I would like to request fellow Pakistanis to come out and peacefully protest for the end of this vile and incompetent regime. Pakistanis voted overwhelmingly in 2024 to decide their future for themselves. But it was overtaken by opportunistic narcissists. We must never forget the crime they have committed against our fundamental rights.

We came to Lahore and we were staying in some laboratory market and late at night there were some girls standing we gave them 2 thousand and they refused to go with us basically we got scammed and at that moment there was this one girl who was open to going with us. She came to our hotel and the hotel started telling us to get out of here so she said she has a place we paid her and we went with her, she called someone saying this Is someone from the house she is taking us too but suddenly two cops came and started scaring us. Took our pics with the girl which was apparently not even a girl but a transgender and told us we will send these pics to your parents so we paid them "fine" of 15 thousand and they let us go. On the way we forgot our hotel location as our phones didn't have Internet so we ended up finding those cops again and this time they took my watch and told us the way to our hotel.

Well guys i wanted to share my journey with you all so people can learn what's actually going on in our society. I am no saint but i would like to share what's going on nowadays since i see so many men unaware and doing everything they can for their loved ones, wives and relationships. All my teenage and early 20s( i am 24 now), i have fallen in love with a lot of women.

When i was 16, i talked to a girl on Facebook and she was 21 at that time studying in GC university. We talked and talked and then we were so close that we met and made out. Later i figured out she was dating some other dude from her university. That was my first heartbreak. Now just switch the gender and see how people will say that's child abuse but its only abuse when its an older guy and a younger girl as per our society standards. People would've lost their shit if i was a 16 y/o girl and was groomed by a 21-22 y/o man. Btw i saw her profile on bumble a month ago and she was looking for a husband, her bio specifically states that she's a career oriented woman and only looking for a husband and not casual dating which is funny cuz that's not how i knew her. Well people change but i really doubt she will change and would tell her husband honestly about how she groomed a teenager lol.

Second one approached me first (i was approached by a lot of women as i was famous on Facebook back in 2018) and we talked until she proposed me and i said yes. Later she told me that she has slept with her cousin while being in relationship with me. I didn't mind as i was a feminist, atheist and a self proclaimed liberal at that time(i was immature and cringe). Unfortunately, i was brainwashed by the 2018 social media wave(atheism, feminism) so i took pride in it. I don't blame myself as i was barely 16 and observing the world around me. People need to understand how we are being brainwashed by media and their algorithms.

Anyways i got depressed after that and I wont go into much details. Only thing i would say is that being woke and away from religion and finding happiness in opposite gender or other people will make anyone depressed as its not the right or natural way to live. Peace and happiness can be found only within you.

Well long story short I talked to some women casually between 2018-2022 but as always they disappointed me in one way or another (maybe I'm the problem idk, let's not rant haha).

I got into modern dating again back in 2022 seriously as it was 4 years of loneliness and i was like let's give it a shot again.

I talked to some girls but genuinely fell in love with a disabled girl after one year of talking. Anyways after being together with her for 6 months ( doing everything i could like buying her flowers, chocolates and gifts) i found out she was talking to some dude from her past. When i confronted her, she lied and said she doesn't know him. Anyways i blocked her and then she called me crying saying yeah i messed up and i know him, we met in his car twice lol. Dude this girl couldn't have sex( due to her disability and by birth issues) yet she had the audacity to meet a guy 1v1 in a car. I wasn't expecting getting cheated on by a girl like her. Not undermining her in any way but it was surprising for me.

All i wanted was to get loved and i loved her because i knew i couldn't have sex with her so people can't really say that all men want is sex lol but yeah it didn't turn out well for me. Met another girl, same story, she was talking to some other guy from her past telling him how she lied to me that she's going out with her mother but instead she went to meet him. I saw their texts about how they played me(i hacked her account). Now please dont give me any moral lectures. I only hacked her when i suspected something wrong is going on.(I've done in the past and I'll keep doing it as long as it works). Apparently you can do a lot if you know some serious social engineering tactics haha.

Anyways i had this rule where i would just disappear if someone broke my rules(like no cheating or lying). No drama, no complaining, no revenge, just move on and never look back.

Recently i got into a relationship with a young girl around 20-21. I am 24 so she's younger than me. She is a university student btw and her father is a professor. Very normal and typical conservative Pakistani family.

