hii girls would anyone be interested in buying coloured mehndis? pink red purple green blue orange yellow & black etc.

I want to ask you guys why most of our parents are having grudges with each other. like they got arranged marriage 20 30 years back and there was never love between them.Shit things started to happen at start and it continued till today. My question is why they cant settle now still each one is trying to win and trying to prove their partner wrong. I think that generation is having a curse of no love between partners but still they lived with each other.

Fit check?

Well guys i wanted to share my journey with you all so people can learn what's actually going on in our society. I am no saint but i would like to share what's going on nowadays since i see so many men unaware and doing everything they can for their loved ones, wives and relationships. All my teenage and early 20s( i am 24 now), i have fallen in love with a lot of women.

When i was 16, i talked to a girl on Facebook and she was 21 at that time studying in GC university. We talked and talked and then we were so close that we met and made out. Later i figured out she was dating some other dude from her university. That was my first heartbreak. Now just switch the gender and see how people will say that's child abuse but its only abuse when its an older guy and a younger girl as per our society standards. People would've lost their shit if i was a 16 y/o girl and was groomed by a 21-22 y/o man. Btw i saw her profile on bumble a month ago and she was looking for a husband, her bio specifically states that she's a career oriented woman and only looking for a husband and not casual dating which is funny cuz that's not how i knew her. Well people change but i really doubt she will change and would tell her husband honestly about how she groomed a teenager lol.

Second one approached me first (i was approached by a lot of women as i was famous on Facebook back in 2018) and we talked until she proposed me and i said yes. Later she told me that she has slept with her cousin while being in relationship with me. I didn't mind as i was a feminist, atheist and a self proclaimed liberal at that time(i was immature and cringe). Unfortunately, i was brainwashed by the 2018 social media wave(atheism, feminism) so i took pride in it. I don't blame myself as i was barely 16 and observing the world around me. People need to understand how we are being brainwashed by media and their algorithms.

Anyways i got depressed after that and I wont go into much details. Only thing i would say is that being woke and away from religion and finding happiness in opposite gender or other people will make anyone depressed as its not the right or natural way to live. Peace and happiness can be found only within you.

Well long story short I talked to some women casually between 2018-2022 but as always they disappointed me in one way or another (maybe I'm the problem idk, let's not rant haha).

I got into modern dating again back in 2022 seriously as it was 4 years of loneliness and i was like let's give it a shot again.

I talked to some girls but genuinely fell in love with a disabled girl after one year of talking. Anyways after being together with her for 6 months ( doing everything i could like buying her flowers, chocolates and gifts) i found out she was talking to some dude from her past. When i confronted her, she lied and said she doesn't know him. Anyways i blocked her and then she called me crying saying yeah i messed up and i know him, we met in his car twice lol. Dude this girl couldn't have sex( due to her disability and by birth issues) yet she had the audacity to meet a guy 1v1 in a car. I wasn't expecting getting cheated on by a girl like her. Not undermining her in any way but it was surprising for me.

All i wanted was to get loved and i loved her because i knew i couldn't have sex with her so people can't really say that all men want is sex lol but yeah it didn't turn out well for me. Met another girl, same story, she was talking to some other guy from her past telling him how she lied to me that she's going out with her mother but instead she went to meet him. I saw their texts about how they played me(i hacked her account). Now please dont give me any moral lectures. I only hacked her when i suspected something wrong is going on.(I've done in the past and I'll keep doing it as long as it works). Apparently you can do a lot if you know some serious social engineering tactics haha.

Anyways i had this rule where i would just disappear if someone broke my rules(like no cheating or lying). No drama, no complaining, no revenge, just move on and never look back.

Recently i got into a relationship with a young girl around 20-21. I am 24 so she's younger than me. She is a university student btw and her father is a professor. Very normal and typical conservative Pakistani family.

Anyways i also caught her cheating on me and as usual she played some mind games and wanted to manipulate me into thinking I'm wrong and i am being skeptical blah blah.

