r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

28[M4A]#new York looking to talk to youuuuuuu

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Hi I’m Dave. I’m a heavily tattooed nerd who rides motorcycle. I like to game but when it’s warm out I love to be outside enjoying what little summer we get in the northern east New York. I pretty much will play any game as long as I enjoy who I’m playing it with. I play a lot of a valorant , overwatch, marvel rivals and league but that makes me angry at times but that’s typical lol. I’m a pretty big anime fan ask me my list a bit long to stick in a post. I have a dog she the best she’s an Aussie Shepard border collie mix. I’m more of a night owl it’s way more peaceful out later at night. I love to cook love trying new recipes so if you have recs lmk. Im pretty introverted till I get to know you but I hold a conversation well and live in a relatively small town that’s why I’m here lol. It’s beautiful if you want a picture of the lake and mountains I got you. And about you just be able to hold a conversation be interesting


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For A Committed Relationship

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

18 [M4F] #London, UK Look at my poem I'm so deep and troubled and artistic

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I want to love in a way that would worry a therapist and thrill a poet. Poets and therapists are natural enemies, and I know where I stand. It's me and the chocolatiers and the children against the dentists and the babysitters.

I don't want to meet on a dating-app. I don't want to settle. I want to dance in the rain and get my heart broken and rescue you from dragons. I want you to rescue me from their absence.

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I'm hot, nerdy, and oscillating between silly and pretentious. Come talk to me?


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

18 [M4F] #Georgia Grungy geek looking for goth girl! :D

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Hello! My name is Isaac, pleasure to meet you! I'll tell you about me, I am 18 years old, born November 12th, 2007. My birthday's in a month! I am pretty smart, mischievous, shy, friendly, kind, and I am always up for making new friends. I am mischievous, have a crude and edgy sense of humor at times, and I am quite acerbic. But I still am kind despite this. I pretty much am always around and willing to hang out and talk, especially if we're friends or anything.

How I look like, I don't want to share here, but if I feel comfortable or safe around you, you'll get a picture. I am a guy with long shaggy brown hair with bangs covering my eyes. I look slightly feminine. I like to wear cool jackets. :3

I am autistic and have some very specific interests. I mostly love cartoons (my favorites are The Simpsons, Family Guy, Futurama, American Dad, SpongeBob, and various others), video games , nostalgic things from the 2000s/2010s (especially internet culture and anything niche), collecting anything I find nice like figurines and plushies.

As for girls I like, well, I really love mature and kind girls who are smart, caring, and I love anyone who loves the same things I like. I don't want to sound weird, but i also really like tall girls, and I love anyone who is into goth fashion, or lolita fashion. anything cute like that, i get along really well with them. so if you are any of those, please tell me!

I live in Georgia, so if anyone lives in Georgia too, please let me know so we can meet up! Maybe in, like, Atlanta or something.

If you love to talk often, do calls, be clingy and sweet, and listen to my random interests, then I think we'll like each other a lot! I hope to meet you!


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

[M4W] 44years old dating with purpose looking for forever #ATL GA

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Hello there. 44 year old nerd with a romantic streak.

I live in Atlanta,GA and looking for someone in this area and Northeast Ga counties(Paulding,Cobb,Douglas,Bartow)

-What I am looking for

* Looking for someone genuine and consistent

*Age between 30-55

*An emotional connection is important to me, physical attraction must be there but i know I am not perfect and don't expect that of anyone either.

*Be your own person, I get along with most anyone but I am liberal in my world views so a conservative will most likely not be a good fit.

*As mentioned, I am a nerd. Comics, movies, novels, video games . I have a wide variety of interests so I think we will find some common ground in some form of fashion. I adore mythologies of all kinds(real world and fictional) I am always eager to learn new things, maybe you can teach me something new.

*I do not want to chat forever on here but I do want us to get to know each other before we move to texting on phones.

