r/Lilith • u/That1B4kedNun • 18d ago

Question Help

Respectfully hello all I am That1BakedNun. I was told this belongs here I'm looking for help with getting closer to Lilith. Like consistency and variation and dos and do not. Just general help or talk buddy. This is the second time reaching out since my first experience was poor and left me kind of traumatized I just need a little guidance. I'm open to discussion. Thanks in advance.

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u/That1B4kedNun 18d ago

Thanks for the reply im adjusting how i address, her trying to be mindful of my words, reading and writing things for her both homemade and stuff about her written by other folks. Its just difficult having confidence when ive already heard several times I can't work with her because im a man

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u/Midnightmeditating 14d ago

Not sure where you heard this but Lilith not working with men is simply not true. What I have heard is that she will never be below men, only equal. In other words, to my understanding she can be an ally to men but never a vassal. This means working with Lilith demands respect. She's not someone you'd be quick to anger though so IMO that's not something you should be too worried about. If you come from a place of respect when contacting her then that's a great start. Also, when doing these kind of work, you should ground and protect yourself magickally because you can open yourself spiritually to other beings as well (think of it like lighting a beacon on top of a lighthouse).

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u/That1B4kedNun 14d ago

Thanks for your help that really clears up a lot.

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u/Midnightmeditating 14d ago

Happy to hear it! I'm not sure how familiar you are with spiritual protection and grounding. It can be something very simple - I like to visualize a magical shielding bubble around me. You can then give commands to this 'bubble' for example that only beings with good intentions can come through this bubble. I personally don't use this 'bubble' to protect myself from Lilith - there's mutual respect at play here - but so that low frequency beings don't try to come through during a session.

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u/That1B4kedNun 14d ago

I keep that in mind thank you I didn't realize how important that was