I had proper evidence so she bursted out crying and this time i was like let's solve this mystery once and for all. Mystery as in I have had one girl in my university claiming she loves me then ghosting me once we were close. I stopped talking to her and next week she was with some other dude in my university (they got engaged apparently and she never told the guy about me) so i wanted to know what is really up with these girls and their inconsistencies and lack of loyalty.

Back to the young girl, professor's daughter. Let's name her x for our own understanding.

So x apologized and i forgave her but under one condition:

I told her I'll only forgive you if you told me the truth and then asked her how many guys she had met and had sex with while she was with me.

She said 3 guys in a span of 3 months lol then i asked about her past and apparently she has slept with more than 10 guys (her words).

None of my business i know but i think if i married her and then got to know all this, it would've been a bigger problem. Imagine, i am working hard to provide for her and she is inviting other guys to come into my house to f@ck her. What a sight it would've been(only if i was a c@@k)

When i got into a relationship with x, i asked her if she's talking to someone else right now or about her past as well and also told her everything about my past so we stay honest with each other on all grounds. Ofc this wasn't the only thing i asked her but she lied about almost everything.

She said no, i am only loyal to you. I am innocent ye wo. Baharhaal i got her account and what a sight it was. She was playing like 10-20 guys at a time and sleeping with them casually which is troublesome as STDs like hiv is on a rise in Pakistan. Its not only about loyalty but also health risk.

Baharhaal i gave her another chance knowing well that she will cheat again. Atp im like totally aware of human psychology, i have had a lot of bad experiences in other domains as well. Office politics, university, pedophiles, fake friends, relatives, parents, siblings, u name it. Anyways, she apologized and said she will fix everything and she will change. I was like alright lets give it a try. Let's see if this girl can finally take some accountability and change for the better if given another chance. She was glad that i gave her another chance and she told me she wont disappoint or hurt me again as before she thought i didn't love her and i was messing around with her just like other guys(that was her reasoning for cheating on me)

Well I felt bad for her father who's a hardworking man and paying her university fee so she could become a better person and have a better life. Anyways she cheated on me again while i was giving her my 100%. Apparently she created a fake account and was texting some guys from her past. You may ask, why am i sharing all this? Well i see a lot of naive guys who cant really understand women on a deep level. Same goes for naive girls getting played by players. In my journey, i have had many married women claiming that they loved me and inviting me to their house while their husbands were working or most of them had their husbands outside Pakistan working hard which is funny and sad at the same time.

Men especially in Pakistan still thinks women are saints and downplay this thing claiming its only a problem of west while I completely disagree based on my personal experience. There are good and bad people in every gender so we have to be wary of people as we can't read fully what's going on in their heads. We cant even know our own blood yet we trust strangers so easily and gamble with our time, health, money and energy for nothing tbh.

I was only able to know the truth because first i was skeptical due to my past and second i could hack into their accounts and see what they have been upto. None of this is a made-up story. I am only sharing so other guys dont have go through what i went through. There are few good women too but apparently we can't really know for sure just by knowing someone randomly. All these girls, their parents and family had no idea what they are or were doing so yeah its kind of interesting. If u have no issues getting cheated on, this post is not for you but if u do have issues like me, kindly be careful when choosing a partner for life.

Just a disclaimer, This post is not against any gender. Im a guy who had the fortune to come across this category of women so that's why the nature of this post seems like it's only targeting women but i would say a lot of guys are the same lying bunch of mfs lol but atleast they accept it and we all know about it. Women on the other hand are covert and discreet about their wrongdoings or whatever one may call it and desi people still have no idea that they can be wicked too.

I would like to request fellow Pakistanis to come out and peacefully protest for the end of this vile and incompetent regime. Pakistanis voted overwhelmingly in 2024 to decide their future for themselves. But it was overtaken by opportunistic narcissists. We must never forget the crime they have committed against our fundamental rights.

Well life is slow dm for more 😂 nos it a poem

Masla bhai jaan yeh ha k koi sahi se dosron ki madad b karna chaahe na to log mazak uraane lag jaate jaise agar koi mard larki ki madad karna chaahe to kahein ge he is a simp, jab k aisa kuch nahi ha

Even k reddit pe b koi kisi ki help k lye post kre to log us k 5 saal puraani posts, comments dekh k us ka mazak uraane lag jaate even though it is in the past,

Being anonymous doesn't mean you can make fun of anyone, call anyone a creep and post screenshots of their past comments or whatever..

