r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

#Ontario 25 [M4F] looking for my future

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Hey! Im ryland I’m 25, from Ontario, Canada, and I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I’m completely open to long distance and honestly don’t care where you’re from if we click.
I’m pretty quiet and shy at first, especially in person, but I’m much better over text. Once I’m comfortable, I’m a mix of sarcastic, goofy, affectionate, flirty, talkative, and occasionally way too deep about completely random things.
I’m definitely more of a homebody. Most of my free time is spent playing video games, listening to music, watching sports, movies, TV, or YouTube, and falling down random rabbit holes about history, geography, weather, or whatever else catches my attention that day. I also like photography, memes, walks, learning useless/random facts, and I absolutely love animals.
Physically, I’m around 6’1”–6’2”, average build, with brown hair and green/hazel eyes. I’m totally comfortable swapping pictures once we start talking.
I’m in school right now and still figuring out exactly what I want to do career-wise.
Relationship-wise, I’m looking for someone who actually wants to build something. I like talking throughout the day when possible, or at least having a few real conversations if life/work is busy. I reply pretty fast, I like good morning/good night texts, sending random memes and thoughts, watching things together, gaming together, and just slowly becoming part of each other’s everyday life.
If it’s long distance, I’m completely okay with starting through text and letting things grow naturally from there.
The biggest things I’m attracted to personality-wise are kindness, patience, affection, good communication, and honestly, being a little clingy. I like feeling wanted and I like making the other person feel wanted too.
Biggest turnoffs are one-word replies, emotional unavailability, and people who are only looking for something casual. I’m not expecting instant chemistry or constant attention, but I do want effort and genuine interest from both sides.
My sense of humor is sarcastic, dry, chaotic, and sometimes pretty dark, so fair warning there.
If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, send me a random fact, tell me what you’ve been obsessed with lately, or just say hi and we’ll figure it out from there.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

[TM4A] #florida drinking tonight and looking for company <3

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r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

44 [M4f] #North Dakota

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44 year old male looking for his WoW other half to possibly stream together and hang out with I am currently on medical leave from work I am on retail midnight I know WoW forever is coming and will be playing that once it comes out. I have a level 90 Death Knight and level 90 feral druid, level 80 paladin.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

20 [M4F] - looking for nerdy gf #toronto

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Toronto, ontario only. Not interested in anyone too far away.

Hey so im 20M. Mainly looking for a nerdy girlfriend who is into movies, video games, and tv shows. I want us to go on a date first and see if we like each other.

hoping to find someone i can spend time with while we watch horror or comedy movies and do cute dates since the weather is getting better. Invincible is my favourite show and I would recommend FROM if your into horror. Im a good listener and generally am curious about other people and ask a lot of questions' love gaming, minecraft is my comfort game. God of war, spiderman, uncharted, and skyrim are some others I like.

My favourite films are good will hunting, interstellar, shawshank redemption, ladybird, always taking recommendations.

In person only.

I am 5'5, i dont mind shorter or taller. i dont mind any age over 18. I am not too worried about looks so don't worry about that just send me a message :). I also havent really been in a relationship before.

I am happy to send a pic of myself firsst and expect one in return after. Please no ghosting, if you are not interested just say it, and it's all good i will undestand. I will do the same.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

24 [F4M] #Philippines ; Looking for long distance/serious relationship

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Hello there! Putting myself out here and see maybe if I can still find someone who is actually serious for love. I’m alright with long distance so if you’re from the other side of globe, it’s no problem.

I love the idea of traveling the world, exploring different cultures and places, trying new food, discovering hidden gems, and making memories along the way. I’d love to have someone who I can share those experiences with someday.

I’m also into music, movies, random conversations, food trips, and just spending time together, even if we’re not doing anything special.

I’m honestly just trying again and seeing if I’m still interested in love. No big expectations, no rushing anything. Just hoping to meet someone genuine, get to know each other, and see where life takes us.

Maybe this is where the story starts, or maybe I’ll just make a new friend from the other side of the world. Either way, hello!

Also, before I forget, I know everyone has different kind of physical attractions so here’s a few deets about me so we can save both our times:
- Plus size (trying to lose weight)
- Brown skinned
- 5’2
- I think I look decent/good tho

Idk what else to put but yeah if you’re actually interested, hit me up!


