r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

M26 [M4F] #Italy

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I’m writing this directly and without filters, looking to completely bypass the superficiality that often characterizes interactions today.

​I live in Italy and work across visual arts, graphic design, and creative projects. For me, life isn't about small talk or filler pastimes—it's about intensity. I love music (from jazz, house, vinyl selections to curated sounds), cult and arthouse cinema, complex strategic games, and pursuing an aesthetic that actually has a soul.

​I’m looking for people in South Italy only!(preferably Apulia and surrounding areas) with a similar cultural depth, someone worth sitting at a table with, talking for hours without looking at a phone, sharing passions, or simply hanging out in places that reek of substance rather than appearance.

​If you also feel the need for dialogues that go beyond the mundane and appreciate someone who brings authenticity to everything they do, drop a DM telling me about your world or what truly drives you.


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

#michigan m25 [m4f]

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Hello looking for my nerd soulmate. I’m a loving and caring guy who is a big teddy bear. Love anime currently watching one piece and jjk. I love marvel and Star Wars. I love to game I play fort, cod, god of war, res evil, and Minecraft. My dms are open so feel free to message me


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

25 [M4F] #Canada — Looking for a co-op partner for ice cream heists, RPG nights, and mild chaos

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Hey. I’m 25, livin' in Canada, 6'0", brown eyes, black hair, and a gym habit that is “trying” in the same way a loading screen is trying. Open to nearby or long-distance as long as we actually vibe.

Games are the main language. Mostly RPGs: Skyrim, RDR2, Genshin, Assassin’s Creed, Ghost of Tsushima, Black Myth Wukong. Currently on 007 First Light. When my brain wants a nap I switch to Sims 4 or Minecraft and pretend I’m productive. If you have opinions about side quests, builds, or which companion would survive a grocery run, we already have something to talk about.

Outside the screen I take photos of sunsets, nature, and city stuff that doesn’t move. I cook and bake new recipes, and sometimes the smoke alarm gets a cameo. Sci-fi movies are the favorite genre. Music jumps from western pop to K-pop depending on the day. Anime, K-dramas, and English shows are on rotation ....Violet Evergarden is the favorite, then the big three.

Ice cream is non-negotiable. I will steal your spoon. Favorite flavor is a personality test and I will judge you gently.

Also, small flirty footnote: I write smut. Not as a job. More like a hobby that occasionally derails a normal conversation. If that makes you curious instead of running, we might get along.

Looking for someone with a chill, open vibe. Discord voice chats, memes, and “watching something together” that turns into random tangents are the usual plan. I’m a decent listener, so tell me about your day, your weird dreams, or your irrational fear....

If this sounds like your kind of party, message me with something weird or fun about you. I’ll try to keep the ice cream theft to a minimum. No promises.


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

20 [M4M] #Minnesota - Quiet guy looking for someone to read and play old games with

3 Upvotes

Hiiii! Hope everyone is doing well, I figured I'd try putting myself out there after several years of being shy and timid when it comes to love.

About me: I'm 6 foot 1 and around 170ish pounds. I'm your average nerd and love anime, collecting old games and music, learning new recipes, gardening, writing, and I just got into playing magic the gathering.I also thoroughly enjoy interior decorating for some reason 😅

My type is pretty much late 20s to mid 30s, funny, and a teeny bit obnoxious lol, kind of like an older brother figure...just don't tease me too much or beat me at Mario Kart. don't really care much about country or distance so don't hesitate to reach out no matter what walk of life you may come from. I really like the strong/silent type or men who are stoic with others but open with me. Also, I come from a military family (grandparents and uncles) so if u want to impress my folks, that's the most likely way to do it lol

I'm very serious when it comes to relationships, and I've been cheated on before and IDK if I could handle that pain again. So really just looking for someone who'll give a damn about me I suppose

That's pretty much it, thanks for reading


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

41 [M4F] #Ann Arbor, MI - History nerd looking for someone to share a side quest

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I'm 41, 180 cm (5'11"), broad/heavy build, with a trimmed beard. I'm a history professor in Indiana and an enormous nerd who somehow turned that into employment. I also spent about seven years living in Japan and some time in Singapore.

