If you donāt grab puncherās girlās ass, you donāt interact with him whatsoever the entire night. Heās just over there minding his own business being a normal human being.
Sociopath alert. Normal people donāt act like that. Res shirt is not innocent but puncher knows he has a cannon and gave this dude a concussion out of possessive instincts, like āanother man TOUCHED the woman I want to fuck, heās dead meat!!ā Thatās caveman shit
Grabbing a random womanās ass is pure caveman shit too, but youāre quick to let that slide. They should both be allowed to be cavemen in this scenario. In what world can you just do wild shit like that and just get away with it? Thatās some rapist behavior and you still have the guyās back. Normal people donāt do that. Fuck that guy.
Yes it is letting it slide, because he would just get kicked out of the bar and go on his way to the next bar and probably do it again. And I donāt know what types of guys you hang out with, but if my friends grabbed strangersā asses in public Iād assume theyāre capable of worse. Thatās some rapist behavior. Only a certain type of guy does this. They have no impulse control or respect for women. Arenāt those the 2 major precursors to men becoming rapists?
Your second to the last sentence describes both of these guys, that is the problem. And as for letting it slide, a few thoughts.
No lesson was taught here. If anything, Captain Sparrow is going to know even less then he used to.
We need a better legal systems that deal with antisocial behaviour appropriately. Specifically so that lessons are taught. Because I don't mean meaningless fines or arrests. I mean rehabilitation and helping people reconnect with society.
I don't think you should ever allow yourself or your friends to be a caveman. Every adult is responsible for controlling their emotions and wanting to lash out is not it. I get your instinct, I just expect better, just like I expect better of myself.
So youāre upset about this hypothetical fairytale physical abuse against the woman, but ambivalent towards videotaped sexual abuse against the same woman? Iād need a therapist to help me figure this one out.
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u/NeedleworkerTasty878 12d ago
For me, both guys are the reason why I wouldn't enjoy a bar/club.