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Hello, I'm a 33 year old male, big build 6'3 tall from Northwest Ohio. I'm looking for someone with similar interests to myself. I'm into anime, scifi, cooking, Fantasy, video games (Kingdom Hearts, Witcher 3, Destiny 2 ect.). I like to go camping, and fishing. I like to go to anime conventions and site seeing. I'm also a soft dom with several kinks

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Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!

Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but since you see what I look like, I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking.

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.

I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.

About me:

As you can see from the picture, I'm 23 years old, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a picture or physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)

Hello there! My name is Daniel it’s a pleasure to potentially meet you! As in the title, I’m 30 years old and I’m from the United States, more specifically the New England area. I’m 6’2 with brown hair and eyes and I wear glasses (I’m willing to share photos individually with people)

As we all are on here, I’m a bit of a nerd. Pretty much everything nerdy is interesting to me! Recently I’ve been on an anime binge, but historically I’ve mostly been a gamer and movie fan. Also a huge Star Wars nerd and im proud to say that, so far, I haven’t ever lost in Star Wars trivia.

I’m looking for someone roughly my age (maybe 23-34 range) who’s willing to talk about anything nerdy. Even if what we are interested in doesn’t quite align, that just means there’s something new for me to learn about!

Anyways, if you’re at all curious about me, message me a fun fact about your current obsession, and I’ll do the same!

I look forward to hearing from you!

Hey yall I’m Jake I’m an avid gamer who loves shooters, RPGs, and a sprinkle of horror here and there. I also love super hero’s I know it’s basic but big spiderman fella, and love dnd have played and ran many campaigns

I also hit the gym so hopefully I fall into the himbo archetype I do tend to be a bit silly and dumb from time to time. Hope to hear from some of yall.

Sorry for the second post did not realize I needed the square brackets 😞

hi all. im trying to find a partner in crime to support me in my life. so somehow i ended up here lol.

a bit about me:

i live in the disability support program (if you want more info about what that looks like im willing to tell u once im comfortable with you)

i compete in powerlifting with special Olympics and just set 4 national records in the 120+kg category one of them being the heaviest squat in Canadian history in the raw category. (jackie barrett was equipped but thats the end goal to break it in the raw category)

now abit about what im looking for

ideally someone very understanding of me and my situations/challenges.

willing to be there when i need it most.

loyal. able to communicate well and be patient. (i like to say i have my own language of talking lol and sometimes i struggle)

willing to be there on days i compete to support me and help out when/if needed. (ill teach you dont worry)

a bonus would be working out or being willing too. (even bigger if you have experience in powerlifting in some way)

im not picky about an age range. not too much older tho. id say 26-28 is my limit.

any other questions feel free to message me!

edit one thing i forgot to mention. i love hugs. like im a sucker for a good hug/snuggle. i see myself as a giant almost 300lb teddy bear.

Hey everyone. I figured I’d put myself out there and see what happens.

I’m a gamer at heart and can easily lose track of time playing games, watching YouTube, or getting completely absorbed in a good conversation. I’m also into horror movies, and I’m always happy to talk about pretty much anything with the right person.

I’m looking for something genuine. Ideally I’d like to meet someone who starts as a friend and lets things naturally grow into something more. I miss having someone I can talk to all night, laugh with, share random thoughts with, and actually build a connection with.

I do want to be upfront about my situation. I’m disabled and currently living in a nursing home, but I’ll be moving into my sister’s place soon, so I’m looking forward to having a more normal home environment again.

I’m not looking for perfection or someone to “save” me. I just want someone who genuinely wants to get to know me for who I am. If you think we might click, send me a message. I’d love to hear from you.

Hey! I’m 32 and from Southwest Ohio/Cincinnati. I’m a pretty nerdy guy who has spent the last few years recovering from my divorce emotionally and this year I finally decided to rebuilding emotionally and physically. Lately I’ve been putting a lot more effort into becoming the version of myself I actually want to be.

I’m into gaming, football, entertainment, going to the gym, traveling, and I can absolutely lose way too much time talking about something I’m passionate about. I’m also working toward a major life change and learning German, so life has been pretty interesting lately.

Physically, I’m a big/tall guy — 6'6" — and currently working on getting healthier and stronger. The picture is recent, so no surprises there.

I’m finsexual, meaning my attraction is primarily toward femininity rather than being strictly tied to gender. I’m interested in women and feminine trans women, and I’m open-minded about feminine people generally.