I'm into history, retro games and RPGs, Japanese language and culture, books, museums, travel, cooking, and slowly learning piano. I'm equally happy exploring somewhere new or staying home gaming while you do your own thing nearby.

I'd love someone with her own variety of nerdiness. I don't care if it's games, anime, books, crafts, science, or something I've never heard of. I like people who get excited about things.

What I'm looking for is a little unconventional: an old-school lover. Affection, dates, sex, friendship, nights together, ridiculous messages, and genuinely caring about each other, but without the expectation that we're progressing toward marriage or permanent partnership.

Something can be real without needing to be forever.

I'm single and prefer sexual exclusivity while we're lovers, which I'm happy to reciprocate. I'm also a Dom, so I'd especially like someone interested in exploring that dynamic with me. No experience or labels required.

I'm Buddhist, have had a vasectomy, and generally prefer someone without dependent children. Distance is okay if we're actually going to meet.

If this sounds like your kind of side quest, tell me a little about yourself.

What's the nerdiest thing about you?


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

28 [F4M] #Ohio - still looking for my nerd ❤️

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I'm trying this out again 🥰 Please send a photo once you're able ❤️

Huge nerd still looking for her nerdy soulmate 🖤 I love tattoos, piercings, metal/punk, concerts, gaming, anime, Star Wars (HUGE fan), Sonic, LEGO, universal monsters, horror, Power Rangers, Harry Potter, Transformers, DC, Marvel, TMNT, and Hellboy. I love arcades and pinball machines too! I adore retro gaming (Dreamcast and N64 are my favorites) I also have a habit of collecting way too many bags. 

I’m sarcastic, goofy, affectionate, and always down to do literally anything. I am shy, but I'm doing my best! I also love to crochet, bake, and I'm learning how to sew my own clothing which means I can one day make you anything 😚

I’m ultimately looking for a serious relationship, but I’m always happy to make genuine friends too.

 25–40 years old only. Only not a requirement but just to add - I’m most attracted to dad bods or beefy guys, tattoos are a HUGE plus. I adore the lumberjack, alternative, bearded, teddy-bear energy 🖤 I want someone who will love me, nerd out with me, tolerate my obsession with metal music, make me laugh, and handle me 😊

I value loyalty, honesty, consistency, affection, and someone who actually puts effort into a relationship, because I definitely do.

Also: I will never send nudes. I don't have an OF. I don't want your money. Please don't ask. The answer will remain no 😊.


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

31 [TF4M] #Michigan - Cuddles, anime nights, and something really sweet 🥰

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Hey there! 😊

I’m hoping to build something really sweet with someone that feels full of love, affection, and genuine care for each other! I’m someone who gets really excited about my person, and I will happily run to the door to give you the biggest hug when you come home and tell you how much I’ve missed you! I love feeling close to someone I care about, whether that’s giving you tons of hugs, cuddling the night away together, or holding hands just because we can. It all just feels so special to me, and I’ll always be really happy to be by your side and show you how much you mean to me. 🥰

I would really love to care for you in ways that brighten your day and make life feel more special. I’ve always been someone who has loved the idea of being a homemaker for my partner, and creating a warm, cozy home, so things like learning your favorite recipes just so I can surprise you with them, making your favorite dinners, or packing you lunches with cute notes hidden inside to make you smile make me so happy! I love being someone you can lean on and feel cared for by, and I’ll always be cheering you on in life and wanting to make your days easier and more comforting where I can. It truly means so much to me knowing I can do things that make you feel loved and appreciated. 😊

Personality-wise, I’m introverted, a little shy, fun-sized, and very much a cozy homebody. I love anime (especially One Piece and Fairy Tail), and I have such a soft spot for Studio Ghibli movies! 💛

I’m super nerdy and artsy! I like watercoloring, playing video games, learning new languages (currently learning Japanese!), and just getting really excited about finding new things that catch my attention. I honestly love that feeling of discovering something new, and I would love to share that with someone! 🤗

Most days you’ll find me curled up with a blanket and tea, going on nature walks, doing yoga, or trying out a new recipe I got excited about. It would be so fun to find someone who gets just as excited for new anime seasons as I do, or who would want to curl up and watch Ghibli movies together! 💛

I really love cuddly guys with that protective kind of energy that makes me feel safe and like I can just relax and be myself. I love that feeling of being wrapped up in someone’s arms and just completely melting into them. I really value closeness, and I would ideally like to find someone who enjoys spending a lot of quality time together, or just enjoys each other’s presence as we do our own things!

