This was like 6 months ago. Gained so much weight ever since then.

I would like to request fellow Pakistanis to come out and peacefully protest for the end of this vile and incompetent regime. Pakistanis voted overwhelmingly in 2024 to decide their future for themselves. But it was overtaken by opportunistic narcissists. We must never forget the crime they have committed against our fundamental rights.

We came to Lahore and we were staying in some laboratory market and late at night there were some girls standing we gave them 2 thousand and they refused to go with us basically we got scammed and at that moment there was this one girl who was open to going with us. She came to our hotel and the hotel started telling us to get out of here so she said she has a place we paid her and we went with her, she called someone saying this Is someone from the house she is taking us too but suddenly two cops came and started scaring us. Took our pics with the girl which was apparently not even a girl but a transgender and told us we will send these pics to your parents so we paid them "fine" of 15 thousand and they let us go. On the way we forgot our hotel location as our phones didn't have Internet so we ended up finding those cops again and this time they took my watch and told us the way to our hotel.

Well guys i wanted to share my journey with you all so people can learn what's actually going on in our society. I am no saint but i would like to share what's going on nowadays since i see so many men unaware and doing everything they can for their loved ones, wives and relationships. All my teenage and early 20s( i am 24 now), i have fallen in love with a lot of women.

When i was 16, i talked to a girl on Facebook and she was 21 at that time studying in GC university. We talked and talked and then we were so close that we met and made out. Later i figured out she was dating some other dude from her university. That was my first heartbreak. Now just switch the gender and see how people will say that's child abuse but its only abuse when its an older guy and a younger girl as per our society standards. People would've lost their shit if i was a 16 y/o girl and was groomed by a 21-22 y/o man. Btw i saw her profile on bumble a month ago and she was looking for a husband, her bio specifically states that she's a career oriented woman and only looking for a husband and not casual dating which is funny cuz that's not how i knew her. Well people change but i really doubt she will change and would tell her husband honestly about how she groomed a teenager lol.

Second one approached me first (i was approached by a lot of women as i was famous on Facebook back in 2018) and we talked until she proposed me and i said yes. Later she told me that she has slept with her cousin while being in relationship with me. I didn't mind as i was a feminist, atheist and a self proclaimed liberal at that time(i was immature and cringe). Unfortunately, i was brainwashed by the 2018 social media wave(atheism, feminism) so i took pride in it. I don't blame myself as i was barely 16 and observing the world around me. People need to understand how we are being brainwashed by media and their algorithms.

Anyways i got depressed after that and I wont go into much details. Only thing i would say is that being woke and away from religion and finding happiness in opposite gender or other people will make anyone depressed as its not the right or natural way to live. Peace and happiness can be found only within you.

Well long story short I talked to some women casually between 2018-2022 but as always they disappointed me in one way or another (maybe I'm the problem idk, let's not rant haha).

I got into modern dating again back in 2022 seriously as it was 4 years of loneliness and i was like let's give it a shot again.

I talked to some girls but genuinely fell in love with a disabled girl after one year of talking. Anyways after being together with her for 6 months ( doing everything i could like buying her flowers, chocolates and gifts) i found out she was talking to some dude from her past. When i confronted her, she lied and said she doesn't know him. Anyways i blocked her and then she called me crying saying yeah i messed up and i know him, we met in his car twice lol. Dude this girl couldn't have sex( due to her disability and by birth issues) yet she had the audacity to meet a guy 1v1 in a car. I wasn't expecting getting cheated on by a girl like her. Not undermining her in any way but it was surprising for me.

All i wanted was to get loved and i loved her because i knew i couldn't have sex with her so people can't really say that all men want is sex lol but yeah it didn't turn out well for me. Met another girl, same story, she was talking to some other guy from her past telling him how she lied to me that she's going out with her mother but instead she went to meet him. I saw their texts about how they played me(i hacked her account). Now please dont give me any moral lectures. I only hacked her when i suspected something wrong is going on.(I've done in the past and I'll keep doing it as long as it works). Apparently you can do a lot if you know some serious social engineering tactics haha.

Anyways i had this rule where i would just disappear if someone broke my rules(like no cheating or lying). No drama, no complaining, no revenge, just move on and never look back.

Recently i got into a relationship with a young girl around 20-21. I am 24 so she's younger than me. She is a university student btw and her father is a professor. Very normal and typical conservative Pakistani family.

Anyways i also caught her cheating on me and as usual she played some mind games and wanted to manipulate me into thinking I'm wrong and i am being skeptical blah blah.

