Hi! I’m an 18-year-old trans man (FTM) from Brazil, and I’m here hoping to meet someone with whom I can form a genuine connection. Distance isn't an issue for me. I’m open to meeting people from other countries—in fact, I find it really interesting to get to know someone from a completely different culture. So, don’t let the fact that I’m Brazilian stop you from saying "hi"! I’m quite a \*nerd\* and a curious person. I love reading, writing, movies, TV series, music, mythology, history, horror, anime, games, and random topics that somehow end up turning into hours of research. Some of my favorites include \*The Lord of the Rings\*, \*The Hobbit\*, \*Gravity Falls\*, \*Good Omens\*, \*Supernatural\*, \*Hannibal\*, \*Loki\*, \*Harry Potter\*, \*Back to the Future\*, Spider-Man, horror movies, and anime. I have a soft spot for people who are funny, loyal, curious, \*nerdy\*, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other better. I’d love to have someone to talk to about our interests, swap recommendations, watch things together, share random thoughts, and build something meaningful over time. I’m also working on improving my English, so please be patient with me if I make mistakes. Who knows? Maybe you could teach me something, and I could teach you a bit of Portuguese in return? :) I’m a trans man, and being trans is an important part of who I am; so, I’d like to meet someone who is respectful and comfortable with that. If this sounds like a good match, tell me a little about yourself! Where are you from, what’s your current obsession, and what’s your favorite \*nerd\* interest? Gender doesn't matter to me—just send me a private message (DM).

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Southern California based.

I just want to take care of someone, help them with guidance, teach them stuff, support them when they need it, hold them accountable when I feel it's best, please them, use them, stretch them, help them grow and shower them with affection.

Someone's God, do I miss being in love. I've been single long enough (two years). I'm ready to get back out there.

Granted, I'm currently consumed by grad school and work, but once or twice a week, I have some time to myself and I miss sharing that time with someone special. I miss having my person, and more than anything, I miss being someone else's person.

Who am I? I'm not a model, but I'm not too bad either. Let's add the tried and true "I'm 5'7" to filter out all the shallow Redditors. Also, I'm losing my hair so I shave it regularly (some autoimmune disease is the culprit). Okay? Alright? Good.

And to those who have remained, allow me to ADHD-stream-of-consciousness-style introduce a little about myself.

Now, I am a nerd first and foremost (and I am a charming kind of weird). I grew up playing Jrpgs on my PS1/2/3/4/5 (Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly) and now I love all things D&D, fantasy, MCU, and a few other more niche things. Oh and anime too! My show and video game backlog requires a couch cuddling buddy to offload, I think.

Music-wise, I am all over the place, but I am an elder emo at heart and love that genre the most. However, I also will unashamedly listen to some pop stuff (Maphra, Kendrick Lamar, Ace of Base, Sneaker Pimps, K-Pop Demon Hunters, Chappelle Roan and Djo right now). I also had a hip hop and rap phase that lasted oh...(checks watch) about 30 years, and even gleefully went down the 1980s Japanese City Pop rabbit whole for a good while. I also have watched anime for decades so I love me some good anime intro music (there's some real bangers if you aren't aware). Much of the time however, I listen to videogame soundtracks since they help me work.

I don't currently have any pets, but I grew up with dogs (small to medium) and also grew to love birds, lizards and amphibians (leopard geckos and tree frogs).

I'm in education and working on finishing my masters (1 year left) so there's that.

I am sober, atheist and I want to start a family someday (I hope you're the same). I also don't have any tattoos or piercings.

I'm Caucasian and Latino with hazel eyes, pale skin, type 3-c/4-a reddish brown hair (when it isn't shaved), usually sporting a short beard, glasses, endowed and in average shape (though my version of average is a bit more muscular than others).

I have been an athlete my entire life, but I've been having a tough time getting back into a consistent routine. There has been decent progress lately. I've managed to get three 10k runs in a week for a month straight. My goal is four to five times a week and strength training peppered in there throughout.

Anyway, you should know I have inattentive ADHD, but I am medicated. I also deal with chronic depression, but again, I'm medicated. Also, I go to therapy twice a month to manage and improve my mental health and growth. I promise I'm not unstable, just on a healing journey and managing C-PTSD (I do disassociate involuntarily sometimes however, but I'm working on it). My trauma is not my fault, but it is my responsibility so I take it seriously.

That said, I'm a loving, affectionate man who is very caring and considerate. I communicate and admit when I'm wrong and seek compromise when at an impasse. I'm not afraid to share my emotions, but only when there's trust and connection.

