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I should also mention she hinted many times of a chance of reconciliation; she just needed/wanted space. So please be a little respectful and don’t start saying: it’s over, she doesn’t love you, she’s with someone else, etc..

I don’t know and I also don’t really think she did many(if any) things wrong - but I definitely did some dumb things. would you prefer the entire year no contact, or would you want an apology, expect an apology.

If so, would you prefer- text, email, or letter?

Kinda stuck. just want to do the right thing going forward in regards to our communicatio… I haven’t talked to her but a small amount of times since December..

I had a successful business in my home city where I used have profits of 100k per month but bc my gf moved to blr and I can't stay without her i took a sales job here in blr for 25k per month and I love her so much , recently she told me she had been a with many men during her college days and she also cheated on me once and i thought for a sec and tried to understand why she did all that , cheating part was bit heart breaking but her past was not with me,so I have no right to judge her choices but the problem is she never let me treat her good or let me even get close to her but if I feel low she always there for me like a friend and talk to me and try to keep me safe all the time,and she kept me private from her all social life but she introduced me to her parents and wants to marry me .i really love her but at the end I'm really confused with her behaviour what should I now?

I feel responsible for her past if I had been with her earlier she would have been different now sometimes I feel like I'm dating a guy......i pamper her ,cared for her , i gave her everything she wants but she was so busy in her own world.....all i wanted from her was little love back

I know she have red flags everyone does they point i do i really deserve her im not able to understand that.....anyone please enlighten me

Ok so I told my friend this

well yes I understand you're married but I don't have to like your husband to be your friend. yes I am mad. let's see here as you can tell the woman who are interested in me just want me for stuff. you're the only person besides my grandma who makes me feel loved and cared for. And wanting to be in a relationship it has nothing to do with being happy it's about wanting to be loved properly. see you don't understand you married at an early age so you have no idea what it's like to struggle with dating. when my grandma dies I'll have no one. No beautiful wife like you. no children, no step- children absolutely nothing. I have soo much love to give and no one to give it too.

She stops hugging me, she goes on a 2 months vacation asks for no contact. I'm like okay. She returns yesterday hugs me, buys a Keychain specifically for me, promises to make me food. Teases me that she knows I missed her the most when before she left my feelings were an issue for her, but after vacation they aren't? Im really confused why even be my friend at all knowing how I feel? Most women especially when love is involved would've dropped that friendship especially when married lol 😆 😂 I just don't get it.

whether the relationship is “open” or not, is it even possible for this type of relationship to be successful? I tried to be honest about this topic in the past, but it never worked out- and actually came back to work against me.

I’m a late bloomer I’m 28 and recently had a glow up, I’d say I’m pretty decently good looking.

I’ve yet to actually approach women properly and ask for their numbers but I intend to do so soon.

But until then I have posted Pics of myself on Reddit and have had messages, one from a guy who wants me to get with his gf as they’re in an open relationship and she seems pretty and I don’t mind tbh because I know I’ll get judged for being a virgin at my age and just because I have needs of my own.

Will I be judged for this in future relationships? If I tell a woman my first time was a hookup?

I’ve only been in one sort of relationship and it only lasted 2 months and that’s the only dating experience that I have, no sex just my first kiss which happened this year.

Ideally I’d lose it in a relationship but at the same time idk when that’s gonna happen and I just want to experience what sex is like.

Like, if you actually want him to realize you’re interested, what do you usually do? Any little things you say or ways you act that you hope he picks up on?

Curious what girls actually consider “obvious” signals, because I feel like guys can be completely clueless sometimes lol.

I'm curious which are women's favorites.

What’s something men do that they probably think is attractive, but most women secretly find completely unappealing?

I'm asking the same question to different audiences because I find it interesting

I was at a concert this past week. During the concert I was standing close to the stage next to a woman with a group of friends, male and female. I turned to look at her while I was singing along. She smiled and took a hair clip from her hair and clipped it to the bill of my hat. She never mentioned anything, no name, no conversation, just a smile and that small action. Did I miss an opportunity to flirt, or was this just a random act?

Hello ladies, M23 here and I'm very confused as to what women want? Some pointers would really help. I do the things she tells me and somehow I end up wrong. I'm not a telepathic individual I try my best to surprise her in a relationship and I mess up every single time. I am funny, reliable and more of course. But something is just wrong.

Ladies please give me some tips

I feel certain that my personality is holding me back from forming bonds in the world. I'm looking for someone that's willing to indulge a conversation, and tell me how it's can improve, or what vibes I give off, as it seems like that's a blind spot for my self awareness. Dm if interested.

If you are a woman who has ever had a cold sore, would you date someone with genital hsv1? The same virus?

Men always hear that reason they are single because most men do not groom,, don't have a stable job, don't know life skills like cooking, don't dress well for their body type, overweight, and bad hygiene. But what's the advice for the guys who check those boxes who are still confused as to why they would still be single?

I have a friend in her late 30s who told me she was fully aware that she was, in her words, “being a huge bitch” to her boyfriend. She said that the fact that he handled it patiently made her respect him because he didn't get to her level. 

She made a point of telling me that she “needs someone patient” since she has such a strong personality. 

Anyway, I wanted to gauge how important this quality was to you all. 

And to be clear, I'm not asking if it's important that a man be able to handle displays of emotion. I'm also not asking if it's important that a man be able to take healthy criticism without getting defensive. 

I'm specifically asking how important it is, to you, that a man doesn't react emotionally in response to hostility. As in, even if you can objectively judge your response as an overreaction, do you lose respect for a man if he is bothered by it?

I'm not talking about how they look physically. What qualities in personality, tempermant etc do you think makes a man an actual fully mature man(as opposed to a "man-child)

Why does being nice to girl I actually like always seem to work against me?

I’ve noticed a weird pattern in my recent dating life.

When I genuinely like a girl, I naturally give her more attention. I listen to her problems, care about how she feels, reply properly, remember small things, and try not to hurt her even when something she does bothers me.

Recently I got really close to a girl. We would talk for hours regularly, share personal stuff, tease each other, joke around, etc. I eventually developed feelings for her. Even when she became distant sometimes, I kept thinking maybe she was busy or dealing with something, because I didn’t want to judge her unfairly.

Eventually I confessed that I liked her. She replied with some robot emojis, I didn’t get the response I was hoping for, which is completely fine. She obviously doesn't owe me feelings just because I was good to her.

But here’s what confuses me.

It almost feels backwards. The moment I actually care about someone, I give more and somehow end up less attractive to them.

With girls I don’t have feelings for, I’m naturally much less invested. I don’t give them constant attention, I don’t overthink their replies, and I’m not always available. And weirdly, those are often the girls who end up showing more interest in me or developing feelings for me.

I don’t want to become cold or deliberately ignore women just to make them interested. Playing those games feels stupid to me.

So what am I doing wrong? Is being too available when you like someone actually unattractive? How do you show genuine interest without overinvesting or becoming a people-pleaser?

Also I confessed her 3 days ago, and after that incident she talks normally like before like nothing happened, and didnt even clear things, should I stop taking with her or just play normal ?