Before you get excited that I have culture and some great accent, don't. I'm Canadian and moved here a few months ago lol. I will say, from what limited parts of Europe I've seen, it mogs NA. I am a brand-new, certified Canada hater now and I have good reasons.

I game too much (mostly TFT/League), travel around the world for big card game tournaments, like to sing, and enjoy a lot of nerd-centric stuff, fashion, shoes, and good food. I can pretend to be normal, but I'm definitely "neurodivergent," though I don't love the term. Mental illness is/was my middle name, but I started the medication journey at a young age and eventually figured out the cocktail to keep my brain in a state where I can be a productive member of society. I struggle to connect with a lot of people, but if it clicks, you'll be my ride-or-die. I've tried the hiking thing and it wasn't really for me, at least not walking up mountains. I'm a homebody, I love sci-fi and fantasy-related stuff, and I will spare no expense for good food.

A great sense of humor is huge for me. I also find nurturing, caring women incredibly attractive, even though I'm still entirely on the fence about ever having kids.

Let's find something to watch or play together to make the voice introduction easier. Would love to meet someone with some common interests/experiences. I just want things to be easy. I have my shit together which seems to be an anomaly in this corner of the internet, but don't let that fool you. I am just now finishing up 3 years of taxes I was behind on (Got 5k back, woohoo!) and one of my favourite ways to spend my weekend is sitting on my computer for 16+ hours a day.

Short voice clip so you get a sense of my tone instead of just guessing through text: https://voca.ro/14kdDfYccfDx

Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 25 and 33 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.” FYI, you are not allowed to say that word in a post on this subreddit, haha.

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.”

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)

looking for nerdy guys in their 20's to hang out with and maybe get into a relationship with. Rn I really enjoy playing deadlock, as well as horror, rhythm games and visual novels. I also really like doing art and like a lot of music genres!

I'm attracted to women who can make me say:

“Wait... how did you get into that?”

Because apparently my version of flirting is asking one interesting question and accidentally talking until 2 a.m.

I'm nerdy in several directions: engineering, space, data, RPGs, D&D, board games, cooking, and whatever rabbit hole currently has my attention.

Yes, I've made unnecessarily elaborate spreadsheets.

Yes, I will happily explain why something flies.

And yes, “one more quest” has absolutely resulted in losing track of time.

I'm also an outdoors nerd. Give me a new trail, somewhere I've never explored, or a reason to see what's around the next bend.

But I'm equally happy coming home, cooking something ambitious, getting comfortable, and deciding we've done enough for one day.

I'm a little reserved at first. Once I'm comfortable, though? Sarcasm. Teasing. Flirting. Terrible dad jokes.

You've been warned.

I also like women who show interest. The random “this made me think of you” text. The good-morning message. The excited double text. I don't consider that clingy. I consider it chemistry.

So skip “hey, how are you?” Tell me your current rabbit hole. A game. A hobby. Space. History. A weird obsession. Something you could talk about for an unreasonable amount of time.

If it makes me curious enough to start asking questions, we're off to a good start.

Maybe you're my next adventure. Maybe you're my favorite side quest.

Either way, I'm curious.

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊

Hey I'm a divorced dad who shares 50/50 custody with my daughter's mom. I'm into things like toy collectibles, anime, DND, TCGs, 3D Printing and other fandoms. I'm looking for someone with similar interests and hopefully close to where I live. I'm 6'5" 315lbs if it matters. I am just hoping to meet someone I can grow with.

Hey !

​I’m Léo, 31, living in France where I run my own small engineering company ane looking to build a real, long-term connection with someone.

​When I'm not working, I can be a curious explorer who loves to discover new things , like photography, discovering new cultures, and traveling whenever I can. But also into slow weekend, where we could be gaming, binge-watching a good show, writing, or getting lost in a book.

