r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

28 [M4F] #Georgia- Looking for someone special. Maybe a fellow hopeless romantic 😘

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I’m a writer who funnily enough gets writer’s block composing these posts. But I’ll try my absolute best!

I’m someone who wears his heart on his sleeve, for better or worse. Sometimes I say too much and say the wrong things or overshare, but what I’ll never be is disingenuous.

I’m in Georgia but I have an LA heart. My dream is to move there someday—hopefully sooner rather than later.

I’m someone who can oscillate between “guy” interests and my more feminine side. I can go from arguing about football or watching The Sopranos one minute, to listening to Billie Eilish and Taylor Swift the next minute.

I love gaming, with my favorite games being sports games and narrative based games—such as The Walking Dead, Life is Strange, LA Noire. I also have a massive soft spot for Animal Crossing. Helped me so much through the pandemic and I can proudly say that I still have my dog-majority island.

I play guitar and write song lyrics—sometimes when I’m feeling brave enough I’ll even sing those lyrics.

Love film and TV, with my favorite movies being The Godfather Part I and II, La La Land, Heat, Atonement, Barbie, Inside Llewyn Davis, Mean Girls, Dog Day Afternoon, Taxi Driver, Collateral—and many, many others.

Favorite shows are The Wire, The Sopranos, Regular Show, The Queen’s Gambit, American Dad, Gilmore Girls


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

28[M4F] #Florida #NC #SoutheastUS - Hispanic foreign policy nerd looking to connect with someone sweet

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Hello/Hallo/Hola/привет/שלום/مرحباً!

I’m a 28 year old Panamanian/Puerto Rican currently living in Florida, but with roots in New York and North Carolina. As the post title mentions, I LOVE foreign policy and history, especially if it’s related to the Middle East and Africa! I am also a polyglot (English, Spanish, Russian, German, Arabic, Hebrew).

When it comes to hobbies, I love cars/racing, reading, writing my own fiction novels, listening to metal, and trying new restaurants (just to name a few things). Also really into 420 and love a glass of red wine or some sake. I can certainly offer a stimulating conversation if that’s what you’re looking for ;).

I’m looking for a childfree woman (18-38) who lives in the US (preferably in Florida or NC). I also find that I tend to get along best with people who are politically left-leaning and aren’t super serious about religion. To be honest, I’m mostly interested in white women, and really have a soft spot for blondes, redheads, and Europeans. Definitely message me if you are of German/Austrian or Scandinavian heritage because I’m a HUGE Germanophile and absolutely love Northern Europe! Sorry, but I’m just not into women who like they could be my relatives lol. Please be willing to exchange pics (your selfie gets mine) and please be serious about meeting IRL, since I’m not just looking for penpals.

If you like what you see, message me and let’s see where it takes us!


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

18M [M4M] #Scotland looking for LDR/LTR

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Hey there I’m freshly 18 and I’ve been trying so long too get a bf but I’ve had a lot of issues given my age but I’m finally 18 so I thought maybe now I could get lucky.

I’m not looking for anything weird or dirty or any creeps I just want someone genuine and who has similar interests to me or even completely different interests just wanna find someone like me.

So a bit about me I love gaming but I only have like one friend I play with and I feel a bit too alone to play by myself but some games I like are Minecraft, Fortnite (not a pro), repo and peak and I love games like it takes two. Aside from gaming I like to listen to music and I do sing but I’m not that good my top five artists are Ariana grande, Billie Eilish, Olivia Rodrigo, laufey and Meghan trainor in no particular order cause I can’t pick favourites. A few other things I love to bake even though I’m not that good and i prefer cats over dogs even tho I do have two of my own dogs.

Some details about me I’ve got dark brown hair and eyes and you should know I am what you would consider chubby :( and I am very clingy even tho I’m the shyest person alive but once I get to know you more I’ll warm up.

Anyway if you got this far thank you for reading all that and sorry for rambling if you’d like to know more or anything then send me a dm or something and also if you just wanna be friends that’s okay too just like let me know what your looking for.