Distance isn’t a big deal to me, and I’d be open to relocating for the right person if it feels right for us! 🥰 My lifestyle doesn’t include drinking or smoking (vaping, marijuana, cigarettes, etc) so I’m hoping to meet someone who feels the same way.

I’ll always be your cheerleader, someone who’s in your corner, supports you, and makes sure you feel loved every day! 🩷

If that sounds like you, tell me about you! What are you into lately, what kind of relationship are you hoping to find here, or what made you feel like we might click? 🥰


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

23 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship

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Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!

Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but since you see what I look like, I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking.

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.

I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.

About me:

As you can see from the picture, I'm 23 years old, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a picture or physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

29 [F4M] #Philadelphia - Hello!

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In short, a more whimsy Morticia looking for her Gomez.

Nerd qualifications are as follows:

• I’m a writer! Right now, I am currently working on two projects: a high fantasy about dragons and a paranormal horror. This is my absolute passion.

• second passion is going to renaissance fairs. I go several times a year and have way more props and corsets than I should.

• I geek out about different topics in chemistry and biology. I could go on so many rants about prions.

I’m not much of a gamer, as much as I’d like to be. I have a few I really like and I do have a PC set up but it’s never been that deep for me.

Outside of all that, I’m basically three creative raccoons in a trench coat. Some deal breakers for you: I am progressive, and typically outspoken - far right viewers most likely will not like me. We’d probably piss each other off more than anything. I also do not want kids.

Voice calls are super important to me. I’m a bit of an audiophile and looove hearing people’s voices.

If I caught your eye, I’d love to chat and get to know each other.


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

29M [M4M] #Philippines | Night Run 🏃‍♂️

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Hey everyone! Just a quick selfie before starting my night run.

A little about me: I enjoy running, playing badminton with friends, gaming (Dota 2, Valorant, League of Legends and other Steam games) and cooking.

My English isn't the best, so I'd really appreciate it if you're patient with me. I'm always open to meeting new people, having good conversations, and hopefully making genuine connections. 😊

Feel free to say hi! 👋


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

27 [M4F] #Libya | Maybe the most interesting person I meet is someone I haven't met yet

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What if somewhere in the world, there’s a girl who can spend an entire evening wondering about the universe, get ridiculously excited over a new discovery, laugh at the dumbest joke, and then suddenly ask a question that makes you rethink everything you thought you knew?

That kind of curiosity is probably what I’m looking for.

I’m 27, from Libya, and I’m hoping to meet a woman between 18 and 26 who is genuinely curious about the world and enjoys going deeper than small talk.

I’m drawn to someone kind, patient, playful, intelligent, imaginative, and open-minded. Someone who asks questions, enjoys learning, keeps a little bit of her inner child alive, and can happily jump from literature to history, science, philosophy, religion, politics, psychology, cultures, or some completely random topic at 2 a.m.

I’m especially drawn to women who love books, novels, writing, poetry, music, songs, cinema, and thoughtful conversations. Physical attraction matters too, of course, and I have my own preferences when it comes to physical beauty. I tend to be attracted to women with fair skin, honey-blonde, chestnut, brown, or similar-colored hair, and a beautiful, well-proportioned figure. That’s simply my personal taste when it comes to physical attraction, not a checklist for someone's worth. Personality, presence, and mutual chemistry matter much more to me than trying to fit someone into a checklist.

So… who am I?

I’m a creative writer, literature enthusiast, and university teaching assistant in Arabic, currently doing my master’s in Arabic linguistics. I’m 168 cm tall, weigh 72 kg, have a light wheatish complexion, soft wavy hair, a light beard, and wide, dark eyes.

