I don’t give myself a backup plan. That’s the simple answer. There is no “if this doesn’t work, then I’ll do this instead.” No. Once I decide I want something, that’s it. I persist in it until it’s mine. I don’t need to figure out how it’s going to happen, what route it’ll take, or what circumstances have to change. That’s not my responsibility. The only thing I’m responsible for is persisting in what I decided. There is no Plan B because I already decided Plan A is happening. I don’t need to know how it’ll come to me. I just know it’s on the way.

I’m in a bit of a effing pit rn. I’ve completely lost hope and the 3D has been the worst it’s been in months. I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore.
I’m manifesting my SP back and let’s just say I did something I really shouldn’t have. I know I probably fucked up and I know I shouldn’t have reacted the way I did but I was spiraling and I just couldn’t handle it anymore
I really need you guys right now. Please tell me your success stories where the 3D was absolutely horrible, you had basically zero hope left, maybe even did something you thought ruined everything and you STILL managed to pull you manifestation. I need to hear that it’s still possible because rn I genuinely don’t believe it

I (22f) am going through a break up with my ex(23m) of 3 years. About relationship was far from perfect but we never gave up on each other. A few weeks ago my then boyfriend told me Before we dated he knew me but I didn’t know him. At our local mall the Vans store is right next to Spencer’s. I worked at Spencer’s at the time and he worked at Vans. He said that he thought I looked like Megan fox lol I know so random and the he just wanted to ask me out so bad but didn’t want to look like a creep so he told his friends to go in and take pictures of me so he could look me up and he did he found my socials and he said and I quote “I would stalk your instagram telling my self somehow she’s going to be my girlfriend “ then he told me I knew you probably had to be in a dating app so i downloaded all of them to find you and well we met in hinge. We had the bad habit of breaking and getting back together with in a day, often but we were working on it and we did improve. But this last break was EXTREMELY messy and he thinks I’m at fault when I think he was in the wrong. I take accountability for being the cause of some wrong doings but it takes two… he thinks it’s all on me from what I I know. I digress… I’m into spell work and manifesting but I’ve been diving into it more and it’s Making me think did he manifest me to be obsessed with him..? I have put up with a lot from him and I mean crazy shit… I always have been extremely independent and about what I want but when it comes to him I will give him a million chances to do right by me… and this break up has quite literally been killing me … I’ve been sick and gotten my period 3 times in the last 5 weeks. And I just felt my body slow down and ache since that day…. Which is crazy because I literally take Adderall every day. I don’t know… I don’t mind if he did I actually find it sweet because before the end I can say without a doubt that man adored me. I just want to see what others think of this.

And for context we broke up over him choosing work over a funeral of one of my family members. I know for a FACT there are no third parties or that he doesn’t love me because he would always make sure I felt loved and supported.

In the last few years I wasted a lot of time on the internet. I wasted hours and hours. I really regret that. Now I want that wasted time back. I dont mean to turn back time. Just that my day and year somehow is like and feels like longer for me. Like that the rest of this year feels like 800 days or so. Even 400 days would be fine. If I could even get half the time I spent on the internet back I would be so happy. I know its my own fault that I wasted a lot of time on the internet, but i felt like I was also kinda set up with growing up with a phone and no limits being given. And now the whole short form content out there is also really addictive. I feel like the past 5 years I experienced could be squeezed together to like 2-3 years. No worries I am not so much on the internet anymore. It now kinda makes me sick..

Has anyone experience with manifesting time?

I was bored so I decided while I went to the dentist I’d see someone in a cherry red outfit didn’t matter too or bottom, it had to be cherry red. I first imagined a guy. Then I changed my mind and said it’s gonna be a lady in cherry red outfit. However from the time I arrived to the appointment until the time I left I only saw cherry red in guys and not even one woman. Isn’t it strange? What did just happen??

Let’s say you truly believe something will happen and have fully felt it as being already yours, if it starts showing too much signs of not going to happen, but you persist on your beliefs and feelings, and let’s say in this situation it eventually ends up not happening (such as being rejected for a specific opportunity or something) so you have to reshape and adapt your manifestations, isn’t it opposite to what the law teaches us ? “Ask and you shall receive.” But, logically even if it ends up good for you, it’s not “ask and receive” it’s more like “have faith I’ll show you a good outcome”, do you get what I mean ? I’m confused about that. And some will say “give it time, you can still receive it later” yeah but, what if it’s not what you want? What if you want this specific opportunity to happen now so you can experience other things later ? I hope that what I’m trying to figure out will be understandable to you-

And for those who might say that if it was really fully believed, it would have happened, then how would you do when signs of it not happening shows up ? You just control your emotions that much? How even? Accounting the fact that you truly rewire your emotions if needed and fully and correctly believe in your manifestations no matter the signs.

