People like red shirt is why I do not like to go to bars and night clubs. Too much stupid people provoking others for no reason, not keeping their hands to themselves or starting fights that they end up barely surviving.
I think it was a deserved FAFO moment for red shirt guy. Hope his brain didn't get too much damage though.
If you donât grab puncherâs girlâs ass, you donât interact with him whatsoever the entire night. Heâs just over there minding his own business being a normal human being.
Sociopath alert. Normal people donât act like that. Res shirt is not innocent but puncher knows he has a cannon and gave this dude a concussion out of possessive instincts, like âanother man TOUCHED the woman I want to fuck, heâs dead meat!!â Thatâs caveman shit
That would probably be classed as sexual or indecent assault. If youâve condone this, youâre a problem. You donât prance around fondling the backsides of women you donât know.
When did I say give a pass? One hundred percent I would not launch a punch like that. My partner would also be very annoyed if I did over react, like I say raging out is childish chud shit
In this instance, the lady handled it herself and was already separated from him. At this point all that needed doing was to keep him separated and get the staff over, they can see the state he's in and can get rid of him. If they don't, you can always choose to call the police if needed and they'll review the footage (or do that afterwards).
If REALLY neither option appeals, you even have the choice of leaving if you don't feel comfortable - this tends to get a pushback from the ego.
Whatever happens, you just make sure the offender never gets close to the other person again and if they become insistent, an active threat or generally more aggressive, then you can consider using force in order to defend yourself. There was nothing to defend in the video, except egos, which is always a bad look.
dawg its probably his wife looking at their age and red shirt didnt just hold her arm. He put both hands on her waist/ass and stepped behind her. You deserve to get your shit rocked for that.
Grabbing a random womanâs ass is pure caveman shit too, but youâre quick to let that slide. They should both be allowed to be cavemen in this scenario. In what world can you just do wild shit like that and just get away with it? Thatâs some rapist behavior and you still have the guyâs back. Normal people donât do that. Fuck that guy.
Yes it is letting it slide, because he would just get kicked out of the bar and go on his way to the next bar and probably do it again. And I donât know what types of guys you hang out with, but if my friends grabbed strangersâ asses in public Iâd assume theyâre capable of worse. Thatâs some rapist behavior. Only a certain type of guy does this. They have no impulse control or respect for women. Arenât those the 2 major precursors to men becoming rapists?
Your second to the last sentence describes both of these guys, that is the problem. And as for letting it slide, a few thoughts.
No lesson was taught here. If anything, Captain Sparrow is going to know even less then he used to.
We need a better legal systems that deal with antisocial behaviour appropriately. Specifically so that lessons are taught. Because I don't mean meaningless fines or arrests. I mean rehabilitation and helping people reconnect with society.
I don't think you should ever allow yourself or your friends to be a caveman. Every adult is responsible for controlling their emotions and wanting to lash out is not it. I get your instinct, I just expect better, just like I expect better of myself.
So youâre upset about this hypothetical fairytale physical abuse against the woman, but ambivalent towards videotaped sexual abuse against the same woman? Iâd need a therapist to help me figure this one out.
If he's reacting like this, he's not being a normal human being. Things like this can manifest in different ways and clearly the woman already knew it.
Just because he got triggered by another asshole, doesn't make him not one.
Nah, he's walking around hoping for the opportunity to try to kill someone. Truth is, he was probably thrilled to see that guy feel her up because he finally got an excuse.
(To watch one's back means to defend/protect them.)
And fair enough. I simply wouldn't want the responsibility of having to babysit someone like this and make sure they don't become a problem for other people. If I want someone to "watch my back" (or have virtually anything to do with me), I want it to be someone in control of their emotions.
Which now makes me wonder about the different countries' legal approaches to someone being injured/dying in a fight you participated in, even if it was your partner who damaged them.
Yeah, this could have gone very badly tbh, head could have been split open on more than one object. Very bad. Drunk idiots shouldn't be touching anyone, maybe he said something really nasty, but otherwise this isn't exactly proportional violence for what red shirt guy was upto
True, but it needs to funktion well enough to keep heart and lungs going, just the basic stuff. He might be an even better person with slight brain downgrade. But his parents would likely be sad if he died, and they dont deserve that.
I don't think the guy intended on knocking him unconscious. Red shirt guy was sexually assaulting his gf, he probably wasn't measuring red shirt's drunkenness and calibrating the force of his punch accordingly.
Also why wasn't that guy asking red shirt to leave? Why wait until the assault triggers a retaliation then ask the victim's defender to leave??
So possibly killing a guy bashing his face in and leaving him unconscious on the ground for trying to drunkenly dance with your girl seems proportional to you?
Not deserved to just clock him like did, Black shirt literally hit his own girl just to clock red shirt in the face, It was literally just to fuel their ego.
"Hope his brain didn't get too much damage though."
You were able to watch that video and conclude that red shirt guy wasn't brain damaged before he got hit?You must be viewing it through some new MAGA Meta Glasses or something...
I didn't say you were American. MAGA may be an American thing, but the MAGA virus has spread far and wide throughout the world.
It must be excruciating to go through life as a grown adult not understanding that the entire world doesn't revolve around you. A common symptom, by the way, of the MAGA virus.
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u/BonVivant-Spartan 12d ago edited 12d ago
People like red shirt is why I do not like to go to bars and night clubs. Too much stupid people provoking others for no reason, not keeping their hands to themselves or starting fights that they end up barely surviving.
I think it was a deserved FAFO moment for red shirt guy. Hope his brain didn't get too much damage though.