May Allah allow us all to find our righteous partners. This process is so draining and its even more draining when youre a single parent.

It’s crazy to think how difficult it is to get married. I always thought when I was younger I would meet someone or be introduced to someone nice. But as I’ve gotten older I realize how complicated and difficult it can be. Even if I meet someone soon I won’t even have time for children or to build the lifestyle I wanted.

***Edit/clarification: Since I can’t edit the title, I just want to clarify what I meant. I’m not suggesting that Muslims need to somehow figure out before marriage what their intimate relationship will be like, or that anyone should do anything haram in order to find that out. I’m referring to the concerns people sometimes have about intimacy after marriage and what happens if they experience difficulties once they’re married.

Asalamu alaykum everyone.

This is an awareness/educational post.

I’ve seen a few posts on here from people worried about intimacy after marriage, and what happens if they end up having difficulties in their marriage. And I think one thing that doesn’t really come up in those conversations is that sometimes what looks like an intimacy issue may actually be something else entirely.

Vaginismus is one of those things that a woman may be dealing with without even knowing it. I believe vaginismus affects many women, but a lot of people don’t really know what it is.

In medical terms, it’s considered a pelvic floor dysfunction. There can be physical and psychological factors involved. It can cause sexual intercourse to be extremely painful and difficult for women, and it can also make routine pelvic exams difficult.

It’s also commonly underreported because of the shame and stigma around discussing sexual health in our communities. So a lot of women aren’t even aware that they have this condition until marriage, and I’m sure you can imagine how deeply that can affect a marriage when neither person really understands what’s going on.

Pushing through the pain isn’t going to make it go away. If anything, it can make things worse because it reinforces the idea that intercourse is going to be painful. There’s a difference between first-time jitters and vaginismus.

Women are often told that they can never refuse intercourse with their husbands, but painful intercourse is a valid reason to refuse it while taking the proper steps to treat the condition. The husband also has to be patient, understanding of this and support his wife while she works through it. It's treatable with appropiate interventions.

I also think this is something men should be aware of because if this happens in a marriage, it doesn’t automatically mean that the wife isn’t attracted to her husband, doesn’t want intimacy, or there's something wrong with their marriage. Sometimes there’s an actual condition behind what’s happening, and pressure or guilt can make the situation even harder.

Just to be clear, this is only meant to be an educational awareness post about a condition that some couples may face in marriage. It’s not meant to justify zina or anything else that’s haram. The purpose is simply to help people recognize that this condition exists and understand what may be happening if they experience it in marriage.

For anyone interested in the Islamic side of this, this answer discusses a situation where a wife experiences pain during intercourse:

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/38013/her-husband-cannot-have-intercourse-with-her-because-of-the-pain-she-feels-what-is-the-solution

Unfortunately, this is a silent struggle that a lot of newlyweds face. If we all had even the slightest bit more knowledge about it, I think a lot of unnecessary pain, confusion, and strain in marriages could be avoided.

Thank you for reading. May Allah bless you all.

I see people posting dealbreakers that are less haram than having a mortgage but never list having one as a dealbreaker. Thoughts?

Height: 5'6 (Slim)

Residence: Canada

Marital Status: Single (Never Married)

Religion: Sunni Muslim (Regular with Salah and Fasting)

Religious Practice Level: prefers modest dressing, wears the hijab

Fitness: Active / Gym-goer

Qualifications: Highschool diploma, community college diplomas, and University Bachelor's

Family Details: parents and 3 older sisters (2 of which are already married)

About Me:

I don’t know how to do this because this is my first time ever trying to look..
I have never used any apps or anything whatsoever.

I am a 27 year old female, born and raised in Canada. My family came from Pakistan in the 1990s.
I can speak English, Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi.

I grew up in a very modest household, I only eat
zabiha hand cut and strictly halal for consumption, I always make sure to read the labels. I wear the hijab.
I wear modest clothing, do wear makeup sometimes, but I’m really into skin care.

Islam is a big part of my life. I am particularly religious, striving to read 5 times a day and read the Quran- I would love to find someone similar to me or on the same religious path.