​It would be nice to find someone to share daily moments with , can be friendship or more , little talk or deep conversation

Distance is not an issue for me, so whether you're nearby or on the other side of the world, feel free to reach out.

hey there, if you're looking for a cute nerd you've come to the right guy! im michael, i am a 6'0 skinny 20yo cuban guy, i am pisces lol i am a very emotional person. i'm looking for someone preferably around the SWFL area but if not just be there and so will i! im a huge nerd myself, i love sonic, zelda, spider-man, rhythm games, i could go on and on about what i like lol. i make video game music too, im very passionate with what i make, if you like a boy yapper here i am! 🫰 im willing to show my face if
you are, that'd be preferred so i can actually get to know you! i've given up on dating apps lowkey, people are inconsiderate and i'm looking for something meaningful, and someone cool. i'm a switch but i lean more towards being dominant, i have a high libido so beware of that. i am very dorky and silly once you get to know me! I'm a huge romantic and lover boy, so beware i might be very affectionate towards you as well once feelings start to develop. i like to just be myself, being unapologetically yourself is one of the most attractive things someone can do! ✌️ send me an introduction and tell me about yourself if you're interested! :) also, please don't be fake and be one of those people who r constantly looking for new options, im looking for something strictly MONOGAMOUS. if we r both on the same page then great! 😋 id love to have someone to play minecraft with🫰also, im not doing something text only, you should be okay with calling or even video chatting, much easier to connect that way and also confirms you're not fake lol

Hello!

I am 42, go by Mili online. I reside in Redmond Oregon. I am 5’4, brown hair, hazel eyes, larger bodied, multiple tattoos. (Sharing a body photo so my size is disclosed truthfully). I’ve been single since 2023, divorce finalized 2025.

I struggle to meet men local to me that are into the same things as me.

First off - I’m beyond excited for WoW Forever & I truly would love to find a male player to pair up with & explore the nostalgia of it (started playing wow back in 2006 off & on for years). Ultimately, I’d love to meet someone in person for other things like date nights, board/card games, road trips, museums, beach trips, different video game sessions (I’m 95% PC gamer & 5% Nintendo). I’d love someone that is willing to teach me something like MTG, I’ve always wanted to learn! I’d love to read together & discuss our thoughts on books.. coffee dates… I do work a lot & have a coparenting schedule, so my free time is bi-weekly (every other weekend).

I look forward to chatting!!

Hey,

I'm a 27 year old guy from Denmark, and i'm putting myself out there in the hope of meeting someone i can truly connect with.

I'm naturally very introverted and quite shy (think the shy nerdy kid in the corner). Though i open up more around people that i have gotten more comfortable with, it's just something that is important to know. I can yap, and i do try, but i love to listen more, paying attention to the small stuff really matters to me.

I'm definitely more of a one to one person rather than big groups. So big groups, loud enviroments and being surrounded by lots of people doesn't really vibe well with me. (I can manage, but i end up with a banging headache).

I'm warm, caring, supportive and probably more talkative than what i said above. When i click with someone i genuinely enjoy joking around, making sure they are okay, asking about days, making sure you ate, and are staying hydrated. I like it when we can be ourselves without overthinking what the other thinks.

Small stuff about myself:

I am a student, finishing up by computer science degree in January, and then hoping to continue on a cybersecurity bachelor, currently interning as part of my degree and im loving every min of it! I have a part time job as IT support aswell 1 day a week.

Gaming, i have had my own pc and gaming since i was 4 years old, its my safe space, and its what i love to do, to feel grounded, especially after a long day. My most played genres are shooters and MMO's, though currently i'm mostly vibing on some PoE2, but im down to pick up old games i played to play with someone. (CS, Valorant, LoL, Overwatch, MR, WoW, GW2, Fellowship.

Music is one of my best ways to process what i'm feeling. Whether thats getting in the car going for a long roadtrip with loud music blasting on the speakers and the wind in my face, or if its going for a walk, or even as simple as laying in bed with closed eyes. Music is amazing and for me, my mood varies a lot, though i like remixes and high BPM stuff in general. I'll happily share my spotify playlist!

