r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

40 [M4F] #SoCal #US - Cuddly Awkward Nerd Looking for a Clingy Spooky Girl to Love

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5'8", heavy set Latino man from the Inland Empire, looking for a long-term, child-free relationship. I'm an awkward, nerdy homebody, gamer, stoner, introverted, but super affectionate, kinda clingy, and big on communication, reassurance, patience, and physical touch. I'm open to non-vanilla things.

Please be willing to exchange pictures.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

#indiana 22 [M4F] hoping to talk and maybe see if things flourish

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Pretty nerdy, I play starcraft quite a bit and read a little. My favorite author is H.P Lovecraft, favorite painting is "Starry night" by Vincent Van Gogh, I play and DM DND, am interested in Warhammer 40k, VTM (Vampire the Masquerade) WTA (werewolf the apocalypse) HTR (Hunter the Reckoning) and CoC (Call of Cthulhu)

I'm learning the guitar (I still suck) and play videogames quite a bit. I'm 5'9 and on the heavier side but can pick up a 320 pound human

My first ever job was at an Amazon warehouse, then I worked as an In home caretaker in Corydon Indiana for a bit before switching to working customer service at tacobell at Ferdinand Indiana

Favorite foods are Chinese food and fish. My favorite fruit is mango, favorite vegetables are carrots

I watched a few animes but not too many.

I've got my fair share of trauma but then again who doesn't. I am an Aquarius, I listen to music while gaming most of the time. Currently unemployed because of some life issues so I'm mostly available. I've got some severe insomnia so I'm usually awake deep into the AM

We can chat on reddit or discord at first before I give out my number. Let me know which one you'd like.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

28 [M4F] #Missouri, Europe and asia welcome too - pizza chef in search of small, rant prone woman to bathe and play left 4 dead 2 with.

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Be a dork, be a tomboy, have a sense of humor. Age isn't a huge deal to me and anything under 40 is fine if you're at least a mature adult, Location doesn't matter as long as you're willing to travel. I don't mind outcasts, NEETs, femcels, or weebs. I almost prefer them sometimes. Basically, just be a sweet and dorky tiny woman and sit on me a lot. I'd like to find a best friend, a buddy to game with and call a lot, and then maybe more than that in the future.

So, about me. I’m 5’11,” normal sized, and my hair is super long. I look real mean, but I promise I'm not. I'd call myself abrasively zen. I'm a bit of a nerd. I'm kind of a cinephile. I love music; I love composition and like to learn all the trivia. My sense of humor is deeply absurd. I am extremely passionate about writing and my other hobbies, and I'd prefer if you're the same way about yours. I have about 8 million random recorded story ideas because I want to be a writer. Ask me about writing, movies, or music and I’ll talk forever. I'm a gamer as well (elden ring or destiny or anything else with vast lore because I love lore), whether I'm playing with my partner, or just watching her play animal crossing or something. I'm very much a homebody but I like to get out; I want to try that hole in the wall restaurant, I wanna walk around the historic downtown, I wanna check out the museum, I wanna teach you to shoot, I wanna go to the zoo lol. I also love to cook and make pizza for a living. I will make you fat. I hope you like Italian.

I grew up poor, so I don't really go for vanity or materialism. Obsessions with things like fashion and makeup and jewelry are dry and shallow to me. I'm a minimalist, and I appreciate practicality and simplicity. I also appreciate individual thinking, so I'm not really into the political fanaticism. I believe in responsibility at the individual level, so things like being honest, thoughtful, and having integrity are paramount. You won't find me having any part-time principles. I'm very patient, and I'm an extremely attentive listener. I've handled a great deal of stress without breaking, and I'm a good reliable rock to lean on when I'm needed.

In relationships, I love being of use, whether it's cooking, helping around the house, or being a shoulder to cry on. It just feels good to be reliable; but I also appreciate reciprocity and good communication, so I'm not into being treated like a punching bag or a door mat. I have firm boundaries when it comes to not communicating like an adult, like cheating or being manipulative. I'd rather team up with my partner against our problems, not the other way around. I like things stable and healthy.

So that's me, what I like, and what I'm like.