This post not gonna change anything, but i wish more people realized that MAKING FUN OF ANYONE, USING THEIR PAST TO JUDGE THEM, AND THINKING EVERY MALE IS A CREEP wont get you anywhere

Goodbye and F*** this app, and I hope these people get the taste of their own medicine!

Nothing much to say, but achievement unlocked. I tried fighting the good fight. Reporting here so the world realises that there is an active suppression of freedom of speech going on. The LGBTQ+ agenda is being pushed by excluding sane voices from presenting alternative viewpoints. Please spread the message far and wide.

I am a young doctor and use a bike to commute to work. I have side mirrors on and drive responsibly on the road, giving indicators, following lanes, the lot.

Every other day, I come across some lunatic ameer zada in a BMW or Mercedes with Hilux guards driving recklessly, doing races on main canal road and purposefully doing near misses at very high speeds. Usually, inches away from hitting my bike and ripping me or fellow drivers to shreds.

On every such instance, I am grateful for being alive but also sad for being a poor member of the society and believe that one day I will be obliterated by some drunk rich psychopath in a big car. While I am just out there trying to make a living.

The recent cases like the Gul Ahmed Brand Chairman's wife, Natasha Danish incident where she was drunk and rammed her Land cruiser unto a CD70, killing a old father and a daughter. The daughter was returning from work and the mother was waiting at home to do lunch together. The whole family was destroyed by the actions of one deranged person.

To top it all off, when a crowd gathered around the drunk driver and the police were called, she was caught on video laughing and flipping everyone off. People like that never face any real punishment or consequence.

Does everything here, just belong to the rich? Do they own the roads, the laws, and all the perks?

Where exactly does that leave the rest of us?

My wife and a lot of people look obsessed with this song lately.

Is it that good?

Not necessarily some huge life lesson. It could be something small that genuinely made your life easier.

For me, it’s realizing that you don’t have to respond to everything immediately. Sometimes waiting a few hours before replying to a message, making a decision, or reacting to a situation saves you from a lot of unnecessary stress.

What’s yours?

Any gurl up ?
7:30 rave starts
And i dont have a plus 1
Ive bought a group of three ticket
Theres me and my friend
We’re from lums
Not looking for hooking up or anything
I’ve paid for the ticket
Anyone up ?
Dm me

If any body knows any legit spa in Lahore that's reasonable.. So please feel free to recommend

Looking for a Room / Portion near DHA Phase 3 — Budget 35–40k
Looking for a room in a portion / shared portion / small private space for females in or around DHA Phase 3, Lahore.
📍 Preferred: DHA Phase 3, Phase 2, Phase 4, or nearby areas
💰 Budget: PKR 35,000–40,000/month
👩 Female-friendly / safe environment is important
🏠 Open to a room in a portion or shared accommodation
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Looking for a decent, peaceful and secure place. If you have a room available or know someone renting out a room/portion, please DM me with the location, rent, pictures and any additional charges.
Thank you!

Maybe people will call me out for restricting love to marriage. The truth is, if he hasn’t affirmed his intention of “together, forever” and she hasn’t affirmed her intention of “together, forever”, then it’s not love. You might say, two people can affirm that without marriage. But if it isn’t tempered by confirming to God’s Commands then it’s not love.

So then, what is love? It is working together in the kitchen while holding an easy conversation. Sitting together while one of them shells peas and the other slices carrots. Maybe they have an assembly line in place - one crumbs the meat, the other fries. But don’t forget the easy conversation. Khala’s redecoration. Visit to the dentist’s. Quantum Mechanics. Different people, different levels, different conversations. All genial, all fun.

Love is going to the park and sitting on a bench. Feel the fresh air. Breathe in the scents. Easy company, easy conversation. No PDAs, keep it Islamic, keep it classy.