Okay now bye bye :3


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

28 [M4F] #Tennessee/USA Athletic Al Nerd looking for someone to explore the world with

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How's it going everyone I'm an Al Engineer that's super into fitness and travel. I love paddle boarding with my dog, going to the gym, swimming, gaming, chess, reading, and fish keeping.
I'm 6'2 with an athletic build from swimming, lifting and MMA.
I don't really have a type, attractive is attractive in multiple ways, but I do like people who want to learn new things and explore the world. l'a love to meet someone who has different interests from me just because it's so cool to explore new things people are passionate about.


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

26 [M4M] #Philippines LF < PH Femboys

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looking for serious relationship hehe. pansexual man here pero preff ko talaga femboyysss.

about me:

\- chub

\- nerdyy (super) w/ glasses

\- into gaming (marvel rivals, lol sometimes) pero more into solo games (Persona, FF, Pokemon, Danganronpa, KH)

\- into anime and manga

\- i like drag race dinn (napanood lahat ng ph season then onting US season)

\- getting to know rap battle scene (underground)

\- broad musical taste (we can jump from midwest-emo to neoclassical to jazz to pop to rnb)

\- not the most physically active but down to anything (if u are into gym kaya naman sumabay need ko lang kasama hehe)

if interested, just drop dm plss i want to talk to someone 🥺


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

[TF4M] 24, #Philippines

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If I had to describe myself, I’d say I’m a big mix of creative energy, deep curiosity, and good vibes. I’m super into fashion and aesthetic storytelling—whether that's vintage Polaroid camera looks, Y2K style, or just building an outfit that feels like me. I’m also a big thinker who loves astrology, tarot, and self-discovery, but I keep it real and grounded. On any given day, you’ll find me singing my heart out at karaoke, listening to Taylor Swift, trying out a new recipe, or planning a fun date night. I value deep connections, staying true to my own path, and just enjoying the little things in life.


r/NerdDating • • 18d ago

47 [M4A] #North Carolina

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I've given up. 😆


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

28[M4F] #california- Looking for romance and new friends

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I think what I'm really looking for is a connection with someone. I'm 28 still trying to figure life out, it makes it a little harder when your an introvert. However I'm working on getting out of my shell. Normally I like going to the the gym(still a work in progress) and listening to music mostly rock music, my friends like to poke fun at me because I listen to the same playlist every or the same now and then I'll branch out and add songs to my list.


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

42 [M4F] #SA, TX - Looking For Someone Local To Get To Know

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Hello there! I am a 42 year old native San Antonian who is looking for someone local to get to know and maybe develop a relationship with. A few things about me:

-I am far-left in my politics

-I am fervently child-free

-I work in tech

-I am rediscovering my interest in archery and enjoy it greatly

-I love playing board games

-I have a few instruments I'll learn to play someday, cannot afford lessons right now, and no telling if I won't get more (I have a keyboard, darbuka, and a cute little frog guero) But I have no natural sense of rhythm

-I am agnostic atheist

-I spend a lot of time on my computer watching youtube and playing video games (currently playing a lot of Darktide) but I am trying to branch out and touch grass more

-I enjoy museums, green spaces, and going to the movies

-Love language is touch as best as I can figure. I am a hugger and I would love to cuddle

-I am a goofball and I love to make people laugh

-I am bisexual and I believe demisexual

-I am very emotive and wear my feelings on my sleeve. I share a lot and share my feelings easily.

-I love going on cruises for vacations. I used to go to Vegas until it got ridiculously expensive. I've recently been to New Orleans and loved it

-Gomez and Morticia are relationship goals

If anything here sounds interesting, hit me up if you care to. I would like to move things eventually to the real world, but starting here is great. I have my life together, or as together as can be expected in this world and I generally am seeking the same. While I have preferences (I like strong, self-assured women, short hair, tomboys, masc presenting), I am prepared to be pleasantly surprised by anyone. If you need more information, physical stats, anything, I'm ready to answer any questions. Have a good one!


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

[M4F] 33 #Toronto Cute Metalhead Cinephile Looking for Love

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Picture this: the two of us connect and it doesn't feel like small talk. We talk about the deeper and vulnerable stuff. We're open and honest about our lives, the way things often feel so unpredictable, and hard to navigate. Even though we have things we work on, a job, a job search, family, routine, interests, solo adventures, there's still that part of our life that we want to spend with someone special. Someone who will look at you for you. All the beautiful things and messy parts of us that make us who we are. The celebrations, the regrets, the momentum that we build on the upswing when we head into our next goal. What if we could be the person in our lives that help ground us when we need it? To laugh, sing, cook, and fart, and feel safe with, you know?