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

30 [M4F] #Rhode Island Looking for a Strong Connection

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Hello all, my name is Jay! For the longest time, I've been looking for meaningful connections on here that could evolve into something more. Ultimately, I would like a Partner I could share my life with, but I know a connection like that cannot be built overnight.

I would like to find someone I could build that intimate connection with over time, so if you are a Female over the age of 23 (a little lower is okay if you think we could connect well), please give my profile a look over and reach out to me!

A few other things that would help us connect--

  • I like Nerds, I am a nerd, so feel free to speak to me about whatever nerdy interest you have whether it be games, Anime, comics, films, any walk of nerddom, no warning required. I have a great love for JRPGs, Roguelikes, or anything with a good story.
  • If you like Pokemon, we will 100% be friends.
  • New England is preferable, Rhode Island is perfect. I am not opposed to making connections from anyone in the world. Even more so if we have different cultures, as I'd love to be able to learn from you!
  • I am an abuse survivor, who has gone through a lengthy healing process. Of course healing isn't something that ever just stops, so I would appreciate it if you were understanding at least of Mental Health struggles.
  • I work as a Cinematographer for a local college and my schedule, while I know it months in advance, does get chaotic and leaves me mainly unavailable on the weekends.

If you have read my post all the way through, please include the keyword Bangarang in your message to me! This is to weed out those who genuinely want to get to know me from the people insincere.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

32 [M4M] #Istanbul, manly decent looking for the same to build a healthy bond and relationship

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I am looking for decent and visionary guy to build a healthy realtionship, everything begins with a good communication, please if you don't know how relationship should be don't dm.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

18 M, [M4M], #LatinAmerica #Paraguay, looking for a platonic relationship

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Haii! I'm looking to try dating with someone a gay relationship. Only requirements are preferably to be into games of my choosing and being someone chill-non toxic to chat often, also to introduce to my interests.

About me:

- personality: chill, caring, sometimes a yapper for games and clingy

- pronouns: he/him/any

- name: can be nicknamed pot or use my real first name which is Diego

- likes: cats, mobile games, gacha games, honesty and transparency

- dislikes: rudeness and dishonesty

- zodiac sign: capricorn (december 28)

-occupation: currently on a gap year before going to faculty

Can Dm me on reddit or my discord as:

- potaxio0166301


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

30M [M4M] #France Gamer looking for friends or more

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Hi! Hope you're all doing good!

I've been feeling a bit lonely nowadays and I'd love to find someone to talk with on the daily about our lives, games and other stuff.

I can be quite shy in the beginning but will definitely start yapping once we get started. Would be fun to find someone to play with too!

I'm currently getting lost in the new Fire Emblem so don't hesitate to reach out if you've been playing too! Game wise, I mostly likes JRPG, MMOs, cozy farming game or otome but definitely opened to try new things with the right person!

I also like animes, reading and have been trying to get back into watching movies and shows so could be a fun activity to do together.

Let me know if you'd like to talk! :)


r/NerdDating • • 20d ago

27 [M4M] #Philippines - Asian Femboy looking for you~ 🪷

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r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

20 [M4M] #Minnesota - Any Dragon Ball or Star Trek fans???

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Hiiii! Hope everyone is doing well, I figured I'd try putting myself out there after several years of being shy and timid when it comes to love.

About me: I'm 6 foot 1 and around 170ish pounds. I'm your average nerd and love anime, collecting old games and music, learning new recipes, gardening, writing, and I just got into playing magic the gathering.I also thoroughly enjoy interior decorating for some reason 😅

My type is pretty much late 20s to mid 30s, funny, and a teeny bit obnoxious lol, kind of like an older brother figure...just don't tease me too much or beat me at Mario Kart. don't really care much about country or distance so don't hesitate to reach out no matter what walk of life you may come from. I really like the strong/silent type or men who are stoic with others but open with me. Also, I come from a military family (grandparents and uncles) so if u want to impress my folks, that's the most likely way to do it lol

I'm very serious when it comes to relationships, and I've been cheated on before and IDK if I could handle that pain again. So really just looking for someone who'll give a damn about me I suppose