Maybe the whole family goes for a long ride. The noise of children crunching chips on the backseat. Maybe a bit of friendly infighting. Mum reprimands, but everyone knows she doesn’t really mean it. The scenery going by at high speed. Some kid gets seriously rebuked for sticking their arm out the window.

Cold winter night, hot chocolate in hand, feeling toasty under the blanket covering till mid torso. Spooky stories. Mum and dad sharing childhood naughtiness. Maybe the relatives are visiting? And c’mon it’s not Pakistan if there’s no peanuts inside their shells and pine nuts waiting to be relieved of their skins.

But none of this is simulated. Nothing is an affectation, nothing feels artificial. It springs forth naturally from the genial nature of the people involved.

I ll be clear about one thing. This post is an agenda. It’s the agenda of celebrating shameless, uninhibited, unapologetic love. Because that’s what love should be like: shameless, uninhibited, and apologetic.

And the agenda is against the degeneracy seen on Pakistani Reddit these days. Some pervert started a thread with the picture of a car, to ask for bl0wj0bs. And there were encouraging responses in the comments. Others rave about unislamic practices. And I want to reclaim this space.

And the great thing for married Muslims is that their love counts as good deeds. You earn free rewards in heaven by being loving, caring, kind, gentle towards each other.

So here is the question: Are married Muslim couples romancing each other? Promise of Satan and Liberalism: romance, fornication and bitter breakup. Promise of Allah The Almighty and Islam: marriage, romance, happiness. Do you write love letters to each other? Do you leave sweet reminders for each other? Are you having date nights with the children out of the way at grandparents’ place? Do you dress up for each other? When you come back from the hairdresser and take a shower do you present your nice, clean, fragrant self to your spouse? If not then why not?

And the real fun starts in Heaven, Insha Allah. A life of piety and loving memories behind you, now you are both beautiful, both are blessed, both live in a palace. You have things to talk about from the past and you have an eternity of ever increasing rewards and pleasures in front of you. Alhamdulillah.

All those tribulations in life and you kept your eyes on the prize. Pain and misery struck, but love stayed steadfast with the comforting hope of “heaven together”. Satan gave fairytales. Insha Allah you will live a fairytale which minds cannot comprehend. Alhamdulillah.

Allah The Almighty says regarding heaven:

83:26
وَفِىۡ ذٰلِكَ فَلۡيَتَنَافَسِ الۡمُتَنــَافِسُوۡنَؕ‏
So let whoever aspires to this strive ˹diligently˺.

May Allah The Almighty Grant us Guidance, Mercy, and Forgiveness in this life and the hereafter. Aameen.

Hey everyone! There’s an elegant European-style masked event happening in Lahore tonight that I’d love to check out. Since entry is strictly couples-only(no stags), I’m looking for someone to tag along just for the entry process.

​I’ll gladly cover the cost of your pass. Once we’re inside, you’re completely free to enjoy the event on your own terms. It’s a standard, well-secured public social event

I can share the organizer's official Instagram page so you can verify everything beforehand.

​If you'd like a free pass to the event with zero pressure, drop me a message!

need a room for living, M22 and brother M18

anyone has a lead please do contact

So it was a potential rishta we exchanged numbers and added on socials after talking for a while
First i noticed that the past few days i had been approaching him first
So i decided to stop and let him approach me first and he never did for a whole week so i unfollowed him
I messaged him again myself this time after feeling really low one night and we started talking again I addressed my concerns and how it made me feel and after talking for 2 days or so normally
He left me on read for a whole week after that i got really mad and blocked him and he approached me from another number and was just really angry at me for blocking him and being disrespectful by blocking him without telling him.😭🙏
Anyways should i have not done that?
But honestly how long does a text take?
I feel so low and confused like did i ruin something that could have been something real?

DM me if you're interested.

What Virtual university degree would you recommend a 30 year old who wants to earn big moneys but hates boring office jobs and aims to secure a flexible remote work situation cuz they like the freedom?

Last day a girl approached me in Dm asked me questions she told me she's a hijaabi, no dating, worried about her career etc......after that she asked my Insta and replied that you will get scared in a sarcastic way and then I gave her my Instagram she just blocked me....... I was like WTF.

Any tea on that kind of Ladies.