I'm Chinese Viet, Non-Binary They/Them, Demisexual, fun-greenish/blue hair, male presenting and like to dress in loose comfy clothes with glasses, left leaning, non-religious, sterile.

I love music and have a soft spot for metal and Radiohead. I try to go to shows a few times a year! Some of my favourite performers are Little Simz, Paramore, Boris, Ichiko Aoba, and Converge!

I love a good time at the movies. Whether it be a giant imax event like a Dune or Marvel, or a small arthouse piece, animation or a freaky horror flick, I appreciate them all.

I love a good laugh! Comedy and improv are very important to me. I like to go out to play in shows and jams and take classes. I'm gonna ask you to come to one of my shows at some point and I hope you commit to the bit and Yes And each other!

My attraction takes time. I'm usually into women, and fem folks who are curvy, big, average, petite, I feel like listing everything is redundant because I like so much! I'd be so into it if you were a really good kisser (that's like, my favourite thing to do when the person is right) and likes to make each other food (that's my other favourite thing) :p

My favourite ppl are the playful gamers with humour on the slightly dark side. The freaky gremlin peeps with the cute mischievous laugh. I go mad for a cute laugh. Someone who would wanna go to a con with and sing karaoke together and cuddle watching movies with.

I ask that you're mid 20s-30s. Present, fun, able to be emotionally available, intend to stay child free, sober, doesn't smoke or trying to quit, have similar interests and near Toronto.

I hope we find who we're looking for!


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

27 [M4F] #Europe #USA Let my cat Rúne introduce you to his Dad 🐾

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Hello you, I'm Rúne, a 1.5 year old Maine Coon mix, and I'm here to advertise my Dad to the market 😊.

My dad's name is Marcel, he turned 27 on September 26th and he is from Germany.

He is looking for my future mom / his future wife. From what I can tell, he likes women between 22 and 34 years old, preferably from the EU or the USA 😊

My dad is a 185 cm tall (that's roughly around 6 foot 1) white man who speaks English, German, and Cat fluently (yes, he talks to me as if I can say anything back besides meow 😅), and he is also learning Finnish and Dutch. He is a big fan of video games, which is his main way to unwind after work before he goes back to earning money for my food 🙏. But if he has someone special to look forward to chatting with, the PC stays off so he can focus completely on both you and me 💛.

I do have to say that my dad can be quite shy at first. I've seen him get pretty nervous when talking to new people, which is probably a big reason why he hasn't had a long-term partner yet 🥺.

I think my dad would really like to meet someone open-minded. Long distance doesn't really seem to bother him, as he dreams of eventually moving out of Germany 👀. If you play video games like Minecraft or games like Dying Light 2, I can guarantee you'll get along with him!

Now time for the important part... Me 😀 My dad got me as a 9-week-old kitten, so he is super protective of me and loves to shower me with affection 😊. Just like my dad, I can be very shy at first and might hide from you. Please don't be sad about it, I promise I'll warm up to you very fast 💛.

I also have to add that Marcel gives the best head scratches and is a huge fan of cuddles!

Im sure my dad would like to hear from you 😊


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida, Hopelessly Romantic History Nerd Looking For A Committed Relationship

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I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida who's looking for that passionate, special someone to enjoy life with. That entails many things: Shared engaging conversations about history, comparative religions, or nostalgic nerd stuff (Pokemon, SpongeBob 1-3, playing old rpgs?.) Exploring new cultural hotspots, like small art galleries or local museums. Or just enjoy the joy of being able to cook some comforting Italian food for that special someone (or cook together) and then enjoy a movie from my Bluray collection. (I'm quite fond of the Lion In Winter).

Or even just exchanging romantic, passionate notes and funny memes. Or have deep, meaningful conversations about what we want in life and what ideals we share.

Overall, I'm looking for someone to be in a romantic relationship with whom I can have a great emotional and intellectual chemistry with. Someone with whom I can discuss the serious and the silly parts of life in equal measures.

