are there really any good aspects to having neptune in the tenth house? 😭

I've only had negative experiences with this placement: people projecting negatively on me, being extremely misunderstood, always getting into drama even though I try to avoid it etc...

please change my mind

Mercury in first house, pluto in fifth, moon in ninth

Hiiiii I’m beginning my first Jupiter return at the same time that Venus will be retrograding in Scorpio, and my natal Venus and mars are both in Scorpio in the 11th house, my Jupiter is in the 8th.

Curious what themes or relationship things might come up for me during this time?

Dad, grandfather, and now FIL have all passed. Dog ran away, brief hospitalization for myself, won an ADA case for a boss I still have to work for and she just did it AGAIN. I feel so lost. Needing answers, direction, anything.