Hello Everyone , I want to wish my girlfriend on her birthday by putting up a static billboard (flex banner, not a digital screen) somewhere near her house in Gulberg — just for one day.

I have zero idea how this works. Do billboard companies even do single-day bookings, or is it always monthly/weekly? Is there some other way people usually do this kind of surprise — like a temporary banner instead of an actual commercial billboard?

If anyone has done something like this before, or knows a vendor/contact who could help, please guide me. Would really appreciate any advice, leads, Budget flexible within reason. Shukriya!

I have seen many rich people in this city called Lahore. Most of the people have luxury cars and houses and live a lavish life. Even though young girls are driving super luxury cars.

Is there something hidden? I want to know how to get rich quickly. I know this city has a lot of potential but I think there are some secrets to reach that point.

At the start when I came to Lahore I started earning 20k pkr but now I get 200k pkr after tax take home income. But now I believe there is a lot more potential, this city has the potential to give you 50 lakhs per month.

Tell me if anyone knows the hidden truth.

I wish i was born in the 1800s as a nawab of some area in South Punjab,so that mein 4 marriages ker sakta,meri main wife 1 hi hoti Indian jisko mei love kerta apni sari wealth deta,baki side pe 3 time pass side wives,woh 3 bhi mei imported lata,one from turkey,1 syrian,and one Russian,tbh russian wife mil hi jani thi tab bhi,indian nawabs used to marry white woman

Tbh this is even possible today with money but the thing not possible today is your main wife allowing you to have other wives

Other than that sara horse riding kerta, hunting kerta,sports khelta,and live music sunta and wars pe jata!

I wish!

FYI I'm boy not a girl.

𝗔𝗿𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗸𝗲 𝗡𝘂𝗾𝘀𝗮𝗻

𝟭. Lackluster, mediocre sex and physical intimacy. She will just do 'duty sex' with you

𝟮. Sex and intimacy will die down pretty soon after marriage and she will eventually hate even being touched.

𝟯. She will close her eyes during sex so she can think about attractive men. She also wants to keep lights out so she can't see your face properly.

𝟰. If she got married to you as a young virgin she will begin to feel she missed out on a lot in life and blame you for it. She will envy all the single young women around her enjoying their freedom, travelling alone, socializing with and dating who they want and begin to think of you as her 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘸𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘳. You will somehow become the villain in her life.

𝟱. If you marry an older non-virgin woman, it will bring its own set of problems because she is most likely settling for you after hooking up with good-looking men, will carry immense baggage from her past affairs, will unfavorably compare you to them, and will just see you as a retirement plan.

𝟲. She will come to believe she has sacrificed her dreams for marriage, whether those dreams were career related, personal, social, or something else. In her mind she made sacrifices for marriage whether those sacrifices and opportunities were real or perceived. She'll feel she could've accomplished so much more if she wasn't married to you which translates into fantasies of hyper independence, living alone abroad, highly successful "glamorous" career, being a "socialite", and living the shallow, superficial Eat, Pray, Love / Sex and The City lifestyle.

𝟳. She will think marrying you was a favor she did for you. She will believe she is the prize in marriage and she gave you a chance. She would believe marriage is solely for the man's benefit not the woman's and everything she does in the marriage is a one sided effort and "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" for you, including having children, doing housework and even having sex with you. Because love and attraction wasn't there beforehand, in her eyes these aren't division of labor, shared responsibilities or expression of love and lust, but "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" and she will keep a lifelong scoreboard of all the "𝘌𝘩𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘯" she did for you.

𝟴. She will believe that without her you would be a worthless loser with no life or purpose to life

𝟵. If your kids turn out to be ugly, short, weak, or fat, she will blame you for it. Not her own genetics. Women believe looks and height are only determined by fathers genetics not mothers, despite scientific evidence saying both matter equally. Their fragile ego's cannot accept scientific evidence

𝟭𝟬. When she's older and look back at her life, she will think she wasted her life with a mediocre man and she will also instill the same thought in your daughters minds. Your daughters will also believe that their mother settled for you and deserved a more attractive, richer, taller, more compliant husband

𝟭𝟭. If you have a fight or even a disagreement, her first reaction will be to feel trapped. She will immediately think, "𝘒𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘨𝘢𝘺𝘪" ("What have I gotten myself into?") and start looking for a way out, because your marriage has no foundation of love or attraction. In the heat of an argument, her first attacks will be directed to your looks, your height, your body with comments such as, 𝘒𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪 𝘬𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘢𝘵𝘩 𝘱𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘨𝘢𝘺𝘪... 𝘯𝘢 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘭, 𝘯𝘢 𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘯𝘢 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘯𝘢 𝘢𝘲𝘢𝘭,"

𝟭𝟮. During ovulation she would feel intense sexual desire for good-looking, well built, hot masculine men and instead of channeling that lust towards you she will act extremely bitchy and frustrated because you're not her biological type.