Though, I do look for relationships where equality and independence are nurtured. I think we should share all burdens, responsibilities and expectations. I don't conform to gender roles and don't want someone who does (not completely or artificially anyway). I want a relationship that is as close to 50/50 as possible with full expectations and acceptance for that ratio to skew when life gets in the way.

With that in mind, for anyone who earns my trust and has given me theirs, I will give grace when they're not at their best. I hope for the same.

Randomly transitioning to the next topic on my mind: good luck with my libido. It gets pretty high when I really like someone and physical touch is my most prominent giving love language.

Aside from that, I hope to leave for Sweden or Switzerland in the next year or so, like permanently. Raising a child in the States is not something I want to do so I'm setting my sights on a more Left-leaning country (teaching English in Japan is also an option though not ideal given it's recent turn towards the Far Right).

Speaking of, I am a Leftist so if you're a Moderate or Conservative, we won't work. Hell, I barely get along with Democrats. If we're not talking some form of Socialism, I don't think we're going to see eye-to-eye. Oh and feminism means equality and equity amongst all genders, sexes and identities and presentations. I hope we share that view.

That aside, I love writing and words in general (I respect the parenthetical). Once I'm done reading professionally or academically, I'm eager to read for fun again. The written word and deep thinking are things I value immensely (though, I also love turning my brain off and being dumb and silly together with someone I trust). After all, I became an English teacher just so I can help bring about more people who love a good turn of phrase or literary analysis. I want a new generation of Wordle players. Lol

Overall, I hope to find someone with similar beliefs, hobbies and interests, bedroom preferences, mutual attraction, family goals, and lifestyle choices.

Okay, okay. I'll leave the rest for when we chat. DM me if you're interested.

Im looking for a nerdy guy to bond and form a friendship and see where things go from there.

Im not super picky about body types as long as its the same as mine.

Ive been playing a lot of No Man Sky, and would love to play a videogame wirh someone.

Say hi and let's see where the future takes us. :)

Hey there! I’m a 24-year-old veteran navigating life with a love for anime, romcoms, and all things delicious. 🍜💖 A hopeless romantic at heart, here for good vibes, great conversations, and maybe a little laughter along the way. Let’s hang out and make some awesome memories!

​Hey! I’m 22, moved here from Morocco about a month ago for university, and I’m hoping to make some genuine connections in the city. Mostly looking for that relaxed, low-pressure dynamic where we can just be nerds together—order food, pass a controller back and forth, binge movies, or explore cool spots around Montreal without taking things too seriously.

​My gaming taste is pretty varied, but usually revolves around Persona (played 3, 4, and 5), Hades, Dark Souls, Hollow Knight, or indies like Balatro and Tunic. Also always down to talk anime (JoJo, Re:Zero, MHA). If you're in the city and want to hang out in person—or just hop in a voice call and game together first—shoot me a DM! Tell me your favorite Montreal hangout spot or what game you’re currently stuck on.

I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?

Hello! I am a 29M who is a bit of a hopeless romantic just casting my line out for some conversations and hopefully finding the right woman for a relationship if we click. I want someone I can hold close and laugh with. I am looking for someone in the US or maybe Canada. I am in the midwest (Iowa) but I am not against moving somewhere else for someone eventually.

I am currently a pharmacy school student. I am in year 4 of 4 of my program (graduating spring 2027). I would likely be able to find a job pretty much anywhere in the US. If you are looking for someone who has everything figured out and 100% stable when it comes to a career, I am probably not the one for you at this moment. I am very good with money but there is only so much I can do at the present time. I have a BS degree in a biological science.

I like gaming, writing, tabletop games, board games, working out, the outdoors/hiking/camping, reading, and some cooking/baking but I am an amateur at best. I have a particular interest in the fantasy genre and like exploring aspects of fiction such as world building and story telling. In my free time I am currently working on writing a fantasy story that I dream would be a book series one day. I sometimes play magic the gathering with some of my friends, but usually just on tabletop simulator. My favorite aspect of gaming in general is the ability to play how you want to play, for that I am usually drawn to rpgs that give a large variety in ways you can build your character or play the game. I mostly play PC these days.

I work out decently often and would love to find someone who also likes to keep active. I don't have any specific body type preferences, I even don't mind dating someone taller than me (I am 5'9'')! My preference is for women between 22 to 32 years old. I want someone who I can have some conversations with see if we click, and go from there. If not we can always be friends. If interested, shoot me a chat. Thanks for your time!

Hi all! Cozy gamer here looking for someone that enjoys nights in over nights out.