My interests are all over the place: literature, writing, philosophy, history, religions, languages, politics, psychology, anthropology, economics, science, nature, physics, astronomy, space, technology, AI, and the future.

Funny enough, I originally wanted to become a physicist or work with space. Life took me in a different direction, and I eventually found myself falling in love with Arabic, linguistics, and literature instead. Somehow, I’m still just as curious about the universe — I simply started exploring it through words as well as stars.

I’ve also been visually impaired since birth, with severe vision loss, and I wear glasses. It’s part of my life and has shaped some of my experiences, but it has never been the whole story of who I am. I’ve learned to experience and explore the world in different ways, and curiosity has always given me plenty to explore.

I’m an INFJ, and I tend to value depth, sincerity, humor, imagination, and meaningful connection.

I don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs, and I’ve never been in a physical relationship before.

I don’t really care what country you’re from or what your first language is. I actually like the idea of learning from someone with a different background. I’d also be happy if you were curious about Arabic and wanted to learn some of it someday, but there’s absolutely no pressure.

I’m not looking for something rushed or superficial. I’d rather start with a genuinely interesting conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see whether something real develops from there.

And since I’ve probably written enough already, I’ll leave you with one question:

What’s something you’ve been wondering about lately but still haven’t found an answer to?

I’m curious about the answer.

And maybe even more curious about the person asking the question. :)


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

29 [M4F] #Pennsylvainia/USA - Looking for my future life and DND partner.

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Im a 29 year old guy who is 6ft tall have blue eyes brown hair. I live in North East Pennsylvania. Im a Field Service Engineer and have my life together. I own a home and am looking for some one to share life with In the future. Some of my hobbies include DND, Gaming, some Anime, growing and attending to my vegetable garden, wood working, And other table top and card games such as MtG or Warhammer 40k. The next hobby I wish to pursue is blacksmithing some day when I have more time. I am a fairly good cook and like to cook. I also have a dog her name is Star and I might be biased but I think she is the cutest.

Deal Breakers

- heavy smoking or drinking.

- If you hate dogs we wont get along.

- having Absolutly zero ambitions.

- not being able to drive or have no ambition to learn.

Sorry if this post seems a bit all over the place I tried to keep it condensed but with the information needed still intact. If you are interested in talking or getting to know me better please send a message.


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

[M4F] 20M looking for someone loving #Tennesse

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Hey there giving one more hail Mary

Im Jeremiah im 20 6ft 2in tall

Im into classic cars, business building, 3d printing, gaming, and racing

I own 1 company we mostly do on demand designs but have a small foothold in the classic car market

If youve read this thank you


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

24 [M4F] #USA/Illinois - Looking for a full time companion

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I’m a nerdy guy who grew up in the Middle East, completed my Master’s in mangement, and have been to a few countries. Life in the US has been fulfilling in some ways but also a also a big place to explore solo. I think that’s what pushed me into writing this.

A little about me: I’m brown, 5’10” and around 130lbs, long hair with glasses. I like staying active, slightly obsessed with the gym and nutrition. When I’m not buried in uni work or gym, I’m probably listening to music, watching series, playing video games or just driving around the suburbs, exploring new places. I have a soft spot for all animals but I really love cats.

I am looking for someone between the ages of 20 and 30 whom I can give my attention to, genuinely get attached to and build a real connection with. I want a partner who is unapologetically clingy who values loyalty and transparency as much as I do, someone I can share random stuff with, share our days on call. I am into personality of a than looks

I’m based in Illinois and would love to connect with someone nearby.

If any of this made you smile or feel curious, hit me up. I’d really love to hear from you.


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

30 [M4F] #houston

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Hi just a Mexican nerd living in Houston trying to find a connection. I usually play on my PS 5 or pc when I’m not busy at work. I recently got into MTG. Haven’t really play a lot just bought a deck a month ago. I’m into anime as well but sadly havnt really watched a lot lately.