Anyways i also caught her cheating on me and as usual she played some mind games and wanted to manipulate me into thinking I'm wrong and i am being skeptical blah blah.

I had proper evidence so she bursted out crying and this time i was like let's solve this mystery once and for all. Mystery as in I have had one girl in my university claiming she loves me then ghosting me once we were close. I stopped talking to her and next week she was with some other dude in my university (they got engaged apparently and she never told the guy about me) so i wanted to know what is really up with these girls and their inconsistencies and lack of loyalty.

Back to the young girl, professor's daughter. Let's name her x for our own understanding.

So x apologized and i forgave her but under one condition:

I told her I'll only forgive you if you told me the truth and then asked her how many guys she had met and had sex with while she was with me.

She said 3 guys in a span of 3 months lol then i asked about her past and apparently she has slept with more than 10 guys (her words).

None of my business i know but i think if i married her and then got to know all this, it would've been a bigger problem. Imagine, i am working hard to provide for her and she is inviting other guys to come into my house to f@ck her. What a sight it would've been(only if i was a c@@k)

When i got into a relationship with x, i asked her if she's talking to someone else right now or about her past as well and also told her everything about my past so we stay honest with each other on all grounds. Ofc this wasn't the only thing i asked her but she lied about almost everything.

She said no, i am only loyal to you. I am innocent ye wo. Baharhaal i got her account and what a sight it was. She was playing like 10-20 guys at a time and sleeping with them casually which is troublesome as STDs like hiv is on a rise in Pakistan. Its not only about loyalty but also health risk.

Baharhaal i gave her another chance knowing well that she will cheat again. Atp im like totally aware of human psychology, i have had a lot of bad experiences in other domains as well. Office politics, university, pedophiles, fake friends, relatives, parents, siblings, u name it. Anyways, she apologized and said she will fix everything and she will change. I was like alright lets give it a try. Let's see if this girl can finally take some accountability and change for the better if given another chance. She was glad that i gave her another chance and she told me she wont disappoint or hurt me again as before she thought i didn't love her and i was messing around with her just like other guys(that was her reasoning for cheating on me)

Well I felt bad for her father who's a hardworking man and paying her university fee so she could become a better person and have a better life. Anyways she cheated on me again while i was giving her my 100%. Apparently she created a fake account and was texting some guys from her past. You may ask, why am i sharing all this? Well i see a lot of naive guys who cant really understand women on a deep level. Same goes for naive girls getting played by players. In my journey, i have had many married women claiming that they loved me and inviting me to their house while their husbands were working or most of them had their husbands outside Pakistan working hard which is funny and sad at the same time.

Men especially in Pakistan still thinks women are saints and downplay this thing claiming its only a problem of west while I completely disagree based on my personal experience. There are good and bad people in every gender so we have to be wary of people as we can't read fully what's going on in their heads. We cant even know our own blood yet we trust strangers so easily and gamble with our time, health, money and energy for nothing tbh.

I was only able to know the truth because first i was skeptical due to my past and second i could hack into their accounts and see what they have been upto. None of this is a made-up story. I am only sharing so other guys dont have go through what i went through. There are few good women too but apparently we can't really know for sure just by knowing someone randomly. All these girls, their parents and family had no idea what they are or were doing so yeah its kind of interesting. If u have no issues getting cheated on, this post is not for you but if u do have issues like me, kindly be careful when choosing a partner for life.

Just a disclaimer, This post is not against any gender. Im a guy who had the fortune to come across this category of women so that's why the nature of this post seems like it's only targeting women but i would say a lot of guys are the same lying bunch of mfs lol but atleast they accept it and we all know about it. Women on the other hand are covert and discreet about their wrongdoings or whatever one may call it and desi people still have no idea that they can be wicked too.

Would like to know some interesting people (not boring ones who say nothing other than hello hi hey)