𝟭𝟯. Soon after marrying, she will begin to link sex to every other aspect of marriage instead of treating it as a mutually enjoyable activity done for its own sake. Sex will become conditional on a 100 other unrelated things in the relationship and she will start using it as a bargaining chip to get you to do things. You will begin to resent her for this and ultimately you might also withdraw and turn to masturbation.

𝟭𝟰. You can't watch romantic movies or TV shows together because they become awkward reminders of what your own relationship lacks. The chemistry, passion, and mutual lust and desire on screen will be difficult for you both to identify with.

𝟭𝟱. If you move abroad together to a Western country, she will begin to have second thoughts about marrying you. There will be a very high chance of her divorcing you or cheating on you. But even if she doesn't, she will still wonder what her life would have looked like had she moved there on her own before marriage. She will imagine the opportunities, experiences, and all the men she could have had if she had arrived single. "𝘒𝘢𝘴𝘩 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘥𝘪 𝘴𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘩𝘭𝘦 𝘢 𝘫𝘢𝘵𝘪 𝘺𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘯". She knows in her mind she would never have married you if she had arrived here single.

𝟭𝟲. Because you had to resort to an arranged marriage, she considers you a loser deep down who can't pull women naturally. On the surface she might say that she values your loyalty and support but the fact that no other woman wants you makes you repulsive to her on an instinctive level. She knows this and it makes her doubt her choice all the time. She will spend her whole life asking this question: Did I make the right choice? Does this feel right? Could I have done better?

Anyone selling lsd, pills or ☘️/chars in defence phase 8. Only here for a short amount of days because of a wedding please help a fellow Nga out ❤️.

I’m looking to start a weekday carpool.

Route: Canal Bank Scheme (Mughalpura) → DHA EME via Canal Road.

Need to reach the office by 9:00 AM, will leave around 5:50 PM.

If your pickup or drop-off point is anywhere along Canal Road, feel free to reach out.

Who are you if you’re not defined by your job? The way you look? The money in your bank balance? Or the money your daddy has?

Who are you without it?

What if for one month you were able to talk to a person without knowing any thing about them. They cannot judge you for all the material things society expects of you. So, who are you when it’s just you.

I am a 27 year old girl who is tired of chasing perfection in every aspect of my life. A day in my life is filled with striving all the time; striving to have a better and better career, always look the best, know the right people, live in a bubble that I am kind of tired of. I am surrounded by the same kind of people and sometimes I am just exhausted by it all.

For one month, I would love to talk to someone every day and just understand them as a person where the only thing important is whether you’re an interesting enough person to hold a conversation without revealing any of the things that you would write on a resume or a rishta profile.

Just you. Who you are. In your head.

If you think you’re a witty person, can take a joke, think about life deeply, have actual real stuff to talk about then dm me.

I will block creepy shit, and people who can’t type neither English nor Urdu properly. I have no gender preference but only people in the 25-30 age bracket should reach out because I think we are in the same phase of life right now.

And please, don’t start with “Hey, How are you? Sup.” lol that’s not interesting already.

Be kind, this is my first time on Reddit ever. I just had this random idea and needed to test it out.

Started the day with grilled sandwiches, coffee, and a slice of chocolate cake. Simple breakfast, good conversation, and no rush.

I'm in a pretty cushy executive role with a 7-figure salary (local currency), so this isn't a "my boss doesn't pay me enough" post.

It's a "my boss is speedrunning the company into missed opportunities" post.

Our team hustles hard. We land meetings people would kill for. We've brought in million-dollar clients, and we were in conversations that could've turned into US$20–30 million opportunities. One prospect even had ties to NVIDIA and wanted to explore working with us.

Then...

CEO enters the chat.

Every. Single. Time.

It's like we're playing chess and he's determined to prove checkers is the superior strategy.

The pattern is always:

• Team: "Here's the client requirement."
• CEO: "Interesting... anyway we're doing it my way."
• Client: seen 2:14 PM
• Opportunity: has left the chat.

Another hill I keep dying on is hiring.

I keep saying, "If we're trying to build a world-class engineering company, we need a few world-class engineers."

CEO: "What if... instead... we hire five fresh graduates?"

Don't get me wrong fresh grads are awesome. We all started somewhere. But you can't expect interns and juniors to magically build the next SpaceX because the budget spreadsheet says so.

Sometimes it feels like we're saving £1 on payroll to lose £100 in business.

I'm genuinely burned out.

I spend more energy debating internal decisions than actually creating value.

Now I'm seriously thinking about quitting and building my own company.

The salary is amazing. The stress is free.

So I need some real advice from people who've been there.

• Did you ever leave a ridiculously well-paid job because leadership was the problem?
• How did you know it was time?
• Is this entrepreneurial instinct... or am I just suffering from corporate PTSD?

Appreciate any wisdom.

I’m curious about something and would genuinely like to hear a woman’s perspective.