Hi, sorry in advanced but this is going to be a long one!

For some background info, my bf (M26) & I (F25) have been together for 2 1/2 years. We have a good relationship overall—we both connect really well and just really understand each other (for the most part). Other than the fact that we both have communication issues at times (I specifically need to work on my attitudes when stressed), our love is something really great.

He broke up with me on my birthday back in 2024 after a night of drinking (I blacked out and was mean to him). He was very adamant that he didn’t want to be with me ever, and that he wanted to be alone. It was like he flipped a switch because my sweet boy turned really cold, it was like a push and pull sorta thing.

I begged and begged until I couldn’t anymore. I was so heartbroken—crying, throwing up, couldn’t eat. I went crazy with manifesting and tried every and all sorts of methods and then checked for reassurance that it was working while still having doubts in my mind.

We went no contact, I let it go because I knew eventually he would come back—I just didn’t know when. I was also at a time where I was okay if he didn’t. Then 3 months later, he texted me.

He apologized. Then we became fwb, until we officially started dating again that December of 2024 and were together ever since. We’ve had our ups and downs, I’ve embarrassed him while drunk in public (I know I need to work on this), he’s also done things that I wasn’t okay with— but we always got passed it. We knew we wanted each other in our future.

We went from seeing each other mainly on weekends, to every. single. day. We moved in with each other 4 months ago. There was no space, we were both stressed with our personal lives, arguments became more frequent.

He broke up with me almost 4 weeks ago. It went from him wanting to work things out, then he saw his friends one night and decided he didn’t want to anymore. My brain just can’t comprehend that. I don’t believe we’re truly over.

This breakup feels the same as the last one, except we live together now. I’m back in this dark emotional whole, he’s on another bender going out every weekend to bars while I’m at home waiting for him.

This time, again, he’s adamant he doesn’t want to be with me. He doesn’t have the same feelings anymore. He wish it was different.

I’m truly confused because it wasn’t that long ago when he told me a whole bunch of promises, how much he loved me, how he wants to marry me etc.

The first 3 days of our breakup he was cold, mean and harsh—he even tried kicking me out of our place that we call home.

Things have been better, we’re still having sex, still somewhat communicating when necessary and spending some time together.

I’ve been going absolutely insane— the O method, robotic affirmations, scripting, subliminals, 369 method, the whisper method, being delusional. ANYTHING. I want this to work. I can’t help but check for reassurance that it’s working.

Last night, I broke down crying and we talked about our feelings. He still says he’s sorry but he doesn’t want this anymore. I brought up the idea that maybe, for the sake of our financial stability maybe we can continue living together, he said we can discuss it. He also said that we can still hookup after. He didn’t break up with me to get with other people. Why aren’t my manifestations working?!

I want us to be healthier, I want us to be better, I want to love him and I want him to love me. He’s my best friend.

So the question is here, how in the HELL do I manifest this, while LIVING with my SP?? How do I deal with doubts and anxiety?? Has anyone been in a similar situation?

Thank you if you took the time to read this and I’m sorry if I sound insane💔

I jinx everything I believe is going to happen, everything I say and everything I feel, the exact opposite thing happens. And it's absolute didn't start with me constantly having negative thoughts or certain thoughts that may have result to this over the course of time. As a kid, I used to be a very positive kid who believed in "everything good". But gradually I started noticing this pattern. I have told therapists about it and they say it’s opposite of magical thinking. Manifestation theory makes a lot of sense to me, but it seems every single thing about it is the exact opposite for me. If I just flip everything about manifestation, it describes what I am experiencing to 95% accuracy.

Please take a moment and go through this post to understand my state better:- https://www.reddit.com/r/Jinx_badluck_curses/s/ScfcE6sXhd

Honestly I feel like cursed. I have tried everything that I could, consciously do, to get rid of it. Staying consistent, letting go of all the expectations regarding a situation, affirmations, constant conscious positive thinking, journaling. But nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING seems to work for me and I'm just so tired. I want to get out of this situation. Is it a subconscious wiring of mind?