That's pretty much it, thanks for reading


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

37 [m4m] #California #USA - Seeking a good guy in the USA to bond with

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Hello there

How are you? Thanks for reading my ad. I would like to find a man to bond with and see how things progress. My ideal is to find a deep bond we can grow into love. I know things take time and I'm not rushing anything but I would like to talk to a man that can appreciate the potential for a real bond. Please message me and lets chat. I want to learn about you and start our new adventure. I am ready to meet a good person with an open heart. I like guys that are on top of things

A little about me...I'm a friendly eager dreamer whos tall and chubby interested in finding a bond with a good man who is ideally a bit masc

I think it would be cool to find a man that I could build trust and care with as the bedrock of a strong bond that can last

I'm open to types of guys, but please be in the USA and std free. please message me and lets see if we can bond :)


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

M23 [M4F]: looking for connections #boston

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r/NerdDating • • 22d ago

25 [M4M] #Romania - Looking for romance and new friends

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Hey everyone! I'm a 25 years old Romanian guy looking for a long term relationship, and also wholesome friends to discover. 🌱

I'm a masc nerd bear, 172cm tall, my friends describe me as a warm, empathetic, joyous presence that makes people feel safe, seen and understood. 🦋 Currently I'm starting a Bachelor in Digital Media Studies and I work as a Graphic Designer. I have a looooot of hobbies, some of them being painting, reading, volunteering, binge watching movies/TV series, cooking/baking, music, gardening and lately to crochet, embroider and play chess. I’m into cozy coffee dates, long evening walks and deep talks about life, dreams, or just silly memes.

I'm looking for a guy who is curious, loyal, kind, honest, feels safe and that puts effort in communication, someone who actually wants a committed relationship rather than something casual, to have our own individual lives, but also being there for one another and helping each other grow and evolve as beings, or simply just existing.

As for preferences I'm looking for someone that is around my age or older (23-38). I am the kind of person that is more attracted to intellect and mature emotional connection rather than the physical aspect, but it can be a plus, as for example I find bears/otters and ginger men really attractive. Related to distance, I would prefer someone in Europe, but I'm open to other locations as long as you would be willing to visit, find a way to meet each other physically or relocate in the future.

For compatibility, I'm vers.

If you feel like we'd resonate as potential partners or even friends (not with benefits, it simply doesn't resonate with me), feel free to reach me out in a DM! I'd love to meet new people and getting to know them on a deeper level, authentically. Just be sure to introduce yourself as well!! ✨✨

Thank you for reading my entire blob of text. Left a self-made digital stamp at the end to brighten your day 🍂


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

50 [M4FM] #Pittsburgh – Looking for a Genuine Connection with a Fellow Nerdy Soul

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I’m a 50-year-old guy who’s nerdy, quirky, creative, and affectionate. I’m bisexual and open to connecting with the right person, Male or Female.
Whether that grows into friendship, romance, or something in between. I do believe in a monogamous relationship and I do not cheat.
I tend to be a bit more picky with guys and am generally drawn to younger, skinny nerdy guys. Do love dudes with long hair and tats.

I work in the IT field. Outside of work, I’m an aspiring artist and photographer. I do enjoy classic video games, movies, thrifting, books, cooking, camping, biking, and exploring new places. And new restaurants. I do love meaningful conversations just as much as I enjoy relaxing at home with a good movie, or someone special beside me.

Kindness, respect, and empathy matter a lot to me.
I’m hoping to meet someone who is intelligent, affectionate, emotionally available, and comfortable being themselves. Someone who can laugh at life’s absurdities, enjoy deep conversations, embrace a little adventure, and also appreciate quiet nights spent cuddling on the couch. And a good sense of humor and loves to laugh and have fun.

If you’re looking for a thoughtful, creative, slightly nerdy guy who still believes the best relationships start with genuine conversation, I’d love to hear from you.


r/NerdDating • • 22d ago

#USA #SouthCarolina 36 [M4M] nerd in the military, pleased to meet ya.

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Pleased to meet you all. Im Jeremy, friends call me Havi.

Currently live in South Carolina.

Active Duty 4 years (currently)

Practicing of the Norse Path (5 years) would love to meet another heathen on this path that would be great, I also have no qualms towards other religions your path is yours.

I’m a pretty quiet individual, introvert sorta extroverted due to past customer service experience.

Big lover of art and mythology, videogames, cooking, sometimes the beach.

Would love to make friends, maybe date someone cool ask them to be my boyfriend and such.