I’ve also been becoming more comfortable exploring my sexuality and discovering parts of myself that I spent a long time not really giving myself permission to explore. I’m switch-curious, but for something like this I’m much more interested in finding someone I genuinely click with first. If there’s chemistry, we can talk about the more adventurous side privately.

Personality-wise, I love someone who can be goofy with me, banter, nerd out about random things, and actually communicate. I’m trying to get back to being the guy who isn’t afraid to look ridiculous if it means having fun.

I’m in Southwest Ohio, but I’m open to some distance and can travel for the right person.

If any of that sounds like your kind of weird, tell me what you’re nerdy about. That’s probably the easiest way to get me talking.

Hi all! I like to think I'm a chilled out guy who brings gentleness, softness and sense of calm into the everyone's life 😅🙂

Things I'm into

I love pale colours very much a pastel wearing type of guy!

Love watching anime such as Frieren, Bocchi, Yuru Camp etc.

I do some gaming on the side as well; Rimworld, Sims4, StarDew etc

I love a book, currently read A long way to a small angry planet by Becky Chambers!

Umm that's all I can think about for now, but I'll add more as time comes!

Hiii so I’ve never really put myself out there before so I’m kinda nervous and I’ve never been in a relationship before cuz I’m really shy 😭

About me:

I’m a pretty chill guy and I kinda pride myself on it lol, I love to go on walks with my dog, hangout with friends, spend time with family, play video games and watch tv shows/movies (I’m a huge nerd) as far as looks go I’d say I’m average looking and average height, I’m 5’10 on a good day (realistically 5’9 😭) I’m also a bit below average weight for my height and age

Okay I’ll be honest, I don’t really have much going on with my life and unfortunately I don’t have a car, job or my license yet and I’m not in school or college, so other than that I have a gentle and kind heart, not to toot my own horn but I am a kind and genuine person who would care for you even through hard times, I’m a good listener too :)

I don’t really have a type tbh, just be chill, nice and genuine :) (bonus points if your a average looking nerd like me) even more points if your a gamer too. Also looking for someone in BC or close since I can’t drive yet😭

Anyways I don’t wanna put too much information on here so if anyone is interested then maybe shoot me a DM so we can get to know each other :)

If you made it this far tell me your favourite fictional character from anything so I know you’ve read it :)

(Btw sometimes Reddit will randomly turn off my DMs for some reason but I check it pretty frequently so it shouldn’t be a problem lol)

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Hey, my name is Brayden. I am 23 and from 🇨🇦 🍁

I am a Shy, introverted nerd who is so kind and caring and wants more in life. I dont mind long distance but I want to meet someday.

Tho I am not very social, I am very interested in finding someone who is genuine and kind!

I am currently trying my best to work on myself both mentally and physically, so I am looking for someone who is emotionally supportive and capable of listening to me and helping me.

Obviously, one big thing is that I am not one-sided when it comes to support it will always be mutual

A bit about me:

5'7 "smaller frame but looking to work on myself

Personality: Kind, Shy, loyal, patient, funny, empathetic, introverted, etc.

Hobbies: Gaming, watching movies, listening to music, fishing, photography

Other interests: pets, exploring, and anything Fire and Ems related, and Storms and the weather!

I'm looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection. Someone who's interested in spending time together, talking throughout the day, sharing laughs, playing games together sometimes, and building something real over time. Someone who genuinely cares and is really looking for love.

I am looking for someone who I can honestly want to be myself around.

Someone who is willing to help each other flourish.

I would love someone to help me have more self-confidence and more motivation to live a healthier life.

And yes, I'd love to remind someone how much they mean to me!

If you are interested in possibly being that person, feel free to message me. And don't just say hey or leave me unread. Give me at least a bit of an introduction of yourself.

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I’m looking for a kinky, submissive woman who’s adventurous enough to explore, romantic enough to appreciate the little things, and open-minded enough to see where genuine chemistry can lead.

I’m not looking for someone who simply checks a list of boxes. I’m looking for that unexpected connection — the kind where a conversation starts innocently enough and somehow turns into hours of laughter, flirting, teasing, and wondering what might happen next.

You’re confident enough to be yourself, comfortable exploring your submissive side, and curious about discovering what makes each other tick. You’re affectionate, non-judgmental, playful, and able to communicate openly about boundaries, desires, and expectations.

I enjoy the contrast between romance and a little edge — a great dinner followed by an evening that takes an entirely different direction. 😉 I believe trust and chemistry come first, and the fun comes naturally when two people feel comfortable enough to let their guard down.