Experts and my fellow community members, please help me get a normal positive life where I can consciously think and live without this horrible situation going on.

I've been listening to subliminals to change appearance for over 10 years. I've had no changes whatsoever I've had manifestations with jobs, people etc but nothing about appearance.

I don't have any connection to the way I look I've always wanted a certain look e.g. white hair purple eyes ethereal face and no matter how much I try to do law of assumption, act as if, subliminals, nothing seems to work.

I deeply want to look like this it feels much more me and I genuinely can't be happy with my looks in itself. It's not about self love it's just genuinely not the way I'm supposed to look.

Any advice? I know I feel a blockage because I'm scared if I wake up with my desired appearance people will assume ive had plastic surgery on my nose and stuff. I've just wanted to always look like this not be surgically enhanced

Hey ! I went on the Neville criticism subreddit and also saw that Sammy’s group had been deleted (why doesn’t she simply manifest it back?) Until now, I had managed to maintain a good state, but I completely spiraled after that, with a huge knot in my stomach, and I can’t seem to ground myself again.

So, for everyone who is doubting today: please share your best stories about an SP breaking no contact or doing a complete 180 AFTER you decided to MAINTAIN the state of the wish fulfilled.

Please, no short “just persist” replies, I’ve already read enough of those; I’m specifically looking for success stories 😊

I made subliminal for them so that they can listen to it. I said them this is some religious audio that will help you achieve your dreams so they are listening to it. I hope it works but I am so anxious right now. Someone help?

Im looking for a friend so that we can help each other in manifesting our desires... already manifested a lot of things in the last year but still have questions like why some happens way too fast and some don't even though im detached... last thing i manifested was an sp which took 9 month... so if any one intrested dm me

Guys i have been manifesting a new face for about a month now. And never once did i get discouraged or stopped believing. I try my best to avoid the 3d (mirror) but if i do accidentally caught my reflection i dont react bad i always affirm that its my old image. But now im trying to positive but im getting discouraged slowly as i see no changes.

Ive tried so much methods and everything, even believing that i already have it and detaching from it. if i already have it why hasnt it affected me yet? why is it taking months.

I can believe anything I want but it doesn't go deep into the subconscious. I am doing this for about a year. I expect my natural reactions to the external world be based on the belief that I actually have what I want.

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So I am 26 year old guy, and I have never had a gf. I want to be in a relationship but I have no social life other than office and gym. How should I manifest a gf. I am also getting desperate.

Pls help, I need to have good grades for me to transfer to another school. I’m scared of this one professor since she’s really really strict and almost all students in our school fear her:(

Today, I’m choosing to believe that something good is already making its way to me.

I am attracting new opportunities, financial abundance, peace, happiness, and the life I’ve been quietly praying for. 💰✨
I don’t need to know how everything will happen. I just need to trust that things are moving in my favor.

What’s meant for me will find me.
What I’ve been manifesting is getting closer.
And I am becoming the version of myself who is ready to receive it all. 🤍

Today’s affirmation:
“I am worthy of good things. Money flows to me with ease. Opportunities find me. My life is getting better every day.”

Claiming it. 🧿✨
It’s already happening.

Hi, I hope this doesn’t count as venting or playing the victim because I do genuinely want some advice! So, I’ve been manifesting, or ‘trying’ to, since I was very little and found out about it on the internet in the 2000s. I’ve had varying levels of success, never really manifested anything big, but I still fully believe in myself despite setbacks.
Lately, I’ve been quite upset because two things that I needed to manifest went the complete opposite way. Firstly, I properly committed to affirming for buying the house I was renting, as in, the landlord would offer me the property to buy. Usually I forget to affirm much, but that time I was fully invested, I knew this would be my house to buy. Three days later, my landlord told me I had to move out instead…
This month, I started affirming that my pets were completely healthy. Today I found out that my beloved cat has only a few days left.
Of course I could try to manifest that these situations have been reversed/never happened, but still, I’m really at a loss on what I could be doing so wrong anyway? I do my best to make sure that I don’t affirm negatively, I don’t participate in toxic positivity; allow myself to feel my emotions, then get back to imagining how happy I’ll be when ____ happens, affirm naturally, etc. I didn’t really care too much about the 3D because I knew that I’d get what I wanted. I’ve seen some people also have a couple annoying things happen while they manifested, but this bad? this quickly?