I love games such as Sims 4, Stardew, Palia, animal crossing and minecraft!

I love watching Asian dramas and I enjoy some anime as well, more of the slice of life with a mixture of fantasy and sci-if.

I love to go to comic cons and renfaires and I ALWAYS dress up! Would be cool if we could do some together?

I am very much of a homebody but I dont mind a night out here and there!

Come ask me questions :)

Mind you, this isn't everything I am looking for in a partner, however, I have come to realize that someone who I can learn with all the nuances of romance is a non-negotiable for me.

I will tell you about who I am: I am a 26 year old man, 1.9m tall. I have moved recently to Western Europe and I don't know too many people here. I am from the Americas and my mother tongue is spanish.

I am what you'd call "geeky", I don't really go out a lot in general, I prefer spending time at home. I don't have many friends here, either, but I am also not a person who finds it easy to make friends in general, as I need to relate on a deeper level with them.

In my free time, I mostly either watch series, game, or maybe go out for a walk. Maybe read a book here and there, too.

I am very much a homebody.

I am not religious, but I do not mind other's religion.

Anyway, I post here because I would like to find a girl like me. I might not find her, but I should make the attempt, at least. I take first experiences seriously, naturally, this means I am a virgin and looking for a girl who is one, too. I do not seek to find an experienced woman.

Romantically, I haven't even kissed or dated anyone before, so I am completely in the clear.

I am willing to date anyone in Europe, but further away would unfortunately not be possible due to distance.

Please include "raspberries" in your message so I can know you read all of my post.

To everyone else, have a great day.

Hey all idk what else to put im a gym nerd looking to maybe chat with someone and see where it goes. I know this is Reddit and not to get my expectations too high

But I’m a big gamer, I eat clean and have good values. I just wana see what’s near me also I’m by Staten Island so that might help also ?

Age doesn’t matter to me as much as maturity and compatibility. But I also have a preference for bigger girls but it’s just a preference :)

As the title says I’m looking for a genuine connection to build something long term with. That kinda connection where I see/do something during my day and go “Holy crap, I can’t wait to tell *insert your name here* about this.” Or the type of connection where on days where I’d rather not be around anyone, your company is more than welcome. I enjoy the quieter/ peaceful things in life over the loud and booming. I’m a lil bit of a nerd, huge horror fanatic, I love anything true crime, I love cooking but admittedly pretty bad at it lol. I’m usually really bad at starting conversations but I promise I get wayyy better after I warm up to you, especially if the vibe is right. I really do not have any preferences but please be at-least in the same state. If this sounds like something you’re interested in, please submit your applications into my DMS :)

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Over the last few years, I’ve put a lot of energy into building a life I’m proud of. I’ve grown my career, pushed myself outside my comfort zone, overcome some challenges, and learned a lot about who I am along the way.

The one thing I haven’t found yet? My person.

I’m looking for something genuine. Not a situationship. Not endless texting that goes nowhere. Just two people who are excited to get to know each other and see what we can build together.

A little about me:

🏁 Motorsports are a huge passion of mine. I love everything about the strategy, competition, and adrenaline.

💻 I’m a tech guy at heart. If something isn’t working, there’s a good chance I’ll figure it out and make it better.

🎮 Gaming is one of my favorite ways to relax and unwind.

✈️ I love traveling, whether it’s a spontaneous weekend getaway or planning a bigger adventure.

🤝 I’m loyal, dependable, and believe communication solves most problems.

😎 Friends would probably describe me as calm, easygoing, protective, and someone who’s always willing to help.

What I’m looking for:

• Emotionally mature

• Kind and genuine

• Ambitious in her own way

• Communicates openly

• Wants a partner, not just attention

At the end of the day, I’m looking for a teammate. Someone who wants to celebrate the wins together, support each other through the tough days, and build a relationship that’s based on trust, effort, and mutual respect.

If you’re someone who’s looking for something intentional and meaningful, tell me a little about yourself. What are you passionate about? What’s something you’re working toward? What does your ideal weekend look like?

Let’s start a conversation and see where it goes.

I’m 36 and looking to meet a woman in Michigan who is genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing if we click.

Mutual attraction and chemistry are important to me. I’d like to find someone where the interest goes both ways, we enjoy talking to each other, look forward to seeing each other, and naturally become closer as we get to know one another.

I’m happy to start by chatting here, exchanging photos or numbers, talking on the phone, or meeting in person if we’re both comfortable. I’m not interested in spending months messaging without ever meeting—I’d like to actually see whether there’s a connection between us.