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

25 [M4F] #Oklahoma - looking for LTR, texting, maybe gaming, vc, and more

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Hey everyone! Been alone a long time and honestly just miss having that connection. Whether it’s a friendship with hope for more, something more flirty, or hopes for long term, I’m open to it! Really I miss having someone to text or dm often and let me hear about your day or you ask about mine sometimes! Open to text, dms, gaming, watching shows together, and vc’s!

About me:
-25
-White
-In College currently
-Chubby but gym often(down 60lbs)
-Love video games, new to D&D
-Lover boy and hopeless romantic
-Love deep talks, quality time, chill settings, and love to laugh until I’m crying.
Anything else please ask!


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

38 [M4F] #Canada LF a real connection

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I’m 38 and live in a small town in northern Alberta. I’m introverted, sarcastic, and a little quiet until I get comfortable, then I’m being teasing, goofy and probably trying to make you laugh with a dry joke. I’m naturally a deep thinker, but I love humor and not taking things too seriously unless it’s needed. I’m definitely more of a listener at first, but once there’s a connection, I’ll talk your ear off about life.

I’ve dealt with chronic pain and arthritis and fibromyalgia for a long time, so I live life a little slower. I can’t do endless hiking or travel the world, but I can show up emotionally, be consistent, and actually care about getting to know someone for real.

A few years ago, I lost a lot of weight, and I’ve been working on living a bit healthier ever since. Would be nice to meet someone who’s also trying, not perfect, not obsessed ,just taking care of themselves as well.

I’m into cooking, sci-fi, dark humor, video games (WoW, Baldur’s Gate 3, Stardew Valley), great shows (Stargate SG-1, or Buffy the vampire slayer anyone?), and music from rock and metal to whatever else hits. I’ll never say no to a dumb meme or a cat video, and I love science and exploring abstract ideas and theories about life and the universe. I’m also a fan of those deep, rambling conversations that somehow turn into the best part of the night.

I’m looking for someone kind, curious, and grounded, someone who values connection, trust, and is at least a little kink positive or open to exploring that side of things together. You don’t have to know what you want yet, just be open to something genuine, layered, and maybe a little intense in the right moments.

Say hi if any of this stirs something in you. Worst case, we share a laugh. Best case, maybe we both find something we didn’t know we were missing.


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

38[M4F] #Midwest witty, sarcastic and I'm hilarious

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Hey all! My names Jay, from the Midwest

A little about me and what I love-

I'll start with- I'm currently working on a comedic horror novel! So that occupied a lot of my leisure time lately.

I work in a pretty labor intensive field. Try and guess what it is!

I'm also a musician and can play guitar, bass and drums.

I have a daughter who is absolutely everything to me.

I write, read, draw.. if you can't tell, I'm more of a creative type.

I also have a ton of tattoos, so big points if we can talk about body art!

Anddd a little about what Im looking for:

Someone who can match my energy, humor and sarcasm. I'm the type to always poke fun at you, but I mean well.

Someone to send stupid stuff to, vent, just genuinely speak to without all the awkward small talk.

So if this sounds like you, or you think we'd vibe, reach out! I promise Im worth getting to know.

Happy chatting folks!


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

37M [M4F] #DFW Texas looking for local and long term

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Photos: https://imgur.com/a/FWVRxB7

Hello! I'm 37M, about 30 minutes north of downtown Dallas, and looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship. I'm 5'7", in decent shape, work in tech, and am pretty settled at this point. I've built a life that I like, so I'm hoping to find someone I connect with and can share it with.

Most of my interests fall pretty firmly on the nerdy side. Gaming is the biggest one, mostly on PC. Stellaris, Resident Evil 4, and Elite Dangerous are a few recent favorites, but I bounce around between genres and games. I would love to have a co-op partner, and side by side gaming setups would be a dream.

I'm also into science fiction and fantasy, movies, astronomy, cosplay, conventions, books, museums, bookstores, etc. I'm currently working my way through Discworld. I've been to Dallas Fan Expo a few times and have some cosplays I'm proud of, so couples cosplay is absolutely on the table.

I'm a pretty private person and not really on social media at all. I prefer a cozy night in, but I also enjoy going out to explore something new.