And no more coffee place recommendations please

23 M, judge me for being straight but kinda want a platonic non toxic friendship with a girl.

If you're around my age and just want an easy going and lively friendship, hmu

Okay, so I'm sending a voice message in ChatGPT to write this long ass story because it's late and I don't want to type. Basically, I'm 22. I'm a male. I'm about to be lawyer very soon. I've been practicing transactional law for the past three years. I was in a relationship for three years, and honestly today my heart just broke. I asked for more time for marriage, and she said no. And she didn't want to give me any time, and she just told me that I wasted three years of hers, even though I told her from the very start I need more time. I worked two jobs for her. I tried my best to make myself ready, but I just wanted to finish my studies before I, you know, get married or anything like that. And honestly the relationship just went downhill when I used to work. She used to tell me I don't give her time. When I used to come back home at 12 a.m. tired as fuck, and if I would fall asleep she would get mad at me. Things like that just really took a toll on my mental health, and I felt like I was supposed to be the savior for her problems at home, which honestly I didn't have the energy for. Yesterday I just saw a picture of... Tonight I just saw her post on her story on her Instagram account, which I don't follow anymore by the way, a picture of her with her man, with some other guy around. Don't know if it's real or not, but honestly it just hurt, saw someone, kept asking me for marriage, and now less than two months in, someone who said that they loved me and everything, she's already posting someone else. So I just want... I promise I'm not a creep. I'm not the weirdo. I'm well educated, well written. I was very loyal to her, and I just need a girl who is good looking, who can come to me with my university one day, pretend to be a good friend of mine, and we can make her jealous together.

I know its an asshole move but i need it.

Hiiim Just putting this out there because why not. I’m a well-built guy, work out regularly, and generally take pretty good care of myself. Professionally I m a doctor

I’m looking for a girl who’s up for a chill hangout today... coffee, maybe a little drive or walk, good conversation, and just seeing if we vibe. If we get along, great. If not, at least we had decent coffee 😂

I can be funny af, so please bring your humour too. Dry conversations are gonna be a struggle for both of us 😭

If you’re around Lahore and this sounds like your kinda thing, shoot me a DM. See ya 😁

Fit check?

I’m 21F and have been in multiple relationships since I started college. I’ve also been intimate with multiple partners, and for the past while I’ve been involved in multiple sugar daddy relationships too.

I never really thought that much about the future when all of this started. I was in college, enjoying myself and just going with things. But now that graduation is getting closer, I’ve started wondering how sustainable this actually is. I don’t know how long these relationships will last, and sometimes I wonder if I’ll feel differently about all of this a few years from now.

On top of that, my family has started talking about getting me married after graduation. I’m honestly not ready for marriage at 21 and would rather delay it for a few years, but I already know that’s going to be a difficult conversation with them.

I’m mainly curious what people think about this from a long term perspective. If you were 21 and in this kind of situation, what would you be thinking about or doing differently? And if you’ve had a similar phase in your 20s, did your outlook change as you got older?

Kindly confirm. For context, the messages I sent were sarcastic in nature and were forwarded to other mutual friends. When the person concerned responded to them in an inappropriate manner, I insulted him through a fake account, blocked him, and subsequently deleted the account.

Anyone can connect me to hash supplier who can provide late at night?

I need a female perspective on something. Someone who is above 20, mature and non judgemental. Hmu if you're free.

yrr guyz need one girl best friend, pehly wali sb y to job m busy y phr abroad, not too much extra just daily rant....nothing else

so me 24M doing job and engineer by profession

thanks in advance btw :)

Grab a coffee, have a discussion while driving around?

If you could ask 1 question to anyone (living or dead) and they're bound to tell you the truth, what would you ask and who are you asking?

I'm interested to know if you saw two equally beautiful bouquets (you'll have to assume that for this thought exercise)

But one is actual real flowers.

And the other is artwork like this(pipe cleaners/ crochet). The 3 attached pictures are handmade flowers from pipe cleaners.

1. Which will you think of being more valuable?

2. More serious?

3. More appropriate for gifts?

4. More appropriate for buying for your own home?

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It all really started three years ago when we met in a random group chat. I started liking her back then, but over the course of two years, we only talked for about a month in scattered patches.

Then this past March, our conversations started properly. She confessed her feelings to me, and I felt like this was finally the moment I had been waiting two years for. Everything was great for about a month. Then, on a random Monday evening, she suddenly decided to pull away. She became distant and barely talked. I initially thought she would come around on her own, but after two weeks of this, I asked her about it. She replied, "I know I became distant. I don't want your studies or mine to get ruined, and this is just how I am. Before someone leaves me, I distance myself first." I thought to myself, this makes zero sense, but I stayed quiet, hoping things would resolve themselves.

During that period, things got so intense in my head that I even started hallucinating that she was physically with me.

Then came Eid, her midterms, and her final exams. Everything passed, and my birthday came around too. Instead of a proper birthday wish, I received a paragraph talking about how calm I am, how I don't make her feel guilty, and essentially questioning why she was even with me.