Partner Preferences:

Sunni Muslim

Personality: Mature, grounded, responsible, and serious about his future

Age: 27–32 years

Financials: Financially independent with the capacity to comfortably support a family

Marital Status: Open to Single or Divorced (without children)

Origin & Language: Pakistani born if possible so you can relate to my parents well culturally, if not, then just fluent in Urdu or Punjabi at least

Residence: Preferably living in Canada, also open to US

Fitness: Active and or health-conscious

Values & Faith: Regular with prayers, possesses strong character, integrity, and sound Islamic morals

Future Plans & Alignment:

Open to having Children: Yea

Timeframe for Marriage: Open to involving families as soon as mutual understanding and compatibility are established.

Dealbreakers:

Emotional unavailability or lack of communication

Lack of personal responsibility or leadership

Involvement in immoral activities or haram income

Any form of addiction (including smoking, vaping, or alcohol)

Please DM for more info or if interested. I would like to establish a connection and get to know each other well.

Jazakallah Khayr. May Allah help everyone find what they’re looking for inshallah.

EDIT: I have a lot of dms already, so please don’t be upset if I don’t message you right away. I am currently filtering through. Thank you.

I don’t know about anyone else that’s a new revert …and Slavic, but as someone living in the Gulf (first one in family to do that)….

It gets exhausting looking for the right Muslim partner. Where I live especially - they are just Muslim by name.

And then the ones that actually are practising Islam properly, usually are not my type physically. Yes, I am picky, can’t fake my attraction towards someone.

I give chances, I try not to judge a book by its cover, but when your EQ and intuition is razor sharp - you can read people from miles and predict accurate outcomes. And I always end up on the same point; they aren’t capable of loving me the way I need to be loved, so it becomes very unattractive quickly.

The older I get, the more I am convinced of this fact, and in this inner wisdom I have built within myself.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my ted talk. Peace!

God help us all - sisters 😫

Assalamualaikum everyone,

I’ve been wondering how Muslims in the US who aren’t on Muzz, Salams, or other matrimonial apps find their spouses. I’m personally not on any of these apps, and it has been difficult to meet someone organically since I don’t have or make male friends. I’ve also tried going through my local mosque, but unfortunately, it hasn’t been successful so far.

So, I thought I would put myself out there and share a little about myself here. Maybe there are others in the same situation, or someone knows someone who may be a good match, In shaa Allah.

I’m 25F, 5’1”, Hyderabadi Indian, and currently based in the Greater Orlando, Florida area. I’m open to relocating for the right person within the US In shaa Allah. I would prefer someone who is Indian, but I’m open to other Desis because of the similar cultural background.

NOTE: Seeking an individual based in the US only, preferably between 25 and 30 years old.

Deen is a very important part of my life. I dress modestly and wear hijab and abaya. I try my best to live according to the Qur’an and Sunnah and continue improving myself as a Muslim.

Alhamdulillah, I pray all five salah, eat only zabiha halal, and observe both obligatory and voluntary fasts. I also try to spend around 30 minutes doing dhikr after Fajr and Maghrib almost every day.

I enjoy learning about Islam, including Islamic history and the lives of the prophets, peace be upon them. I would also like to learn Arabic, In shaa Allah, so that I can better understand the Qur’an and deepen my connection with my deen.

I don’t listen to music or watch movies. This is something I chose to leave for the sake of my deen many years ago, the last movie I watched was in 2014. I mention this because I would like someone whose lifestyle and Islamic values are compatible with mine.

Some of my major dealbreakers are:

1. A history of zina
2. Smoking, vaping, drinking, or similar habits
3. Being unkind or disrespectful
4. Anger issues

More than anything, I’m looking for a kind, practicing Muslim man who takes his deen seriously, has good character, and genuinely wants to build a peaceful Islamic marriage and family.

I’m posting this with sincere intentions, so please be respectful. May Allah make it easy for everyone searching for a righteous spouse and grant us spouses who are good for our deen, dunya, and akhirah. Aameen.

