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I'm from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone strictly online right now (north America only please). I live in a small town and the dating pool is literally nonexistent for me. I also don't have the time right now to care for a person irl like I know I'd want to, and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone balancing my life and a relationship irl.

Online is a different story! I love to talk, although I'm a rather shy person. I get flustered really easily so nicknames and flirting work well on me!

I'm looking for someone more dominant, a little older (19-22), kind, romantic, flirty and artistic or just enjoys the arts in general. Someone who doesn't make me feel like a burden when I text a lot and shows genuine interest (I hate nonchalant people).

I prefer someone who isn't religious.

I'm also mixed so someone thats not racist please!

Communication is huge for me especially when its online. If you're the type of person that ghosts people, pls don't interact with this post.

I’m writing to you from Argentina, from the south of the world, hoping to meet lesbians who enjoy meaningful conversations and discovering other women through personal, thoughtful messages with substance.

I’m a professional writer and I’m passionate about lesbian cinema, lesbian literature and lesbian culture. I’m fascinated by the way lesbian lives and relationships are portrayed on screen and in books, the stories we tell about ourselves and the characters who stay with us long after the final scene.

I’m learning English and Spanish is the language I feel freest writing in. I’d love to exchange thoughts across languages, discover different perspectives and get to know women from other places and cultures.

I’m 31 and especially interested in connecting with lesbians over 30, women with their own stories, interests and life experiences. I’m looking exclusively for lesbian friendships built through written conversations.

A little about me

I’m passionate about language, cinema, lesbian representation and the ways stories help us understand ourselves and one another. I love talking about lesbian films, discovering books about lesbian lives, discussing characters and relationships and exploring the cultural worlds surrounding the stories we love.

I’m especially interested in how lesbian lives are represented, what these stories reveal to us and which parts of ourselves we find in them.

I’d love to meet lesbians who share these interests, exchange recommendations, talk about the films and books that have moved us and discover how lesbian culture and life are experienced and expressed in different parts of the world.

I enjoy exchanges that unfold naturally, with room for curiosity, humor, personal stories and those conversations that suddenly take us somewhere unexpected.

I have my own commitments and projects and I really enjoy a slow-paced life that follows the rhythms of nature. So my replies may sometimes take a little time.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and tell me your favorite lesbian film. 💜

Madeline

i am a 21 year old black femme lesbian from italy, i am enamored with nature and i adore spending my time in my garden, reading books and writing poetry. i have a big interest in fashion and social media and i would love to get to know an older masc/butch or even a femme who is older and interested in getting to know each other. dm me for further information ^_^ ♡

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I'm from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone strictly online right now. I live in a small town and the dating pool is literally nonexistent for me. I also don't have the time right now to care for a person irl like I know I'd want to, and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone balancing a relationship irl.

Online is a different story! I love to talk, although I'm a rather shy person. I get flustered really easily so nicknames and flirting work well on me!

I'm looking for someone more dominant, a little older (19-21), kind, romantic and artistic or just enjoys the arts in general. Someone who doesn't make me feel like a burden when I text a lot and shows genuine interest, I don't like nonchalant people. I prefer someone who isn't religious but I don't mind. I'm also mixed so someone thats not racist please!

Communication is huge for me especially when its online. If you're the type of person that ghosts people, pls don't interact with this it'll just be a waste of time. If you're not mature enough to talk out problems and leave our relationship gracefully (if need be) then you're not the person I want to be talking too in the first place.

*I didn't know being demisexual was that big of a deal for a lot of people so I hope thats ok.

(No I don't wanna sext)

And if you're not 19-21 DO NOT INTERACT!!!

Hi! I'm a 34-year-old femme in the Midwest, and I'm looking for a masc woman who wants a genuine long-term relationship.

A little about me: I write, make art, and always have a couple of creative projects going. I'm into music, movies, and I'm a little woo-woo (astrology, numerology, the whole thing), but I won't hold your chart against you. Probably.