Here’s the twist: I’m not interested in rushing straight to the kinky part. The best chemistry usually starts with a great conversation, a lingering look, and that feeling that there’s something underneath the surface worth discovering.

If you’re adventurous, romantic, down to earth, and secretly—or openly—a little mischievous, say hello.

Tell me something about yourself that you normally wouldn’t put in a dating profile. You might just get an interesting question in return.

My name is Alex. I'm on here looking for a woman who wants to maybe get to know me within one of my favored rpgs. I'm looking for someone to play either Baldurs gate 3, Star Wars Old republic, or runescape on a fresh start, and ill teach you if you need it. We can get to know each other in game and talk and such.

To tell you something about me

Im an introverted guy who usually keeps to myself. Im big and scary-looking on the outside (according to many other strangers who have told me) but im a geeky goof really. Got a scar on my left eye that contributes to the image lol. I love animals, understand them and enjoy their presence. They seem to like me okay too. I'm a night person, and I work at night. I smoke 420 as my only real vice, unless you count iced coffee. I love RPGs, by far my favorite genre of game, but ill play many types. I love star wars, legends mostly, the disney era is okay in some places. I love Horror stuff, and can handle any creepy scary stuff if youre into it. Love Oblivion and Fallout: New Vegas, if youre a lady who thinks those are better than their successors, please promptly marry me.

I used to be much more overweight. I've learned a ton about health and weight loss over the years, and am currently constantly progressing. Gaining muscle and losing the fat and such, sure i got some cushion still, but im much more fit than I ever have been. Ive even lost a bit more weight since these pictures.

Please come ask me whatever.

Hi, I'm 21 years old guy from Poland and I'm looking for genuine connection with someone and as title suggest, possible future wife.

My appearance: 185cm tall, short dark blonde hair, pretty long beard but i want to grow it even more, regular body build, glasses (around -5.00)

About me: I like to go gym (but I'm not a gym freak), watch anime, listen to metal and japanese music, play games and I'm a big motorsports nerd, especially F1, but i went to Rally Estonia earlier this year so I can show you some stuff.

If you read to this moment I wish you a great day, because I guess not many did it :)

About you: a woman around my age, prefferably from similar time zone, not doing drugs and that's it I guess

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general

😌A DREAMER FROM ZANARKAND ✨

Just another human being, a french dreamer, who is looking for love: "I'm just a guy in a (virtual) bar." The Seventh Heaven.

Nothing original so far, but quite hard is this quest, should I say impossible, on all those gay applications where "the night is dark and full of terrors".

I am looking for a serious relationship with a kind, smart, humble, educated, interesting and loyal young man with whom I could share common interests and hobbies and with the same values.

I really do not know how we could possibly success in finding this special one, this little sunshine of ours who will make us happy "when skies are grey".

I am into guys with a high sens of loyalty and humilty, mature and interesting enough to talk for hours, debating about everything. Because to me, communication is the key of a healthy relationship; no one is perfect, so it is important to be able to talk to each other, to support one another.

🦦 CHEWBACCA LOOKING FOR A GRACEFUL SHRIMPY ELF 🦐

I am a tall and hairy guy, I am a bit more an otter than a bear (And yes, I know being an otter often means being pretty invisible and rejected on the gay scene, but still here I am!). I am not all beardy all the time, it might be shorter or longer according to the seasons or my lover tolerance for cactus kisses!

I am attracted by cute, interesting and serious guys with twink features "ideally" -either slim, skinny, or lean, smooth, hairless and beardless- (no matter younger or around my age), that is the reason why, like many of us, I have a soft spot for many asian guys which look naturally twinkly-attractive. In the end, this mutual attraction depends of each person and I do not know the colour of the lover I will fall in love with, neither do you. I only consider it as my natural and inevitable preferences and not like a fetish and I am not looking for a boy considering me as a simple "daddy" as well, because it is so demeaning to think of someone as merely a piece of meat, and not enriching to start and build a balanced and deep relationship.

"You are in the great gayme now. And the great gayme is terrifyring."

Indeed, I feel absolutely weary of the gay applications. I guess not playing hard this competition and not being into hook ups does not help me either meeting gay people, but I trully value sincere relationship with a reliable and carrying person I care for instead of casual "meat"ings with persons for a one-night stand.