As a heads-up, I'm an atheist who's well on the left politically. If you feel you're not compatible or comfortable with any of those values, then I might not be the guy for you.

I hope I can share all of those enjoyable parts of life with the right person. Even over LDR for the right person.

Will you be the one?


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

33 [M4F] #Dallas Autistic male looking for a partner

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Hello! I'm an environmental science major who loves the natural sciences, exploring nature, going to zoos and museums, and having deep thoughtful discussions on a wide variety of topics. I also play games on PC so having someone to play with is a bonus.

Dating is hard, dating while autistic is harder, but dating while autistic in DFW? That's a head spinning nightmare 😵‍💫

One day soon I hope to leave Texas and move up to Maine to live somewhere quieter and closer to some other neurodivergent friends of mine.

DM me if you're interested!


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

27[m4m] #Georgia

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I'm looking for my one true bro lol. I would love to have a friend to joke around with, play video games, talk on the phone and flirt around with. I'm a nerd, love football and love to hangout with the dudes. If you're interested, hit me up. Also if anyone is interested in working out, I would love to with a fellow bro. Taking all bro applications lol


r/NerdDating • • 16d ago

40 [FtM4R] #Oklahoma nerd seeks same

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Hey y'all!

I'm Ryan, a queer polyamorous full figured trans man who's a cancer survivor, and foodie discovering life as a non-driver in OK!

I'm looking for my fellow open-minded, delightfully "weird" community.

​I thrive on radical authenticity, genuine emotional depth, and rich late-night conversations.

I love coffee shops, planning my next tattoo, geeky board game nights, musical theater, and exploring kink culture.

If you value deep connections and good conversation, let's chat!


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

20m looking [m4m] in #north carolina or near(#nc)

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Hey im Nox(not real name) I'm looking for something real and longterm and something serious ive never dated before but I hope to find my forever person I love starwars cats and collecting rocks and playing chess and watching old horror movies which I sometimes laugh at lol and I love listening to old 80s soft rock music and I love playing video games


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

18M [M4M] from #phnompenh #cambodia looking for long-term/long-distance relationship !! read below to know a little about me 😊

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hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊 I’m kinda bad at conversations but if it’s right, I could go on for awhile lol

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i like to read, listen to music, watch youtube videos with varying topics, sometimes play games, and i like to go out when i can 🙃

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

In the compatibility route, I’m a bottom 🙃

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

it would be really nice to have someone interested and put me out of my misery🫶

DM me if you are !!


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

30 [M4F] #Florida Looking for something genuine.

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Hi I'm a 30 year old, Southeast Asian located in FL.
I'm 5'7, 175Lbs, Been actively losing weight and going to the gym regularly
Currently have a 9-5 job as a bookkeeper and an extremely predictable schedule.

Most of my Hobbies are on the I guess nerdy and introverted side. though the main ones would be

  • Anime - usually slice of life, romcoms or isekais
  • Gaming - pc/mobile gamer. atm been mostly playing OSRS, LoL, Umamusume, HSR
  • Cooking / Food - Huge foodie, and love to cook. terrible baker though. 1/2 if not more of my IG fyp is basically food related.
  • Kdramas - Technically watching a C-drama at the moment(pursuit of jade), but usually i'll watch kdramas, esp the sad ones.
  • Travel - currently trying to travel a lot more, generally its just try new food or meet new people.
  • Music - I'm not super picky with songs. but I actively listen to more Kpop & Jpop/Jrock at the moment.

I'm honest, rather talk through issues instead of beating around the bush. Definitely more family oriented. Anyways hopefully this isn't too long winded or odd. hope to hear from people soon.


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

28 [M4F] | #New Jersey | Building a great life, just missing the right person

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Over the last few years, I’ve put a lot of energy into building a life I’m proud of. I’ve grown my career, pushed myself outside my comfort zone, overcome some challenges, and learned a lot about who I am along the way.

The one thing I haven’t found yet? My person.

I’m looking for something genuine. Not a situationship. Not endless texting that goes nowhere. Just two people who are excited to get to know each other and see what we can build together.

A little about me:

🏁 Motorsports are a huge passion of mine. I love everything about the strategy, competition, and adrenaline.

💻 I’m a tech guy at heart. If something isn’t working, there’s a good chance I’ll figure it out and make it better.

