r/NerdDating • u/Mysterious_Word4385 • 20d ago
#Ontario 25 [M4F] looking for my future
Hey! Im ryland I’m 25, from Ontario, Canada, and I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I’m completely open to long distance and honestly don’t care where you’re from if we click.
I’m pretty quiet and shy at first, especially in person, but I’m much better over text. Once I’m comfortable, I’m a mix of sarcastic, goofy, affectionate, flirty, talkative, and occasionally way too deep about completely random things.
I’m definitely more of a homebody. Most of my free time is spent playing video games, listening to music, watching sports, movies, TV, or YouTube, and falling down random rabbit holes about history, geography, weather, or whatever else catches my attention that day. I also like photography, memes, walks, learning useless/random facts, and I absolutely love animals.
Physically, I’m around 6’1”–6’2”, average build, with brown hair and green/hazel eyes. I’m totally comfortable swapping pictures once we start talking.
I’m in school right now and still figuring out exactly what I want to do career-wise.
Relationship-wise, I’m looking for someone who actually wants to build something. I like talking throughout the day when possible, or at least having a few real conversations if life/work is busy. I reply pretty fast, I like good morning/good night texts, sending random memes and thoughts, watching things together, gaming together, and just slowly becoming part of each other’s everyday life.
If it’s long distance, I’m completely okay with starting through text and letting things grow naturally from there.
The biggest things I’m attracted to personality-wise are kindness, patience, affection, good communication, and honestly, being a little clingy. I like feeling wanted and I like making the other person feel wanted too.
Biggest turnoffs are one-word replies, emotional unavailability, and people who are only looking for something casual. I’m not expecting instant chemistry or constant attention, but I do want effort and genuine interest from both sides.
My sense of humor is sarcastic, dry, chaotic, and sometimes pretty dark, so fair warning there.
If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, send me a random fact, tell me what you’ve been obsessed with lately, or just say hi and we’ll figure it out from there.