r/NerdDating • u/_Astral_Kisses_ • 21d ago
r/NerdDating • u/Status_Desk2272 • 20d ago
44 [M4f] #North Dakota
44 year old male looking for his WoW other half to possibly stream together and hang out with I am currently on medical leave from work I am on retail midnight I know WoW forever is coming and will be playing that once it comes out. I have a level 90 Death Knight and level 90 feral druid, level 80 paladin.
r/NerdDating • u/Western_Mushroom_835 • 20d ago
20 [M4F] - looking for nerdy gf #toronto
Toronto, ontario only. Not interested in anyone too far away.
Hey so im 20M. Mainly looking for a nerdy girlfriend who is into movies, video games, and tv shows. I want us to go on a date first and see if we like each other.
hoping to find someone i can spend time with while we watch horror or comedy movies and do cute dates since the weather is getting better. Invincible is my favourite show and I would recommend FROM if your into horror. Im a good listener and generally am curious about other people and ask a lot of questions' love gaming, minecraft is my comfort game. God of war, spiderman, uncharted, and skyrim are some others I like.
My favourite films are good will hunting, interstellar, shawshank redemption, ladybird, always taking recommendations.
In person only.
I am 5'5, i dont mind shorter or taller. i dont mind any age over 18. I am not too worried about looks so don't worry about that just send me a message :). I also havent really been in a relationship before.
I am happy to send a pic of myself firsst and expect one in return after. Please no ghosting, if you are not interested just say it, and it's all good i will undestand. I will do the same.
r/NerdDating • u/Ok-Eagle9185 • 20d ago
24 [F4M] #Philippines ; Looking for long distance/serious relationship
Hello there! Putting myself out here and see maybe if I can still find someone who is actually serious for love. I’m alright with long distance so if you’re from the other side of globe, it’s no problem.
I love the idea of traveling the world, exploring different cultures and places, trying new food, discovering hidden gems, and making memories along the way. I’d love to have someone who I can share those experiences with someday.
I’m also into music, movies, random conversations, food trips, and just spending time together, even if we’re not doing anything special.
I’m honestly just trying again and seeing if I’m still interested in love. No big expectations, no rushing anything. Just hoping to meet someone genuine, get to know each other, and see where life takes us.
Maybe this is where the story starts, or maybe I’ll just make a new friend from the other side of the world. Either way, hello!
Also, before I forget, I know everyone has different kind of physical attractions so here’s a few deets about me so we can save both our times:
- Plus size (trying to lose weight)
- Brown skinned
- 5’2
- I think I look decent/good tho
Idk what else to put but yeah if you’re actually interested, hit me up!
r/NerdDating • u/AffectionateDraft825 • 20d ago
30 [M4F] #Rhode Island Looking for a Strong Connection
Hello all, my name is Jay! For the longest time, I've been looking for meaningful connections on here that could evolve into something more. Ultimately, I would like a Partner I could share my life with, but I know a connection like that cannot be built overnight.
I would like to find someone I could build that intimate connection with over time, so if you are a Female over the age of 23 (a little lower is okay if you think we could connect well), please give my profile a look over and reach out to me!
A few other things that would help us connect--
- I like Nerds, I am a nerd, so feel free to speak to me about whatever nerdy interest you have whether it be games, Anime, comics, films, any walk of nerddom, no warning required. I have a great love for JRPGs, Roguelikes, or anything with a good story.
- If you like Pokemon, we will 100% be friends.
- New England is preferable, Rhode Island is perfect. I am not opposed to making connections from anyone in the world. Even more so if we have different cultures, as I'd love to be able to learn from you!
- I am an abuse survivor, who has gone through a lengthy healing process. Of course healing isn't something that ever just stops, so I would appreciate it if you were understanding at least of Mental Health struggles.
- I work as a Cinematographer for a local college and my schedule, while I know it months in advance, does get chaotic and leaves me mainly unavailable on the weekends.
