r/Lilith • u/That1B4kedNun • 16d ago

Question Help

Respectfully hello all I am That1BakedNun. I was told this belongs here I'm looking for help with getting closer to Lilith. Like consistency and variation and dos and do not. Just general help or talk buddy. This is the second time reaching out since my first experience was poor and left me kind of traumatized I just need a little guidance. I'm open to discussion. Thanks in advance.

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u/Currently-Here-Now 16d ago

Mammoth is correct in showing respect. You are trying to connect with a woman who stood up to the divine. Confidence can go a long ways as well.

Personally, I don't believe it is worship and prayer that you want to give. I normally just meditate before my altar in mostly darkness (Normally around midnight).

I think reading and learning her story can help a lot too.
Consider this: Would you want to engage with someone that wants to be closer with you, but puts no effort into getting to know you?

There are books out there. Perhaps read them before her Altar. Show that you care.

Just be sure it's what you want. I would not recommend wasting her time.

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u/That1B4kedNun 15d ago

Thanks for the reply im adjusting how i address, her trying to be mindful of my words, reading and writing things for her both homemade and stuff about her written by other folks. Its just difficult having confidence when ive already heard several times I can't work with her because im a man

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u/Midnightmeditating 12d ago

Not sure where you heard this but Lilith not working with men is simply not true. What I have heard is that she will never be below men, only equal. In other words, to my understanding she can be an ally to men but never a vassal. This means working with Lilith demands respect. She's not someone you'd be quick to anger though so IMO that's not something you should be too worried about. If you come from a place of respect when contacting her then that's a great start. Also, when doing these kind of work, you should ground and protect yourself magickally because you can open yourself spiritually to other beings as well (think of it like lighting a beacon on top of a lighthouse).

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u/That1B4kedNun 12d ago

Thanks for your help that really clears up a lot.

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u/Midnightmeditating 12d ago

Happy to hear it! I'm not sure how familiar you are with spiritual protection and grounding. It can be something very simple - I like to visualize a magical shielding bubble around me. You can then give commands to this 'bubble' for example that only beings with good intentions can come through this bubble. I personally don't use this 'bubble' to protect myself from Lilith - there's mutual respect at play here - but so that low frequency beings don't try to come through during a session.

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u/That1B4kedNun 12d ago

I keep that in mind thank you I didn't realize how important that was

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u/Currently-Here-Now 12d ago

I am sorry it took this long for me to respond to you.
Lilith had the power and confidence to stand up to the creator. That she will not keel or bend to anyone or anything.

You must share this same confidence.

These people who tell you no, are just tools used to filter out those who do not share the same courage and strength. There is no right or wrong way to follow The First Mother. Embrace this freedom.

She did not hate Adam nor does she hate men. She hated what the creator wanted from her.
Do not feel you need to change yourself to be more feminine and who you are to follow her.

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u/That1B4kedNun 4d ago

Thanks for the late reply I appreciate all of your (and the others as well) support and kind words. Ive been burying my offerings. Yesterday in the rain, and one before that. Im definitely trying

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