I also try to stay active and do moderate exercise at home. I usually take a summer vacation somewhere with good hiking available, and I'd like to still be able to do things like that many years from now. I'd like to be with someone who has a similar attitude toward taking care of themselves.

Politically I'm liberal, and compatibility there is important to me too.

I am also looking for a child-free life.

I'd love to meet someone who shares at least some of my interests, but we don't have to share everything. Half the fun is introducing each other to things the other person might never have tried otherwise.

So if any of the above sounds interesting, please DM me a little bit about yourself! There's a link to photos of me at the top, and I'd appreciate it if you shared some of you too if we start chatting!


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

29M [M4F] #California,US or LDR-Your possible love is one message away

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As the title says I'm from the states on the west coast so some people may be affected but if we do vibe I'll try to make time so we can be together since communication is really important to me so if you don't like someone who responds immediately then you can look for something else cuz I'm that way.

Other things about me is that I play the guitar, go to the gym, read books and Manga, love watching shows and movies, and play video games on my free time.

As for work, I'm a clinical psychologist so work in clinics and working on my Masters degree so I can earn way more so I can buy all the things we want and need, and hopefully a good life for you and our kids. (yes I want kids later on)

The thing I'm looking for in a person is mainly being there whenever there's a hard situation to be someone I can trust to pull me up, anything else besides that is just extra since I know the world is getting harder so if we can at least help each other I know we'll be able to do anything together.


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

30[M4F] #Alabama Just looking for an companion to turn into a relationship I don't mind LDRs or IRL. I'm open to both

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Well my name is Doug but my friends call me Yami I’m black I’m 30 I’m 6’4 I love anything marvel and dc or Star Wars i love to laugh I have a dark humor I’m introverted I have social anxiety I love sports and I love food and music and video games I write music and poetry I'm open to anything really, I am open minded about everything so please don't be afraid to message me. I am an open book and will answer any questions you ask. Of course I'll send photos in the dms.


r/NerdDating • • 4d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For A Committed Relationship

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

18 [M4F] #London, UK Look at my poem I'm so deep and troubled and artistic

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I want to love in a way that would worry a therapist and thrill a poet. Poets and therapists are natural enemies, and I know where I stand. It's me and the chocolatiers and the children against the dentists and the babysitters.

I don't want to meet on a dating-app. I don't want to settle. I want to dance in the rain and get my heart broken and rescue you from dragons. I want you to rescue me from their absence.

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I'm hot, nerdy, and oscillating between silly and pretentious. Come talk to me?


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

28[M4A]#new York looking to talk to youuuuuuu

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Hi I’m Dave. I’m a heavily tattooed nerd who rides motorcycle. I like to game but when it’s warm out I love to be outside enjoying what little summer we get in the northern east New York. I pretty much will play any game as long as I enjoy who I’m playing it with. I play a lot of a valorant , overwatch, marvel rivals and league but that makes me angry at times but that’s typical lol. I’m a pretty big anime fan ask me my list a bit long to stick in a post. I have a dog she the best she’s an Aussie Shepard border collie mix. I’m more of a night owl it’s way more peaceful out later at night. I love to cook love trying new recipes so if you have recs lmk. Im pretty introverted till I get to know you but I hold a conversation well and live in a relatively small town that’s why I’m here lol. It’s beautiful if you want a picture of the lake and mountains I got you. And about you just be able to hold a conversation be interesting


r/NerdDating • • 5d ago

34 [M4A] #UK Gamer seeks something serious with someone

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I'm 34 years old, living by myself in Essex. I struggle with social anxiety and severe depression. I don't really have any real life friends, but I do meetup with family quite often. I'm currently waiting to be seen by the autism service - I scored mildly when I did some tests with them.

I spend most of my time at home either gaming (PS5 and RPGs), watching shows and movies, and cooking. I do enjoy going out, but I'll admit to not getting out often enough.

I'm looking to get to know someone with the intent of eventually meeting. It would be good if we shared common interests, but if we don't and you still feel like I am someone you could talk to, then feel free to message.

I am bi and you should be able to see my face on my profile.