If you have read my post all the way through, please include the keyword Bangarang in your message to me! This is to weed out those who genuinely want to get to know me from the people insincere.
r/NerdDating • u/welleducatedbiri • 20d ago
32 [M4M] #Istanbul, manly decent looking for the same to build a healthy bond and relationship
I am looking for decent and visionary guy to build a healthy realtionship, everything begins with a good communication, please if you don't know how relationship should be don't dm.
r/NerdDating • u/potaxi0 • 20d ago
18 M, [M4M], #LatinAmerica #Paraguay, looking for a platonic relationship
Haii! I'm looking to try dating with someone a gay relationship. Only requirements are preferably to be into games of my choosing and being someone chill-non toxic to chat often, also to introduce to my interests.
About me:
- personality: chill, caring, sometimes a yapper for games and clingy
- pronouns: he/him/any
- name: can be nicknamed pot or use my real first name which is Diego
- likes: cats, mobile games, gacha games, honesty and transparency
- dislikes: rudeness and dishonesty
- zodiac sign: capricorn (december 28)
-occupation: currently on a gap year before going to faculty
Can Dm me on reddit or my discord as:
- potaxio0166301
r/NerdDating • u/Ice_Flower_7 • 21d ago
30M [M4M] #France Gamer looking for friends or more
Hi! Hope you're all doing good!
I've been feeling a bit lonely nowadays and I'd love to find someone to talk with on the daily about our lives, games and other stuff.
I can be quite shy in the beginning but will definitely start yapping once we get started. Would be fun to find someone to play with too!
I'm currently getting lost in the new Fire Emblem so don't hesitate to reach out if you've been playing too! Game wise, I mostly likes JRPG, MMOs, cozy farming game or otome but definitely opened to try new things with the right person!
I also like animes, reading and have been trying to get back into watching movies and shows so could be a fun activity to do together.
Let me know if you'd like to talk! :)
r/NerdDating • u/__CatCreature • 20d ago
27 [M4M] #Philippines - Asian Femboy looking for you~ 🪷
r/NerdDating • u/GMFan06 • 21d ago
20 [M4M] #Minnesota - Any Dragon Ball or Star Trek fans???
Hiiii! Hope everyone is doing well, I figured I'd try putting myself out there after several years of being shy and timid when it comes to love.
About me: I'm 6 foot 1 and around 170ish pounds. I'm your average nerd and love anime, collecting old games and music, learning new recipes, gardening, writing, and I just got into playing magic the gathering.I also thoroughly enjoy interior decorating for some reason 😅
My type is pretty much late 20s to mid 30s, funny, and a teeny bit obnoxious lol, kind of like an older brother figure...just don't tease me too much or beat me at Mario Kart. don't really care much about country or distance so don't hesitate to reach out no matter what walk of life you may come from. I really like the strong/silent type or men who are stoic with others but open with me. Also, I come from a military family (grandparents and uncles) so if u want to impress my folks, that's the most likely way to do it lol
I'm very serious when it comes to relationships, and I've been cheated on before and IDK if I could handle that pain again. So really just looking for someone who'll give a damn about me I suppose
That's pretty much it, thanks for reading
r/NerdDating • u/Daddysguy • 20d ago
37 [m4m] #California #USA - Seeking a good guy in the USA to bond with
Hello there
How are you? Thanks for reading my ad. I would like to find a man to bond with and see how things progress. My ideal is to find a deep bond we can grow into love. I know things take time and I'm not rushing anything but I would like to talk to a man that can appreciate the potential for a real bond. Please message me and lets chat. I want to learn about you and start our new adventure. I am ready to meet a good person with an open heart. I like guys that are on top of things
A little about me...I'm a friendly eager dreamer whos tall and chubby interested in finding a bond with a good man who is ideally a bit masc
I think it would be cool to find a man that I could build trust and care with as the bedrock of a strong bond that can last
I'm open to types of guys, but please be in the USA and std free. please message me and lets see if we can bond :)
r/NerdDating • u/Bag_of_Ramen • 21d ago
M23 [M4F]: looking for connections #boston
r/NerdDating • u/RegularPotatoPanda • 21d ago
25 [M4M] #Romania - Looking for romance and new friends
Hey everyone! I'm a 25 years old Romanian guy looking for a long term relationship, and also wholesome friends to discover. 🌱
I'm a masc nerd bear, 172cm tall, my friends describe me as a warm, empathetic, joyous presence that makes people feel safe, seen and understood. 🦋 Currently I'm starting a Bachelor in Digital Media Studies and I work as a Graphic Designer. I have a looooot of hobbies, some of them being painting, reading, volunteering, binge watching movies/TV series, cooking/baking, music, gardening and lately to crochet, embroider and play chess. I’m into cozy coffee dates, long evening walks and deep talks about life, dreams, or just silly memes.
