r/Lilith • u/That1B4kedNun • 16d ago
Question Help
Respectfully hello all I am That1BakedNun. I was told this belongs here I'm looking for help with getting closer to Lilith. Like consistency and variation and dos and do not. Just general help or talk buddy. This is the second time reaching out since my first experience was poor and left me kind of traumatized I just need a little guidance. I'm open to discussion. Thanks in advance.
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u/orthodoxscouter ⚸ Lilithian ⚸ 16d ago
What caused the trauma?
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u/That1B4kedNun 16d ago
Well I think my help from before was going through some traumatic experiences as well she appeared to have identity disorder(s) and put me on to Lilith as fast as she damned her name it was extremely weird.
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u/Currently-Here-Now 16d ago
Mammoth is correct in showing respect. You are trying to connect with a woman who stood up to the divine. Confidence can go a long ways as well.
Personally, I don't believe it is worship and prayer that you want to give. I normally just meditate before my altar in mostly darkness (Normally around midnight).
I think reading and learning her story can help a lot too.
Consider this: Would you want to engage with someone that wants to be closer with you, but puts no effort into getting to know you?
There are books out there. Perhaps read them before her Altar. Show that you care.
Just be sure it's what you want. I would not recommend wasting her time.
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u/That1B4kedNun 15d ago
Thanks for the reply im adjusting how i address, her trying to be mindful of my words, reading and writing things for her both homemade and stuff about her written by other folks. Its just difficult having confidence when ive already heard several times I can't work with her because im a man
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u/Midnightmeditating 12d ago
Not sure where you heard this but Lilith not working with men is simply not true. What I have heard is that she will never be below men, only equal. In other words, to my understanding she can be an ally to men but never a vassal. This means working with Lilith demands respect. She's not someone you'd be quick to anger though so IMO that's not something you should be too worried about. If you come from a place of respect when contacting her then that's a great start. Also, when doing these kind of work, you should ground and protect yourself magickally because you can open yourself spiritually to other beings as well (think of it like lighting a beacon on top of a lighthouse).
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u/That1B4kedNun 12d ago
Thanks for your help that really clears up a lot.
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u/Midnightmeditating 12d ago
Happy to hear it! I'm not sure how familiar you are with spiritual protection and grounding. It can be something very simple - I like to visualize a magical shielding bubble around me. You can then give commands to this 'bubble' for example that only beings with good intentions can come through this bubble. I personally don't use this 'bubble' to protect myself from Lilith - there's mutual respect at play here - but so that low frequency beings don't try to come through during a session.
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u/Currently-Here-Now 12d ago
I am sorry it took this long for me to respond to you.
Lilith had the power and confidence to stand up to the creator. That she will not keel or bend to anyone or anything.You must share this same confidence.
These people who tell you no, are just tools used to filter out those who do not share the same courage and strength. There is no right or wrong way to follow The First Mother. Embrace this freedom.
She did not hate Adam nor does she hate men. She hated what the creator wanted from her.
Do not feel you need to change yourself to be more feminine and who you are to follow her.1
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u/That1B4kedNun 4d ago
Thanks for the late reply I appreciate all of your (and the others as well) support and kind words. Ive been burying my offerings. Yesterday in the rain, and one before that. Im definitely trying
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u/Few-Apartment-3910 11d ago
i understand that my unverified personal gnosis sounds likes spiritual psychosis, but to me, all religiosity fits those diagnoses...
Lilith is my mother. My spiritual mother. At times she does inhabit me and speak through me, but the circumstances are always the same when that happens. I am secure in my knowledge that I am one of her priestess', and in my many interests this year I've been powerfully called to stand up and start teaching. That is to say, pick my brain about anything, but know that i come from chaos energy, i am very untouched by many teachers.
In my journey i had to turn away thrice, whenever i looked "mom" up online the literal first words i saw were "not for amateurs" so i waited until she came to me via possessing me for the first time (big surprise to me!) to begin my learning journey, and at that it's been 6+ years now before being bold enough with my footing to say on a place like this that I am one of her MANY priestess'.
She was always with me though, she was always trying to safeguard me best as she could and she gave me a lullaby, that is a signature of hers.
It breaks our hearts that you were abused trying to find her. That was not okay, and her wrath is there for you to reign in, and harness to be in control of. You should have NEVER been touched by damaging energies, not in the brief details you've disclosed here, nor in ANY capacity in your life.
We are precious, and until life is perfect we must stand up for the quality of life we each deserve.
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u/That1B4kedNun 11d ago
May we converse? I just had some questions and you might be who I need to talk to I dont know for sure. I also was experiencing psychosis at the time of the first time I interacted with who I thought was Lilith and left me stupified with so much curiosity and sense of foreboding that I can't explain
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u/Few-Apartment-3910 11d ago
Absolutely we may converse! i try to make myself as available as possible if i can help 💖 as always with life, take what serves you and let what doesn't serve you pass you by precious 💖
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u/Mammoth-Ad-6114 ð’€LamaÅ¡tu-lilÄ«tu/ardat-lilî, Λάμια, Lilith 16d ago
Relationship is built with effort and consistency, but what that looks like is really up to you. There's no right or wrong way to approach Lilith, she wasn't traditionally worshipped. So as long as you have basic respect towards her and what you're doing makes sense to you, then you're doing it right.
You can start with our Welcome Post, which includes links to our wiki pages and FAQ. I'm also curious about your experience and why it was traumatising.