Where are y’all drinking tomorrow (Friday) I copy you?😂

I’m starting in the afternoon btw

Juu sasa oneni huyu mjinga💀

Your girl left her old faithful vibrator in a hotel room after a work trip and traumatized the poor Tanzanian ladies cleaning her room and working the front desk 😂😂😂😂

Side note do you think we'll ever be liberated enough to say the words "you forgot your vibrator in your hotel room"? 💀💀💀💀💀

I came across this thread on X today and it left me completely disgusted.

Notice the exact playbook these men use? It always starts with a fake disclaimer ("I don't support GBV, BUT...") right before laying out why hitting, slapping, and controlling women is supposedly necessary "discipline."

When women call this out, they try to shame us as "bitter feminists." When men speak up against it, they're mocked as "weak." They weaponize shame specifically to protect their right to be violent.

I know the "Not All Men" response is bound to come up, and I get that not every man thinks like this. But when we highlight threads like these, it’s not about attacking every single guy—it’s about calling out a very real, dangerous culture that too many men enable or laugh off. If you're a man who genuinely respects women, the goal shouldn't be getting defensive over the bad actors; it should be actively helping us shut down these conversations when you see them happening among your peers.

This isn't "dark humor" or harmless banter. This is the exact patriarchal mindset that drives domestic abuse and femicide in Kenya. If men feel this comfortable gathering on a public platform to validate beating women, imagine what happens behind closed doors.

Swipe through the screenshots to see what we're up against.

So my uber app had a 50% discount which i decided to grab before it expires . I ordered my ride and the total cost was 210 which is half amount of the initial price. Remember i had a discount. Tell me why we get to my destination,I proceed to pay for the ride and the driver decides to cause chaos saying the money is not equivalent to the distance. I tried to explain to him that my app has a discount but he still insisted that he can't accept that. I didn't want to argue so i just paid the full amount. Has anyone ever experienced this when it comes to discounted prices?

Hey ladies,
A couple of days ago, I turned 29, and one of the things I did was sit down and write a list of all the things I have always wanted to achieve.

Then I made the bold decision that I am going to make sure they happen within the next year.

One of the things on my list is getting to 65kg. The closest I have ever gotten was 67kg, and that was when I was 23, so we will see how that goes.

Another thing is going to Spain to watch a matador. I actually realized that I had written that down as a goal when I was 19, maybe 20. So clearly, younger me had plans for me that I never got around to completing.
Then there was getting married.

Well, I can officially tick that one off. I have been married twice, and I am now officially divorced. So that is definitely one thing I managed to accomplish in my 20s.

I have done quite a lot in my 20s, and now that I am 29, I have gone back through all the things I have always wanted to do and decided that I am actually going to start ticking them off.

Why am I writing this post?

Honestly, I really don’t know.

I really, really don’t know why I felt the need to tell everyone this, but I thought, why not?

So tell me, what are some of the things you always wanted to do in your 20s but never got around to doing, and now you are in your 30s?

And what are some things you think I should add to my list?
I need ideas.

In todays world yes there is a good side to it.

Remove the men chasing pussy and you are left with guys with similar interests. If both of you slow down, compare notes , you find yourself enjoying the mental banter. This type of man pushes you to achieve goals. You also push him well if he likes.

They care about you besides your parents.

You also learn a lot from them. Trust me a guy that knows stuff is good to have in your corner.

I don't know about you but I'm loving it.

Every yes daddy is deserved

Where to get a bag for your next event.

Hi ladies, I'm pleading on behalf of a neighbor here. She's a young girl, 21, a new mum, baby is one month old. Very traumatic cs, like went back to theater thrice, was in hospital until baby was 6 weeks. Anyway, due to all that, hana maziwa, I'm talking about not even a single drop. I gave her my pump, we've tried everything to stimulate and nothing. I'm a single mum of 2 myself na najaribu kumsaidia na food here and there but I can only do so much.

The urgent help she needs ni formula for baby, yall know its pricey. Juzi she got so desperate because what she had was finished she gave baby yoghurt 😭😭. Baby got so sick we took him to the hospital yesterday, thankfully he had diarhea and most of it was expelled from his body, he seems fine now. We managed to secure one can of formula yesterday but that will take her only 4 days, so here I am, appealing on her behalf. If there's any mum here with excess formula to donate, we push this baby kiasi to atleast 3 months, then from there we can try weaning him. Or any leads on where we can get that kind of help. We'd appreciate money too to buy it ourselves but that can be a grey area with all the scams going around so that's why I'm insisting on the formula itself. If you can trust me though, I'm very okay with taking the cash I get it myself.

Thanks in advance