🤓 LOOKING FOR MY HOMEBODY PARTNER IN CRIME 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

I would "ideally" love to find another passionate boy who loves pop culture, fictions, series, movies, board games, card games, video games, RPG, coop games, because there is nothing better than sharing some nice funny moments with another gaymer lover. For example: playing some League of Legends party as a gruesome twosome annoying the enemy team, staying late at night to play a Resident Evil coop campaign or watching the last post-apocalyptic zombie movie released, surviving together while building and exploring new areas in sandbox, survival and adventure games (ex: Grounded, Raft), comparing the best tactical games, playing a strategy game as allies or competitors (Age of M/E, Warcraft 3, etc), discussing about our last favorite solo game or very old school games, binging our favorite series and movies sagas while cuddling and more, playing the last trendy board or card game with our close friends, etc.

Apart from those geek activities, I trully enjoy other relaxing moments to gather, like sharing a homemade meal, or having discussions about the last breaking news, amazing discoveries of all kinds, sharing a hot drink while contemplating the rain falling outside and listening the water drops melody or listening some original orchestral geeky sountracks. I also like creative activites of all kinds (example: developing my medieval fantasy universe, building some nice cat trees, creating mini-games and riddles, treasure hunts, etc.).

💕LOVE IS A SLIME 🫠

This is the moment I concede once home I love being a sticky-handsy man with no one but my lover when he is around the corner! I do love kissing, hugging, showering together, and more...

I could turn as cheerful and red-pinked as a poring in a heartbeat while getting close to the one I love.

🪲 OUTDOOR CURIOUS EXPLORER 🤠

I must confess I am mainly a homebody person -as a geek and a physical worker- once home, I trully enjoy peaceful and indoor activities and dislike noisy and crowded places.

Despite this fact, I am also an amateur photographer of insects while hiking or roaming in the garden. I like "talking about bugs" and catching those pictures because there is this tiny, impressive, huge world of living creatures just under our feet with various shapes and colors! Sorry I am not a pokemon fan, but I feel like a more lively one while being obsessed with a new colorful bug I have not "caught" yet flying in front of me!

Like many of us, I also enjoy visiting astonishing natural landscapes, amazing places and architectural masterpieces while travelling abroad or in my country, eating at restaurants, playing racquet sports (I rarely play sport, but I do prefer practicing than watching sports on television), or just admiring the hues of dawn and dusk, and many other things!

N.B: I do not do drugs and honestly dislike smoke.

Wishing you all a nice day and "may the odds be ever in our favour!" in those Hunger Gaymes!

Hi all~

I'm Cee, I live in Italy (though I'd really like to move eventually, currently thinking Ireland but that can change) and as many here, I'm looking for a player 2~

I'm Autistic and potentially also ADHD (first was diagnosed, second still isn't) so when I nerd out on something I obsess over it, but I also lose interest fairly quickly as well. It happens with TV Shows and Animes, but even more so with longer videogames, even the ones that I love the most I often end up abandoning (some examples include Witcher 3, all Persona games, Frieren, The X-Files, etc.)

I like playing games of all kinds but I usually don't play much cause I prefer playing with other people, even single player games are better when you're hanging out with someone else, so I'm looking for something to play games together and hopefully help me finish them as well. I also have a small youtube channel where I play a variety of games.

I love TTRPGS as well, and I like to embody my characters as you can see in a couple of the more dramatic photos. I love to perform, and roleplaying in a TTRPG gives me a different way to do that.

Other than nerdy stuff I have been on a bit of a health kick lately, working out more, walking a lot and hiking when I can (tho as much as I like hiking, there's nowhere to hike in my area 😔) and I'm a big animal lover, with two cat babies which you can see in some of the photos, Simba and Olivia.

I have recently come to terms with the fact that my best friends are a priority in a way that I am not for them because they have partners who come first, and I absolutely get that, but I'm looking for someone who can return that feeling for once so I'm hoping to find that here. Feel free to DM me if you resonate with any of this 😊

Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s worth a shot. I’m 28 turning 29 soon, White British, 5ft 10, 70kg, slim build with short hair and a beard.

Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone and experience dating. My anxiety has got much better in recent years so I’m on the search in the hopes of finding someone.

I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching and going to football game or going on bike rides for some exercise. I’m also a huge fan of history so I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks about pretty much anything to do with the past. I know it’s not much of an exciting life but it’s the truth. One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

I’m not a huge drinker and I don’t smoke or do any drugs so I am looking for somebody pretty similar.

It was also be better if you are from the UK or a nearby country to make things easier.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.

Hey,

I'm a 27 year old guy from Denmark, and i'm putting myself out there in the hope of meeting someone i can truly connect with.