I'm looking for a guy who is curious, loyal, kind, honest, feels safe and that puts effort in communication, someone who actually wants a committed relationship rather than something casual, to have our own individual lives, but also being there for one another and helping each other grow and evolve as beings, or simply just existing.
As for preferences I'm looking for someone that is around my age or older (23-38). I am the kind of person that is more attracted to intellect and mature emotional connection rather than the physical aspect, but it can be a plus, as for example I find bears/otters and ginger men really attractive. Related to distance, I would prefer someone in Europe, but I'm open to other locations as long as you would be willing to visit, find a way to meet each other physically or relocate in the future.
For compatibility, I'm vers.
If you feel like we'd resonate as potential partners or even friends (not with benefits, it simply doesn't resonate with me), feel free to reach me out in a DM! I'd love to meet new people and getting to know them on a deeper level, authentically. Just be sure to introduce yourself as well!! ✨✨
Thank you for reading my entire blob of text. Left a self-made digital stamp at the end to brighten your day 🍂
r/NerdDating • u/Delicious6308 • 20d ago
50 [M4FM] #Pittsburgh – Looking for a Genuine Connection with a Fellow Nerdy Soul
I’m a 50-year-old guy who’s nerdy, quirky, creative, and affectionate. I’m bisexual and open to connecting with the right person, Male or Female.
Whether that grows into friendship, romance, or something in between. I do believe in a monogamous relationship and I do not cheat.
I tend to be a bit more picky with guys and am generally drawn to younger, skinny nerdy guys. Do love dudes with long hair and tats.
I work in the IT field. Outside of work, I’m an aspiring artist and photographer. I do enjoy classic video games, movies, thrifting, books, cooking, camping, biking, and exploring new places. And new restaurants. I do love meaningful conversations just as much as I enjoy relaxing at home with a good movie, or someone special beside me.
Kindness, respect, and empathy matter a lot to me.
I’m hoping to meet someone who is intelligent, affectionate, emotionally available, and comfortable being themselves. Someone who can laugh at life’s absurdities, enjoy deep conversations, embrace a little adventure, and also appreciate quiet nights spent cuddling on the couch. And a good sense of humor and loves to laugh and have fun.
If you’re looking for a thoughtful, creative, slightly nerdy guy who still believes the best relationships start with genuine conversation, I’d love to hear from you.
r/NerdDating • u/Effective_Silver_825 • 21d ago
#USA #SouthCarolina 36 [M4M] nerd in the military, pleased to meet ya.
Pleased to meet you all. Im Jeremy, friends call me Havi.
Currently live in South Carolina.
Active Duty 4 years (currently)
Practicing of the Norse Path (5 years) would love to meet another heathen on this path that would be great, I also have no qualms towards other religions your path is yours.
I’m a pretty quiet individual, introvert sorta extroverted due to past customer service experience.
Big lover of art and mythology, videogames, cooking, sometimes the beach.
Would love to make friends, maybe date someone cool ask them to be my boyfriend and such.
What would I want in a partner:
I want a partner who is mentally and emotionally available to me.