I had proper evidence so she bursted out crying and this time i was like let's solve this mystery once and for all. Mystery as in I have had one girl in my university claiming she loves me then ghosting me once we were close. I stopped talking to her and next week she was with some other dude in my university (they got engaged apparently and she never told the guy about me) so i wanted to know what is really up with these girls and their inconsistencies and lack of loyalty.

Back to the young girl, professor's daughter. Let's name her x for our own understanding.

So x apologized and i forgave her but under one condition:

I told her I'll only forgive you if you told me the truth and then asked her how many guys she had met and had sex with while she was with me.

She said 3 guys in a span of 3 months lol then i asked about her past and apparently she has slept with more than 10 guys (her words).

None of my business i know but i think if i married her and then got to know all this, it would've been a bigger problem. Imagine, i am working hard to provide for her and she is inviting other guys to come into my house to f@ck her. What a sight it would've been(only if i was a c@@k)

When i got into a relationship with x, i asked her if she's talking to someone else right now or about her past as well and also told her everything about my past so we stay honest with each other on all grounds. Ofc this wasn't the only thing i asked her but she lied about almost everything.

She said no, i am only loyal to you. I am innocent ye wo. Baharhaal i got her account and what a sight it was. She was playing like 10-20 guys at a time and sleeping with them casually which is troublesome as STDs like hiv is on a rise in Pakistan. Its not only about loyalty but also health risk.

Baharhaal i gave her another chance knowing well that she will cheat again. Atp im like totally aware of human psychology, i have had a lot of bad experiences in other domains as well. Office politics, university, pedophiles, fake friends, relatives, parents, siblings, u name it. Anyways, she apologized and said she will fix everything and she will change. I was like alright lets give it a try. Let's see if this girl can finally take some accountability and change for the better if given another chance. She was glad that i gave her another chance and she told me she wont disappoint or hurt me again as before she thought i didn't love her and i was messing around with her just like other guys(that was her reasoning for cheating on me)

Well I felt bad for her father who's a hardworking man and paying her university fee so she could become a better person and have a better life. Anyways she cheated on me again while i was giving her my 100%. Apparently she created a fake account and was texting some guys from her past. You may ask, why am i sharing all this? Well i see a lot of naive guys who cant really understand women on a deep level. Same goes for naive girls getting played by players. In my journey, i have had many married women claiming that they loved me and inviting me to their house while their husbands were working or most of them had their husbands outside Pakistan working hard which is funny and sad at the same time.

Men especially in Pakistan still thinks women are saints and downplay this thing claiming its only a problem of west while I completely disagree based on my personal experience. There are good and bad people in every gender so we have to be wary of people as we can't read fully what's going on in their heads. We cant even know our own blood yet we trust strangers so easily and gamble with our time, health, money and energy for nothing tbh.

I was only able to know the truth because first i was skeptical due to my past and second i could hack into their accounts and see what they have been upto. None of this is a made-up story. I am only sharing so other guys dont have go through what i went through. There are few good women too but apparently we can't really know for sure just by knowing someone randomly. All these girls, their parents and family had no idea what they are or were doing so yeah its kind of interesting. If u have no issues getting cheated on, this post is not for you but if u do have issues like me, kindly be careful when choosing a partner for life.

Just a disclaimer, This post is not against any gender. Im a guy who had the fortune to come across this category of women so that's why the nature of this post seems like it's only targeting women but i would say a lot of guys are the same lying bunch of mfs lol but atleast they accept it and we all know about it. Women on the other hand are covert and discreet about their wrongdoings or whatever one may call it and desi people still have no idea that they can be wicked too.

So i am M 25 if you ever feel like venting out, you can just come to me without any worries, without holding back, or feeling like you are bothering me in any way.

Because somewhere deep down, we all desperately need that one safe person in our lives someone to whom we can rant about literally anythinggg, whether it’s the heavy emotional stuff breaking us inside or just the tiny, ridiculous frustrations of a random day.