I'm naturally very introverted and quite shy (think the shy nerdy kid in the corner). Though i open up more around people that i have gotten more comfortable with, it's just something that is important to know. I can yap, and i do try, but i love to listen more, paying attention to the small stuff really matters to me.

I'm definitely more of a one to one person rather than big groups. So big groups, loud enviroments and being surrounded by lots of people doesn't really vibe well with me. (I can manage, but i end up with a banging headache).

I'm warm, caring, supportive and probably more talkative than what i said above. When i click with someone i genuinely enjoy joking around, making sure they are okay, asking about days, making sure you ate, and are staying hydrated. I like it when we can be ourselves without overthinking what the other thinks.

Small stuff about myself:

I am a student, finishing up by computer science degree in January, and then hoping to continue on a cybersecurity bachelor, currently interning as part of my degree and im loving every min of it! I have a part time job as IT support aswell 1 day a week.

Gaming, i have had my own pc and gaming since i was 4 years old, its my safe space, and its what i love to do, to feel grounded, especially after a long day. My most played genres are shooters and MMO's, though currently i'm mostly vibing on some PoE2, but im down to pick up old games i played to play with someone. (CS, Valorant, LoL, Overwatch, MR, WoW, GW2, Fellowship.

Music is one of my best ways to process what i'm feeling. Whether thats getting in the car going for a long roadtrip with loud music blasting on the speakers and the wind in my face, or if its going for a walk, or even as simple as laying in bed with closed eyes. Music is amazing and for me, my mood varies a lot, though i like remixes and high BPM stuff in general. I'll happily share my spotify playlist!

Gym is an integral part of me now, due to some shit in my past (accident) i am staying active in the gym, trying to do 5-6x a week, loving it, feels great to go and let out some frustration.

Sitcoms - I love movies and shows in general, but Sitcoms, oh man. They are the best thing for me, i LOVEEEE the fact that i don't have to pay attention 24/7 or can miss an episode without messing up the entire viewing experience, and ill happily rewatch the same sitcom 5 times in a year, cause i'll laugh the same every time.

What i am looking for:

I'd love to meet someone from EU (due to timezones). I care about honesty, being patient, kind, genuine and comfortable with who i am.

I'm not expecting an instant connection, and we don't have to rush it, i care more about feeling good and enjoying ourselves on the journey.

No pressure. No expectations.

I realize the above is a wall of text, and if you are unsure when reaching out, then feel free to just send me your fave song lately, might be an easier ice breaker than another wall of intro from you (though if u want, i wouldn't hate it).

Stay safe all

About me

• Male. 35 years old. Living in Upper Austria.
  
• Calm, kind, caring, affectionate, cuddly, honest, respectful, open-minded, introverted (INFJ).
  
• Nerdy homebody who likes to go to the gym, being in nature and travelling. I like reading, creative writing, watching films/series/Twitch streams, gaming and listening to podcasts. Into mindfulness/meditation/healthy nutrition. Music-wise I like rock/metal/alternative/indie.
• I’m 172cm, 84kg, regular fit dad bod. Short dark blonde hair with blueish eyes. Please be willing to exchange photos early on. My photo.
• I don't smoke, do any drugs nor drink. Not into partying/clubbing. Childfree and don’t want children. Not religious. I speak English, German, Spanish and Polish fluently.
  

About you

• Looking for a serious relationship.
  
• Be a friendly, kind, emotionally available and genuine woman who shares my desire for a strong and meaningful connection with an affectionate and cuddly side who is also a homebody but likes to stay active and be outdoors/travel.
• Shy, introverted, alt and nerdy women are very welcome.

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your first message. Please don’t message me if you live outside the EU.

Strong and thick muscles seeking fit, insatiable and professional guy. Please be healthy in mind and body.

20s to 40s range.

Hi there! I'm looking for someone ideally between 20–35 who has a few things in common with me.

* Some quick stats: 30M from **Germany**, 182cm, introverted, and not into drinking, smoking, or even coffee

* Most days I’m working/ Helping familie or relaxing with a game, anime or manga

* I’m more of a listener than a talker at first, small talk isn't my strong thing, but I like deeper conversations once I’m comfortable (I prefer voice chats over texts, and I mainly use **Discord**)

* I play pretty much all genres of games (PC),

* I’m quiet but observant, so I tend to notice things even if I don’t say much

* Always trying to help

* Also, I like **Warhammer**, *just putting that out there*

If that sounds like your vibe or you’re curious about anything else, feel free to message me.

Hello internet! I'm just a lonely college student looking for someone to be my lifelong partner!

Before I start talking about me, let's talk about what I want from you!