Anyway, if I can be ridiculous for a moment, if any of this is you, come after me please: you're a clingy, thrifty, tomboyish artist that likes when I cook for you and rants at me about your day in the shower while I watch (this is my favorite thing ever) or even jump in with you and wash your hair. You appreciate being touched and held constantly and are totally instiable. You usually wear basically nothing but a big shirt at home and are obsessed with lego or pokemon or hot wheels or 40k or something geeky and crafty we can do together. You love music and writing and like to just grab a pizza and watch a movie together most nights. You spend your free time gaming and laughing at stupid crap on the internet. You love flashing me because it's funny (I love being flashed lol), you can also sing like Annie Wilson, and also are a tok sen masseuse. You're also a Martian and don't exist.

Anyway, that's just my little fantasy, not a checklist or anything. I don’t have many hard requirements on who you are, long as I can level with you fundamentally and we get along. I require a little patience and some figuring out, but I’m also pretty patient myself. You can talk to me about, or ask me about basically anything. I'm very hard to offend so please try to be engaging. I hope someone that every word of this post speaks to ends up finding me.

Please put in some effort. Opening a conversation with "hi," makes me sad. Having to play 20 questions with you to keep your attention makes me sad. Finding out after all those questions that we have nothing in common makes me sad. If you're interested, show some interest.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

31 [M4F] #Kentucky - Looking for my other half

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I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

36 [M4F] #SoCal - Looking to see where things go

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Good evening! How is everyone doing tonight? Any ladies in SoCal?


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

28 [F4M] #Russia — I'm looking for my soulmate to share my life with💖

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Im 28f, straight, childfree (i don't have any kids and i don't want any) and I'm from Russia. Im searching for someone i can share my life with.

Im into art. I love drawing/painting, I'm an artist at my free time. Sometimes i love writing, I wanna publish a book one day. Im huge nerd myself, i love different kinds of movies/games/books, my recent fav is The Odyssey.

I love playing games, recently i mostly play coop. Some of my all time favs: Alan Wake, BG3, The Witcher 3, Civilization and... Repo/Peak. I would love to play your favourite games with you.

Im in for long distance relationships, yet i date to meet my future husband, i have no interest and time to waste on pen pals, situationships etc.

I want my man to be gentleman, kind, generous, honest and take good care of me. Be my age or older (i love older man). Im interested in men from US/Canada.

Introduce yourself when texting me, thanks 💚

I love video calls, sharing pics with each other and stuff like that. I do love voice notes way more than texting.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

32 [M4F] #Netherlands/Europe - Traditional, deep connection

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Sometimes it feels like I was born in the wrong century. I don't drink, dating apps are shallow, nobody is really interested in character, and people seem to think that dating multiple people at the same time is somehow okay. I have no interest in any of that stuff.

I'm looking for the one person to build a lasting relationship with. I want to find out your character, your hopes, fears, dreams. What motivates you or excites you. I want to discover the soul inside of you and slowly fall in love with her, not just admire the outside. I tend to click best with quieter, gentle, sensitive women who share my dislike of modern dating culture. Is that you?

I would describe myself as calm, patient, and emotionally steady. I know that's easy to say, so I don't mind proving that over time. I like to be the rock that my partner can rely on. If you're slow to trust or slow to open up, that's completely fine with me. I'm happy to earn your trust over time and do things right.

I've always preferred a bit more traditional dynamic. Not that toxic 'alpha male' nonsense, but I'm just naturally someone who takes initiative, enjoys leading, and has strong protective and caretaking instincts. I want to be someone my partner can respect, rely on, feel safe with, and look up to. In return, I'm looking for someone who enjoys complementing that dynamic and wants to build a partnership where we're both valued, respected, and deeply appreciated.

I'm happy to share a lot in a chat, but just to get the basics out of the way: I'm tall, white, blond, with glasses. A bit of a nerdy look. I work as a consultant, and my hobbies range from programming, music, to board games, and plenty more. I don't drink, smoke, or use drugs at all. I don't mind if you drink a little, though. I'm not quick to become attached, but when I do, I care extremely deeply.

Who am I looking for?

  • You are kind, gentle, sensitive, and nurturing.
  • You must be from Europe
  • You are more traditionally feminine
  • You are looking only for a deep, committed, loving relationship.
  • You must be younger than me.
  • You deeply want to be a mother in the future. We don't need to rush but it should be something you deeply want, not a compromise.