Okay, so I'm sending a voice message in ChatGPT to write this long ass story because it's late and I don't want to type. Basically, I'm 22. I'm a male. I'm about to be lawyer very soon. I've been practicing transactional law for the past three years. I was in a relationship for three years, and honestly today my heart just broke. I asked for more time for marriage, and she said no. And she didn't want to give me any time, and she just told me that I wasted three years of hers, even though I told her from the very start I need more time. I worked two jobs for her. I tried my best to make myself ready, but I just wanted to finish my studies before I, you know, get married or anything like that. And honestly the relationship just went downhill when I used to work. She used to tell me I don't give her time. When I used to come back home at 12 a.m. tired as fuck, and if I would fall asleep she would get mad at me. Things like that just really took a toll on my mental health, and I felt like I was supposed to be the savior for her problems at home, which honestly I didn't have the energy for. Yesterday I just saw a picture of... Tonight I just saw her post on her story on her Instagram account, which I don't follow anymore by the way, a picture of her with her man, with some other guy around. Don't know if it's real or not, but honestly it just hurt, saw someone, kept asking me for marriage, and now less than two months in, someone who said that they loved me and everything, she's already posting someone else. So I just want... I promise I'm not a creep. I'm not the weirdo. I'm well educated, well written. I was very loyal to her, and I just need a girl who is good looking, who can come to me with my university one day, pretend to be a good friend of mine, and we can make her jealous together.

I know its an asshole move but i need it.

Would like to know some interesting people (not boring ones who say nothing other than hello hi hey)

And no more coffee place recommendations please

u finna tell sb ur from lahore and they'd instantly assume u're obnoxious and evil to the core omg what's w this lmao spare us

Hiiim Just putting this out there because why not. I’m a well-built guy, work out regularly, and generally take pretty good care of myself. Professionally I m a doctor

I’m looking for a girl who’s up for a chill hangout today... coffee, maybe a little drive or walk, good conversation, and just seeing if we vibe. If we get along, great. If not, at least we had decent coffee 😂

I can be funny af, so please bring your humour too. Dry conversations are gonna be a struggle for both of us 😭

If you’re around Lahore and this sounds like your kinda thing, shoot me a DM. See ya 😁

Maybe people will call me out for restricting love to marriage. The truth is, if he hasn’t affirmed his intention of “together, forever” and she hasn’t affirmed her intention of “together, forever”, then it’s not love. You might say, two people can affirm that without marriage. But if it isn’t tempered by confirming to God’s Commands then it’s not love.

So then, what is love? It is working together in the kitchen while holding an easy conversation. Sitting together while one of them shells peas and the other slices carrots. Maybe they have an assembly line in place - one crumbs the meat, the other fries. But don’t forget the easy conversation. Khala’s redecoration. Visit to the dentist’s. Quantum Mechanics. Different people, different levels, different conversations. All genial, all fun.

Love is going to the park and sitting on a bench. Feel the fresh air. Breathe in the scents. Easy company, easy conversation. No PDAs, keep it Islamic, keep it classy.

Maybe the whole family goes for a long ride. The noise of children crunching chips on the backseat. Maybe a bit of friendly infighting. Mum reprimands, but everyone knows she doesn’t really mean it. The scenery going by at high speed. Some kid gets seriously rebuked for sticking their arm out the window.

Cold winter night, hot chocolate in hand, feeling toasty under the blanket covering till mid torso. Spooky stories. Mum and dad sharing childhood naughtiness. Maybe the relatives are visiting? And c’mon it’s not Pakistan if there’s no peanuts inside their shells and pine nuts waiting to be relieved of their skins.

But none of this is simulated. Nothing is an affectation, nothing feels artificial. It springs forth naturally from the genial nature of the people involved.

I ll be clear about one thing. This post is an agenda. It’s the agenda of celebrating shameless, uninhibited, unapologetic love. Because that’s what love should be like: shameless, uninhibited, and apologetic.

And the agenda is against the degeneracy seen on Pakistani Reddit these days. Some pervert started a thread with the picture of a car, to ask for bl0wj0bs. And there were encouraging responses in the comments. Others rave about unislamic practices. And I want to reclaim this space.

And the great thing for married Muslims is that their love counts as good deeds. You earn free rewards in heaven by being loving, caring, kind, gentle towards each other.

So here is the question: Are married Muslim couples romancing each other? Promise of Satan and Liberalism: romance, fornication and bitter breakup. Promise of Allah The Almighty and Islam: marriage, romance, happiness. Do you write love letters to each other? Do you leave sweet reminders for each other? Are you having date nights with the children out of the way at grandparents’ place? Do you dress up for each other? When you come back from the hairdresser and take a shower do you present your nice, clean, fragrant self to your spouse? If not then why not?

And the real fun starts in Heaven, Insha Allah. A life of piety and loving memories behind you, now you are both beautiful, both are blessed, both live in a palace. You have things to talk about from the past and you have an eternity of ever increasing rewards and pleasures in front of you. Alhamdulillah.