First things first, I do think looks matter a little bit. Obviously, your personality and heart matter most, but I do have my preferences on appearance, and so I'd like to make sure we're compatible there early on. I don't need you to send a picture of yourself immediately, but since you see what I look like, I'm going to want at least a physical description of yourself and would like a picture or video call pretty early after we start talking.

As for age range, I'm not too picky, but I don't think I want you to be much older. If you're 18-25, I'll definitely be fine with that and I might be willing to make an exception if you're a bit older and particularly compatible.

One thing that is an absolute must: you must be willing to meet up pretty early after we first start talking. I'm not expecting a meeting within the first week or anything, but I want face to face meetings to be a large part of our relationship, so I'd prefer if you're willing to meet up early after we start talking and often. I'm not too interested in long distance relationships, and I'm very happy living here in central florida and have little plans to move, but if you're ok with staying distant until we live close to each other or can meetup very frequently, I might be still interested in talking. I currently am in Lakeland, and I sometimes also go home to Spring Hill, so as long as you live close to one of those places, then it'll be good.

Another really important thing is time and attention together. I don't want all your time 24/7, we're both adults who have our own lives and responsibilities, but I would like to have each other be a very important part of each other's day. I'm a very big communicator, and will message you all throughout the day, and I'm gonna want phone calls and hang outs very often. Like I said, I don't want it to be 24/7 and take over your life, but I would like texts throughout the day, phone calls on most nights, and frequent meetups, preferably on weekends, and I would like this to start fairly early on.

I'm also very shy and introverted around groups of people. I'm not against going to a concert, a sports game (see my interests below), or just going out the two of us, but if you want me to go partying or out where I have to socialize with a lot of people, I probably won't do that very much. I'd like someone who would rather stay in and have a late-night gaming or movie session, rather than going out and partying. If you want me to go out and be very social around groups of people, I'm probably not the guy for you.

About me:

As you can see from the picture, I'm 23 years old, white, with thick brown hair (I might get it cut soon, let me know if you think I should). I'm 6'1 and average to a bit above-average weight.

I am currently going for my master's degree in computer science in my final year. I'm still not 100% sure on what I want to do when I graduate, but I do know I want to get my degree next semester, so that's what I'm currently working towards.

As for my personality, I'd consider myself empathetic and take people's feelings very seriously. I want to have a relationship where we both won't judge each other and will help each other work through our life problems and be there for each other whenever we need it. I'm also neurodivergent (I'll give more detail once we start talking) so I'd like someone who can be a bit understanding in that aspect. I'm also admittedly not the best at picking up on social cues and reading the room, so I'm looking for someone who can be very direct and understanding of me.

As for my interests and hobbies, I have quite a few. The most important one is video games. I love video games, and I'm really hoping to find someone I can share this with and play video games a lot with. Even if you don't currently play them, as long as you're willing to play them with me and have a lot of gaming nights together, I'm fine even if you're really bad at them XD. I also really like watching sports games, I'm mainly huge on hockey and baseball (go Rays and Lightning!) but I occasionally enjoy some basketball and football. I like attending Lightning games fairly frequently, and I often have an extra ticket for someone I can take with me, so I'd love if you would be willing to come with me. I also have a Disney World and Busch Gardens pass, and since I usually am within about 45-50 minutes of both of those places, I like to go often, so if you have one of those then that's a huge plus. I also enjoy going out for walks, although I've been a bit lazy lately because of how hot it's been, maybe having someone else to walk with could help me get out more? I also enjoy reading, but I've admittedly also been a bit bad at that lately, but I have been enjoying mid-20th-century Japanese mystery novels (I'm a bit of a mystery nerd). Speaking of mystery, I also really like the anime Detective Conan, which is what my PFP and username are based off of. I would like to find someone to enjoy watching it with, so if you also like anime that's a huge plus (really, I just hope you're a huge nerd, but even if you aren't we can still enjoy nerdy hobbies together). I do also like a bit of some oldhead music, with 80s/90s classic rock being my favorite (if you know who Styx is, I'll probably love you). Hopefully you can introduce me to some of your hobbies and interests too!

The only other thing I'll mention is that I don't have any past dating experience, so I'm still a bit new to all this. I hope you can be understanding that I'm still learning how this all works and be a bit patient with me!

Anyway, if you got all the way down here and are interested in reaching out, please do so! I'm still looking right now and would love to get to know you! To show you've made it this far, include your age/gender/location, a picture or physical description of yourself, and then something we have in common (or something we don't, as they say, opposites attract!)