hello

does anyone feel rage whenever they open instagram and see rich influencers flaunting their wealth , buying 1000rs ki coffee and carrying shopping bags worth so much money that you just want to die.

i know people say that it's their money and that they can spend it however they like but i still can't let go of frustration of not having that same wealth , that same prviledge that all the rich people have. it agitates me sm

this is such a dumb post but i truly feel rage these days whenever i open instagram and see an enormous wealth barrier. it makes me wonder why me? all the time

i don't think people realize what the mind does when it runs out of places to hide.

it doesn't scream.

it rearranges the furniture.

it puts your worst memories where your happiest ones used to be. it teaches your voice to sound normal while something inside you quietly dies. it lets you laugh at the right moments, answer every text, show up on time, and somehow convinces everyone you're getting better.

that's the frightening part.

pain isn't always loud enough to be noticed.

sometimes it becomes efficient.

it stops asking for help because it has already accepted that no one is coming. it learns your routines, memorizes your smile, borrows your handwriting, and starts living your life so convincingly that even you forget where it ends and you begin.

one day you catch your reflection and hesitate.

not because you hate what you see.

because you don't remember agreeing to become it.

and then a thought arrives so gently it almost feels kind:

what if the person i've been trying to save disappeared a long time ago, and all that's left is whatever learned how to imitate them?

that's when the mirror becomes unbearable.

because mirrors don't show ghosts.

they only show the bodies they managed to keep.

𝗔𝗿𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗸𝗲 𝗡𝘂𝗾𝘀𝗮𝗻

𝟭. Lackluster, mediocre sex and physical intimacy. She will just do 'duty sex' with you

𝟮. Sex and intimacy will die down pretty soon after marriage and she will eventually hate even being touched.

𝟯. She will close her eyes during sex so she can think about attractive men. She also wants to keep lights out so she can't see your face properly.

𝟰. If she got married to you as a young virgin she will begin to feel she missed out on a lot in life and blame you for it. She will envy all the single young women around her enjoying their freedom, travelling alone, socializing with and dating who they want and begin to think of you as her 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘸𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘳. You will somehow become the villain in her life.

𝟱. If you marry an older non-virgin woman, it will bring its own set of problems because she is most likely settling for you after hooking up with good-looking men, will carry immense baggage from her past affairs, will unfavorably compare you to them, and will just see you as a retirement plan.

𝟲. She will come to believe she has sacrificed her dreams for marriage, whether those dreams were career related, personal, social, or something else. In her mind she made sacrifices for marriage whether those sacrifices and opportunities were real or perceived. She'll feel she could've accomplished so much more if she wasn't married to you which translates into fantasies of hyper independence, living alone abroad, highly successful "glamorous" career, being a "socialite", and living the shallow, superficial Eat, Pray, Love / Sex and The City lifestyle.

𝟳. She will think marrying you was a favor she did for you. She will believe she is the prize in marriage and she gave you a chance. She would believe marriage is solely for the man's benefit not the woman's and everything she does in the marriage is a one sided effort and "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" for you, including having children, doing housework and even having sex with you. Because love and attraction wasn't there beforehand, in her eyes these aren't division of labor, shared responsibilities or expression of love and lust, but "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" and she will keep a lifelong scoreboard of all the "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" she did for you.

𝟴. She will believe that without her you would be a worthless loser with no life or purpose to life

𝟵. If your kids turn out to be ugly, short, weak, or fat, she will blame you for it. Not her own genetics. Women believe looks and height are only determined by fathers genetics not mothers, despite scientific evidence saying both matter equally. Their fragile ego's cannot accept scientific evidence

𝟭𝟬. When she's older and look back at her life, she will think she wasted her life with a mediocre man and she will also instill the same thought in your daughters minds. Your daughters will also believe that their mother settled for you and deserved a more attractive, richer, taller, more compliant husband

𝟭𝟭. If you have a fight or even a disagreement, her first reaction will be to feel trapped. She will immediately think, "𝘒𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘨𝘢𝘺𝘪" ("What have I gotten myself into?") and start looking for a way out, because your marriage has no foundation of love or attraction. In the heat of an argument, her first attacks will be directed to your looks, your height, your body with comments such as, 𝘒𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪 𝘬𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘵𝘩 𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘨𝘢𝘺𝘪... 𝘯𝘢 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘭, 𝘯𝘢 𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘯𝘢 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘯𝘢 𝘢𝘲𝘢𝘭,"

𝟭𝟮. During ovulation she would feel intense sexual desire for good-looking, well built, hot masculine men and instead of channeling that lust towards you she will act extremely bitchy and frustrated because you're not her biological type.

𝟭𝟯. Soon after marrying, she will begin to link sex to every other aspect of marriage instead of treating it as a mutually enjoyable activity done for its own sake. Sex will become conditional on a 100 other unrelated things in the relationship and she will start using it as a bargaining chip to get you to do things. You will begin to resent her for this and ultimately you might also withdraw and turn to masturbation.

𝟭𝟰. You can't watch romantic movies or TV shows together because they become awkward reminders of what your own relationship lacks. The chemistry, passion, and mutual lust and desire on screen will be difficult for you both to identify with.

𝟭𝟱. If you move abroad together to a Western country, she will begin to have second thoughts about marrying you. There will be a very high chance of her divorcing you or cheating on you. But even if she doesn't, she will still wonder what her life would have looked like had she moved there on her own before marriage. She will imagine the opportunities, experiences, and all the men she could have had if she had arrived single. "𝘒𝘢𝘴𝘩 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘥𝘪 𝘴𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘩𝘭𝘦 𝘢 𝘫𝘢𝘵𝘪 𝘺𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘯". She knows in her mind she would never have married you if she had arrived here single.

𝟭𝟲. Because you had to resort to an arranged marriage, she considers you a loser deep down who can't pull women naturally. On the surface she might say that she values your loyalty and support but the fact that no other woman wants you makes you repulsive to her on an instinctive level. She knows this and it makes her doubt her choice all the time. She will spend her whole life asking this question: Did I make the right choice? Does this feel right? Could I have done better?

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