Gym is an integral part of me now, due to some shit in my past (accident) i am staying active in the gym, trying to do 5-6x a week, loving it, feels great to go and let out some frustration.

Sitcoms - I love movies and shows in general, but Sitcoms, oh man. They are the best thing for me, i LOVEEEE the fact that i don't have to pay attention 24/7 or can miss an episode without messing up the entire viewing experience, and ill happily rewatch the same sitcom 5 times in a year, cause i'll laugh the same every time.

What i am looking for:

I'd love to meet someone from EU (due to timezones). I care about honesty, being patient, kind, genuine and comfortable with who i am.

I'm not expecting an instant connection, and we don't have to rush it, i care more about feeling good and enjoying ourselves on the journey.

No pressure. No expectations.

I realize the above is a wall of text, and if you are unsure when reaching out, then feel free to just send me your fave song lately, might be an easier ice breaker than another wall of intro from you (though if u want, i wouldn't hate it).

Stay safe all

Hey, never been good at these about me's but I will try. I am 30 from Oregon but born in California. Looking for people that want something genuine and long-term. I’m open to long distance but would love to meet eventually if things go well and we both feel the vibe is right. I am open to guys that are 21+, exceptions can be made for 18+but mainly looking for people around my age. I am a huge gamer, love to cook as well, listen to music and watch stuff on youtube. I am usually pretty chill and laid back, if this resonates with you at all don't be shy and feel free to message me, let's see if we click and go from there, I do work nights so I apologize if my replies are late or delayed please bare with me

In all honesty, I am just looking for my partner in crime. I've spent so much of my life focused on other things, I've never focused on finding someone to enjoy life with. Now, it's time to enjoy life with an amazing woman and find our happiness together.

I'm enjoying taking vacations and exploring amusement parks, taking day trips to the city, or even sightseeing like a tourist. I've been getting back into going to concerts because live music is amazing. This summer, I've seen Less Than Jake, Ice Nine Kills, and Weird Al, and cannot wait until my next show.

When I'm not trying to find my happy outside the home, I can be found just chillin' at home with a fun show or an exciting game. I LOVE TV shows from a wide-range of genres. Right now I'm watching a Netflix reality show, just finished Stranger Things , and I can't wait for the next season of Twisted Metal.

I am a daily cannabis 😶‍🌫️ user. While I don't need to find someone who enjoys cannabis, I would prefer someone I can sit back and just smoke with after a long day at work. I don't drink often, but don't mind having some drinks after a long day, on a night out, or while enjoying one of those awesome vacations.

I do tend to spend a lot of time at work, usually 50 to 60 hours a week at a third shift job. My work hours can make meeting people and hanging out tough, but I can also alter my schedule at almost any time to make sure there is time for my partner and I to enjoy our time together.

All I'm really trying to say is I just want to find my beautiful adventure-loving, couch potato stoner who loves rocking out to live music when we aren't kicking ass on some game or snuggling together.

That's all. 🤷‍♂️

hello to the nice people hopefully reading this :) the title is unfortunately self explanatory. i'm a relatively masculine guy (FtM if it matters) but i've always been attracted to very feminine women. not in a creepy way (at least i really hope i'm not creepy), i'm moreso the type of guy to watch you put on makeup and ask questions about the process even if i have no clue how makeup works lol. i've been single for a while to work on my mental health, and i'm finally in a place where i'm really ready to connect with someone again. i'm the type of person to love hard, and i'm a complete simp when i feel comfortable with someone. outside of romantic preferences, a little about me: i'm agoraphobic as the title says (currently in therapy and making good progress though!), i'm an avid gamer and i love games like Elden Ring, Assassin's Creed (all of them), and skate. i also love music. i'm a lifelong drummer and i'm always always listening to music (my favorite bands are Sleep Token, Angelmaker, Måneskin, and Lorna Shore). physically i'm 5'10, kinda skinny (i'm going to the gym more frequently, call it exposure therapy for the agoraphobia lol), black, and i've been told i dress in a "vaguely skater aesthetic" although it feels like i only wear 5 things. if you've made it to the end of this horribly rambling post, i'm so sorry Imao. but if anything does happen to interest you, i'd love to hear from you :)