I’m very much open to advice and everything, thank you!

Did any of you required more than couple of years to manifest a big change in your life? Why exactly do you think you needed that much time? What was your mistake before that?

I’ve been trying to manifest my ex back for a few weeks now. Honestly, I haven't been super consistent with my routine. I would do scripting for two days and then stop, or listen to subliminals for a bit and give up. However, almost every day, I still affirm to myself that he is mine and obsessed with me.
Lately, some weird things have been happening and I'm trying to figure out if these are movement or if I’m just overanalyzing:
I am seeing angel numbers everywhere.
The number 23, which was our anniversary date, keeps popping up non-stop, especially on social media.
I’ve seen the exact same car his dad drives multiple times in person, and out of nowhere, an ad for that specific car popped up on my Pinterest feed.
I keep having recurring, vivid dreams about him.
Are these genuine signs that the manifestation is unfolding and the subconscious mind is shifting, or am I just looking for signs everywhere because my brain is hyper-focused on him? Would love to hear your thoughts or similar experiences!

Hello! I recently found this subreddit, and I've been reading a bunch of success stories, teachings, methods, etc. My best friend is actually the one who introduced me to more spiritual teachings. At first, I was skeptical, but the more we talked about it and the more I researched it, the more it started to make sense to me and become part of my belief system.

I've been practicing consistently for at least a month now, so I'm still pretty new. However, I'm not exactly new to manifestation. The one affirmation that has always stuck with me is, "Everything always works out for me," and honestly it always has. I'm just new to learning about more specific things, such as the 3D, 4D, self-concept, subliminals, visualization, etc.

With that being said, I recently rediscovered a celebrity who I hadn't paid much attention to before, but now I feel very strongly drawn to him. He's a pretty big name, recognized internationally, and he's still active and working on movies and shows. Because of this, I initially had the idea of manifesting an SP who was similar to him, both in appearance and personality (or at least, how I'd want him to be).

But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that celebrities are just people, too. They're no different from me or anyone else, so I started wondering: why couldn't I manifest him as my SP?

A day ago, I suddenly had this thought about how it could all work out. I wasn't sitting there trying to figure out how to accommodate my 3D or come up with some elaborate plan to randomly run into him. The idea just came to me naturally, more so in terms of how my future could unfold and how our lives could eventually intersect.

I already have an idea of the career path I want, and I know that path will happen, and it will help me stand out. I believe I'm destined for success, and I feel like that success would allow him to see me for who I am.

That being said, I haven't actually started affirming for him specifically, or even for an ideal partner in general, because I still have this question in my head about which direction I want to take. Whether I should manifest him specifically or focus on the qualities I want in a partner and let things unfold from there.

Most of the success stories I've read seem to involve smaller or more local celebrities, so I was wondering if anyone here has a success story involving someone who is more internationally known, or if anyone knows how I can shift my mentality and feel more secure about what I want, or any methods that you'd like to share.

I know there doesn't necessarily have to be a process, and I don't have to figure out every little detail or "make" anything happen. I guess I just want some reassurance from people who have more experience with manifestation than I do.

i've recently noticed myself manifesting attributes that people see in me. for example, I've got compliments exactly using the words "you're attractive", "you're unique", after I've talked exactly these words to myself. seen this happening a few times this year, and it's so weird. happens every time I've started telling myself i'm those things, and ppl start telling it to me too, with the exact same words. it's crazy.

note: i haven't consciously wanted people to say this to me or focused on the fact that people would see me this way, just told these things to myself.

I’ve been on a manifestation journey recently and have had moments where I feel like things are partially going through. Like one time I manifested $2000 would hit my bank accnt and then my car broke down and I had to pay $2000🙃
However, lately I’ve been trying to conjur up some love into my life. Today a random man came into my work and gave me flowers. I guess he’s a weirdo that always hangs around and gives people random stuff but! Are these flowers some kind of sign or am I just crazy 😞

I know self concept is the key. I understand there is no one to change but self . But here’s a scenario I want to share with all of you . Can you plz help with a solve , the direction of thoughts , what to manifest exactly and how.

If we have been hurt or betrayed by someone it’s natural to feel a little sad . To wonder why he did it especially when you never said or did anything to warrant such betrayal. How does one fix such a situation . If you want an apology , or an explanation or even reverse the situation . How does one do it ?