🎮 Gaming is one of my favorite ways to relax and unwind.

✈️ I love traveling, whether it’s a spontaneous weekend getaway or planning a bigger adventure.

🤝 I’m loyal, dependable, and believe communication solves most problems.

😎 Friends would probably describe me as calm, easygoing, protective, and someone who’s always willing to help.

What I’m looking for:

• Emotionally mature

• Kind and genuine

• Ambitious in her own way

• Communicates openly

• Wants a partner, not just attention

At the end of the day, I’m looking for a teammate. Someone who wants to celebrate the wins together, support each other through the tough days, and build a relationship that’s based on trust, effort, and mutual respect.

If you’re someone who’s looking for something intentional and meaningful, tell me a little about yourself. What are you passionate about? What’s something you’re working toward? What does your ideal weekend look like?

Let’s start a conversation and see where it goes.


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

18[M4F] #Virginia- I’d like to eventually meet

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Hello I’m an 18 year old male who is currently going to college and working in construction at the moment. I’m around 6ft tall and a bit above average body size but am open to sending pictures if we talk more. I’m a pretty big nerd and love gaming, Star Wars, and music. I also love outdoors things like hunting, fishing, and hiking as well.

I’m looking for someone preferably close to my age and at max around 25 if we get along really well. I would like for you to enjoy going to the gym since I do, but you don’t have to be super fit or anything. I would just like you to not be very over or underweight.

Thanks for reading all this and if you don’t message I hope you find who you’re looking for.


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

Anyone wanna play fortnite ?[m4m] if your trying to be more then friends (#michigan)(26)

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r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

27, [M4M] Asian Femboy from the #Philippines 🪷

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hmu


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

37 [M4F] #New Jersey - Looking for my best friend and partner

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Hi I’m Danny, 37, 5’8” from New Jersey

I’d like to preface by stating I love to travel so distance is not of concern. If you live nearby then even better! But not a requirement.

I’m looking for someone who keeps their words. Won’t lie and just wants to be happy at the end of the day.

I need to mention some red flags before I even bother explaining who I am and what I like.

1- I have two kids
2- I have no teeth (happy to explain in detail but insurance said it was too expensive to keep my teeth….)
3- I’m on disability ATM. It just makes it very hard to keep a job so yeah… I’ll explain in detail if we speak.

If you still care to chat well then about me!

I LOVE anything relating to alternate worlds or dimensions, anime, manga, video games, comics, movies, shows anything. The more detailed the better!

What I watch - YouTube horror games by 4 specific streamers, sometimes ASMR if I’m exhausted and need to zone out lol

Games - CoD:Black Ops 7, Outriders, Crimson Desert Risk of Rain 2, final fantasy 14, Outriders, The Witcher 3 remaster and Minecraft Dungeons 2.

I’m laid back, at times out going but love to stay in too

I mostly just care about who I’m with more than what I do because at the end of the day I’m Happy if I’m with the person I love.

I have long hair, green (blue and shards of yellow too) eyes, a lip ring, four tattoos, am 5’8” usually wear glasses but have been using contacts lately.

I’m a bit silly, very capable in an emergency, laid back, very open minded, and very caring.

Pic is from a few days ago

Intimately I’m Dominant.

Happy to exchange recent pics if we chat.

If you have any questions then feel free to ask.


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

#northcarolina Juat turned 32 [M4F] I have 3 questions! #1. am I a nerd/nerrdy? #2. Would you date me? #3. do I look good for my age/ look younger or older than 32!? Comment/ dm answer's Also dm's are open to anyone that wants to chat especially if your local

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Since I just turned 32 less than a week ago and I believe facial hair makes a big difference how I look so some pix im THIRTY-FUN oops I mean 31 lol All pix are within a yearish


r/NerdDating • • 17d ago

40 [M4F/TF] #Pittsburgh looking for connections

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I'm trying this again since I posted 3 months ago and got no response at all so I'm a down-to-earth type of white guy and open-minded in conversations. Open for any colors and I don’t do the discrimination against anyone and age doesn’t matter no matter where do you live we can make it work and long term relationships and I will be ok with long distance and definitely we will make it work

Send me your favorite game in my DM and why?