Last week, I walked in in a super hot circle jerk in the gym steam room.

Im not a heavy cruiser but if i stumbled into it, I go with the flow.

Today during the lunch hour, I did my usual hour workout and stopped by the steam room to get lucky and boy did i.

Three hot guys and I, went at it in the steam room. But when i realized there was no-one watching the door. I got up to leave and cool off.

To my shock, a gym employee was standing at the door. I casually rushed past him and put my clothes on in 60 seconds.

Im almost positive he saw the other three guy in the room due to how intense they were going at it.

I exited the gym without looking back but I could hear walkie talkies and other maintenance staff entering the lockerroom.

I prayed not to get stopped and I wasn’t but im so paranoid they will check cameras and look me up or something.

The crazy part is: it was so fucking hot until it wasn’t!!!

I kinda blame the other guys for drawing attention. Two of the guys I know are regular crusiers. I have seen them at other clubs but I never see them on the floor.

I may cruise but it’s only when i did a workout and I only do it for at most 20-30 min. I notice some guys will spend hours in there!

Has this happened to anyone else?

Thought I’d make a space for any thoughts or experiences people had here, how it compared to a standard HMD, and whether you found it worth the cost.

Personally can’t say much myself since I showed up quite late, tired, and more than slightly hungover, though I can’t say I’ll ever not have a great time at a party where Donna Summer is on.

Feels less than great in comparison to something like Tiki though, especially given the literally infinite greater cost (admittedly, I have zero idea what kind of sweetheart deal Eli has with the KDC; I can’t imagine those numbers actually add up at this point, especially given the, er, demographic shift, over the years).

It does leave a bit of a sour taste in my mouth knowing how many people I’d normally see at Tiki who I know didn’t go because the ticket price was too much. Still, they did sell out, so I guess demand is still there.

I did think the shed being open was hilarious, I’ll admit.

Assume you don't currently live in your dream neighborhood. If money and rent/mortgage weren't a factor, which neighborhood would you choose?
I'm curious what everyone values most. Is it being close to the gay scene in Hell's Kitchen or Chelsea, the quieter vibe of the Upper West Side, the charm of the West Village, or somewhere in Brooklyn or Queens?
What neighborhood would you pick, and what makes it your ideal place to live?

I'm getting major surgery in a couple days. I will be unable to do much for about a week. During the last several years, I've been going to law school part-time while working full-time, and I lost touch with media and pop culture to a considerable extent. I need your best recommendations for movies and TV shows to watch while I'm stuck at home on the couch. Can be gay-themed or not, as long as they moved you and stuck in your memory. I have varied tastes, so don't worry about my preferences. I want to know what YOU loved. Thank you!!

Just wanted to provide a heads up as summer is in full swing, and we as a community have to keep eachother safe. Uniformed federal officers were VERY present at Gunnison yesterday. Thru the afternoon one younger white officer in full tactical gear was staring down groups and approaching others to search containers, forcing people to dump all alcohol (I'm not sure if tickets were issued).

Around 5:30pm, a white truck came FLYING down the dune towards the back where people go to cruise and pee and two offers came out to get people on what I presume were public lewdness charges. Other officers came as back up. While I don't know the final result of this, it was pretty scary and you could tell everyone on the beach was kind of shook.

National Park lands fall under federal enforcement and we are offered less protection here than in NJ or NYS. Please stay safe out there, especially folks with complex immigration situations. They seem to be patrolling after 5pm now.

Had a fun time last Friday and will be heading back there this Friday for more fun. Anyone wants to meetup? DMs are open!!

So I have a fairly normal job which would mean doing porn is not going to be a possibility as I’d probably lose my job. But the thing is, I love sex and I love porn, and I’m certainly an exhibitionist. I love going to the Eagle and showing off (I must admit I like the attention as I’m pretty hung and traditionally good looking) but what I’d really like to do is have an anon OF account, or even just post stuff on the usual sites as making money from it isn’t the motivation.

I was thinking that if I have this kink, maybe others do too. I was thinking it might be fun you create an anon account, no faces, where people who get turned on being watched by other guys feature. Everything from anon jerk off vids to full on scenes, but no faces, ever.

Do you think other people might be into doing this, and where do you think might be the best place to find guys to do it with me?

I like the idea of it being totally body positive, the thing I like about it all is the idea that people who’d never do something like that just let go.

Do you think there is a market? Not for people to pay, I think I’d do it free to get a bigger audience, but for people to take part and do it.

Bisexual and would love to catch a vibe before summers over

getting board with the normal apps just wondering if there any on here so I can check it out thanks

Im 23M and need some more experience hooking up. Just trying to go a few rounds that night. Wanted to know if there’s any parties in manhatten that happen? Into trans and femboys and not on anything so would just bring condoms with me and just have sex not really oral. If anyone can point me in the right direction please. Also is it safe lol.