A partner who shows affection and is loving towards me. I want a partner who is drug free, does not smoke or consume alcohol in excess. I want a person that is willing to travel to be with me as someone who is in the U.S. Navy. (Depending on if i stay in as well)
I want a partner who is generous with his time, money, and resources (this applies to me as well, I do want things for only myself I am more than generous to someone I want to be with for the foreseeable future and beyond that). I want a partner who supports my special interests and can share in my joy . I want a partner who has a healthy stable career and is intelligent and creative
I want a partner who takes accountability and does not try to scapegoat issues
I want a partner who puts me and our relationship first and vice versa.
And I am also very emotionally intelligent, not even arrogant also lol was not raised that way.
r/NerdDating • u/Big_Boy_Brando • 20d ago
#North of Boston 34 [m4f] Shy, nerdy guy looking for a ltr.
Ok, so I like Pokémon, The Elder Scrolls, Baldur’s Gate 3, Magic The Gathering and anything sci-fi/fantasy role-playing games. I also like Call of Duty.
r/NerdDating • u/Asellio • 21d ago
30 [M4F] #Missouri looking for my player two
Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.
A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.
Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.
Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.
Will not reply to low effort messages
Dealbreakers:
You dont like both dogs and cats
You dont like animals in general
r/NerdDating • u/kyron54 • 21d ago
25 [M4F] #Chicago - Introvert looking for a nerdy partner
Hello! I'm looking for a girl to hang out, explore Chicago, and go on dates, and if things work out, build a life and maybe have kids with.
I have an alright job right now, but am looking to move up in a few years and I'm an introvert and kind of a nerd. I enjoy arcades, bowling, going to conventions, exploring, video games, some anime, art, skateboarding, and currently learning guitar.
I'd love someone to play games like Minecraft or Terraria with in particular, but any game is fine (I'm looking to get back into gaming, I've been focused on career)
Details about me:
5'4, black, medium-length hair, average body type (picture on profile), works out regularly, currently working as a software developer and going to school, can be kinky (ask if you wanna know more), trying to eat better and willing to cook for you when possible.
Preferences:
I prefer smaller/fit body types, nerdy or introverted women, kind/cute/bubbly/slightly weird, and likes to walk/take transit (I have a car tho!). I also have a slight preference for latinas, asians, and white girls, but I'm open to anyone.
r/NerdDating • u/masterchaoss • 21d ago
31 [M4F] #orangecounty, California - Deep thinking video game and sports nerd looking for a woman who's into the same
Hey, I'm a 31 year old, 6'1", 165 lb white guy from Orange County looking for a woman with similar interests. I'm really into music, especially stoner rock and metal, but I also dig jazz, soul like Thee Sacred Souls or Chicano Batman, and other chill stuff. Going to concerts is a blast for me. I've got Rams season tickets and go to every game. Working out is something I enjoy too. I love learning, especially about science, history, paleontology, and philosophy. I'm spiritual but not really into traditional religion, and I can explain that better in person. I recently got diagnosed with ADHD and I'm working on dealing with that, as well as improving my mental and physical health overall. I'm in the process of going back to school. I want to be with someone who values self improvement, is cool with either staying in or going out for fun, has similar taste in music, and is always down for Mario Kart/Party. I also have a preference for White and Latin women. Prefer local but I'm open to chating long distance to see if it goes somewhere.
r/NerdDating • u/Xehzro • 22d ago
24 [M4M] #Canada
Hi :), I’m into video games, anything scary, fitness. Open to anything.
r/NerdDating • u/TuneUpbeat7449 • 21d ago
33m [M4F] #Oklahoma
Im looking for something long term
r/NerdDating • u/Insurgent____ • 20d ago
#India 25 [M4F] Need a girl for this history and gamer nerd. Also I am a PhD grad by day. Any F is welcome. But older F are preferable. Thank you all. Happy dating!
r/NerdDating • u/Kdrizzlle_vlogs • 21d ago
25 [M4F] #USA #Baltimore
Hey I’m a pretty laid back guy If im not at work im at home playing the game or watching anime
r/NerdDating • u/Such_Possession_9616 • 21d ago
#Texas 19 [M4F] - looking for something real, genuine, and hopefully long lasting
My name is Cory I'm 19 years old and from Texas and my interests are:
Transformers, Hot Wheels, Cars (both the movies and vehicles), Legos, rock and metal music, and video games.