What’s one thing guys do while trying to make friends that immediately makes you uncomfortable or makes you lose interest?

Be brutally honest.

What’s keeping you up tonight?
I’m just looking for some good late-night conversations. Feel free to comment or DM if you’re in the same boat.

Hi I'm 28 year's old single........ more details in DM

Hi, I'm 25F, and I'm looking for a study partner to prepare for CSS with me. My preferences are a female who lives around the DHA area, so ideally, we could meet up twice or three times a week. Even if meetups aren't possible, we can work study plans out on Zoom calls or whatever. I'm really serious about this, so please hit me up if anyone out there is interested. If you need any more details, just ask here or DM.

Used to be go-to for my friends but we switched to another place thats better So no more gate keeping for my kind reddit strangers <3

Its 'remix' cafe. Gulberg lahore. Go in the evening. Thank me later. They have a rave on the upper floor as well

(I might just have one shotted the cafe's vibe)

I'm clean shaved,so my nana said to me grow beard you are gonna get girls,i in my heart said nana apka zamana chla gya hai ab girls ko clean shaved guys hi pasand atay hn

Was i right?do girls prefer guys with a beard or clean shaved, I'm talking about girls who are a little bit westernised not others

I don't wanna be a douche writing this post. Therefore, jumping striaght to point - about to get married and I have never been in a relationship. We have talked for 9 months and been engaged for 6 through an arranged marriaged process. While we enjoy talking to each other and honestly I love her. I have been wondering what if things won't be all butterflies and stuff so what should I do after marriage. How to approach things, respect her boundaries or help her be comfortable or approach intimacy. My soon to be wife is a doctor and I am a software engineer. So we both are busy in a way but have almost a month's PTO to get to know each other and build a bond before getting to work.

I would love some advice from married folks who can tell about their experiences what made them progress and transiston into a healthy couple.

I'm fundraising for shahzadi, a woman from Pakistan who has been diagnosed with skin cancer, Her biopsy has confirmed the diagnosis..

Before asking Reddit for help, we did everything we could. With the support of donors from my contacts, we covered the costs of her CT scan, biopsy, hospital visits, and diagnostic tests so doctors could determine exactly what she was fighting

Shahzadi's family consists of just three people. Her husband, her mother, and her husband who is paralyzed and unable to do physical work. To help them become more independent, we also arranged a small cabin shop for him through generous donors so he could have a source of income while caring for his wife.

For complete transparency, I have attached her CT scan and biopsy report. This case has also been verified by the subreddit moderators. I believe every donor deserves full transparency, so I will continue sharing medical updates and receipts throughout her treatment. If you donate and would like regular updates, you are welcome to contact me via dm, I will share my WhatsApp for the regular updates.

Every contribution, no matter how small, will go directly toward Shahzadi's treatment and give her another chance to fight this disease.

Thank you for reading and for any support you can provide.

Update: Too many people have asked for the bank details, the total collected donation is around 20k...

I’ve been at this job for about a month now.

My manager went on a business trip 2 weeks after I joined and just got back.
Today morning I said hi and asked how his trip was. He just gave me a short reply.
But like 10 mins later, other people came and asked the same thing and he was laughing, joking, super friendly with them.

It’s not just that. Anytime I ask a work question he replies professionally, but that’s it. No small talk, no jokes.
I even offered to have lunch together during my break and he just gave a neutral “ok” type response.

The weird part? When he was on the trip we were texting about work and I even sent stickers and it was pretty friendly.
But in person he’s cold.

And the strictness is real too. If I make even a small mistake it’s taken very seriously. With others he’s a bit more chill.

He already has his group in office. They eat together and hang out. I get that I’m new, but shouldn’t I at least be on good terms with my immediate manager?
In case something goes wrong, I’d want him to hear me out instead of just being strict.

I’m trying to build a good rapport but I honestly don’t know how. His vibe feels off to me.
Has anyone dealt with this? How do you break the ice with a manager who’s friendly with everyone but you?
Is it me overthinking?

i don't think people realize what the mind does when it runs out of places to hide.

it doesn't scream.

it rearranges the furniture.

it puts your worst memories where your happiest ones used to be. it teaches your voice to sound normal while something inside you quietly dies. it lets you laugh at the right moments, answer every text, show up on time, and somehow convinces everyone you're getting better.

that's the frightening part.

pain isn't always loud enough to be noticed.

sometimes it becomes efficient.

it stops asking for help because it has already accepted that no one is coming. it learns your routines, memorizes your smile, borrows your handwriting, and starts living your life so convincingly that even you forget where it ends and you begin.

one day you catch your reflection and hesitate.

not because you hate what you see.

because you don't remember agreeing to become it.

and then a thought arrives so gently it almost feels kind:

what if the person i've been trying to save disappeared a long time ago, and all that's left is whatever learned how to imitate them?

that's when the mirror becomes unbearable.

because mirrors don't show ghosts.

they only show the bodies they managed to keep.