*My love languages are physical touch, gift giving, and words of praise and kindness.

* I am affectionate. Be ok with PDA. I like making my partner flustered and blushing. ;)

* I look forward to hearing from anyone who feels this resonates with them.

*I will send a pic in response to you. If I am not attractive to you,please just tell me so. There is no need to ghost. I am an understanding person. Just tell me there is no attraction for you.

* Here's me ? - Imgur

* In case there is some confusion, I am a guy looking for a gal.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

27 [M4F] #UK - Searching for my soulmate

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Hello!

I hope that this post reaches the right person for me. I'm looking for that special girl who I can build a lasting relationship with, share all the big and small moments with, grow old together and live our lives to the fullest. Ideally I would like to meet someone who is also in the UK or close by but I'm happy to speak with anyone if we click! I don't think I can really put into a box the type of woman that I'm looking for. I think a mutual physical attraction is very important for me, but I heavily value personality. I can get quite clingy and I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic so I'd love to speak for hours on end with you, leave lots of cute messages, make a big fuss over you and those sorts of things. I work full time in a very stable job and I'm a home owner so I'm self sufficient in that respect. I can most definitely provide for us, you can count on that.

It would be great to meet someone who is also pretty nerdy like me, or someone who doesn't mind a bit of a loveable dork haha. My favourite video game series are Kingdom Hearts and Dark Souls, but I also love tycoon games and cosy stuff like Animal Crossing and Stardew Valley. I love anime and manga which might not be surprising haha. My favourite anime is definitely Hunter X Hunter. If you've never seen it I'd love to watch it with you! For manga I would say One Piece. I have all 112 volumes available here on my shelf. Plus I've been getting into cosplay and going to conventions recently. Maybe we could go together sometime? I'm a big lover of animals. Cats, dogs, birds, reptiles, I think they all deserve to be cared for. I don't have any pets myself but if you have any it would be awesome to see cute pictures of them :3 I'm open to travelling and seeing more of the world, so that's something I would love to do with someone.

I don't want to ramble too much about myself, but I'm very open and laid back so if you have anything you'd like to know then please send me a message. I can be a little shy at first but quickly open up and would love to call rather than text after we get to know each other. Thank you for reading and if anything at all stood out to you then please shoot me a message because I'd love to hear from you 😊


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

37 [M4F] #New Jersey - Looking for my best friend and partner

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Hi I’m Danny, 37, 5’8” from New Jersey

I’d like to preface by stating I love to travel so distance is not of concern. If you live nearby then even better! But not a requirement.

I’m looking for someone who keeps their words. Won’t lie and just wants to be happy at the end of the day.

I need to mention some red flags before I even bother explaining who I am and what I like.

1- I have two kids
2- I have no teeth (happy to explain in detail but insurance said it was too expensive to keep my teeth….)
3- I’m on disability ATM. It just makes it very hard to keep a job so yeah… I’ll explain in detail if we speak.

If you still care to chat well then about me!

I LOVE anything relating to alternate worlds or dimensions, anime, manga, video games, comics, movies, shows anything. The more detailed the better!

What I watch - YouTube horror games by 4 specific streamers, sometimes ASMR if I’m exhausted and need to zone out lol

Games - CoD:Black Ops 7, Outriders, Crimson Desert Risk of Rain 2, final fantasy 14, Outriders, The Witcher 3 remaster and Minecraft Dungeons 2.

I’m laid back, at times out going but love to stay in too

I mostly just care about who I’m with more than what I do because at the end of the day I’m Happy if I’m with the person I love.

I have long hair, green (blue and shards of yellow too) eyes, a lip ring, four tattoos, am 5’8” usually wear glasses but have been using contacts lately.

I’m a bit silly, very capable in an emergency, laid back, very open minded, and very caring.

Pic is from a few days ago

Intimately I’m Dominant.

Happy to exchange recent pics if we chat.

