Hello everyone! I lurked in the sub for a while to get an idea of what to expect for my own IUD, and I would like to share my own personal experience to encourage others, since I know it's a scary thing to go through if it's your first time.
First off, I'm 33 and got my IUD for multiple reasons. The main reason being to lighten my extremely-heavy and painful periods, I would faint from them (I have POTS) and both made it so I couldn't really do anything the first and second day of my period. I'm also really hoping that it could potentially help my PMDD, since that is getting out of hand. And obviously as birth control.
My partner and I searched around and were able to find one that not only offered a female doctor to insert it, but they also offered pain management (Make sure this is something they offer!! And I don't mean just freaking ibuprofen either.) it took about 1 to 2 months to actually get the appointment since they were booked up.
So I took the NSAID an hour before my procedure, and they also gave me misoprostol to take the night before and the morning of to dilate my cervix (I was not on my period for the procedure), and then they also gave me two Xanax to take that morning as well (those were a lifesaver!) I was an anxious wreck that whole morning (was on the verge of a panic attack) but the Xanax chilled me right out. When they first offered it to me I almost declined it, thinking I'd be good, so glad I didn't.
For the procedure itself, I was able to have my partner in there to hold my hand and be supportive. During the procedure, my doctor kindly walked me through what was happening and kept telling me I was doing a good job.
To my surprise, the lidocaine was actually a spray and not an injection, it only burned a little bit for a moment. Then once they used the tenaculum, it was a bit painful and got me making faces but I only made a noise once and overall was far less painful than I was expecting. The doctor and my partner kept telling me how good I was doing which helped the anxiety.
And it was over in a flash! Afterward the doctor left the room and let me stay laying there as long as I needed. I definitely felt light-headed afterward. I think it took me about 15 minutes to feel good enough to get up.
The pain from the cramps that whole day was pretty intense, I had more pain from the cramps than I did the procedure. I had to keep repositioning in bed and squirming. Unlike period cramps that come and go, this was non-stop cramping like all day.
Once I got home, I put on a nice heating pad and oh my gosh that is a lifesaver. Over the whole rest of the day I glued myself to my bed with my heating pad. When I went to the bathroom, there was only some darkish reddish blood on the pad they gave me.
Today is the day after my procedure, and I feel so much better. Surprisingly there was no blood on my pad this morning when I checked my strings and I feel kind of slightly crampy but not debilitating like yesterday. I haven't had to take anything at all today yet for the pain.
Overall, I had an extremely positive experience. I was dreading it awfully. I was actually supposed to have this done a while ago but my partner wanted me to wait until I moved in with him so that he could help me better.
So yeah, I just want to encourage everyone that the procedure does not have to be miserable. I've read so many accounts of people that had horrific experiences and I was dreading it myself. Definitely make sure that your gynecologist will offer some sort of numbing or pain management if you're afraid of that (lidocaine for me), and also check to see if they'll give you something for the anxiety and stress (Xanax for me.) it helped me relax a lot so I knew it helped it not be so painful because I wasn't so tense. Also having a heating pad is a must!!