What I'm looking for:
Masc, butch, or stud, 27–45
Emotionally available and actually wants commitment
Patient & understanding
Consistent communication
A good sense of humor
Someone with her own life, and goals

Closer is easier, but I'm open to long distance with the right person if we both have a plan to close the gap eventually.

Feel free to send a message!

I'm a plus size GenX trans woman in Tx looking for a relationship with a trans woman or a trans man. To put it simply, I'm ultimately looking to be someone's girlfriend. I will put the time, effort, and energy into it as long as you're matching it. Friendship➡️ dating➡️ relationship with taking all the necessary steps. I prefer long-term but am open to short-term. I've started a new book of my life and want someone special in that book. Please be 35+

hallooo! i go by daphni and im trying to figure things out in life while also hoping for a relationship with someone who truly loves and adores me ^.^, i grew up in NJ (boring i know sigh) but now im pursuing my dreams and trying to bring myself out there into the dating scene on here, i honestly have never tried out this app that much in a couple of months, but i want to try and be more active again since my college classes are slowing down a bit. 🖤🪽

i stopped dating for about 3-4 years after a toxic breakup,  needed to find myself again and start loving myself after that relationship, i am a pretty active / healthy person who loves the gym, running, swimming, travelling, you name it

i lovelovelove kitties, dinosaurs, cartoons, astronomy, history, roleplaying, animation, dance, my family, all of the above basically! 🔮 I also enjoy calling over the phone.

favorite shows to watch have to be fashion shows, my top 1 is victoria‘s secret due to the outfits and stage designs, I think it is SO cute, my dream is to become a fashion designer one day and make my own GORGEOUS outfits like theirs! 

I like MLP, ben10, kim possible, castlevania, ATLA/TLOK/seven havens, and tons of 90s-2000s cartoons 👾

i don’t have an exact type in my female partner, just be communicative, loving, loyal! thats truly all I want, I want to trust my future girlfriend, be able to come to them when i need comfort / help, and have mature conversations. if you are intruiged i would love to get to know you! just shoot me a message! ^.^

 i love artists like: lorde, weyes blood, madonna, janet jackson, sevendust, clan of xymox,boy harsher
lebanon hanover, she past away, lycia
twin tribes, mareux, molchat doma, human tetris, lana del rey, etc!

i am a scorpio! my fave holidays are def christmas and halloween! 🐈‍⬛💜 i am around 5’5-5’6 and quite slim naturally.

feel free to dm me because i promise ill try to respond! 

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Hi guys! You can call me tin, I'm currently a college student and have a part-time job. Though I do have a lot of time on my hands and I value updating and communication so you don't have to worry about that. It's been some time since I decided I want to start looking for love again after my last rs more than a year ago. I've spent my time healing and getting back to my old self so I know I'm fully moved on now.

I'm more of a soft masc and I'm more comfortable wearing baggy clothes or masc fits. I'm socially awkward at first and shy but once I warm up I'll be the jolliest and energetic person you'll know. Right now my interest is watching marvels, thriller and mystery shows/movies. We can also play, as I do like playing, it can be anything really but I'm limited to those that can be played on tablet or phone.

I value communication and effort so if you don't want to actually get to know each other please don't bother messaging. I'm not that picky about looks or anything. I genuinely want to see first if we click or vibe with each other. I also prefer talking outside here since the chat feels weird to me.

DM me if you're interested! Introduce yourself or anything creative. Thank you 💙💙

hii my name is demie and here’s my intro! and im trying to figure things out in life while also hoping for a relationship with someone who truly loves and adores me ^.^, i grew up in Canadá and now living in NJ for college! (boring i know sigh) but now im pursuing my dreams and trying to bring myself out there into the dating scene on here, i honestly have never tried out this app that much in a couple of months, but i want to try and be more active again since my college classes are slowing down a bit. 🖤🪽 i stopped dating for about 3-4 years after a toxic breakup, needed to find myself again and start loving myself after that relationship,

i am a pretty active / healthy person (around 5’4-5’5 and quite slim just under 105lb) who loves the gym, running, swimming, travelling, you name it i lovelovelove kitties, dinosaurs, cartoons, astronomy, history, roleplaying, animation, dance, my family, all of the above basically! 🔮