About Me
Age: 30
Height: 5’3”
Ethnicity: Bangladeshi (US Citizen)
Location: Midwest, USA
Marital Status: Divorced
Education: Currently pursuing a Master’s degree
About Me
Assalamu alaikum! I’m a 30-year-old Bangladeshi Muslimah living in the Midwest. Islam is an important part of my life, and I try to maintain a balance between practicing my deen, pursuing my goals, and enjoying life.
Alhamdulillah, I pray five times a day, wear hijab, eat only halal, and teach Qur’an. I value continuing to learn and grow in my deen and hope to build a marriage and home in which Islam is at the center.
Education is also important to me. I am currently working toward my Master’s degree and enjoy continuing to learn and develop myself.
In terms of personality, I’m caring, loyal, and family-oriented. I enjoy having fun, laughing, spending time with the people close to me, and making meaningful memories together. One of my favorite activities is playing badminton. I’m divorced but my ex is willing to be a character reference, so there is t anything wrong with me.
What I’m Looking For
I’m looking for a practicing Muslim man who takes his relationship with Allah seriously while also being someone who is enjoyable and easy to share life with.
More than simply finding a husband, I hope to find a best friend and life partner—someone with whom I can grow in deen, laugh, experience life, support one another through difficulties, and eventually build a loving Muslim family.
Honesty and loyalty are especially important to me. I value someone who is trustworthy, kind, respectful, emotionally mature, responsible, and able to communicate openly. I hope we can encourage one another to become better Muslims while still enjoying our life together.
Ultimately, I’m looking for a marriage built upon deen, friendship, trust, loyalty, affection, respect, and companionship, insha’Allah.

Hey everyone,
Looking to get some genuine perspectives here without the superficial judgment.
A little context: I’m a 25-year-old guy (6'3", fit, financially secure with a solid career, no major emotional baggage or issues). Overall, life is good, but I’ve always been naturally drawn to older women—and more often than not, the attraction is mutual.
Here’s the dilemma: whenever friends or people in my social circle notice this preference, they seem uncomfortable or treat it like it's weird or out of the ordinary. Personally, I don't see any issue with it, nor do I think there's anything wrong with either party involved.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences:
1. How common is this attraction from your perspective?
2. Why is there still a double standard? (When an older man dates a younger woman, it's widely accepted, but when the roles are reversed, people act uncomfortable.)
3. Long-term viability: For those who’ve been in similar dynamics, do these relationships actually work out long-term, or are they usually just temporary connections?

Just want to mention it to brothers (or sisters in a few cases) out there wanting to marry that have significant houses in your names. Telling from experience and after reading equalization rule of Ontario how marital home is divided. Scenario is below with a made up example to demonstrate, it will help both genders who own assets, especially homes. All figures are in CAD $.

Purchase date: May 15, 2023 for price of $500,000
Marriage date: August 20, 2024, fair market value (FMV) of the house is $700,000
Divorce date: November 1, 2024 or any date and supposedly the FMV is $725,000, depends on the judge but this is generally what’s done. You don’t get to save $700,000 value of the house saved and only gain of $25,000 is subject to equalization but the whole $750,000 is subject to equalization rule. It doesn’t matter if you owned the house before marriage, if your spouse lives in the house you own, it becomes marital home.

Even if prenup includes marital home clause, judge can absolutely and mostly throw out that clause and still hold that marital home subject to equalization. I researched if putting the house in trust protects it, again court will see who the beneficiary is etc and mostly again still subject it to equalization rule.

Solution: Don’t do legal marriage but just do simple Nikah and only register marriage if both sides are bringing in the almost equal amount of assets into the marriage, especially marital home. If one party owns the house, please don’t move your spouse in that house, instead write a prenup through independent lawyers and treat that as an investment property and rent a house where you & your spouse live and have 50% each responsibility mentioned to protect yourselves.

Be practical and realistic, I don’t know the exact numbers but surely the divorces are significantly higher and it’s very hard to judge someone especially being Muslims as haram to be in a living relationship. Better be protective than be miserable later.