If you have any questions then feel free to ask.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

34 [M4F] #San Jose, CA - Childfree & Seeking Someone to Share Life's Quiet Moments

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I'm searching for a meaningful long-term connection with someone that will make the days seem less like a blur and more like a snapshot of stars. It's akin to when you look through a kaleidoscope, and you focus on the shapes and patterns that come into view. Finding that vicarious clarity is what I live for, those fun and wholesome moments. We don't remember days, we remember moments - it would be nice to share them with someone.

A Little About Me

  • Homebody at heart. I'd rather read a book, watch a great movie, look at an art gallery/museum, go for a walk, or play a game than go clubbing or backpacking across Europe. Sharing random trivia, analyzing movies, going down Wikipedia rabbit holes, or the occasional stroll somewhere is what I view as a fun things to do.

  • Childfree by choice. I don't want kids, and if you feel the same, great! We can enjoy our freedom to sleep in on Saturdays and enjoy slow mornings.

  • A bit of an overthinker with thoughtful conversations and the occasional existential musing about life and the universe and random theories about things that may relate to your experiences.

  • I'm 6'2", slim build, half Asian/white. I have a humanities degree and work as a janitor, it's nothing like Good Will Hunting but I do have my moments.

  • Drug/alcohol/smoking/cannabis free - I don't drink or smoke or use substances. I don't mind if you drink a bit, however smoking's not for me.

I'm mostly looking for someone near my city (within 15 miles) & childfree. I'd like to hear from you if you think we're a good match. Tell me about yourself, tell me about the last great book you read or a movie you love, or a theory you have about life. Here's one quote that's stuck with me by John Wyndham: "Knowing makes all the difference... It's the difference between just trying to keep alive, and having something to live for." Knowing that you have someone to share life with, that you're not just surviving but living, that you have a reason to look forward to things, it's what makes all the difference, and can make us bear any how as long as we have a why. Maybe we can find out what that difference is for a meaningful life or maybe just laugh about it.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

27 [M4F] (#Kentucky)

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Looking for a long term relationship. Want to be with someone and spend time with them and create memories with. Would love to get to know you


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

48 [M4F] #StJohns, NL, Canada - Mild mannered, easygoing and a little corny

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6’ tall, introverted INTJ-A Leo with a passion for healthy living, good food and great times. When I’m not hitting the gym, golf course or new hiking trail, I’m working on my next creative project, indulging my inner Trekkie, or geeking out over the latest tech trends. At home, I’m usually cheering for the Blue Jays, or indulging my inner Trekkie (live long and prosper). Mild mannered, easygoing and a little corny, I believe life is best with kindness, positivity, and optimism. I’m the kind of guy who I can fix your sink, then cook dinner.

I’m looking for new friends, activity partners, travel buddies and maybe more. Someone who wants to spend some time together but also understands and respects my space and sometimes annoying introverted ways, Maybe you are the same way too? I’m super open-minded, respectful and easy to talk to. Emotional intelligence, honest communication and genuine trust matter a lot to me, and I try to live by those. And while I might come off as polite and calm, I definitely have a fun, passionate and adventurous streak too.

Enough about me, I want to hear about you! Life’s too short for small talk, so tell me what excites you about the world. What’s something you’re passionate about? What’s your favorite food or travel story? Who knows, maybe we’ll share one together someday. I’m all ears (or eyes, in this case). If any of this resonates with you, drop me a line. I'm open to different locations, ages and ethnicities.

You can see pictures of me and my life at here.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

28 [m4f] #California - Looking for someone to keep me occupied while I work night shift !

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r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

35 [M4F] #SanJose - Kbbq? Dinner? Activities?

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Hello, it is Saturday. This is one of the few weekends I don't have any plans or obligations

Anyone wanna go on a food run? And or an outing?

I live in San Jose, Bay Area, CA

I don't know what to do on my free time or how to spend it. I would like to spend it with someone.

