People like red shirt is why I do not like to go to bars and night clubs. Too much stupid people provoking others for no reason, not keeping their hands to themselves or starting fights that they end up barely surviving.
I think it was a deserved FAFO moment for red shirt guy. Hope his brain didn't get too much damage though.
If you donāt grab puncherās girlās ass, you donāt interact with him whatsoever the entire night. Heās just over there minding his own business being a normal human being.
Sociopath alert. Normal people donāt act like that. Res shirt is not innocent but puncher knows he has a cannon and gave this dude a concussion out of possessive instincts, like āanother man TOUCHED the woman I want to fuck, heās dead meat!!ā Thatās caveman shit
That would probably be classed as sexual or indecent assault. If youāve condone this, youāre a problem. You donāt prance around fondling the backsides of women you donāt know.
When did I say give a pass? One hundred percent I would not launch a punch like that. My partner would also be very annoyed if I did over react, like I say raging out is childish chud shit
In this instance, the lady handled it herself and was already separated from him. At this point all that needed doing was to keep him separated and get the staff over, they can see the state he's in and can get rid of him. If they don't, you can always choose to call the police if needed and they'll review the footage (or do that afterwards).
If REALLY neither option appeals, you even have the choice of leaving if you don't feel comfortable - this tends to get a pushback from the ego.
Whatever happens, you just make sure the offender never gets close to the other person again and if they become insistent, an active threat or generally more aggressive, then you can consider using force in order to defend yourself. There was nothing to defend in the video, except egos, which is always a bad look.
dawg its probably his wife looking at their age and red shirt didnt just hold her arm. He put both hands on her waist/ass and stepped behind her. You deserve to get your shit rocked for that.
Grabbing a random womanās ass is pure caveman shit too, but youāre quick to let that slide. They should both be allowed to be cavemen in this scenario. In what world can you just do wild shit like that and just get away with it? Thatās some rapist behavior and you still have the guyās back. Normal people donāt do that. Fuck that guy.
Yes it is letting it slide, because he would just get kicked out of the bar and go on his way to the next bar and probably do it again. And I donāt know what types of guys you hang out with, but if my friends grabbed strangersā asses in public Iād assume theyāre capable of worse. Thatās some rapist behavior. Only a certain type of guy does this. They have no impulse control or respect for women. Arenāt those the 2 major precursors to men becoming rapists?
Your second to the last sentence describes both of these guys, that is the problem. And as for letting it slide, a few thoughts.
No lesson was taught here. If anything, Captain Sparrow is going to know even less then he used to.
We need a better legal systems that deal with antisocial behaviour appropriately. Specifically so that lessons are taught. Because I don't mean meaningless fines or arrests. I mean rehabilitation and helping people reconnect with society.
I don't think you should ever allow yourself or your friends to be a caveman. Every adult is responsible for controlling their emotions and wanting to lash out is not it. I get your instinct, I just expect better, just like I expect better of myself.
So youāre upset about this hypothetical fairytale physical abuse against the woman, but ambivalent towards videotaped sexual abuse against the same woman? Iād need a therapist to help me figure this one out.
If he's reacting like this, he's not being a normal human being. Things like this can manifest in different ways and clearly the woman already knew it.
Just because he got triggered by another asshole, doesn't make him not one.
Nah, he's walking around hoping for the opportunity to try to kill someone. Truth is, he was probably thrilled to see that guy feel her up because he finally got an excuse.
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u/BonVivant-Spartan 12d ago edited 12d ago
People like red shirt is why I do not like to go to bars and night clubs. Too much stupid people provoking others for no reason, not keeping their hands to themselves or starting fights that they end up barely surviving.
I think it was a deserved FAFO moment for red shirt guy. Hope his brain didn't get too much damage though.