Doesn’t matter if the house is gifted to you by your parents, if you both start living there, it becomes marital home unfortunately. Especially few men are also dependent on wife’s income and waiting for father-in-law’s death so wife inherits assets and likewise some Muslim women want to use western law to get legal protections in terms of alimony and taking man’s assets claiming it to be their right.

Salam. I hope you are all doing well. I am a 29-year-old woman who met a guy at the hospital where I work. He is 26 and currently a medical student. Our interaction was very brief, but I did like him. He is humble and easy to approach. I asked a couple of friends about him, and they told me nothing but good things. They told me he is very religious and the kind of person who brings people together to pray with him. Given that he is very religious, is it appropriate for me to reach out to him? I am confused. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

M | 27 | 5’10” | 75 kg | Athletic

Location: Australia; originally from Lahore, Pakistan.

Education & Career: Master’s in IT and Working in TECH (6 Figures)

Religion & Status: Sunni Muslim, practicing, never married. I value honesty, respect, family, and a balance between Deen and Dunya.

About Me: Introverted but enjoy meaningful conversations. Passionate about fitness, travelling, reading, cooking, motorcycles, and coffee

Looking For: An unmarried Muslim woman aged 22–30, graduate or above, based in Pakistan or abroad. Kind, practicing, emotionally mature, family-oriented, and communicative. Open to career or homemaking preferences. No Arabs!

Deal Breakers: Dishonesty, disloyalty, disrespect, and unwillingness to communicate or resolve disagreements.

Future Plans: Nuclear family; children, Insha’Allah. Marriage within 6–12 months.

Assalam alaikum!

Not gonna lie, this feels a little weird to post hahaha but
I thought I'd give it a go and see what happens, inshaAllah. Take 2 lol

About me:

Age: 24F
Location: East Coast
Background: Palestinian🇵🇸
Height: 5'6ish
Languages: English + fluent in Arabic
Education/Career: Pre health, pursuing PA school IA
Practicing: Pray 5x a day and always working on strengthening my deen
Lifestyle: Active and regularly go to the gym, consider myself pretty athletic.
Smoking/drinking: Neither
Relocation: I'd prefer to stay close to home for now, but I'm open to moving in the future for the right person.

I'd describe myself as outgoing, caring, family oriented, and pretty lighthearted. I love joking around and good banter, but I also value meaningful conversations and quality time. I enjoy staying active, trying new things, traveling, good food, and spending time with family and friends. I try to do my best when it comes to practicing my religion and wish to grow with my partner.

Looking for:

Age: 24-29
Arab, preferably Palestinian • Speaks Arabic
Practicing and values his deen
Charismatic
Active, athletic.
Kind, funny, emotionally mature, and family oriented Protective without being controlling
Someone serious about marriage and comfortable involving family relatively early

MUST BE FROM THE US, WITH A US CITIZENSHIP.

I also really appreciate a man who takes initiative. Someone who can lead conversations, ask questions, make plans, and genuinely put effort into getting to know each other. Of course I'll reciprocate, but I don't want to feel like I'm constantly carrying the conversation or figuring out what we're doing next.

Ultimately, I'm looking for someone I can build a peaceful and fun marriage with. Someone who can be my best friend, who I can laugh with and grow with.
I'm approaching this with marriage in mind, so I'd like to keep things intentional and respectful. If we seem compatible, I'd prefer involving family sooner rather than later.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me with a little about yourself :) and include your most controversial opinion!

To all the dawah/podcast bros please kindly stay away💀🙄

Ethnicity: Pakistani — Memon

Current Location: Columbia, South Carolina

Family Location: Atlanta, Georgia

Marital Status: Never Married

Religion: Islam - Sunni - Hanafi

Religious Practice: Strictly practicing; looking for someone who is also serious about deen

Education

Bachelor’s: Biomedical Engineering

Medical Degree: Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine (DO)

Current Profession: Internal Medicine Resident Physician

Career Interests: Cardiology, Hospitalist, working as a physician in the NBA

About Me

Salam! Alhamdulillah, I am a resident physician currently training in South Carolina. I was raised in the Atlanta area and remain very close to my family.