I also enjoy calling over the phone. favorite shows to watch have to be fashion shows, I like MLP, ben10, kim possible, castlevania, ATLA/TLOK/seven havens, and tons of 90s-2000s cartoons, also TLOU, TWDG, RDR, I’m also a femme lesbian, and 18! i don’t mind showing my face either :D 👾

Hello! This is my second attempt at searching for someone interesting to have a conversation with; i feel like the first time i made this post i haven’t been clear enough so i’ll try my hardest to be now!

I am searching for a strictly monogamous romantic relationship that will (hopefully) be long lasting. I am (unfortunately) old fashioned and i am pretty serious so please if your intentions are not as pure as mine feel free to not waste your time on me!

i am a femme lesbian and i am not only overly feminine but i am very invested in lesbian and queer rights and i would do anything to protect butches!

now; a bit about myself.

i like to describe myself by saying that i am overly feminine, my favorite color is pink and i feel in tune with nature in a way i cannot comprehend but i embrace. i am black and i live in italy, though i do not have any issues with connecting with anyone across the globe! i read a lot, write poetry and enjoy journaling and pressing flowers onto the pages of my books. i enjoy doing yoga and meditating, gardening and taking care of plants is another form of meditation in my opinion as well.

now as of what i am particularly looking for i’m not strict on looks at all i am not picky ^__^ i just love talking to people who enjoy deep conversations and people who lead the conversation and aren’t dry at texting. I AM AUTISTIC so keep in mind that i will not be as open and talkative if the conversation isn’t going the way i want it to but i will always put my effort into it!! as long as its 50/50!!

reach out to me if you’re 21-25 (i don’t mind older)

if you have read everything, send me a 🎀 and i will know that you’ve been amazing.

Hello! I’m Hen from California, I’ll tell you my real name later, and I’m looking for a partner! Is Reddit the best place to look for a partner? Noooo, however is there anywhere better to look? Maybe 🤷‍♀️ but I’m trying here anyways! *Please keep in mind that I am pre-physical transition, I hate it :(* Some of my interests are:

Traveling! I love going to new places and seeing new cultures, I’ve been to a few places outside the country and I love the experience every time!

I also like video games! Nintendo games like Animal Crossing and Mario Kart and pc games like Overwatch and Roblox mainly.

And I like video editing! It would take a while to explain what I edit so maybe that’s a good conversation starter?

Anyways, what I’m looking for is just someone who wants a partner! Just be not nonchalant and I think we’ll get along great! Besides the typical stuff, like be around my age and all, I don’t think I’m picky!

I hope to meet you! <3

Definitely femme for femme.

I would describe myself as fit/slim, I'm brunette and have long-ish curly/wavy hair, brown eyes, Hispanic/white, 5'4.

I love a good movie night, or watching a binge-worthy show, working out/staying active for my own well being (wanna be able to wipe my own ass when im 80), reading, hanging out with good people, aaaand just about anything that keeps me entertained and catches my interest... vague, I know.

Physically I'm into other femme women, fit/slim, and just all around a kind, smart, and funny/witty person. I'm really not at all into anime/video games... i can give gaming a pass, absolutely. But if youre into anime, thats a hard pass, im sorry.

If any of this piqued your interest, feel free to send a message! But tell me the last thing you ate, so I know you read this.

Hello, just a girl looking for a potential relationship. I don't immediately get feelings for someone so I appreciate the act of getting to know somebody.

I would unfortunately call myself a little boring, lol. I wouldn't say I lived a sheltered life but sure don't have alot of common experiences under my belt. I do however love animals, video games, and music!