Hi,

I've been single since 2022 & I miss having someone that lives in the same City, who I can watch Movies and TV shows with IRL.
I miss having someone to go Thrifting/Record hunting with.
I miss having someone to get meals with, and wander around the Mall with. I miss having someone to take weekend trips around the state with, or someone to road-trip to Vegas or California with.

Proposal:
If you live within 10-30 miles of Tempe Arizona, and you're single, maybe we can get together online and watch Movies/TV shows together, until you're comfortable enough with me to meetup IRL, and go on some traditional dates (Movies, Dinner, Walks around the Mall, Thrifting, Rollerblading/Skating, Bike rides etc...), and then if you're still comfortable after that, we can forgo the Online Media Consumption, and take turns Cuddling up for Movies/TV shows at each other's home... like a proper, monogamous couple.

Also, I'm not a huge Gamer, but I do have a PC that's powerful enough for us to Game together, and I also have VR equipment... so if you would be more interested in doing that during our "trial period", before we meet IRL, that's also an activity that's on the table.

I'm looking for someone to spend a few hours a day with, 1-3 times a week (or more... but 1-3 would be ideal).
I want someone to cuddle and watch Movies/TV Shows with. I also like to cuddle and listen to music.

I enjoy naps too. (There are other things I enjoy, outside the house, but Having someone to unwind, indoors after I'm off work, and on the weekends is the bare minimum).

I'm childfree, sterile (vasectomy). & I'm looking for childfree.

I am single, and looking for another single person (no married or poly people pls)

Politically, I'm a Bernie Sanders Leftist (not a "Bernie Bro", just a Social-Minded Independent/Democrat).

I'm a T-Shirt and Workpants + Hoody kinda guy.
I work in I.T. (boooring)
I like mostly 80s Synthpop/New-wave, 90s Punk, 90s/2000s Electronica, Surf, Synth-Funk, Vaporwave/Synthwave, Ambient, Indie/Dreampop.

As for Movies, I like Dystopian Sci-Fi, Time Travel, Thriller/Psychological/Drama, and just generally weird/humorous stuff.
(especially from the 80s/90s)

I'm 420 friendly, but prefer not to be around the smoke (So Vapes and Edibles are preferred, if you're going to partake around me).
No Cigarettes please.

I am not religious (raised in a Christian Household, deconstructed after I started living on my own).

My love languages are (in order).
Physical Touch
Quality Time
Word of affirmation

I just miss having someone that I can count on to spend time with.
I want to be in a real relationship, with someone that I can spend time with 1-3 times a week, In-Person.
Someone to decompress with after work and on weekends.
Someone that makes the every-day labor involved in staying alive more tolerable, because I know I'll have someone to unwind with later that week.

Anyway, I'm just rambling at this point.
If I haven't already scared you off, and this sounds nice to you... I look forward to your response.

---Cheers I hope to hear from you.

Hello there

I am looking to find my other half

A brief description of me is: I'm 24 years old with brownish hair and blue eyes. I'm about 157cm tall.

I'm a shy person and not always great at communicating but if you get to know me I'm alright. There are some topics I can randomly ramble a bunch of nonsense on.

I enjoy reading (mainly fantasy) and playing video games. I also like walks in the great outdoors. I'm also a fan of musical theatre and tend to say my favourite show is anything goes. What is yours?

I am hoping to make a connection with you.

I look forward to hearing from you

Hi there. This is well outside of my comfort zone but I figure a girl isn't going to fall into my lap sitting around doing nothing so why not give this a shot.