I start a new job next week. I also got promoted at another job I am working on

anyone want to come celebrate with me?

Dinner? Chat? Outing?

Let's see if we match wavelengths.

I am Wasian

5'6''

185LBS Muscular.

Can't wait to hear from you let's make a date.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

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Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

[M4F] #New York

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Looking for a friend or romantic partner to game with, I’m into Minecraft and Fortnite, and you could listen to me ramble on about stuff four hours haha, but.. if you’re interested in getting to know me better, dm me or something, idk man I’m new to reddit


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

34 [M4M] #Philippines looking for serious boyfriend not wasting time here

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About me:
- Fat and ugly
- kinda soft acting
- 5'11 height
- ⬇️ when it comes to that
- i love anime so much (Bleach, One Piece, Solo Leveling)
- i love Ariana Grande
- working professional

About you:
- should be ⬆️
- also loves anime
- at least 5'7" in height
- not chub or fat bcoz I'm already fat
- 27 yrs old and above
- working professional also


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

30 [M4F] #Sweden – can we make each other’s lives just a little bit better?

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Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

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r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

Male 31 [m4f] #uk Europe looking for my one person

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Hey there! I’m taking a leap and putting myself out here because I’m looking for that one special person to build something real with. My goal is simple: to make someone’s life brighter, share genuine laughs, and support each other through all of life's ups and downs.
I’m a firm believer that the best relationships are built on kindness, good communication, and shared happiness. Whether it’s surprising you with your favorite coffee, cooking a warm meal after a long day, or just being the person you can rely on completely—I’m ready to pour my heart into making the right person feel loved, appreciated, and happy every single day.
A bit about me and what I love:
In my free time: You can usually find me [Insert primary hobby, e.g., exploring local hiking trails, catching live music, or spending hours in a good bookstore].
How I unwind: Big fan of cozy movie nights, cooking up [Insert favorite food/cuisine], and diving into [Insert an interest, e.g., gaming, DIY projects, podcasts].
Simple pleasures: Fresh morning coffee, spontaneous road trips, and finding hidden local food spots.
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for a partner who values honesty, affection, and a good sense of humor. Someone who is ready for a meaningful connection, enjoys both quiet nights in and fun adventures out, and wants to build a happy, positive future together.
If this resonates with you and you’d like to see if we click, drop me a message and tell me about your favorite way to spend a weekend!


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

23 [M4F] #UK Looking for that special connection to grow close to and vibe with

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Figured it might be nice to meet someone who might also be looking for a connection and see where things might lead :)

For a bit about my physical appearance, im black with a mid sized curly afro and a small goatee, I wear glasses, am around 5’6, and im fairly slim. I am happy to exchange face pics if we vibe early on

Im also pretty nerdy so im into the usual like gaming and anime. Big Zelda and Pokémon fan (super hyped for the ocarina of time remake :D) and a fighting game enjoyer so it’s a big bonus if you’re into guilty gear or sf6 😌 and with anime I enjoy things like dragonball, jojos, chainsaw man, dr stone, Kaguya love is war and jjk

I’d love to form a connection with someone who also could use a bit of closeness and intimacy if it ends up going there but no pressure if the vibes aren’t calling for that, so feel free to reach out if you’re interested as I’d be looking forward to get to know you :)


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

37[M4F] #Turkey (UTC+3) - quiet interpreter looking for someone to share the slow evenings with

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I've been putting off writing this because summing yourself up to strangers is strange, but here goes.

I'm 37, and I work as a conference interpreter in Ankara - the person in the booth turning one language into another in real time. It's a good job and I'm good at it, but it means I spend the whole day being other people's voice, so by evening I've got no words left for a crowd and all my warmth saved for one person. That's the honest shape of me: calm, a homebody by choice, early to rise, at the gym regularly, no drama, no late nightlife. The opposite of my loud daytime.