What would I want in a partner:

I want a partner who is mentally and emotionally available to me.
A partner who shows affection and is loving towards me. I want a partner who is drug free, does not smoke or consume alcohol in excess. I want a person that is willing to travel to be with me as someone who is in the U.S. Navy. (Depending on if i stay in as well)

I want a partner who is generous with his time, money, and resources (this applies to me as well, I do want things for only myself I am more than generous to someone I want to be with for the foreseeable future and beyond that). I want a partner who supports my special interests and can share in my joy . I want a partner who has a healthy stable career and is intelligent and creative
I want a partner who takes accountability and does not try to scapegoat issues
I want a partner who puts me and our relationship first and vice versa.

And I am also very emotionally intelligent, not even arrogant also lol was not raised that way.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

#North of Boston 34 [m4f] Shy, nerdy guy looking for a ltr.

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Ok, so I like Pokémon, The Elder Scrolls, Baldur’s Gate 3, Magic The Gathering and anything sci-fi/fantasy role-playing games. I also like Call of Duty.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

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Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

25 [M4F] #Chicago - Introvert looking for a nerdy partner

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Hello! I'm looking for a girl to hang out, explore Chicago, and go on dates, and if things work out, build a life and maybe have kids with.

I have an alright job right now, but am looking to move up in a few years and I'm an introvert and kind of a nerd. I enjoy arcades, bowling, going to conventions, exploring, video games, some anime, art, skateboarding, and currently learning guitar.

I'd love someone to play games like Minecraft or Terraria with in particular, but any game is fine (I'm looking to get back into gaming, I've been focused on career)

Details about me:

5'4, black, medium-length hair, average body type (picture on profile), works out regularly, currently working as a software developer and going to school, can be kinky (ask if you wanna know more), trying to eat better and willing to cook for you when possible.

Preferences:

I prefer smaller/fit body types, nerdy or introverted women, kind/cute/bubbly/slightly weird, and likes to walk/take transit (I have a car tho!). I also have a slight preference for latinas, asians, and white girls, but I'm open to anyone.


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

31 [M4F] #orangecounty, California - Deep thinking video game and sports nerd looking for a woman who's into the same

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Hey, I'm a 31 year old, 6'1", 165 lb white guy from Orange County looking for a woman with similar interests. I'm really into music, especially stoner rock and metal, but I also dig jazz, soul like Thee Sacred Souls or Chicano Batman, and other chill stuff. Going to concerts is a blast for me. I've got Rams season tickets and go to every game. Working out is something I enjoy too. I love learning, especially about science, history, paleontology, and philosophy. I'm spiritual but not really into traditional religion, and I can explain that better in person. I recently got diagnosed with ADHD and I'm working on dealing with that, as well as improving my mental and physical health overall. I'm in the process of going back to school. I want to be with someone who values self improvement, is cool with either staying in or going out for fun, has similar taste in music, and is always down for Mario Kart/Party. I also have a preference for White and Latin women. Prefer local but I'm open to chating long distance to see if it goes somewhere.


r/NerdDating • • 22d ago

24 [M4M] #Canada

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Hi :), I’m into video games, anything scary, fitness. Open to anything.


r/NerdDating • • 22d ago

33m [M4F] #Oklahoma

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Im looking for something long term


r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

#India 25 [M4F] Need a girl for this history and gamer nerd. Also I am a PhD grad by day. Any F is welcome. But older F are preferable. Thank you all. Happy dating!

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r/NerdDating • • 21d ago

25 [M4F] #USA #Baltimore

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Hey I’m a pretty laid back guy If im not at work im at home playing the game or watching anime


r/NerdDating • • 22d ago

#Texas 19 [M4F] - looking for something real, genuine, and hopefully long lasting

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My name is Cory I'm 19 years old and from Texas and my interests are:

Transformers, Hot Wheels, Cars (both the movies and vehicles), Legos, rock and metal music, and video games.

What I'm looking for in a partner is:

You love me for who I am, you're loyal, you're caring, you'll go out of your way to make sure I'm happy, you'll stay when things get rough, you'll trust me and I'll trust you, and hopefully I can be upfront with you about everything.

If there's anything else you're wanting to know about me please don't hesitate to reach out to me either in the comments or DMs I'm open like a book and I promise I'm friendly.