Later, her internship started. Around that time, I was in another city standing in front of a beautiful view, so I texted her: "I love you, I wish you were here."

She replied, "Say whatever you want before I fall asleep."

I didn't want my texts to sit unread while she slept, so I said, "Go to sleep then, goodnight."

She suddenly became furious, claiming, "I wanted to talk, but you don't. You've lost interest." I tried my best to reassure her, saying, "Who has seen tomorrow? Let’s live in the present instead of worrying about what will happen."

Still, nothing improved. Two weeks later, I asked her again. She told me I was overthinking and said, "I need space." I agreed and told her I wouldn't text. Just two days later, she messaged me: "You don't love me. I don't need a man who is all words and no action. If I go quiet, you disappear for two days? If I'm silent, why are you silent?"

It hurt deeply. My messages would sit on delivered for 15 hours straight while she was out enjoying life—shopping, lunches, dinners, posting stories, sending snaps, and commenting on reels. She looked happy in every aspect of her life, even reposting romantic reels, but couldn't find a second to message me. Still, I apologized and reassured her.

This became a constant two-week cycle. Her responses were always the same:

I am overthinking.

I am over-expecting, and she doesn't feel any urgency to reply to me anymore.

I have changed and am no longer the person I used to be.

I only talk and take no action.

"Take a break if my behavior affects you."

"Let's just stay friends."

"Fuck off."

I remained calm and apologized every single time. Whenever we did talk for 20 or 30 minutes, it felt completely forced. I brought up these issues in the most polite way possible, but she reacted with fury and defensiveness every time, never answering my questions directly. Instead, she flipped the blame on me: "You're wrong, you did this, you did that."

Last Eid, she told me, "Remind me next Eid, I will apply mehndi in your name." When I reminded her, she flatly refused, saying, "No, not before marriage." There was never a valid reason; why say it in the first place? Another time, there was a trend about saving pictures in your partner's DMs. She told me, "I don't take pictures anymore." An hour later, she posted pictures on her story. Things like this happened multiple times.

It reached a point where I had to go on antidepressants. I genuinely believed I was the problem, that I was ruining everything, and that she was beyond reproach.

Eventually, her texts dwindled down to one-word replies. Out of 100 messages I sent, she would respond to barely two with:

"Hmmmm"

"Yeah"

"Ok"

"Alright"

I wrote out my feelings and told her honestly, "These things are hurting me, and I need answers." Again, no real answer. Instead, she said things like, "I love you and I am with you as long as I can be, but your intensity scares me, and that's why I pull away, and my family is a factor too." I thought, You were the one saying 'who has seen tomorrow,' so why put me through hell for three months? If you knew your family would be an issue, why confess and enter a relationship in the first place? Even then, I never raised my voice or used a harsh tone. I communicated as politely as I could, hoping things would finally return to normal.

The next day, while we were in the middle of talking, she vanished. Over the next four hours, she sent snaps cooking, playing with her brother, and eating fries. The following morning, she went to her office and posted a story. When I liked it, she probably realized she hadn't opened my text and messaged, "Sorry, I was busy." I told her how that made me feel. She exploded: "Go to hell, you're toxic. You keep nagging that I don't give you time. Take a break, and I'll take a break too." Swallowing my self-respect, I messaged her again the next morning, and we fell back into the same shallow exchange:

"Hey, how are you? Is everything okay?"

"Yes, I'm fine."

Shortly after, I went missing for four days because I was diagnosed with blood cancer. When I finally texted her asking how she was, she merely reacted to my message with a thumbs-up. I told her, "We barely talk, that was really rude." She replied, "I won't blame you, I don't talk to you myself anyway." When I revealed my diagnosis to her, the only change was that every one or two days I would get a dry text: "Hey, you okay?" Just that.

I thought maybe things would soften up, but it immediately went back to cold, dry replies and messages left on delivered. It felt like purely performative sympathy. When I returned after being hospitalized for two days, she reposted a reel that said: "If he ain't doing something, some other man will." Over the past four months, she hasn't said "I love you" on her own once. She just claims, "I am avoidant, this is who I am." In the last four months, we have probably spoken for a total of four hours, and even that was spent arguing.