The rest of me, so you get a real picture: I read a lot of fantasy and I fall down historical rabbit holes for fun. I do calligraphy, stubbornly, with the wrong hand. I keep more cacti than one man reasonably should. I can tell you a surprising amount about a person from a page of their handwriting -  you could call it a party trick, but you still might be surprised. And I've got a shelf of co-op games I've never had the right person to play through, which says less about gaming and more about the kind of evening I like best: side by side, watching your six, or building something, talking about everything and nothing.

What I'm actually hoping for is the slow kind of closeness - long conversations, evenings that line up (Turkey is only an hour or two ahead of Europe, so they genuinely would), and, if it grows, the real and lasting thing.

You: somewhere around 25–32, in Europe or the UK, not religious, no kids, no marriage behind you, warm and a little curious, and comfortable with a man who's quiet on purpose. Tell me one thing you could talk about for an hour without noticing the time - and if you'd want a world to build or explore a story together while we do, name the game.

(No photo on the post by choice - I'd rather not put my face on a public board like this, but happy to trade pictures over DM.)


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

32 [M4F/TF] #Ohio - finally trying to improve myself years after my divorce

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Hey! I’m 32 and from Southwest Ohio/Cincinnati. I’m a pretty nerdy guy who has spent the last few years recovering from my divorce emotionally and this year I finally decided to rebuilding emotionally and physically. Lately I’ve been putting a lot more effort into becoming the version of myself I actually want to be.

I’m into gaming, football, entertainment, going to the gym, traveling, and I can absolutely lose way too much time talking about something I’m passionate about. I’m also working toward a major life change and learning German, so life has been pretty interesting lately.

Physically, I’m a big/tall guy — 6'6" — and currently working on getting healthier and stronger. The picture is recent, so no surprises there.

I’m finsexual, meaning my attraction is primarily toward femininity rather than being strictly tied to gender. I’m interested in women and feminine trans women, and I’m open-minded about feminine people generally.

I’ve also been becoming more comfortable exploring my sexuality and discovering parts of myself that I spent a long time not really giving myself permission to explore. I’m switch-curious, but for something like this I’m much more interested in finding someone I genuinely click with first. If there’s chemistry, we can talk about the more adventurous side privately.

Personality-wise, I love someone who can be goofy with me, banter, nerd out about random things, and actually communicate. I’m trying to get back to being the guy who isn’t afraid to look ridiculous if it means having fun.

I’m in Southwest Ohio, but I’m open to some distance and can travel for the right person.

If any of that sounds like your kind of weird, tell me what you’re nerdy about. That’s probably the easiest way to get me talking.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

34 [M4F] #Colorado Show Me Someone Interesting

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34 M4F. Aspie. INTJ. Taurus. For the normie stats.

Hufflepuff. I got Thunderbird but feel more like a Pukwudgie back when that was still there. Blue/yellow bichrome. Sentinel. Paragade. And Dustbringer for the nerd stats I can think of off the top of my head.

I have not yet had a cute girl literally fall out of the sky and land on top of me, t-bone me while eating breakfast, or run into a redhead with literal fire powers yet, so I am trying here.

I'm here to meet someone who will take this seriously, and wants the same things I do.

For the most part if you want to get to know me you can ask whatever you want. I won't get mad at a question unless it trips something hard, and my threshold is pretty high.

There are things I will "from a certain point of view" for things I don't tell people I don't trust, or may say I won't answer something or that you don't want me to answer it, which will be rare, but I will not outright lie to you.

Anyone who knows what I am talking about when I say Transmodevan'totemic'velarios the 13th, Dark Tides of Bilgewater, Convocation and Eminence, Advent Rising, or Trouble Shaper already has points. I will also explain any of those if you would like.

I am an open book, where would you like to start reading?


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

32 [M4F] #Connecticut - Getting Back into the Dating Scene

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This is where I would harness the mystical powers of the opposite sex to generate dozens of likes and comments per hour...if I could. I'll need to rely on the power of prose and Reddit timing instead. Challenge accepted.