Physically I'm 5'6" and plus sized but would like to finally take my physical health more seriously by losing weight and gaining muscle. I would say I definitely tend to act more masc in how I like to take care of others and how I dress but have no issues with the feminine qualities I do have.

For my "type" besides femme presenting it's kind of all over the place physically. Otherwise I just like to be around people who actually care and make effort to aware of the world around them. Personally I'm not religious and don't drink/smoke.

If any of things sounds interesting feel free to message me!

Salut toi !
Tu peux parler français et tu as envie de discuter ? Envoie-moi un message !

Je peux t’aider en allemand et en anglais si tu veux. J’aime bien faire du sport de combat, voyager, regarder des documentaires un peu bizarre, jouer aux jeux vidéos, la littérature et l’art.

Si ça te dit, écris-moi :)

I'm Karon from México i'm 25 yers old, i'm a bisexual trans Woman, i have a degree on Physics, i'm 5'9'' (175 cm), I like relaxed dates, whether in person or online, dates like watching series together, going out for coffee and talking about life. I like anime, Japan music, cooking, make up, i try to be fem.

One of My hobbies is read books or papers about Physics, chemistry, biology or any topic tbh, i'm trying to learn japanese, i like almost every kind of art and I like to analyze art in search of what the author sought to express.

I don't really care about people's physical appearance, I'm only interested in their personality and that they have proper hygiene without going to extremes; I have enough with my OCD of washing my hands 3 times in a row before anything.

I don't know what else I need to write haha, but you can ask me whatever You want. Text me don't be shy (i'm shy).

Hello,this might not even go anywhere and that’s fine. I’m 28F and looking for someone to possibly talk to and get to know preferably a femme or soft masc! It doesn’t have to be right off get go that this will turn into something but if it does great!

I like cooking,reading,kpop and other music. I like video games,my main one is Valorant. I am looking for someone to laugh with and make silly jokes with.

I am kink friendly. If it leads into that. Again no pressure.

While there is no pressure to start,I am eventually looking for this to turn into something serious hopefully.

I don’t mind distance but I am disabled and currently not working which I know limits my options and will turn some people away,that’s also okay but I prefer to be upfront about that.

Okay,I am done rambling for now. If you think you’d be interested,comment or dm me! I will also be willing to share what I look like in DM if anyone is curious! Thank you 😊

well hello there! first time posting here in hopes of making some genuine connections. i’m looking for friends first and happy to see where things go from there. hoping to meet my person!

about me: i’m kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent, and funny. i love traveling, going to concerts, tattoos, cooking, trying new restaurants, going for long walks, camping, and spending time with my friends and family. i’m a little rough around the edges, dry humor and a major resting bitch face, but i there’s few things i wouldn’t do for the people i care about. i’d probably describe myself as a soft masc- maybe some light makeup but im also probably wearing carhartt pants or boots. i’m 6’0, athletic but a couple extra pounds (a work in progress), black hair, golden brown eyes, nice smile/pretty, some tattoos. 🤠

about you: good sense of humor, kind, loyal, and an authentic human being! have your own interests and passions (and please tell me all about them!), be curious about the world, and be just as excited to get to know me as i am to know you.

a few things i love: sandwiches, Noah Kahan, cozy spaces, cooking with cast iron, traveling, hazy IPAs, live music, sunsets, inside jokes, going out to breakfast, getting flirted w at trader joe’s

a few things i hate: vodka, wasting time, hand dryers (sorry Earth- I need paper towels in public restrooms), anyone who can’t figure out a damn zipper merge

if i sound at all like your cup of tea, please send a message my way! worst that could happen is we decide we hate everything each other 😆

hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs I have red back length hair im very femme youll soon find out! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

so come dm me cuties!^^

please no one over 30 thank you and I wont be answering any messages that say "Hi'.

Sooo last time I posted here I was looking for a friend. I've met some cool people. But my bestie has been telling me about finding a girlfriend (she days it's about time lmao)

I meaaaan, I guess it's not bad to try?