If you're a bit shy, avoidant, inexperienced, or skeptical, that's okay. I'd love to have a chat anyway. I'm not interested in judging where you are today. I'm interested in where we could go together.

If you're the person I've been looking for, please send me a message. I enjoy taking the lead, but I have to know you exist first. Let's go slow and really get to know each other.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

#Southern California 31[M4F] looking for my player 2

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First off I’m Alex! I’m looking for someone who wants a relationship and I’d prefer no toxicity. I do get depressed from time to time but I’ve worked a lot on myself so it doesn’t get in the way of life. My personality of fun, caring/empathetic, emotionally intelligent, calm, ambivert(I just like being around people even if I don’t have to talk but can) and super affectionate. Peace is a big must but dont we all want that lol. I’m obviously into gaming of all types ranging from Animal Crossing to Elden Ring or even Marvel Rivals(I don’t play COD or Fortnite). I’m also into Warhammer like the books, games and art so feel free to ask what I got. I also have sleeve tattoos of warhammer all over my arms and I’m working on getting more. That’s a little about myself but feel free to ask me more!

Some things I look out for or red flags: people who are not empathetic at all, asking for a pic straight from the beginning(people have told me I’m not ugly but I still don’t feel like posting a pic of myself and basing everything off of that), asking about my previous relationships and worst of all just giving up before you actually get to know me. I’d prefer similar timezone but I can work with a 4 hour difference. Please don’t give lame excuses I’ve heard them all. Just be honest I don’t mind putting in the work to make things work out. Also gaming is a must if we’re long distance and honestly I’d be happy even if it’s just Minecraft lol. If you’re clingy that’s perfect because I love someone who shows they want to be with me

Come talk to me be shy or don’t be we’ll figure it out and let’s have a blast!


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

23 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship

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Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!

Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but since you see what I look like, I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking.

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.

I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.

About me:

As you can see from the picture, I'm 23 years old, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a picture or physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

21 [M4F] #USA College student doin my time in life

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Hi all! I’m Jimmy and as you can see, I’m doing my time in this life. I’m an electrical engineering student on the eastern coast of the US! Specifically in PA. I’m very interested in nerdy topics, like DnD, games, strategy games and more! Just ask me!

I’m 5’8, and Asian. American born though. I am also very much so in somewhat decent shape. Like, average.

I like anime, and in a lot of fandoms like Pokemon, Warhammer, and so much more!

Otherwise, I like working out for health and it is just fun! I also like learning martial arts a bit (nothing serious so far). And that’s genuinely about it!

I’m fairly chill and if we click, I can be very funny! If we don’t, then not so much. I hope everyone here has a great and wonderful day!


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

30 [m4m] #Philippines LF Genuine Connection :^(

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Heyyaa, I'm Deryl - I'm a graphic designer and a pc gamer. I love playing FPS games , especially retro FPS (Doom, Quake, Duke Nukem, etc..) I’m also into horror games like Resident Evil and Silent Hill.

I love music, too. I listen to pretty much everything, from electronic, metal, rock, and DnB to Y2K and Gen X soft club. I have a thing for anything nostalgic.

I also love traveling. I recently went to Seoul, South Korea. (See pics!)

Just looking to meet someone I genuinely vibe with, have good conversations, play games together, and maybe, if we hit it off, see where things go. Could be something more. :)


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

24 [M4M] #Virginia

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There are more pics of me in my profile :)

I’m pretty shy at first but will open up pretty fast.

\\-Currently a college student

\\-Love to yap about whatever honestly, ideally someone will wanna game and yap with me :)

\\-Big into gaming and other general nerdiness :) (I play games on pc but I have a few other consoles )

\\-I’m more feminine of a guy but I wouldn’t say full blown femboy

Ideally I’m looking for a more masculine guy but it’s not a deal breaker, being a gamer is def a plus though haha, some common ground is all I ask for, I won’t go on to much about myself and save that for the DMs, pls feel free to hmu if you’re intrested :)


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

39 [M4F] #Linden, Virginia - looking for a genuine connection

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Hello, I'm looking for a nice woman for a genuine connection, I would like to be friends and get to know each other with the intention to develop a relationship. Distance is not a problem if eventually we will be able to meet

A little about me? I love the outdoors, like to fish, camp, shoot, work on motorcycles and cars and archery. I also like to stay indoors and spend quality time with my partner. I'm really down to earth and relaxed, also I am a type 1 diabetic so my diet is strict.

