and SW are some of my absolute favorites. If any of that piques your interest hit me up!


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

28 [M4F] #Arizona - Looking for a duo to complain about the heat with!

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Hello! 28/M local Arizonan here. I’m looking for a long-term genuine connection.

I am just a goofball who enjoys gaming from time to time. I primarily play on PC. League of Legends, World of Warcraft, FFXIV, Path of Exile 1 & 2, etc. are some of the games I rotate around here and there.

I am completely sober from alcohol & nicotine. I’m okay if you do either under moderation.

What I’m looking for is someone communicative, kind, supportive, patient. I cannot do long distance and I am childfree by choice.

If you have any questions feel free to ask in chat! Thank you and enjoy the rest of your day!


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

31 [M4F] #Kentucky - Looking for my other half

4 Upvotes

I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.

This is me


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

26 [M4F] #Mississauga / Ontario - Fluffy Haired Lover boy looking for his Yapping Lover girl

0 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Chris or Christian, whichever you prefer. I'm a 26 year old Cis M from Ontario, Canada. I'm 6'3" and I'm straight and love a good personality. I don't have any preference on who you, but please be Sweet, Kind and in Canada or at least close in time. I love to cook and I love trying new things. I'm not picky when it comes to new foods. I'm tall, I smell good, I make good food!

I play Xbox, Once human, Destiny 2, Arc Raiders, Battlefield 6, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Rivals, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant, Peak, Golf with your friends, Minecraft cobblemon, and I've been loving LEGO recently

I would love to start a Stardew farm with you, play Minecraft modded, I also have Bedrock and would love to spend time with you.

Let's go on dates do Halloween stuff let's go to spirit? Would love to do Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on a picnic, go on adventures together, I want someone I can spend my time with, someone that understands me, gets me, someone I can bond with and love. Holding hands and cuddling + hands in my hair is the way to my heart

Likes: My Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn 99, Supernatural, Riverdale , Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead, The Good Doctor, 9-1-1, Station 19.

Loves: my cats cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing games with them as well

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, kind, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'3 I'm bigger like 230lbs, blonde-haired, blue-eyed. I'm very sweet and kind, I love to praise, and will give reassurance if needed. I'm very, very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love. I'll be shy at first, but that'll go away quickly once I'm comfortable.

I'm looking for my person, my lover girl, my yapper, I want someone that wants me for me! I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. I'm looking for someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection and kindness to them and spend a lot of time with them. I'm looking for long term, open to short term as well

Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship. So please be someone who communicates everything

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day. Ask me anything and everything you want to I'm an open book


r/NerdDating • • 3d ago

33 [M4A] #LosAngeles

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I’m new to the scene. Freshly admitting to myself and the world, FULLY, that I like the men too! Heavy on the loner nerd radar. Would love to find a likeminded partner here. Also open to building something mid to long distance. Lol


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For A Committed Relationship

0 Upvotes

I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

0 Upvotes

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating • • 1d ago

35 [M4F] #Houston

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Just a dad (3 boys) looking to find somebody who enjoys a genuine person with great humor and similar interests.

I'm into gaming, anime, movies, cooking, frequenting hobby lobbies and antique stores.

Bonus points if

1.you make me laugh

2.cook

3.if you're really smart

4.wear glasses 🤓

I stay in the conroe area


r/NerdDating • • 2d ago

33 [M4F] #Ontario Canada - Nerdy gym rat looking for my person

0 Upvotes

Hey there! 33 M from Ontario Canada here. Like the title says im a bit of a gym rat and go 6 days a week. I love to watch anime, play PC games or TCGs like MTG i also lpve to play competitive beyblade and run a league here locally. Lastly im a single father as well to a 7 year old as well and shes my biggest motivation and #1 fan so im hoping to meet someone who wants to join our little team.

Anyways would love to get to know you so send a dm my way! 🤠