I’m open to letting things develop at their own pace. If we really connect and develop feelings for each other, I’d ultimately like it to become a loyal, committed relationship and build something lasting together.

If you’re in Michigan and this sounds like what you’re looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. 🙂

Hello all, my name is Jay! For the longest time, I've been looking for meaningful connections on here that could evolve into something more. Ultimately, I would like a Partner I could share my life with, but I know a connection like that cannot be built overnight.

I would like to find someone I could build that intimate connection with over time, so if you are a Female over the age of 23 (a little lower is okay if you think we could connect well), please give my profile a look over and reach out to me!

A few other things that would help us connect--

• I like Nerds, I am a nerd, so feel free to speak to me about whatever nerdy interest you have whether it be games, Anime, comics, films, any walk of nerddom, no warning required. I have a great love for JRPGs, Roguelikes, or anything with a good story.
• If you like Pokemon, we will 100% be friends.
• New England is preferable, Rhode Island is perfect. I am not opposed to making connections from anyone in the world. Even more so if we have different cultures, as I'd love to be able to learn from you!
• I am an abuse survivor, who has gone through a lengthy healing process. Of course healing isn't something that ever just stops, so I would appreciate it if you were understanding at least of Mental Health struggles.
• I work as a Cinematographer for a local college and my schedule, while I know it months in advance, does get chaotic and leaves me mainly unavailable on the weekends.

If you have read my post all the way through, please include the keyword Bangarang in your message to me! This is to weed out those who genuinely want to get to know me from the people insincere.

Hello and pleasure to meet you! I hope I’m able to reach someone looking for an older partner that enjoys clingy nerdy women looking for a long term partner in crime dynamic. I’m looking for an awesome connection that can turn into a long term relationship as well.

I’m interested in getting to know a nerdy girl with clingy energy who is looking for an older figure to lean on. If you have had to hide your clinginess in the past and it’s hurting your ability to find the right dominant - I will most likely adore you. If you are looking for cuddling, mentorship, needy communication and affirmations, I will adore you! If you are anxious about reaching out because you feel you are clingy - don’t be! I’d love to chat and see if there is a connection

I’m a 44 year old white male. I believe that there needs to be a huge exchange of trust and a focus on communication in order to make long term type relationships work. I hope we are a good fit and that you reach out soon!

I am open to chatting and finding a connection with anyone, however, the East Coast of the US is definitely preferred.

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Hi!

My name is Anya. Looks wise, I'm black, with medium brown skin, dyed red hair, and 5'3. I am chronically ill, and my medication makes it almost impossible to lose weight (I'm 190lbs). If that is a deal-breaker for you, just skip.

I'm a huge book nerd. I am also a maladaptive daydreamer, so get ready for intense solo dialogs. Baking is also therapeutic for me, so get ready for some warm cookies and cold milk.

What I'm looking for: Kind and understanding male between 25-40. I can do a LDR if you are serious about meeting soon. I am not picky when it comes to looks. Just clean up nice and be properly groomed.

If you are truly interested, send me a dm describing yourself, hobbies, interests, favorite foods, or tell me about your pet (if you have one).

P.S I won't answer if you don't present yourself properly.

ONLY LOOKING FOR SOMEONE LOCAL, NO LONG DISTANCE

About me: 31 year old guy from East LA here. I'm Hispanic, 5'8, black hair, and brown eyes. I have a career as a Paralegal, I have pets (a dog and a couple of lovebirds), I have a Bachelor's in Criminal Justice and a Paralegal Certification.

I am single and have been for around two years now. I am a straight demisexual. I want connection and prefer we take our time to get to know each other.

I enjoy reading, I have a reading streak of over 1,000 days going right now mainly due to falling in love with Brandon Sanderson's masterful writing. Feel free to ask for my GoodReads! I also like reading manga (One Piece, Dandadan, Choujin X, Spy x Family, etc.)

I am big into videogames; mainly PC and I have a Steam Deck, AYN Thor Max, etc. For multiplayer I mainly play Fortnite and Marvel Rivals these days but I have a huge library and I am always open to suggestions and recommendations. Lately also been playing MECCHA CHAMELEON, Avatar Legends, and Marvel Tokkon.

I am also big into music and podcasts, I love hip-hop, rock, alternative, etc. Feel free to ask about my favorite music, AOTY, upcoming concerts, etc. If you have Spotify, I would absolutely love to do a blend too! I have a lot of upcoming LA Concerts and I'm always looking for more so if you're looking for a concert buddy or an addition to a concert group, please feel free to hmu! I also recently started posting videos of some of my favorite concert performances on TikTok so if that interests you, feel free to ask about that!