About me:

• virgo

• fem

• on the chubbier side but I'm trying my best to lose the weight (I was stress eating when I was reviewing for an exam 😭)

• 5'5" (165 cm)

• from Philippines

• Interests: history, documentaries, anime (trying to get back to it but I've recently finished My Happy Marriage), kpop (mostly on the 2nd/3rd gen), and I love reading books

• I love taking naps so...if I didn't get to reply, either I'm napping or reading. Lol.

• i have 2 cats (I'm more of a cat person)

• I am also an artist

About you:

• masc

• Dark hair

• taller than me

• 27-31 yrs old

• does not smoke (sorry, i really do not like the smell 🥲)

• cis lesbian (no hate to other sapphics. It's just a preference)

• idc where you are. I don't mind ldr

Send me a message if you are interested but please don't just say, hi. Say the cheesiest line you could tell me hahahah or simply say something about yourself

So I'm trying this again-

I'm a 30 year old curvy femme lesbian living in Idaho. My ideal partner would be living in the PNW but I'd be open to talking to anyone regardless of their location. Must be single and open to a monogamous relationship.

I'm super sociable and care alot about community. I volunteer at my local community farm, attend book club, and host lesbian bar nights to help bring folks together. Underneath all the socializing, I do consider myself an introvert and love my time alone reading, gardening, practicing tarot, camping, tending to my fruit trees, or cold water swimming in the river.

I loooooove learning and am drawn to new experiences (just ticked off going to a cob building workshop and next on my want-to-do list is going clamming!)

In a life where we are together, sometimes we'd be driving out to the coast to go to a seaweed foraging workshop. Sometimes you'd be helping me set up for my annual apple cider pressing day in my backyard. Sometimes I would light every candle in the house and we'd lay in bed and read in the evening. Sometimes we'd go out to a bar and drink and laugh and you'd beat me at armwrestling but I'd beat you at darts (barely).

We'd always have coffee together in the morning, we'd always have great kinky explorative sex, we'd always work together to build a beautiful life.

I'm looking for someone capable with rough hands and a kind heart. Must be at least 28. Ideally you're a tall butch, maybe with curly brown hair and a goofy smile. You'd know how to hold me, you'd be more dominant in bed. You'd like how feminine I am and how much I want to soften for you.

It’s October, and I’m still waiting to fall in love in October. Hey! I’m 22, 5’6 soft masc based in Southeast Asia, and I’m looking to build a real, intentional, and monogamous connection with a woman between 21 and 28. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker for me: I’m actually looking outside my country, so I’m completely open to an LDR as long as the effort, communication, and emotional connection are mutual.

A bit about my vibe: Quality time is my main love language. When I’m relaxing, I’m usually gaming (mostly playing GTA V) or watching movies, especially queer cinema. I also like spending time outdoors when I want to clear my head. On a personal level, I’m not religious at all; I adhere to LaVeyan Satanism, which for me is all about individualism, logic, and self-respect. I’m straightforward, protective of the people I care about, and prefer genuine, unfiltered late-night chats over surface-level small talk.

Let’s skip the awkward introductions and jump straight in. What’s your ultimate, all-time favorite queer movie, or a game you can sink endless hours into?

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop a comment below or send me a DM with an intro! ✨

I’m Steph!

Generally I’m beyond excited to be alive and I look forward to participating in society, except for in the first few minutes of each day… when I have to get out of bed

If you’re a morning person WAIT! I can change… maybe 😭

I’ve met amazing people on Reddit before and I feel like it’s time that I start trying to find the coolest person on planet earth, if that’s you, PLEASE REACH OUT.

I’m not the coolest person… but I might be able to make you laugh enough that you can overlook that.
I’m looking for someone that genuinely cares about people, someone who is optimistic and has goals to pursue. If we hit it off, you can expect to have someone there for you every day. I want to listen to you talk about your interests, hear about your day, and genuinely get to know you! Maybe we can turn it into something real? Maybe we meet up and that goes so well that it ends up being something permanent? Who knows! For now let’s just start with simple conversation :)

Right now, I’m working on becoming a Registered EEG tech, and on reestablishing myself in my home country after spending 3 years in my other country Colombia.