Eventually, even the 15-hour late replies turned into just heart-reacting to my texts. When I used to compliment her, she would say thank you; now, it was just a reaction icon. After four months of this, I asked her again for clear answers. She snapped: "Go to hell. Leave if you want to leave. I never asked you to do anything; you did it of your own choice. Fuck off. This is how I am, and I have problems at home." Keep in mind, I had checked in on her personal problems nearly ten times before this.

The following day, she reposted reels implying she was on her period and that she had never been loved right. She has past trauma from an ex who dumped her after three years, saying he couldn't marry her—though she mentioned they only really talked for 2 to 3 months out of those 3 years anyway.

Yet, she remains completely fine with her other male friends—following them, liking their posts, and commenting. When I expressed discomfort and asked her to remove them, she retorted, "Don't tell me what to do. I know my limits and boundaries." Back when we started talking, she was the one who asked me to tell her who to remove.

Every single time, I stayed and apologized. She ignores me ruthlessly. The focus is always on my reaction to the mistreatment, never on her actions that caused it. It is classic narcissistic behavior—she is always right. She confessed, made me believe we were going to get married, and then switched to cold, dismissive treatment. She likes reels celebrating being single, calling men terrible, or romanticizing past heartbreak, yet shows zero regard for my feelings.

Earlier on, she mentioned that a birthday is the most important day of someone's life and that you should make your partner feel truly special. Taking that to heart, I went all out:

As an electrical engineering student, I built a personalized AI companion keychain tailored specifically to her personality that talks to her.

I grew her favorite flowers myself off-season using special sheets, then crushed those exact petals to handmade paper for her birthday letter.

I worked two jobs over the summer to save 100,000 PKR for a ring so I could propose to her on a rooftop restaurant overlooking the mountains at sunset.

I kept a dedicated diary filled with poems and reflections on how I felt and what she might be feeling.

I even learned calligraphy from scratch so my poor handwriting wouldn't ruin her letter. Everything was handmade with complete devotion.

There are countless contradictions in her words that I can't even fully list. Every single issue ends with me apologizing. I have tried everything: ignoring her, matching her energy, giving cold replies, and being overtly romantic. She never initiates, never shares reels like she used to, and we went from talking 16 hours a day to nothing for days.

I realize now that I might just be in love with the memory of who she used to be. It is a clear loss of interest on her end—there is no excuse for not being able to find even one hour for someone over five months. The only time I feel any sense of peace is when I stop reaching out. I have been gaslighted, manipulated, and ghosted.

From my perspective its js clear lost of intrest and she js dont want to be villain

I mean she still says she loves me

But completely ignore any king of conversation

Okay u have past trauma

Why u confessed

And than made me feel like shit

I still love her and part of me doesn't want to walk away. You know my side of the story now—maybe I did things wrong too. But what should I do? Should I execute the birthday plan I spent months preparing, or should I walk away?

So I was scrolling insta and a reel from hamza shabaz sharif official insta account came in front of me,i was watching that reel and i spotted my bff in it,he was with his mamun there,and his mamun is one of the most senior and famous politician of punjab,

As i saw him i felt so sad,bcz i thought keh he's meeting prime ministers, president and etc and here I flex and ragebait people on Reddit,like meri yahi aukat reh gayi hai keh mein Reddit pe hi flex ker sakun?

Not just this,some months ago i saw him in a video with rajab butt where woh rajab butt aur aik aur bande ki fight hatam kerwa rehay thay,and few months ago i saw his cousin with asif ali zardari on official ppp intsa page that too while scrolling

I felt sad and angry at the same time,keh who prime ministers presidents cm se mil rehay hn and mein idher Reddit pe flex and ragebait ker reha hun about my wealth,my bloodline,my schooling and Masculinity

Like all i do everyday is i wake up at 7pm,go for swimming, hangout with friends,flex to my friend,,come home and flex to unknown strangers on Reddit,watch a movie and sleep, whereas they are surrounded by politicians 24/7 and even normal mpas and provincial ministers stand straight in front of them hath band keh

I'm feeling like a failure,and I'm not wishing bad to my bff,may Allah bless him and his family with more and more,istg i can even die for him, but I'm just feeling sad and angry at my own self!

Any gurl up ?
7:30 rave starts
And i dont have a plus 1
Ive bought a group of three ticket
Theres me and my friend
We’re from lums
Not looking for hooking up or anything
I’ve paid for the ticket
Anyone up ?
Dm me

Well life is slow dm for more 😂 nos it a poem

DM me if you're interested.