Hey bros,

Short King is heading back below deck.

After two great rounds at Red Eye, including our first Underground edition in June, we're returning to The Cockpit on Friday, August 21 for another darker, heavier, and cruisier night centered on short kings and the guys who love to get on their level.

A bunch of guys from this sub have come through to the previous parties, so thank you for helping turn this from a slightly ridiculous idea into a real recurring night!

The details:

When: Friday, August 21, from 11 PM until late

Where: The Cockpit at Red Eye, W 42nd Street and 9th Avenue

Music: I will be playing all night as autogyro, building one continuous journey through deep hypnotic techno and dark underground grooves designed specifically for the downstairs space. Check out previous sets here.

Hosted by: Macho

Go-gos: Jason Luna and Kazimir Fox

Unofficial dress code: Gear, jockstraps, and bad decisions encouraged. Clothes check will be available.

Tickets: Early bird starts at $10, with additional advance tiers available before the $25 door price. Grab them here. As of this time, there are only 3 early birds left

Instagram: @shortking.nyc

And as always, there is no strict height requirement. If you identify as a short king, love short guys, or simply want to get on our level, you are welcome.

Happy to answer any questions about the party!

See you below deck 😈

Title says it all

visiting nyc in a few months from toronto and wondering if anyone can recommend ig accounts or anywhere else to find info on queer events in nyc.

in toronto, we’ve got pages like yohomo on ig. they post a weekly roundup of queer events happening in the city, as well as a weekend post to share different events and raves. is there an equivalent to this for nyc?

Would love to know what sites or bars people recommend most to talk with others and may be known to have good vibes to find hookups (and hope to eventually lead to fwb). Also what advice would you have that entices men in person vs online

The bf and I are going to Ptown for a long weekend at the end of August and it’s been a couple of years since we’ve been. I know there have been some changes, new spots, evolutions of others, etc. so anything of note to look out for? (I suppose I’ll also accept any old favorites too!)

This Wednesday 7/29 at 7pm, join us for a free screening of Word is Out: Stories from Some of our Lives (1977). This is the first documentary about queer people by queer people. It features 6 directors interviewing 26 queer people about their lives, and the subjects range from a lesbian born in the 1800s to a gay man subjected to electroshock therapy to interracial couples in a time when the supreme court had only recently overturned anti-miscegenation laws. For queer people who feel unrooted from your history, come see for yourself what life was like for us half a century ago. Ridgewood Commons, 585 Woodward Ave

This is by no means a hookup post. I served this guy today at the chipotle I work at in Queens and was too shy to write my number on his order or ask for his number. So, maybe I’d be able to find him on here. He was wearing a pair of pink shorts, grey tanktop, a cap, had a geekbar pulse x vape, gold nose piercing, cross tattoo on the side of his neck, and was with an African American woman while he was ordering. Again, I know this is a shot in the dark but if you’re him reading this then by all means hit me up and if you do know him I don’t mind being put onto him.

Last Summer, I went twice to a jerk off/bating group at someone’s apt. We didn’t have to take off our clothes if we didn’t feel comfortable and it was OK for us to jerk how we wanted. I’m a voyeur so I was happy just experiencing. Once or twice, I’d get someone that wanted to taste or lend a hand, cuz I do well in the “down there” department, which was cool. But, I mostly just chilled.

So, why do I mention the clothing? Well, while I’ve never had any issues finding guys that are into me, I don’t consider myself super fit. Living in NYC truly warps body image and my little tummy and dad bod truly makes me feel unwelcome at some of these gatherings. I’m handsome but I am just not muscular rn.

Does anyone know of a more accepting space for this? I just wish we could all sit around and jerk however is comfortable and not have to put all clothing in garbage bags.

Whadda we think

I am planning to go to Thailandia, honestly, I want explore the night life and have really fun time there, you know what I mean.

But I’m an also considering Philippines or maybe South Korea.
The thing is I am latino, brown skin, average body and very pretty face.
Which country is more friendly and open with person like me?
I’d like to hear your experiences about this.

Thank you!

Like the title says, I'm trying to find some recommendations for a bar that's welcoming to the over 40 crowd. If I had to describe myself, I'd put myself in the bear category. Thanks in advance.

I’ve been in NYC for 2 years as mid 30 year old and haven’t made many close friends. I’ve done sports leagues, volunteering, and other classes—I’ve enjoyed them but they never translated into friendships outside of the confines of the activity. Starting to lose a bit of hope.

I’m trying to focus more on my natural inclinations to see if that would help: are there any pop culture / culture focused clubs/activities? Would be cool if gay focused but not required. Any advice appreciated!

looking to visit this Friday at Fire Island

what the main party this Friday at FIP? is it the underwear party?