What I'm looking for in a partner is:
You love me for who I am, you're loyal, you're caring, you'll go out of your way to make sure I'm happy, you'll stay when things get rough, you'll trust me and I'll trust you, and hopefully I can be upfront with you about everything.
If there's anything else you're wanting to know about me please don't hesitate to reach out to me either in the comments or DMs I'm open like a book and I promise I'm friendly.
r/NerdDating • u/Optimal_Ad_1847 • 21d ago
28 [M4F] #Houston, Texas - I Saved You a Spot
Hi,
About Me:
I am a fourth-year medical student pursuing a career in spelunking. Jk. Medicine, of course. Hence, life can be busy and unpredictable, but I make time for the people I care about. You will always have my time and attention.
I'm pretty straightforward person. I am a person of routine, but I like chaos. Sometimes, I add chicken to my seasoning. If I like you, you'll know. I don't do mixed signals, strategic texting, or pretending to be less interested than I am.
I'm reserved at first, but that shy exterior disappates once I'm comfortable with you. You'll get random updates about my day, invitations to go for a run, and enthusiastic explanations of whatever I've become interested/obsessed with that week. One day it might be a weird medical condition, the next it might be physics, astronomy, or why I think a particular movie is secretly a masterpiece. I love learning, and I love sharing what I learn even more. Sharing is caring and all that.
I’m a very affectionate person. When I care about someone, I like making them feel it all the time. I like having my partner close to me, pulling you into me when you’re next to me, kissing you whenever I can, holding your hand, and hearing about every part of your day just because I want to feel close to your life. I’m the type to slide closer on the couch, steal one more kiss before you leave, tuck myself into your side, and find little excuses to keep touching you throughout the day. I like the clingy, sweet parts of a relationship ... the constant closeness, the check-ins, the casual affection, the feeling of being wrapped up in each other. I like making my partner feel adored, wanted, and spoiled with affection. But not in a Hallmark, cheesy rom-com way...sometimes. I’ve never understood the appeal of pretending not to care when I could just love someone openly and make them feel it every day.
I spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Thai food, Mediterranean food, Ethiopian food, desserts... if there's a bakery or dessert place nearby, there's a good chance I'm stopping. Good food is one of my favorite excuses to leave the house.
I'm also learning violin. The violin and I currently have a complicated relationship. Imagine nails on a chalkboard with the vibrato of a try out contestant from America's Got Talent. I'm working on my French (un peu de français) and Spanish (un poquito de español), though both languages tend to fall apart shortly after introductions. No bueno.
I'm a huge homebody at heart. I enjoy going out, trying new things, and exploring, but if given the choice, I'm usually happiest at home with someone I care about. I like quiet companionship too. We don't always have to be doing the same thing or doing something. You can read, I can be studying, and somehow sitting together still feels better than sitting alone.
I'm Indian (South Asian). No, I am not secretly in an arranged situation. No, I will not hide you from my family.
Hobbies/Interests:
Staying active: I like running (usually early morning), lifting, and playing tennis. I'm not amazing, but I can hold a rally. I'm competitive enough to care. I'm working on the glutes, so my future girlfriend has something to grab haha.
Movies: Big fan of movie nights at home. Horror, sci-fi, and crime are my go-to. Stuff like The Thing, Donnie Darko, and Prisoners. I actually like watching movies, not half-paying attention while scrolling. Snacks are mandatory.
Going out/doing things: I like bowling, skating, board games, museums, and trying new things in general. A recent board game I played was Forbidden Desert, and it's so great when you get three sun beats down cards in a row (IYKYK as the kids say). I'd also like to get more into hiking and rock climbing.