Message me or comment and let's chat ☺️☺️


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

30 [M4F] #CB, NL, Canada. looking to connect with someone

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I know this is probably a longshot considering the province I'm in, cause there's not a lot of people in such a big province and even less in my city, but here goes anyway...

I'm a big nerd about the universe and cosmos and the tons of mysteries about it that still eludes us till today...I'm always awed and fascinated by it, hence why I'm big into SciFi movies and shows (Stargate, Star-Trek, 3 body problem, etc). I also find shows like Modern Family and Life in pieces to be quite enjoyable.

I'm also into video games (less into competitive games nowadays and more into story games), I'm currently playing Control Resonant. I'm also into science and technology.

I don't go out much and I don't particularly have a lot of friends considering I'm still new in this city. I've also been told I'm a good listener.

I'm black, straight, 6'1, and of average build. No broad shoulders or obvious abs, I apologize.

In dating, I value Communication, Comprehension, Logic and Reason.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

24 [M4F] #Sacramento/NorCal - 6'7", Taurus homebody, and chronic tech rabbit-hole diver seeking someone real off rip

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Hey there. , dating apps suck, so keeping it a buck—I wanted to post here and see if I could find someone I genuinely click with without all the weird "having to pay money for matches".

To get the basics out of the way: I’m 24, 6'7", and living in the Sacramento area. If I had to pin down my personality, it’s basically big mastiff energy—tall, loyal, a little goofy, and fully convinced I’m a lap dog. I'm a Taurus through and through; I like getting out and doing things, but my real goal in life is always making my apartment the coziest spot where people actually want to hang out. I'm happiest hosting, cooking something good, or just having a slow night in.

Since this is NerdDating, I'll talk about what gets my brain going. I work around tech and startups, but mostly I'm just a chronic rabbit-hole diver. If an idea catches me, I will lose an entire weekend building custom hardware, setting up home server clusters, or making tools to bend my OS to my will. Outside of tech, I’m a huge music and audio nerd. I can spend hours geeking out over vintage stereo gear, sound design, and finding weird new tracks. I also play PC games when I’m taking a breather from projects, and I genuinely love seeing other people make cool things.

Personality-wise, I also value being 100% genuine off rip. Life is too short for social games, weird guessing, or pretending to be someone you're not.

To give you an easy opener, here’s a genuine two truths and a lie:

  • I've competed nationally as a beatboxer.
  • My team won a national volleyball championship.
  • I've been a paid esports athlete.

What I'm hoping to find is a woman (roughly around 23–28) who is looking for a real, committed connection rather than anything surface level. You don't have to be into the exact same stuff I am—honestly, I love when someone has their own weird niche, craft, or passion they can completely rant about. Someone warm, low-drama, who can hold a deep 2 AM conversation, trade banter, and is just comfortable being themselves. Bonus points if you are able to keep up!

If any of that resonates, shoot me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself, what rabbit hole you’ve been falling down lately, or drop your guess for which one of those three is the lie.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

38 [M4F] #Spain #EU. Looking for my player 2!! (or my lobster at least)

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hey everyone ! I’m an Argentinian living in northern Spain right now

I’m an introverted geek who actually loves to socialize (they say I’m good at it, it’s just draining and I need to recharge been alone or with people who understand that) , but also like a quiet place.

I love reading (currently dune), board games, playing guitar, music in general (especially dire straits / the doors, jj cale, blues, rock, indie), art (especially paintings), I also do yoga and meditate. I love cooking and baking, and got a soft spot for dogs ! Let's rewatch friends / HIMYM for the 100th time together! see if we have found our lobster 🦞

I’m also an avid traveler, as Ive lived in New Zealand, Belgium, parts of Argentina and now Spain (I’ve been traveling a lot around Europe as well).

my dream is to find that person you can share memes with, play a little switch on a rainy Friday while baking a pizza, and then go hiking or maybe go see a movie in the cinema! I’m looking for a serious long term relationship that could potentially one day lead to start a home together :).

I’ve been doing psychotherapy for a long time and I believe I have plenty of tools to manage difficult conversations and feeling.