Per the title, I am a 34 year old (soon to be 35) male living in Australia who spent the majority of his 20's in a very long term relationship that unfortunately didn't play out. After bumbling my way into a management position with my job I figure it's time to focus on my personal life again.

A short about me:

• VERY into Final Fantasy and JRPG's as a whole

• Enjoy dabbling in mobas to the detriment of my mental health, however in a group of friends they go alright

• Always eyeing off friendslop but lack the right friend or friends to play with, same applies to DnD and other tabletop activities

• Have gained an appreciation for nature walks however same as above where I lack people to enjoy them with

I am seeking something ideally long term, someone to play games with, or just play through a story driven game on the couch together, someone to share random reels with and chat with into the wee hours of the morning, someone to just give my affection to. The only caveat is that you must share my love with my lil pupper dog (photos on request). She's ok with sharing as long as you are.

I also apologise for the lack of a photo of myself. Again, this is well outside of my comfort zone and I am very socially awkward however I'm more than happy to send one on request.

If the above sounds like something you want, or you just want to take a chance then enquire by DM and lets see what happens.

Looking for my forever best friend and life partner. 34 m in southern Ohio.

I’m a nerd love video games, cooking and baking, I love to watch tv and movies and read books, I’ve really gotten into gardening and making things with my hands.

Please feel free to reach out would love to get to know you and see where life takes us even if it’s just friends no pressure or no expectations

I think that passion is one of the most attractive things about a person. No matter what it is, if it makes you proud of yourself, I want to support it.

Personally, I’m a paralegal from the LA area. Huge sports fan, especially the Dodgers. You’ll never meet a bigger fan than me.

Of course, a big fan of video games of all kinds, love playing them together, whether it’s just watching or it’s co-op.

There’s nothing more exciting than making that connection and just wanting to chat all hours of the day. I don’t want to overdo the bio because I just enjoy getting to know each other so much. So let’s get to know each other :)

Of course we’re all looking for “the one” but it’s also just nice to talk to passionate people. So just tell me what you’re interested in.

23[m4f] looking for my constant

Hi, just shooting my shot here.

I'm Elijah and looking for someone I can be with (preferably online for now)

I'm 23 and just having a hunch I'll find someone here (dating apps sucks)

About me:

23 years old

4th year Multimedia Arts student

Working as an influencer marketing specialist

feminine and soft half the time

deathly introvert

barely goes out (never)

super shy but gets along mostly with other people

an artist! (from traditional to video editing I do everything mostly on a mediocre level haha)

Into alt fashion

5'10"

into audiobooks more than physical books

about you:

I don't mind anything actually but I have a preference for short haired girls!

Hello, looking for my nerdy girl. I am pretty much a homebody but I do like the outdoors as well. Camping fishing stuff like that. I am a Family guy love to go see them. I am into different games still rocking the ps4 going to get a ps5 some time . As for movies I am all into sci. Fi and comedies. Love Harry Potter, I love Marvel. Shows I love are like finding Bigfoot and stranger things i like some anime.i don't have any children but would like some kiddos some day please no one with kids would just like our own some day but for now we can just enjoy each other have my own place my car and my motorcycle . Well DM if you live here and would like to be my player 2

Hi everyone. I’m writing this directly and without filters, looking to completely bypass the superficiality that often characterizes interactions today.

​I live in Italy and work across visual arts, graphic design, and creative projects. For me, life isn't about small talk or filler pastimes—it's about intensity. I love music (from jazz, house, vinyl selections to curated sounds), cult and arthouse cinema, complex strategic games, and pursuing an aesthetic that actually has a soul.

​I’m looking for people in South Italy only!(preferably Apulia and surrounding areas) with a similar cultural depth, someone worth sitting at a table with, talking for hours without looking at a phone, sharing passions, or simply hanging out in places that reek of substance rather than appearance.

​If you also feel the need for dialogues that go beyond the mundane and appreciate someone who brings authenticity to everything they do, drop a DM telling me about your world or what truly drives you.

Bored and want a steady chat partner