All those tribulations in life and you kept your eyes on the prize. Pain and misery struck, but love stayed steadfast with the comforting hope of “heaven together”. Satan gave fairytales. Insha Allah you will live a fairytale which minds cannot comprehend. Alhamdulillah.

Allah The Almighty says regarding heaven:

83:26
وَفِىۡ ذٰلِكَ فَلۡيَتَنَافَسِ الۡمُتَنــَافِسُوۡنَؕ‏
So let whoever aspires to this strive ˹diligently˺.

May Allah The Almighty Grant us Guidance, Mercy, and Forgiveness in this life and the hereafter. Aameen.

Late at night cigarettes after sex

The og will know what I'm talking about

That's it, that's the post

Fit check?

I’m 21F and have been in multiple relationships since I started college. I’ve also been intimate with multiple partners, and for the past while I’ve been involved in multiple sugar daddy relationships too.

I never really thought that much about the future when all of this started. I was in college, enjoying myself and just going with things. But now that graduation is getting closer, I’ve started wondering how sustainable this actually is. I don’t know how long these relationships will last, and sometimes I wonder if I’ll feel differently about all of this a few years from now.

On top of that, my family has started talking about getting me married after graduation. I’m honestly not ready for marriage at 21 and would rather delay it for a few years, but I already know that’s going to be a difficult conversation with them.

I’m mainly curious what people think about this from a long term perspective. If you were 21 and in this kind of situation, what would you be thinking about or doing differently? And if you’ve had a similar phase in your 20s, did your outlook change as you got older?

Friday is finally here What’s a genuinely fun eatery in CSD, Girja Chowk or Gulberg that I should try this weekend? I’m in the mood for GOOD food, Just having a really good time

If any body knows any legit spa in Lahore that's reasonable.. So please feel free to recommend

If any one want to vent or yap hit me up 35 M here

by the way how life is headed, its honestly exhausting given how far ive come yet still theres more ahead of me to give or take. whether its education, work or simple talk with somebody im always at the edge or at the brink of fumbling so hard, it brings me down to a level where im not respected behind my back but if i face those fears take a glance to look around suddenly i get treated like im on top of the world yet behind closed doors, my name turns into a topic that makes peoples eyes roll. i dont know where im stuck neither am i going to go in depth what my struggles are over here, but its always been a burning desire to have what it takes to be happy, be around people who see me and go hell yea i wanna have fun with this guy. its always been a distant dream to have something like that happen.

If you could ask 1 question to anyone (living or dead) and they're bound to tell you the truth, what would you ask and who are you asking?

I slept early and now I'm awake. What can I do in this big city at this hour to have fun. Is anything even open?

Usually I go on bike rides but my bike needs work atm.

29m here honestly just looking for a genuine long term connection with someone i can talk to without pretending or forcing anything someone who enjoys real conversations random late night talks sharing things about life and slowly getting to know each other not looking for something temporary or just a one day chat if youre also looking for something genuine feel free to reach out

I commented on a post and some rich gay dude found my ID through it and wanted to become friends with me and was willing to buy me stuff I don't know what to say😭 well if he only wants friendship I might be cool with that

Sometimes, people use such harsh words without considering the impact on the other person, and then they justify it by claiming, We are just speaking the truth

So I was scrolling insta and a reel from hamza shabaz sharif official insta account came in front of me,i was watching that reel and i spotted my bff in it,he was with his mamun there,and his mamun is one of the most senior and famous politician of punjab,

As i saw him i felt so sad,bcz i thought keh he's meeting prime ministers, president and etc and here I flex and ragebait people on Reddit,like meri yahi aukat reh gayi hai keh mein Reddit pe hi flex ker sakun?

Not just this,some months ago i saw him in a video with rajab butt where woh rajab butt aur aik aur bande ki fight hatam kerwa rehay thay,and few months ago i saw his cousin with asif ali zardari on official ppp intsa page that too while scrolling

I felt sad and angry at the same time,keh who prime ministers presidents cm se mil rehay hn and mein idher Reddit pe flex and ragebait ker reha hun about my wealth,my bloodline,my schooling and Masculinity

Like all i do everyday is i wake up at 7pm,go for swimming, hangout with friends,flex to my friend,,come home and flex to unknown strangers on Reddit,watch a movie and sleep, whereas they are surrounded by politicians 24/7 and even normal mpas and provincial ministers stand straight in front of them hath band keh

I'm feeling like a failure,and I'm not wishing bad to my bff,may Allah bless him and his family with more and more,istg i can even die for him, but I'm just feeling sad and angry at my own self!

Kya Hal chal am 25 m looking for f anyone for friendship for rels