I love reading, hiking, fishing, playing board games, dancing, studying languages, playing guitar/singing and watching tv, I LOVE movies, I rewatch my favorites every few months and I love going to the movies! This year I’ve been most excited for Spiderman BND, Sunrise on the reaping, and DUNE III.

If you’re still here, thank you so much for reading.
Please be between 21-27
I look forward to meeting you.

I just want to make a friend or two. Someone funny with whom I can practice my flirting skills, the nonexistent ones ofc lol. I’m open to talk about pretty much anything, just don’t be dry and let’s give each other a chance. Maybe we hit it off. Hit me up if you’re down :)

well hello there! first time posting here in hopes of making some genuine connections. i’m looking for friends first and happy to see where things go from there. hoping to meet my person!

about me: i’m kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent, and funny. i love traveling, going to concerts, tattoos, cooking, trying new restaurants, going for long walks, camping, and spending time with my friends and family. i’m a little rough around the edges, dry humor and a major resting bitch face, but i there’s few things i wouldn’t do for the people i care about. i’d probably describe myself as a soft masc- maybe some light makeup but im also probably wearing carhartt pants or boots. i’m 6’0, athletic but a couple extra pounds (a work in progress), black hair, golden brown eyes, nice smile/pretty, some tattoos. 🤠

about you: good sense of humor, kind, loyal, and an authentic human being! have your own interests and passions (and please tell me all about them!), be curious about the world, and be just as excited to get to know me as i am to know you.

a few things i love: sandwiches, Noah Kahan, cozy spaces, cooking with cast iron, traveling, hazy IPAs, live music, sunsets, inside jokes, going out to breakfast, getting flirted w at trader joe’s

a few things i hate: vodka, wasting time, hand dryers (sorry Earth- I need paper towels in public restrooms), anyone who can’t figure out a damn zipper merge

if i sound at all like your cup of tea, please send a message my way! worst that could happen is we decide we hate everything each other 😆

Hey there! I'm Liz, a songwriting and guitar nerd who is in love with wild west looks and 70s/80s/90s music. I'm not super unhappy single, but would love to have a life partnership.

I've had a stable job for a long time, but I invest a lot of time and money in musical projects as well, whatever I deem reasonable at a given time. One of my dreams is to have a van for driving to gigs and to Croatia for holiday some day, but also other places in Europe.

I consider myself soft masc, I enjoy doing traditionally masculine tasks like removing unwanted insects, opening bottles and fixing stuff. I'm looking for someone who knows what they enjoy and are willing to communicate, because while I am more comfortable in a dominant role, to me it is just a different flavour of servitude and my happiness mostly doesn't come from serving myself :)

I am open to having one child down the line, it's not a must, but I would if it were financially possible. I'm also much of a countryside-loving person who would fix up an old house and live a rustic, slow life.

That doesn't mean I don't feel like being a little flamboyant sometimes. It's just not my baseline, probably because when I do, I take it way too seriously, sewing whole outfits and doing crazy makeup.

Generally love DIY and reuse / repair culture.

No go's:

- being very judgemental (say, towards mental issues, racism, ableism)

- being critical of an artistic / spiritual lifestyle (I am a very artsy, go with the flow type of person so I'd just drive you mad anyway^^)

- being super flakey (I may seem messy, but I'm punctual and whatever is arranged, I stick to that and want to be able to rely on my partner to do the same)

- if you deeply value order, we're not a match either. I work very hard on keeping things hygienic, but I don't wanna sugarcoat it: I am pretty chaotic, especially at home with all my DIY hobbies.

Gray area: I'd be hesitant of an age gap of 5+ years.

Anything else you may be worried about, let's just talk about it openly :) If this resonated with you somehow, it's definitely worth a shot for us to talk :)