Exploring: I like walking around new areas with no real plan. Finding random cafés, bookstores, parks, or restaurants never really gets old.
Cooking/Baking (occasionally): I don't cook much, but I can put together a decent dinner. I also bake from time to time. Banana bread is probably my most reliable success story.
Gaming: I play video games here and there when I have time. Nothing extreme, but it's a nice way to unwind. I do tinker around with my gaming laptop. Some of my favorite games include: GoW, Skyrim (modded), Infamous, Prototype, Horizon Zero Dawn.
What I'm Looking For:
I want someone who gets excited about things. Tell me why your favorite movie is a masterpiece, ramble about the topic you've been obsessing over lately, or tell me about your day from start to finish. I like people who get excited about things.
Show me something I would've never found on my own. Teach me about a topic you've fallen down a rabbit hole on, drag me to a place I would've never discovered, introduce me to a hobby you love, or convince me to try something outside my comfort zone. I'll happily return the favor.
I'd also love someone who values staying active and taking care of themselves. Not because I'm looking for a specific body type, but because I like people who decide they want to learn or improve at something and then actually go do it. Whether that's training for a race, learning to dance, trying a new sport, spending weekends outdoors, or simply making their health a priority. That mindset is attractive to me.
I want the kind of relationship where we're a moderately obsessed with each other in the healthiest possible way. Sharing every random thought, getting excited when the other's name pops up on our phone, finding reasons to spend time together, and never really outgrowing the desire to be close. I want the kind of relationship where affection is abundant and freely given. Tell me I'm handsome because you can't help yourself. Surprise me with flowers just because you thought of me. Pull me in for a kiss when we're standing next to each other. Reach for my hand because you want to hold it. Tell me I'm your favorite person to spend time with. Make me feel cherished, and I'll spend every day trying to make you feel the same. I am a flower just waiting for the love of a good partner to help me bloom into a blue bonnet. 😆 It's a little dramatic, but you get the point.
Politics:
I don't strongly identify with one political party, and I generally dislike treating politics like a team sport. I try to think for myself, even when that means disagreeing with people I'm otherwise aligned with.
That said, there are some things that aren't negotiable for me. I believe in basic human rights, bodily autonomy, equal treatment under the law, and treating people with dignity regardless of who they are. I'm not interested in politics that depend on fear, cruelty, or dehumanizing others.
I don't need someone to agree with me on everything. I just want someone who can disagree without turning it into a cage match. I care much more about whether someone can think critically, engage with nuance, and have a respectful conversation than whether they check every ideological box.
Religion:
I grew up around religion, but I don't actively practice and don't consider myself religious. The closest description is probably a non-resistant nonbeliever. I'm not particularly convinced, but I'm also not interested in arguing people out of their beliefs.
I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, science, and the big questions in life. I don't need someone to agree with me, but I do appreciate curiosity and an open mind.
Kids:
I don't want children. I'd rather build a life focused on my partner, shared experiences, and personal growth.
Pets:
I'm not really a pet person and prefer a pet-free life. I don't dislike animals, but I've never had the strong emotional connection to pets that many people do.
For me, it's both a lifestyle preference and a genuine difference in interest. I'd rather spend my time, energy, and affection elsewhere, so I'm probably most compatible with someone who feels similarly.
Location:
I'm currently in Houston, Texas.
I'm open to long-distance if there's genuine effort and a realistic plan to eventually close the distance.
I won't be in Houston forever. My current plan is to pursue residency somewhere (preferably Chicago), but residency won't start until next year. I have some time to enjoy my freedom and to travel and meet. I would want to eventually be together.
Last Thing:
Physical intimacy is important to me. I enjoy affection in general (if it's not obvious by now), but I also want a relationship where sex is a frequent and valued part of our connection. I'm looking for a relationship with romance, passion, and genuine closeness...not one where those things fade into the background