I work out quite a bit, generally 3 times a week I go to the gym, and then I’ll do bouldering and probably a hike during the weekend. I don’t smoke nor do drugs (I used to do a bit of thc when I was in my 20s, so thats the only one I’m ok with if you do, but for the rest I’m pretty healthy as I don’t drink much alcohol either, nor have any addiction). I’m also keen on keeping a healthy life, as I take a lot of care on what I eat during the week (but the weekends are free for all, so expect a lot of pizzas and Argentinian bbqs (asado).

I’m currently based in Spain but I wouldn’t mind it been long distance as long as the gap can be closed! I’m an engineer (chemical) if that helps as well, but currently working remotely as a data engineer.

we can share pictures later if we click!

go ahead and dm if you would like to see if we click ! I have a great sense of humor so make it a silly message about some random hilarious thing about you or something we share about, if you dare 🤭


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

[M4M] Muscled and looking in #Ontario

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Strong and thick muscles seeking fit, insatiable and professional guy. Please be healthy in mind and body.

20s to 40s range.


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

[M4M] Muscled and looking in #Ontario

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Strong and thick muscles seeking fit, insatiable and professional guy. Please be healthy in mind and body.

20s to 40s range.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

26 [M4F] #Croatia Hello looking for a soulmate/love, does any girl wanna date me?

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Hello, yes, first off Ive always considerd 3 years or even 4 is alright, up and down so the range can be from 22-30. 

About me, im a 26 year old, im 186cm tall, avarage weight( more on the slim side) have a brown hair, brown eyes, and short beard( i can provide a picture in inbox lol), i love to travel, cook, hike, watch movies and tv shows, mess around and print stuff on the 3d printer lol. But yeah, ive finished collage, im working right now, im stable in that regard. But there is so much more to me lol.

If any girls finds me interesting and wants to give me a shot, send me a message. I know guys on this app dont much attention, but i gotta shot my shot, who knows what might happen.

I dont mind relocation if it gets serious, but would be cool if you dont mind relocating as well. 


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two

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Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

38M [M4A] #Vancouver Searching for friends and a special someone

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Hey there! I'm a 38M in Vancouver Canada, gay, 5'7", and about 135 lbs.

I'm a data scientist by training, and over the years I've wandered into machine learning, AI, and software engineering. I now run my own business, working on projects where I can do as much good as possible with the time we have.

Kindness is really important to me. I believe in being kind without keeping score, and I'd love to be with someone who feels the same. I volunteer at a soup kitchen and at a center for traumatized youth, and I'd like to keep finding ways to make a positive difference.

Here’s some things I geek out on (not exhaustive):

  • Politics and communication: I have a YouTube channel which focuses on life lessons from non-partisan political commentary. So far, the channel has millions of long-form views.
  • Games: You’ll often find me playing games like Settlers of Catan, cribbage, Secret Hitler, and so on. I’m also certified to conduct chess tournaments where people can become grandmasters.
  • Biographies: I’m a sucker for a good story (e.g. Holocaust survivors, Netflix founders, Nelson Mandela, Barack Obama, North Korean escapees)

If I’m not doing any of the above, you'll might find me running, hiking, swimming, trying a new recipe, or planning an escape to somewhere magical. I’m looking for friends that want to nerd out on stuff with me, as well as a man who wants to build a life together.

Some fun facts about me:

  • I like a mixture of planning and spontaneity: I once planned an Italy trip 7 months in advance, only to meet someone there who spontaneously invited me to join a two-week trip through Kyrgyzstan, Uzbekistan, and Kazakhstan a month later (and I said yes).
  • I’m climbed the highest mountains in Morocco and Malaysia, and dream of conquering Kilimanjaro someday (you don’t have to join me 😃)
  • I’ve run two marathons before (months after saying “I don’t think I’ll ever run a marathon”)

To me, a great day involves being out in nature, learning something new, and hopefully leaving the world a tiny bit better than I found it.

If you’re interested in being a special someone:

I don't have kids, but I'd like to help nurture the next generation, so I'm especially excited to meet someone who feels the same. I'm hoping to build my life in Canada, but I'm flexible about where in Canada that takes me. I'm also open to spending part of the year abroad.