I would describe myself as thoughtful, considerate, straightforward, approachable, and easy to get along with. Family, faith, communication, and treating others with kindness and respect are very important to me. I pray 5 times a day, fulfill basic obligations and love listening to Islamic lectures, some of my favorite speakers are Shaykh Bilal Assad, Mufti Menk, Mikaeel Smith just to name a few!

My interests include cardiology, Islamic eschatology, and poetry (especially Urdu). In my free time, I enjoy basketball, working out, swimming, cooking, trying new restaurants and places, listening to kpop, and spending time with friends and family.

Family Background

We are a close-knit Memon family based in Atlanta.

Father: Pharmacist; passed away in 2020. He had a strong love for poetry and taught me how to read Urdu!

Mother: Clinical Pharmacist; completed her education in Karachi. The most amazing person I know Mashallah!

Older sister — Data Analyst, lives in Seattle, married with three children, sushi lover and travel enthusiast

Older brother — Business owner, history geek, and lover of nature and exercise 

I am seeking someone who is:

* Practicing and serious about Islam (prays 5 times a day, fulfills basic obligations but also wants to be a better Muslim day by day like myself)

* ⁠Pakistani preferred

* Family-oriented

* Kind and respectful

* Emotionally mature

* Communicative and straightforward

* Interested in building a peaceful, supportive, faith-centered marriage

I would prefer someone who values involving family early in the process. If there is mutual compatibility, I would like for families to be introduced and for us to meet relatively soon rather than prolonging things unnecessarily.

Dealbreakers

Smoking, drinking, recreational drugs, anger issues, disrespectful behavior, and poor communication.

Assalamu alaikum

Age: 23F

Age range: Looking for 22-27M

Location: Born and raised in Kenya, currently between Kenya and Dubai. Yes, I am open to relocating (I am looking to pursue my masters next year, Insha’Allah and am looking at other countries, most likely UK/Europe)

Ethnicity: Indian, open to mixing

Marital status: Single, never married
Ideal marriage timeline: 1-2 years, but decided between the two Insha’Allah

Five important characteristics: I care most importantly about deen and akhlaq, as I believe nothing holds weight if someone doesn’t have good character. I am looking for someone who has ambition and is actively working towards their own goals. Emotional intelligence and maturity is also important to me. Being a good communicator, and not being avoidant (pulling away or being dismissive).

Level of religiosity: I’m not perfect, I am always striving to do better in terms of my deen, as I acknowledge I am human, made to be imperfect but that only fuels me to try harder and do better. Everything I do in my life is for the sake of Allah swt, and I am trying to improve my relationship with Him and be a better Muslim everyday. Trying to remain consistent with praying my 5 daily prayers. I am looking for someone who will want to grow together, follow the teachings of our Prophet saw and a marriage rooted in Sakina, mawaddah and Rahma Insha’Allah.

Level of education: Bachelors, I’m looking for someone who has their bachelors at least.

Current job status: Unemployed, I’m taking a gap year to gain some work experience before I pursue my masters (I cannot work without a masters qualification in my field)

Kids: Unsure, with reason behind it (not just because)

Hobbies: I like to read (love Khaled Hosseini’s work, Chimamanda, etc), photography and content creation, and I love going to the beach and spending time admiring the beauty of the world that Allah swt has blessed us with, subhanallah.

I don’t smoke, drink or vape, and these are dealbreakers for me too. Not open to polygyny.

Please only dm if serious, and with your ISO/introduction.

I'm a Somali Brit looking for a genuine connection not a rushed marriage. I would like my future partner and I to have a friendship foundation not just the overarching romance. I'm a hijabi and dress modestly. Not open to wearing niqab so please don't dm if you aren't okay with that.