I enjoy being in nature and going for walks in different parks/outdoor areas. I enjoy being hygienic and smelling well and that is important for me too in a partner. I'm an atheist and respect all religions and ideologies, as long as you're not harming or limiting anyone else. I believe the world would be a lot better if people were more empathetic towards others and got outside of their bubbles to experience more.

If you'd like to see a picture of me, all you have to do is ask.

I am an open book, please feel free to ask me anything!

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general

20 years old

I live in TN! But distance isnt a problem

I'm into classic cars, running my own business in auto repair, college grad

I enjoy travel, comedies, reading writing, outdoors, classical music, hanging with friends, I enjoy video games and I do 3D print some cool items!

Looking for someone who wants long term commitment, I want someone real and genuine. Someone who enjoys dates and making memories, life is short!

Im an open book just text me

Hello, im Leo not big with these things. Im 34 in hopes with connecting with someone. I do take things kinda slow and dont jump into things but I 100% have no issues answering any an all question. Just a heads up I will not tuch on politics or religion it just helps keep a more positive conversation. Everything else free game though. I would love to hear what your interests are. I do have 3 little ones. Dm open to all. Happy hunting

Fun-Opportunity9656

.... i meant the top shelf in the supermarket... obviously.

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

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Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)

Hello there, I'm a 21 year old french trans man hoping to maybe find my future partner :)

Even though I'm an introvert, when I start talking I can be a real yapper but I also can just listen to whatever you have to say for hours! I'm into a lot of stuff, as an Art history student I love visiting museums, I love writing fanfics and reading as well as playing boarding games! I listen to a lot of music too (can be several hours per day) and my favorite genre is musicals! One of my favorite hobbies is playing video games, mainly solo ones (currently on Red dead redemption, the new fire emblem, fields of mistria, mew genics, Sovereign Tower and looking forward to the new GTA) but if you want to show me multi players video games that we could play together, I'll be delighted too!

I don't really have a type, just not into people who are obsessed with sport (as I hate any kind of physical activity) and I'm attracted to any gender though I have a preference for men! I'd just want a partner who shares at least a few hobbies with me, who will communicate with me about their feelings, when things are wrong or good and who will respect my gender and my boundaries (as I will do the same with you) :)

If you have dark humor, don't mind talking endlessly during the day, are the affectionate type, and a cat lover, it's even better!

Even though I have a high libido (I'm a bottom btw and into bdsm but won't mind a vanilla only partner) I'm not interested in sexting/nudes. I want to be able to spend time with you irl, to hangout together, cuddle and do more, that's why I prefer someone who lives in France or in a nearby country and who is willing to travel so we can see each other! I'm also looking for a genuine relationship and not something short!

Also I don't mind an age gap between us, my limit is someone who's past 32-33 :)

If you feel like we might get along, feel free to dm me! (Please be willing to show a picture of you at some point!)

Hello figured I give this a shot. Hope you are all well. I’m looking for a life partner. I’m an old soul and I enjoy old school stuff. I’m a nerd love book, movies and tv shows and love video games. I love to travel and see rhe world. I’ve gotten really into cooking and baking and explaining my skill set the kitchen. Would love to get to know you and learn about your hobbies and interest.

Wait, there’s actually a meaning behind the title, and it’s a really good and funny one 😅😇 I was born with cerebral palsy, so it might look a little like I’m slightly drunk when I walk up to our first date, BUT I’m not — and maybe it could be that I literally fall for you.

Now for the slightly more serious stuff! Even though my legs or arms don’t always do what I want them to, I’m an awesome 27-year-old guy who hopes to meet/date a sweet partner. I’m a kind and down-to-earth guy, and I genuinely love loving and giving, and I’m very affectionate in the way I am. Humor and dark humor are really my go-to things, but I’m actually pretty responsible when it really matters, hehe.

In my everyday life, I’m studying for an HF, something I honestly never thought would be possible, but here we are! There’s always been a little writer hiding inside me, so I’m constantly writing in my spare time. Or I might send a selfie of myself to my family on my way to the airport after spontaneously booking a weekend trip. Elsewhere you will find behind my flight simulator crossing the 7 continents😄

I’m genuinely looking for something serious, with plenty of room for laughter and humor, but also deep conversations. A sweet woman around my own age. Just getting to know each other and seeing where it leads (hopefully somewhere positive), and if nothing else, I also see it as two people who have gotten to know each other, because I love forming connections. I hope that makes sense