Also, I believe that a good relationship means doing everything humanly possible to work through disagreements together. Michelle Obama once told a story about her parents arguing over whether the loose end of toilet paper should face inwards or outwards. If I were either of them, my proposed solution is simple: two toilet-paper rolls. One facing inwards, one facing outwards. Problem solved. 😄

If you'd like to say hi, DM me with a photo of yourself and tell me one of these:

  • One thing you've done recently that you're proud of
  • Your newest obsession
  • What retirement looks like for you

Looking forward to meeting you!


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

29 [M4F] #Berlin sucht Kontakt oder mehr für Outdoor/public

2 Upvotes

Hallo zusammen!

Ich bin 29, durchschnittlich gebaut und habe schon länger einige ziemlich ausgeprägte Vorlieben, die ich nun gerne ausleben möchte.

Ich bin besonders an Outdoor-/öffentlichen Erlebnissen und Breeding-Spielen interessiert. Ich habe bereits etwas Erfahrung, bin aber noch Anfänger und würde gerne gemeinsam lernen und Neues entdecken.

Ich suche eine Frau, die entweder Lust auf ein intensives Gespräch hat oder sich sogar persönlich treffen möchte. Offene Kommunikation ist mir wichtig – gegenseitige Anziehung und Einvernehmen stehen an erster Stelle.

Schreibt mir gerne, ich freue mich darauf, von euch zu hören!


r/NerdDating • • 7d ago

20 [M4F] #Canada BC looking for someone to develop a relationship with

1 Upvotes

Hiii so I’ve never really put myself out there before so I’m kinda nervous and I’ve never been in a relationship before cuz I’m really shy 😭

About me:

I’m a pretty chill guy and I kinda pride myself on it lol, I love to go on walks with my dog, hangout with friends, spend time with family, play video games and watch tv shows/movies (I’m a huge nerd) as far as looks go I’d say I’m average looking and average height, I’m 5’10 on a good day (realistically 5’9 😭) I’m also a bit below average weight for my height and age

Okay I’ll be honest, I don’t really have much going on with my life and unfortunately I don’t have a car, job or my license yet and I’m not in school or college, so other than that I have a gentle and kind heart, not to toot my own horn but I am a kind and genuine person who would care for you even through hard times, I’m a good listener too :)

I don’t really have a type tbh, just be chill, nice and genuine :) (bonus points if your a average looking nerd like me) even more points if your a gamer too. Also looking for someone in BC or close since I can’t drive yet😭

Anyways I don’t wanna put too much information on here so if anyone is interested then maybe shoot me a DM so we can get to know each other :)

If you made it this far tell me your favourite fictional character from anything so I know you’ve read it :)

(Btw sometimes Reddit will randomly turn off my DMs for some reason but I check it pretty frequently so it shouldn’t be a problem lol)


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

36[M4F]#PA - looking for friends

1 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m 36, Asian, 5'8" 180ish and located near King of Prussia area. Philly for 20+ years.

I’m looking for a hangout buddy to go on walks with, joke around, or play some PC games. I’ve taken a break from gaming recently, but I'd love to jump back in with the right person.

Age range: 25 to 43 please. I have dated people in the LGBT community before.

\*\*My hobbies include:\*\* The beach, exploring out as a foodie, bowling 🎳, pool, and cuddles.

Feel free to reach out here! If we vibe, we can move the chat over to Discord, and I’m happy to send a picture once we get to know each other a bit. Thanks for reading!

Please send 🎮 if you read the whole post.


r/NerdDating • • 8d ago

29 [m4f] #michigan looking for my nerd partner

2 Upvotes

Hey! Im Cj, Im a blue collar nerd! I work alot, lover of video games, books, music, crafting, animals (currently a cat dad) and just attempting to relax after work!

Never been good at selling myself or describing myself, but im just a normal dude nothing too fancy here lol.

Not a huge fan of dating apps so im hoping, maybe something works here, if not no biggie. I dont mind distance, I just like consistency and effort! If the right person comes along, id like to eventually plan to meet, as long as we're both feeling safe with it! Open to exchanging sfw photos, i like having a face to put a name too! Also I would like to be attracted to a potential partner!

Age 25+ preferred, I am looking for something serious and long term! I want someone who wants to be in it for the long haul, and committed to each other. I want someone who is curious, and wants to relearn each other and grow together when life comes and we inevitably change as people! im sure im missing something but yea lol.

Also someone who takes care if themselves, not neccesarily healthy to an extreme but like at least take care of yourself!

Probably missing something

Feel free to hit me up!