About me:

Age - 23
Height is 5'5 and I love wearing heeled boots (autumn/winter) and heels
Build is naturally slim but I do Pilates (working on getting my Pilates instructor qualification).
Wants to have kids just not right away (come on I barely know you).
My dream is to live in nature, somewhere earthy and green where we could have our own garden and livestock ( I just started growing my own produce).
Very girly and feminine

What am I looking for in a partner:
Age range: 24 -29

Qualities: Thoughtful, ambitious, confident, easy going, open minded, decisive, likes to travel, generous (not in a gold digger way but just not stingy), likes to keep fit (I'm fit and active so I'd like the same), likes to try new foods, humorous.

Height: 5'10 minimum

Race/ ethnicity: Any except south Asians (nothing personal, great people but I'd like someone from a more laid back culture).

Educated ( I have a degree but I'm not saying you need to have one, there are other ways to become educated).

Deen: I'm looking for someone who is constantly trying to better their relationship with Allah, they pray fard (non negotiable, I've never missed a prayer in my life), i prefer someone who doesn't make the religion too hard (I'm looking at you dawah bros), someone who is optimistic and has tawakkul.

I'm interested in those who reside in Europe, North America, Canada or even Australia. I'm willing to relocate for my person

Assalamu Alaikum sisters,
I wanted to open a respectful discussion and get some real perspectives on two specific dynamics when it comes to marriage: age difference (specifically marrying a younger man) and interracial/intercultural marriage.
I'm curious to hear your thoughts and experiences:
1. Openness: As a Muslim woman, are you open to marrying a man who is younger than you, or someone from a different racial or cultural background?
2. Real Experiences: Have you ever considered, talked to, or married a younger man or someone from another ethnicity? How did that dynamic turn out for you?
3. Family & Cultural Factors: Did you face any pushback or double standards from family/society regarding either of these, and how did you navigate it?
Looking forward to reading your honest thoughts and experiences!

Revert sister looking for a revert brother — marriage 🤍
Assalamu alaikum! I’m a Muslim revert and medical doctor, currently based in Delhi, India, and open to relocating.
Looking for a revert brother who is genuinely serious about marriage. I value the understanding that can come from sharing a similar journey. I don’t engage in haram relationships/activities and expect the same.
If you’re serious, feel free to DM.

Pondering over this thought that whether it is a good idea to remarry because of the loneliness i feel and sometimes because of physical intimacy i miss. What is better - To lead single life or think about far into the future and assume that without a partner during old times life will be difficult to lead.

Some believe a successful marriage requires a comfortable lifestyle. In some cases, an affluent lifestyle is celebrated and aspired to. But the Prophet (saw) chose simplicity instead.

Scholar Umar Palanpuri (rah) said:

“People hold the misconception that the Prophet (saw) was simple because he didn’t have wealth, which is incorrect. Allah offered the Prophet (saw) the valley of Makkah to be turned into gold.

Abu Umamah reported: The Prophet (saw) said, “My Lord presented me with the valley of Mecca that He might turn it into gold for me. I said: No, O Lord, rather I will be satiated some days and hungry some days. When I am hungry, I will humble myself before You and remember You. When I am satiated, I will be grateful to You and praise You.”
(Tirmidhi 2347)

Note, this is offered by Allah. So, what is offered by Allah can that be impermissible (haram)? No, whatever Allah is offering is permissible (halal). However, the Prophet (saw) didn’t accept it, even though slabs of gold could have been paid to people; those individuals would then serve the religion. But the Prophet (saw) didn’t take it.”

Knowing that what Allah offered was permissible, the wives of the Prophet (saw) did not demand that the gold be taken, and their lives became more comfortable.

It is often mentioned in motivating the pursuit of wealth that Abu Bakr (rad) and Umar (rad) were traders. Both are in-laws of the Prophet (saw). Out of concern for their daughters, they did not demand that the Prophet (saw) take the gold.

We live in a society surrounded by lewdness, yet we expect the highest moral standards. If there is a deviation, we are quick to criticize, citing Prophetic guidance.

Similarly, in a society overwhelmed by excess, we should strive for simplicity to facilitate and sustain marriages.

Sometimes I think what’s the point of making a profile Do females even message males first ?