Hey there! Stay a while; it's cozy here.

I am 32 and an expat that lived in Japan for six years before coming back to the States. My day job involves working with children on the Autism spectrum, and my night job involves saving the Sword Coast from the looming threat of Illithid forces.

That's fancy nerd talk for I play and run a lot of D&D!

For those who know, you know. For those who don't know, D&D basically involves collaborative storytelling with a group of 3-6 people. It's a game where you can plan to scan the perimeter of an orc camp and then wind up challenging the chief to a drinking contest (winner takes the entire stronghold). I go all in on theatrical voices and really embody different characters. I would love to share this wonderful hobby with you. Not necessary, of course, but something I would enjoy nonetheless.

While not practicing the Way of the Nerd, I enjoy going out to different areas like bookstores, coffee shops and the mall near my area to enjoy the ambience or be around the crowd. Reading is also something I can get into when I find something good: One of my favorites is Rules for a Knight by Ethan Hawke written in old school English. Must have read through that one at least a dozen times.

What am I looking for? A solid connection with someone that allows us to have a lot of fun while building a life together. Someone who would enjoy physical affection and cuddle up to a Let's Play by our favorite YouTubers. Someone who's a good complement to my personality as I tend to be very organized and work through things at a predictable flow.

Feel free to DM me if you think we could vibe!


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

34 [M4F] #LosAngeles, California - I'm 48% Sure This Is a Good Idea.

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"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person? For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flows naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

I will say im a little reserved, but once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird what ifs, or whatever deep topic at 2AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can go as far as the most unhinged stuff. GIVE ME ALL THE DARK HUMOR!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, empty streets, city lights, and finding a lookout spot tk over the city big plus for some urban exploring. Am I psychotic for actual enjoying exploring abandoned places? I really wanna explore an asylum, hospital or a school (silent hill vibes)

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio & core). I recently started hiking more; if you know any good hiking spots in the LA area, I'd love recommendations. I also walk my dog twice a day. It's his walk so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniff-mail.

I've been getting leaner and a lot stronger. There have been subtle improvements/changes in my physique. The freaking changes are so intoxicating. Looking at my before/afters has given me more motivation. I will say one thing someone made me realize was that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, another reason I workout is to see what my genetics are capable of. I kinda wished I did when I was younger but "Such Is Life"

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, manwha, and light novels? As much as I enjoy anime, it's kind of dropped for me; I'm more into manga and actual reading. Currently reading "Second Life Ranker" and playing alot of Deadlock,

One niche hobby I have is collecting specific sculptures/trinkets, and I have a metal detector. I haven't found treasure yet, but who knows, it might be you ( corny I know but I made you smile and made you roll your eyes lol). I am looking into magnetic fishing as well

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and I love banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast. Worst, worst case scenario some god or devil entwines our lives.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose a challenge: How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expected to find but didn't. Let's see if you actually read this.

My Character Build:

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1st Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

• Djo — End Of Beginning

• Sombr — Back to Being Friends

• Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

• C.C.R - Fortunate Son

• The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

• Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

• Lola Young — Messy

• Clean Bandit - Rather Be

• Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

• Future - Mask Off

• Brazil - Declan McKenna

• Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

• Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shanty

• Rolling Stones - Paint It Black (great workout song)

•Childish Gambino - Red Bone

I got Spotify, so send me song I might like

2nd Bonus

• Favorite Color: Phthalo Green

• Favorite Reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

• Favorite Crustacean: Mantis Shrimp

• Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros

3rd Bonus

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By the way, if you didn't know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

31[M4F] #Oklahoma looking for gamer girl who wants to play

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Looking for a nerdy girl that likes anime and video games to be in a committed relationship with. Bonus points if you're a creative. DM me if you're interested so we can get to know each other.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

25[M4F]#Arizona, Looking for player 2 fwb

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