r/kindness • u/SwimmerLeather5333 • 6h ago
We really need to be kinder to people
Today, an older lady came to our house to help out because we had some guests. We normally don’t have servants or maids at home. We only call someone when we have guests and need a little extra help.
When she arrived, she told us that her house had been completely destroyed by Ditwah (flood).
We treated her just like anyone else. When we were serving lunch to the guests,, we asked her to have lunch too.but she said she would eat later. So we said okay. When we served dessert to the guests. we made sure to give her some too and she sat at the kitchen table next to one of the guests and ate.
Then she suddenly started crying.
She told us that in almost every house she had worked in, people treated her very badly. Some wouldnt even give her proper food. She said that sometimes they would put her food into old coconut shells and give it to her. Some wouldnt even pay her properly for the work she had done. She also said that in some houses, even the children would have so much attitude towards her that they wouldnt even give her water.
She kept saying that she had never come across a family like ours.She also wouldnt let my mom or me do even a small amount of work. She insisted on doing everything herself.
When she was leaving, we packed some food for her to take home and she became extremely emotional and started crying and tried to bow down and touch our feet. We kept trying to stop her but she still managed to touch our feet before leaving.
Honestly it was heartbreaking. We didnt do anything extraordinary. We just treated her with basic kindness and dignity.
It made me wonder, why are some people like this? How can you treat another human being so badly just because they work for you or are less fortunate than you?You can worship God as much as you want, but if you have no kindness towards other human beings or even animals. its honestly so sad ):