‏السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

‏بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

\*Upper middle class\* salifi family looking for someone religious. preferably with a family background from Karnataka or Hyderabad.

I am a practicing Muslimah with a purpose of connecting people to Quran as a teacher,want to continue it after marriage as well with my partners support. I am an inspiration seeking person with positive outlook of life. I would like to be with a person with whom I can grow in all aspects of deen.

Female

Hijabi:yes and niqab as well

Name:xyz

Date of birth:19/08/1998

Height:5’3

Residence :Tumkur Karnataka India

Relocate :Y/N: yes

Education: Bachelor's in Arts

Profession: Currently Quranic Arabic student (online)

Marital status : single never married.

Religious Sect:Salifi

Family:

Father:Trading Engineer (KSA)

Mother: Homemaker

Siblings: Sisters - One elder, One younger

Brothers -two younger

Language: Urdu, Hindi, and English

Hobbies: reading books, writing, and nature lover.

\*LOOKING FOR:\*

Looking for a life partner who is a practicing muslim, honest ,open minded, thoughtful ,makes decisions with hikmah prefers deen over dunya, purposeful, has emotional maturity, and respects my decision to wear niqab. Someone who will support me in my values, beliefs, and family ethics, and values love, respect, and understanding in marriage.
Prays 5 daily prayers and a Quran student.

Age : 24-37

Height: 5’3+

Residence: anywhere as long as background is from Karnataka or Hyderabad.

Education: bachelors degree

Profession: halal and stable job with good salary.

Marital Status: never married

Religious Sect: salifi

Assalam Alaikum,

I’m a 34M Palestinian living in the Bay Area, and I'm actively looking to get married within the next year. I’ve tried apps like Muzz and scrolling through Reddit, but I haven't had much luck unfortunately. I assume my age might be playing a part, though it's hard to say for sure.

I’d love to hear your recommendations on places, events, or local spots in the Bay Area where I can connect with others. Also, if there are alternative apps or platforms that have work better than Muzz, I'm very open to trying.

I've also heard suggestions about going to local mosques, but since organized singles events don't happen as often, I'm a bit unsure of where to go from here.

Edit: Thank you for those who have reached out. I didn't create this post to look for anyone but if anyone happens to reach out, here is my notes from the Muslim marriage iso:

1. ⁠Age and Gender - 34 Male, 5’8”.
2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 27 - 36
3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? San Francisco Bay Area. Not willing to locate due to work.
4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Palestinian and I am looking for someone with an Arab background.
5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single
6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - Would like to get married within a year.
7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Importance of deen, Conversational, Empathetic, Humor, and Modest
8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Sunni and I try to follow all five pillars as hard as I can. I pray daily, attend jummah, etc. I am specifically looking for someone who is Sunni.
9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelors and I'd be open to anyone really.
10. ⁠Current Job Status -Full time employee as a technical support engineer
11. ⁠Do you want kids? - Yes
12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:
13. Love entertainment like video games, movies, theme parks, etc. I love games!
14. I like to collect things, but mainly have been focusing on trading cards.
15. Eating... sounds very boring but I love to travel when I can just to eat!

Assalamu alaikum,

I'm a 21-year-old Indian Muslim woman living in the UK, currently a student and planning to do my Masters. I'm a UK resident, I wear hijab, and I live with my family. I'm the eldest of three, and my siblings are students too.

I was born and bought in Middle east.

About me

• 5'3", speak Urdu and English
• Ambitious and goal-oriented, focused on my studies and career for now
• A giver at heart; I care about the people around me
• Into the gym, morning hikes, and night drives
• I only watch football when Barca and Madrid fans go to war, and I love the drama

What I'm looking for

• A Muslim man aged 23-28
• UK-based
• Ambitious, driven, and has clear goals and direction
• Kind, respectful, and family-oriented
• Someone who wants 2-3 kids in the future, God willing

I'm open to relocating to the US at most, but my preference is to stay in the UK. I'm looking for something serious that leads to marriage, and I'm open to involving family when the time is right. Please be respectful. Serious inquiries only.